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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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you're going to say next or worrying about what others will4 \7 m8 I% U7 d6 G* ?# }
think of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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- @! m' H" G' n0 _# L- y2 c9 `1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
2 C9 j6 u+ O3 v9 N' l+ J2) The second second: Don't think about what to
. Y$ `8 `/ t; T" Hsay—listen for the name.0 b0 e1 K) r+ ]3 K, b: z* @
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.8 \5 V4 h( }4 r; m% n: u9 p
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know5 T; C" q% u: q$ t/ W
with the same name.4 j8 G! e: L( k y/ G) @2 p
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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. C" z1 n7 V0 V9 X# p2 l---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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