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~SOMETIMES~7 ^& @! r% h. t6 R
+ H9 z* S1 j; `3 h% T5 jSometimes people come into your life
8 p) Q0 D" m5 K: }$ B; U2 z, Syou know right away that they were meant to be there,7 p; I; j( A. s7 ?' ~, P8 D
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
$ b G, q$ W- W- l/ ~6 k9 Y6 V# lor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.: R4 B8 t$ y/ u6 U
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You never know who these people may be
9 Y t8 b' z) \/ ]but when you lock eyes with them,+ f, i" w6 H6 H6 W0 _9 A) S
you know at that very moment,
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0 q8 a Z2 a/ b$ fThey will affect your life in some profound way
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- T2 f5 J( x8 D+ r) K# O$ fThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!* i; H# f: i. s. f
They are there for the reason you need them to be.% F {+ y* {# D
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,1 |' e/ m" T( f& f" G& Z) b
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
" {7 `( W; y6 X- u4 H5 ySometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
, h" _ Q. T) F$ j2 lSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.: _1 s1 K) T& U6 R1 q
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,7 @% _% M5 d( e k8 G1 {
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
# W7 E, }+ ~8 ?, i" o, AThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
: x+ K9 ?. k4 }" b+ I6 F* [ MAnd now it is time for you to move on.1 C; O0 `7 c, S; D1 M
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
. G" N" l5 r8 K; P# m3 `Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
; E! E% l' S% |/ _They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
% f# S, m( C" y0 EThey may teach you something you have never done.
7 y2 h2 l3 m1 p/ x8 `. QThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
7 t$ L2 a% t9 g/ S. Z% w2 fBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
8 R6 b0 R0 D( Y+ x4 f8 D) KYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,& |' D! d4 f! J5 e/ }
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.2 E% a4 m9 |4 i9 l% I& C. L. P
Everything happens for a reason.
1 u' t/ a) a' MNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
) Z% P- s* J+ G3 Z$ YIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
* v, k" l u7 n# A- T( }2 mand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.2 R' Z1 ?4 ~# Y: y/ l" j
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
! Y" T) O+ n, U- EYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
% u$ A) ^% u/ b) q7 X* S/ AIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
. ?. |' L. o7 B8 Q( Q6 qfor they have helped you learn about trust7 e$ n# X3 Z' x/ O' l1 g, O
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.0 u3 |( Z; k, z) l; n7 D% D: {
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,5 |) X% u$ P" k5 P) c- @
Try to love them back unconditionally,& b( v. q8 v5 W2 w9 J5 g- K
not only because they love you, but because in a way,: w; B/ n7 d3 ~ j( |( l, h4 A
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,4 a8 C, ~2 \2 Z m1 q
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.) P% N/ M; m: C
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,& S* E6 h2 |0 v6 O
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
U$ t# r9 d& z- X! l* N7 p. _God's grace is as a healing hand.) S, q6 A, U+ q, a
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,0 r$ Z5 r5 O: q2 n$ ]( P; g0 q+ f
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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