The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to- V* Q e6 a: n. Z- u- n
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear # F0 y/ |- {) F- O/ [/ u- s' D3 l- Qthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what2 t4 I$ `' Y* I( h! r; t* o
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will - w5 O) z/ y5 R0 }. G+ l% Pthink of you. ( Z/ M$ b) T! T& j! ]3 e# s) g( T" \* v2 ]
Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first# x+ b& W C, f& [9 X$ M
names:7 i! i v6 l! v7 G3 T! w/ c7 \
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction. 4 m$ K7 v$ j# f% b8 \: O4 [2) The second second: Don't think about what to4 ?4 p& U( ] |% J* A( h- m- X
say—listen for the name.2 V+ M0 e" O$ }4 o2 T) Q' s
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud. 2 W$ p2 Y8 _7 |& L+ S4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know3 _( S; z, a% g k3 V
with the same name. . d6 I+ L; T0 z5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the % k ~: p" y) K: Dend of the conversation. . i2 H- [: `8 l# i 1 ]) V3 j+ X8 M" D0 c---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>