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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to- }- F8 P( w3 L7 X0 {0 ?
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear, e4 W8 _/ p v0 q% z
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what8 }" P1 w2 _. T: W' ~( w
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will2 V! w `+ e0 B( @: Y# \/ N6 ~
think of you.6 n6 L3 w, n& i4 @. I
& f" L6 B( ]5 f$ aUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
3 h3 [ T' ^6 `4 E5 U/ K2) The second second: Don't think about what to
! f5 K% C4 ? ?- o5 c, usay—listen for the name.
+ _1 X# X- h0 a) @) o+ T# z3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.3 k# C4 y" z% T! \/ q& e0 y" Y+ e: s* h% N
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
& p5 h( `3 q& Q( G( X/ Jwith the same name.) E3 [$ {3 ]# j# L
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the$ G% Q; w9 `+ t/ o& v( e/ _
end of the conversation.& j H3 A: q/ e( {0 K$ w( N" ^
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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