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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to0 U, K, w1 J1 m8 `: R
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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" a+ J+ s8 S2 ryou're going to say next or worrying about what others will6 `; T, q+ A+ e% A, D" O
think of you.
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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$ X f5 L# x4 A1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.3 s, G( n6 [; f, d
2) The second second: Don't think about what to1 V5 O) C+ e6 s" K c6 i
say—listen for the name.
8 n' p) V9 \# u- C6 u2 p3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud. r* G1 @; S7 v, X
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know" K8 W2 F* m2 d$ w3 e6 U8 w
with the same name.
% V; {5 }9 A, s5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
7 s2 g$ C; r' j8 O1 L: Z4 uend of the conversation.2 v1 Y1 @8 X' d5 A: a# j9 i
$ c* g2 v$ p/ J- f5 i+ [---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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