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发表于 2006-6-2 16:53 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
One day, when I was a freshman in high school,) k  b! I" X8 D0 P& T; ^  V- a

$ l6 i& U3 o& M8 v1 j% sI saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.
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His name was Kyle.$ @) l! @* Z% w3 R

* [4 W3 i0 W% }, W0 LIt looked like he was carrying all of his5 W4 d$ w9 Q! E& T  k
Books.
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8 }' E# C, A: j7 Q; H$ j8 r5 ~I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?; z" M/ P- I( ~3 g& l

/ U+ B* ?" J( }# q2 U) WHe must really be a nerd."8 p( ^8 c) n1 M+ o
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I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.3 D/ l9 p( c% y# q2 D. n4 A5 x! o* |

: z/ x0 x( y+ k6 x( DAs I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.& I. v* n% `1 v  M7 s# P/ |9 S

' o5 R. o. Q- j* \: ]+ jThey ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.
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His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.4 s0 G1 R: w& a+ [  u( W) E& q
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He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes5 B0 L) D: _  @* D$ H: r
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My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.7 C8 I4 Q: b% H; c. g' B

6 `' \( A# `5 [; }As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks.
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They really should get lives.1 B! w/ S6 [% \- E0 {( H
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" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"# v* w1 H8 H# a- H, r6 o) U
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There was a big smile on his face.
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7 O+ S0 [3 j' S9 x; N7 B7 U& KIt was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.; h7 o" |3 p7 M# _( [
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I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.2 i- C& c! a; M. M. ?, f
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As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.: f3 ^' k" m2 M& \8 @& X) a) v

3 a! c* R9 B% L( Y  e% [9 CHe said he had gone to private school before now.
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9 h3 G- D0 f$ g7 b2 k+ m, W7 Z( [2 uI would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
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We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.
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He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.
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I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends.$ w. e& j$ n. e8 A
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He said yes.
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We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.
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Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.
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/ K0 d$ i9 ?4 V4 B  ?I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!& \8 h# h) s2 e) K' ~+ e" t

3 I, s4 z5 i7 J" He just laughed and handed me half the books.* z( z' z; q- ^# A. f

" r& X& P1 \# U$ p  ]Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.* `5 f" D5 ^+ P( d0 O* Y* U% P
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When we were seniors, we began to think7 H: }& C9 v' e
About college.
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Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I
8 y. z1 L# \9 M$ W* B( |9 BWas going to Duke.
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I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.
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He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.3 V5 }2 f$ f  O; Z# Y1 d5 w/ D

0 Y5 h) z9 x2 F" s4 iKyle was valedictorian of our class.
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. y# y9 s2 I$ v" [% zI teased him all the time about being a nerd.3 g% R9 t" h) d' O* _  n; {$ h
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He had to prepare a speech for graduation.* q" S2 A+ h% g, P6 r; g

. ^/ c1 I2 Y( F. s8 KI was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak
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9 |& z6 S. R3 SGraduation day, I saw Kyle.
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1 B9 N) J; X% F$ k, P  T% nHe looked great.8 [4 l+ X9 D! l% ^4 U

& r" G/ G$ m: ?+ H( u" PHe was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.( @. x: U7 g! N4 ~  S5 ~

* q: h/ v: @3 ?$ G, T- A8 j: x1 aHe filled out and actually looked good in glasses.
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6 [# [4 s( f6 Z+ ?  k( PHe had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.' y$ }& e, g- Z2 }, N
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Boy, sometimes I was jealous.! g' U+ I* Y- ?2 }0 g% x% I+ ^2 n
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Today was one of those days.$ X6 `" \/ [* R& w8 X: M' S8 @
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I could see that he was nervous about his speech.: _& O; ]) i0 G

8 k# ]8 y' Z8 y6 O" |So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!"7 X3 l2 _5 J1 c

: M2 W' g* B2 Q4 N) y0 qHe looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.
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"Thanks," he said.
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As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began. t; u5 [7 c/ ?: a" f& U

9 o. J) F- n* f+ k5 O" v"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.
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2 d) j/ u' S' [9 p) `Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...
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I am here to tell all of you that being a' P- J8 T: y5 G1 ?; k1 s" I
Friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.7 n0 m) W! s5 R3 K
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I am going to tell you a story."
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. }* {: G* V0 |# n5 J$ vI just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.
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He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.' y; i0 B8 F6 S# c( R
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He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.6 M. c' R5 |* j  t" n, z1 K" R
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He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile." S4 A: d, j9 O; I

, V$ G  q/ [: s2 }"Thankfully, I was saved.
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My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."
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I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.! y, A: @' w- q: d1 ~7 s0 A) P

) [/ ^" n# c: v- ?$ {I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.3 U, s5 \; N* C  Q
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Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.
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+ \* Y$ t. W5 q% h  O6 r& i5 pNever underestimate the power of your actions.4 J0 g6 [8 `6 w" s" a; ^2 D

6 _; S- \0 M* z' I9 fWith one small gesture you can change a person's life.
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For better or for worse.
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God puts us all in each other's lives to impact one another in some way.
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( G1 y! b2 P7 J: D  eLook for God in others.
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: M5 j2 {4 Z4 @! I; uYou now have two choices, you can:
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8 f. s; T5 N! Q2 H1) Pass this on to your friends or5 S0 k0 d; g* F& g0 b- D  X% W

" M/ r; E3 D" Y2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch your heart.  [# P& {! n2 }$ _, @
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As you can see, I took choice number 1.: |2 ~* f& o5 v& p* @& o& c
"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."2 I# G6 E3 ]$ F
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There is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.
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Tomorrow is mystery.
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It's National Friendship Week. Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND.
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If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends.
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发表于 2006-6-2 22:16 | 显示全部楼层
Yesterday is history.
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& K% z) ?7 q/ X* j6 \/ ]7 ATomorrow is mystery.
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Today is a gift.
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