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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first( }3 H, K6 B% y
names:9 n( F( O) A( \
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
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say—listen for the name.
& D0 Q$ y6 z7 Z7 q% I {3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
3 E$ A( k8 S% m# |1 L- @+ W4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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! _" j( G, F9 O" l$ O4 K, {6 U$ X% k5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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: j8 [5 w! U1 J0 E: N/ E8 O- N' j---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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