 鲜花( 0)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
, L' S: G1 o. ]3 A9 bfocus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
7 q8 }" _$ `4 H# [; Z# O2 h6 ]them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
: L! e7 K, p3 h, N% N& Y1 dyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will$ z" A1 @; H" B& Z: W D" ]
think of you.- x7 c2 A9 f& U9 s# T9 @1 o
1 ~; g( g6 l7 Q! [3 k0 d/ [
Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first+ P6 n& m- v8 e" A+ Q! v
names:8 ~* _. }% ^" R' h f
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
& ^ z( B0 S( {" Z1 e/ J# d2) The second second: Don't think about what to8 o* n, r/ k* o b/ S
say—listen for the name.7 g; i3 G2 J7 R
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
T' W7 E6 P# x- G4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
* A; @8 x9 J) w+ t6 v$ k/ H ]; L3 ywith the same name.+ c$ ?6 B+ K* M
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the8 z2 e* O$ `( X2 L! i4 A% |
end of the conversation.4 C6 {) L( ~" U
( n0 `5 C( o1 G2 d6 ?---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
|