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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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you're going to say next or worrying about what others will8 V, y. q, m% C5 j
think of you.3 l* y4 J. a' _/ G
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first, H. p6 t9 |; `6 [* U8 B
names:
. h k7 ^# g' ]' h1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.5 J% y0 x) P8 i
2) The second second: Don't think about what to7 t6 w" c C W% _* W4 s$ B1 B
say—listen for the name.
7 S+ \0 G/ E. @8 ^& ]" Y% t& B3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
: I' K% F6 G# B9 i( M+ {8 i4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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. |; L. W, @, b5 ~: K1 U' h }, T5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the2 n* g: h1 L( P9 G0 y; g
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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