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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to: H Z" ]. X3 C! `0 `
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear$ u3 B. L# }1 I$ d! m
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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, {) Q3 S5 _3 u! y1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.6 s. R A( n9 D# ?6 V" x
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
$ ?+ q: f' p9 N, V! s6 U7 x4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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) G( _0 U) c6 q9 @5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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