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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
" i- O( G4 a8 G; h! W8 M, ffocus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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6 y! ^$ o+ \# `# P6 tyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will/ ?) ^! L( H8 G# x0 E0 h+ ]" J5 h
think of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
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say—listen for the name.
& D5 I& ^, V, s+ N3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.: X, N6 p, _5 R* L- f0 [$ c/ j! G& ?
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know% ~1 [/ v& |0 e# K3 x* ]) D( }% a
with the same name.
& Z% `2 P# \+ m8 z) d3 E9 l, y5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the$ k+ J1 A8 P1 U9 g: E: }+ J |! A
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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