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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to2 J, p' p) t) D9 ] W1 T' w
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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3 {6 Q" Y ~ i4 ^7 P3 jyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will- f1 ]" r' R/ i" v% ?
think of you.
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+ i7 K4 o4 k( J( g) SUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
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& i$ `/ T: _' Y9 D' b( Rsay—listen for the name.% u# B" r0 c6 Z' K4 \
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.5 Y( W- a1 v" |) `$ n6 t
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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end of the conversation./ Y5 \8 j4 i+ \9 U- F8 i
, c; D7 t5 B9 ]0 s' Z---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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