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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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& W1 C7 m3 T( [ m/ j. XUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first. |' N `9 T3 c6 y! w& i" O
names:
% R [2 @7 |( c1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
9 _% J; i9 J, m5 @2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.: s% Y1 T) X9 C* S/ j' |: F
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know ~) k6 u4 I; D4 I, M( r$ Q0 D
with the same name.
0 Z( D# I, `: h! H5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the5 a4 z y! O2 e" |# q: \
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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