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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
9 ~* S- {& }0 K" g' \focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
4 X( y# E3 j n4 W3 a' j& fthem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
4 E* C8 h: {) p! Gyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will' B5 ~! _# k" p/ m i2 o4 ]5 \
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9 v! n+ \* R& k5 y' D9 n. pUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first+ e6 `' P5 g( q2 {4 E% c
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.5 w6 R9 m6 A1 @+ r1 v# B' [
2) The second second: Don't think about what to( L: P- l/ C, H1 e
say—listen for the name.
4 S1 d# R( I; D. ?" p3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
3 s# K6 J; k0 V( h1 s4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know9 H# _$ y( D4 v, E) L0 B3 Y: n
with the same name., \. i5 G4 Q# o& s+ ?* C7 m% l
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the) O3 I+ p* M' T" O( Y2 x+ H1 n, |
end of the conversation.% r7 J: z4 |# o4 R
3 c6 k a) U# v---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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