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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to- e% |2 t% m0 ~' k& V o( R
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear4 a) k! n3 X, p
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
- n' m9 g7 O7 eyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will8 K: I1 w8 ~( d. X# h
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/ a& W" Y) S* W+ aUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first" V) U0 G, Q* B: n& w+ R1 d
names:
% A$ C% n9 P, t' n1 ]1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
) Z0 y- w* E& ~2) The second second: Don't think about what to
4 g' a5 X. T3 Psay—listen for the name.& F3 a7 n8 T% [1 m: j
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
- |, Q$ U9 x$ y( M4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
6 I h i2 {% `( W: {9 b1 F' W7 Zwith the same name.
- t- |2 c @2 m0 m m) L4 |5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the; O! m3 M8 }0 ?6 ]" p, Z
end of the conversation.4 t f, j) |% p; E# J( R* V
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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