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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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you're going to say next or worrying about what others will8 |. A0 u8 g. i2 f0 F
think of you.* v# t* o, K6 d7 d* s, e7 E, X
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first& u: J' `9 Y" H
names:4 M9 q# |4 x) q. W
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.( e O0 [1 i' i
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
4 Y$ Y; @0 R3 x5 i) \3 _say—listen for the name.
3 z; `' _3 l4 d3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.; P3 x6 L- N7 J9 z d
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
& t8 f& d" V& ^" C" c. y+ uwith the same name.
" W% `; G! d& P# I* f& H* w' g5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
( Z0 H" I4 Y; \7 Q# ?+ Pend of the conversation.
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6 i/ a; H" g$ @6 d* V---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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