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Five Seconds to Success in remembering people's names

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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what. H( M3 ?: r: s# X) L1 j+ {3 ?- @' S
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first" }, Y& ]2 E  \/ ^7 |9 G  v1 P! c6 s/ F
names:
' R4 |5 T/ b# L# \* F1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.: }8 f4 c9 @! D' K" D
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
- O( O' A( w) [" tsay—listen for the name.5 D! D! N* r* h" h
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
2 h- I( ^" ~% Z4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
% H. ]% u3 j' E- V6 k: k% e/ jwith the same name.
+ E, B  J) N1 Q) I2 U9 N$ n. F0 l, a) C5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the/ W, J  x5 R- s7 A  T9 q
end of the conversation.
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# e/ T# g2 i$ Q: A, a$ x---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>
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