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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what! M9 u7 o# @2 E# U/ W1 q
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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! d6 ?( K% O% t# {+ o. J% cUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first6 a9 U7 Y( o/ F! I, }4 D1 b" P
names:
% G3 \3 F+ q/ M, e" Y1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.5 Q( A- O# m5 ?
2) The second second: Don't think about what to3 d9 t9 V3 P% b9 s7 o* C$ g; N/ {
say—listen for the name.# _* E% V* r% K& T3 d: y
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
! \, [' q! Q N& G+ ]0 m# i4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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