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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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! g/ C, C( @9 vthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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think of you.3 W; b. M2 u3 t& d- M) b7 E, {/ X
7 F2 f& K3 ~; gUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first/ w7 Z' D- V3 X8 D/ ^4 \
names:
- @& S9 |( z$ s8 t3 R) s6 ~1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
/ M' R; T" n: X' K2) The second second: Don't think about what to* Z. b" g5 r0 H: `% ]
say—listen for the name.( S0 v6 @9 A% J2 y, Y0 p ]
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.( `9 Y" X% Z" {2 p b! i& b
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know( Y% m1 o3 U4 ~) }# i3 x! S
with the same name., H/ y. v! g6 M5 L+ h) w- w8 ~
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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$ h* v" x8 C! A6 }" C) |7 j9 X0 L---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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