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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to' q0 |# U* g) u+ H
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
# G* _9 |# b$ V S- pthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what) r( [; i2 d# E3 r
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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8 W7 l, G) z" ]2 w5 P6 ~Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.: {6 R5 _ S7 o4 `' h7 M
2) The second second: Don't think about what to" g! h h; R/ B7 u, A' v2 \& J
say—listen for the name.
* P0 ]( p9 S+ h8 T6 F3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
* g) R: p8 r+ m+ A4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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6 S8 K- |8 f, q6 R7 j, o5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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