The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to# j" ~5 W2 _5 O/ y( q% G
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear # `+ I8 D6 J$ A7 |them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what 5 a3 Z+ C3 {3 _) v& ?8 ^) qyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will 8 K `% X" C3 @think of you.0 a0 a( Y9 l$ \* i
& e* {2 G; g- J$ O6 L( @# O H5 ?Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first $ p, ^( e/ ?% h |6 X$ ~names:5 W; ?/ z" [/ a& j3 y" z' d
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction., r+ A; ?4 O {! I
2) The second second: Don't think about what to - k K0 y# ~& f0 s+ m8 f3 Esay—listen for the name.) p8 R5 F7 D5 A3 G
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.% T( R* N9 }& o+ c2 N! L$ W
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know1 D+ b9 `. ?( M/ Y9 S: a) {
with the same name.6 r# Q4 e2 t9 ^$ p: s. r1 C
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the * K& v7 X; \0 ?3 H& Rend of the conversation. : u5 q% s( z7 [ e$ J4 W i3 k4 u7 j- O; C/ R4 J" b
---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>