The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to8 l# Z8 ]) I. k# x
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear G6 a% E/ q. `- Kthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what0 Z9 c! I6 _2 D; i5 C/ {, M }/ @
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will! }7 {0 Z2 K; |; F! e8 M
think of you.$ K, [. S6 e8 R
- W" Q5 f- K- v5 ~ lUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first . Q3 x2 U% f3 y( b, Y1 E1 d- Gnames:3 m' h. t" @6 x
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.0 v* v) t$ e4 E. }: R8 S+ C
2) The second second: Don't think about what to7 C V7 {2 w9 u' t; i
say—listen for the name. ( W1 K! [) e1 S! @& A8 a( c7 P3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud. ) t) x1 n( y4 q6 y4 t9 @4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know$ K+ t3 g- R7 G; J
with the same name. ( B( x" D4 S+ h5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the ; G+ ?7 r4 R8 @: v6 lend of the conversation. 6 V* M8 r. |- _3 q' R4 K( S9 R6 K4 S( e . i9 p7 A4 s$ F: f---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>