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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to; w" }2 t. v+ H0 B0 t7 B
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear& U; C* N1 I" c D2 N) X1 Y
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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% i; m2 S' ^% ?8 o5 d/ G: E1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
! d% p; N1 G" U2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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% ~( ~( ?/ K; i6 f3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.& G4 k. O" ]0 H
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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+ |1 Q$ b! t) ]+ a4 D; Q8 d2 z---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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