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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to# {6 |+ {+ }. F k8 G8 n9 v
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear k0 B+ g4 K: V. U! O1 I
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what% K, F. A& L* V4 g3 W
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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5 r9 B1 |0 V% y, e$ x% K8 pUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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6 M+ D( O6 m% T9 d1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.) I6 K) d& c% }* c$ e$ d# l8 R t
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.0 m2 W( p3 d; D) h* R
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
6 ~' l' u) u) R# E) [" n# Nwith the same name.
9 z$ p$ n/ g7 n- X+ x) f: @5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
0 o. e) K, [% \7 J" xend of the conversation.; ?: N! g0 ~ n8 W* C
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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