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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。
& r; F6 t, R% \0 z* P> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
1 b w. H/ r% @# m> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
8 {& U. h+ ?$ \ Y> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of 3 S, n0 a# z7 \/ d$ g. D
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v! y3 u, q0 E/ I5 U+ T( l> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front . Z! i' ^/ G4 }6 _: c
> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
! }' q% U, ~; U8 ?+ V+ w3 O/ C0 l! @> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
z$ L9 M U7 T7 x' C3 |> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.4 m9 |2 k3 v" d. H
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar 9 x l& s* v8 l1 e( A d$ @ H! {
> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between
' }- [( L: Z- F5 t3 o0 N6 d3 c7 h) P> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They ( t4 N$ R9 X# c0 l. H& s
> agreed it was.
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> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 5 Q4 b) U6 |% f4 R5 w# T2 |6 _- s
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar
/ Q; {) u7 p. z/ v$ j7 o> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."" r& k& M$ P8 C- `
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+ w1 ~- H) ^ ]5 z/ O) U> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and ( w! R0 K# i4 U# `; N
> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty 8 ]9 M s+ o- ?5 H B& @
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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. O! e/ V6 E# K! w1 J> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to 4 i$ ^* \- }8 @8 |9 I1 L
> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the / c2 B* q3 f5 `4 ^
> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
& D, f$ L' C& n! c& x; D> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they
; `" {' L. U4 E+ O> remained, your life would still be full.
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`+ A7 c( _1 A$ h# A9 T# z> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and 4 V; o' c1 h. v( K
> your car.
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 3 c( k& @3 j c" ~. A5 f1 j/ S
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the
1 R/ K" n: J) D7 u+ W+ l> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy 9 X/ A1 z$ }+ `1 E) P! n) G
> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are ; ]% R8 t0 k% q" F
> important to you.
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend . u& l) ^* ~+ U. Q
> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with
' |6 p/ o i/ k8 m+ h) c- K7 w> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to 5 {1 C+ \2 [3 W: Z/ o
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and - y: \, b: d7 I: Q2 p; E; x
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that % k! }. j- F$ Y% D
> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee % r2 U2 Q; M8 g) {( w7 D
> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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- `0 E Q: a0 e> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
: h* c& K. L2 Y> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
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