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Sometimes people come into your life3 Q1 {! k) l* B6 ]
you know right away that they were meant to be there,% k& x* ?1 Z3 l( S4 R. A
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,$ ^* e4 G$ d7 e2 e1 `
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be." v' C8 t( D7 w7 W) V; O) w1 t
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5 v! T& V9 o( x5 u4 R5 W+ IYou never know who these people may be# s4 A, w" U. X# q* k& z. G+ l
but when you lock eyes with them,
- H' W5 x) Z* Q& ~6 G" }7 Byou know at that very moment,
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2 R5 [/ i' l' B, f9 E! QThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!' Q; y/ G' V' m* Y
They are there for the reason you need them to be.; u9 M. |0 o" B3 L3 Z
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
( p' S7 E' H/ E' {, YSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
- T* H9 |- ~7 H" }/ m7 D, ^ ySometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
) O0 z( y7 i, a- {5 dour desire fulfilled, their work is done.$ f4 S! b- r8 ?
The prayer you sent up has been answered./ E" y" b9 S7 Y# M
And now it is time for you to move on.
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9 A ^& \1 [* U8 g$ IThen people come into your life for a REASON
; ~* z- W" |) }Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
; R! Q t. K9 L8 I# LThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
" W+ P9 l5 v8 K, D" tThey may teach you something you have never done.: v" h& ~% v: n2 O- j
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy./ k, v. G) X3 s; h2 Z2 W
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
& v8 _6 n$ v# i" B$ \$ _ E/ vYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
3 A1 H$ w+ [3 r0 v' o9 R- \8 F @Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life." V+ l7 M$ u9 u. d5 m
Everything happens for a reason.5 D3 T# d$ {( g0 h
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
8 ?/ e1 `/ E: l, m, RIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
, }9 _- D: _7 ` g. D! S4 V/ c, ^and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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; Y& b. h" i/ q8 ~5 B) ]; n+ V0 T/ iIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,; z" i, \! \- h ]
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
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for they have helped you learn about trust+ q+ n0 T; L. ~. Q9 |. L+ z
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart./ Y8 n( f0 x* `+ I1 N6 t
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,% X. M" U* L4 P; P b' L
Try to love them back unconditionally,- Q6 E1 }$ Z" k2 J# C4 u; |
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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, B. f* \& S: W& ^The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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/ h H8 m9 \) U4 t1 B3 d, R* L0 M5 Xand a time to every purpose under the sun.
/ M0 Z0 c% M$ `$ @/ BA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
$ o2 a" o3 c% E/ q2 R: I. V1 }' k, j: gand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
* W! G/ \# d5 G: d0 }1 uGod's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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