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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to# G1 \+ ~. j. T- G4 y( N# A' Q
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear" j1 y6 Q9 B/ K9 Q O( J# m
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what: O) E/ }$ k+ n# ^8 I D; P: p9 L
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will6 _% D' d4 d; @4 L+ M& T6 p8 G
think of you.4 R) t+ t5 s2 I1 d# e# X: B3 s. o
0 J) r* O/ V9 r, z: d* c9 pUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first; C1 U4 |0 }2 D
names:
7 Q$ \( ~; M9 K# o7 [8 V( F7 @1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.0 q1 U# p% ^( |$ m/ h2 ~
2) The second second: Don't think about what to1 C! q: K0 D% l
say—listen for the name.$ ^! O) m, {5 K& R, G6 F9 W
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.+ [+ Y5 u" [8 Y3 G P. @
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
$ s% G: c6 z4 j( E5 w8 M* G9 z' Vwith the same name.
, W1 B: U8 y- }/ n, [5 A5 }7 `/ s5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
+ V5 Q# T+ P9 @1 |: Cend of the conversation.& R9 Z" {( M4 f
4 {0 T6 m, Z/ f3 j---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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