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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to$ ?) |- o$ d+ Y: O& f/ A
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.& \- i" o+ x" Y
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
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with the same name.
& Z% H! e0 R* g# C( N2 _/ I& ~7 R J5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the9 l4 o) A G8 r
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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