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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
, l: o3 F4 {9 T( D |! U. Gfocus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
. j8 ]' u# G0 L/ ~/ x! Pthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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& R; z* ~0 L: Z9 _$ v( c* }Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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, s* Z5 s. N3 f- F$ j: v1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
) ?4 `- U* v2 X. ~5 ]/ b9 x6 P$ T2) The second second: Don't think about what to
' X* I( @1 v* E k" E! bsay—listen for the name.2 X6 P3 I- T2 u* e* L$ W' E2 P
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
: F$ J8 k }+ [7 i, j( c4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
/ `+ c9 @2 B" g+ q* x7 ~. R% w5 rwith the same name." c9 M2 ]0 c$ c- ]( M
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the* x7 g8 b# l/ G3 B5 G5 f. { ~, v
end of the conversation.: r! ? j% E" \
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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