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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
2 N9 t; a- B; G1 A" p% N* Vfocus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
- G' W, g1 U7 Q; I( `8 lthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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think of you.- N& g5 o8 t+ @7 K6 }
f. k4 O. W0 s$ M+ [% gUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
7 d, r8 ^6 x& N8 s s, v8 Xnames:
2 m& P. Y6 Q$ j& E7 U0 p: b1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.! V5 s3 L/ v# _- t) ?
2) The second second: Don't think about what to: Q1 N! i, n) b9 J. b9 D( N1 `4 v
say—listen for the name.
- R% u5 {% p( z9 s4 X% S# ]5 D3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.& C0 v3 C: A+ g8 }$ D
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know. K' H, s" K2 A: a
with the same name.' C1 B/ a' S" Y9 W& m" z
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
% C- Z4 s' M( Send of the conversation.
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6 Y) k# q% I5 _---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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