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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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+ U6 I5 w) ~/ V1 O0 T- BUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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9 K5 @( a; @. b, s$ Q9 c1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
: R4 i7 g2 D: B2 O6 E6 Y; |2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud. L3 I8 L5 `+ F2 M, v
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know, G, c4 x! \/ w% |* v
with the same name.7 E( I6 }6 Y1 Z4 ]4 a4 V0 w
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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# h+ Z# _& d* {, W---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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