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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
3 e- W( A Z7 v d$ ]focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
( f* U1 u* k1 ~/ u4 kthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
k% L! @9 A1 p7 e4 @1 fyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will( G5 x0 c2 L7 ]
think of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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( Z( s( Q0 {5 C- r; j2 e p1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
}, E; R4 c/ d9 D' H4 C' G2) The second second: Don't think about what to2 ?! a. s% d7 W8 x" h
say—listen for the name.: [4 B. o% a; V
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
& i: C0 o, b/ s: I6 E" O4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know: C8 v/ s1 ^0 l6 ?$ _
with the same name.; ~0 R! G$ H7 d$ E e! u
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
# Y! W" A) Y" X7 L2 _" wend of the conversation.+ l5 J( a S8 P" K0 ~8 f, m
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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