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Five Seconds to Success in remembering people's names

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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to0 Q" ]$ Q! r  O. h; X6 j
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear( i' Q2 v+ ]( {6 e  p  N6 ]' E
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what2 ~5 [7 C1 x2 p" {# d6 ?+ [/ m$ S
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will- G* `; X, i0 p: L" T
think of you.! V$ e' }# d9 e5 A! v7 y5 P
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.' u8 R) g. ]2 d6 C4 }! h
2) The second second: Don't think about what to; o3 o3 l! I" A# n+ ]
say—listen for the name.  N* }) U) S' w0 e
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.0 k+ e* J$ {) d& l4 z$ J
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know( J0 [* O8 A/ p4 H
with the same name.$ B* ^+ O7 B, y9 ~' ^
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the0 x. v! u6 r) ~9 R- p7 L. B- P% A: E
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>
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