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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 , o, T' s; C+ H: x9 P
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2 r8 A* H1 |1 n. Q今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享1 X% l# x( h6 ^2 u/ I2 E5 U6 j/ y1 Q
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On Children$ H4 A, ]; ^7 D/ h
Kahlil Gibran5 ]$ e* S) ]/ T- F
Your children are not your children.
( u5 {' s+ n' g( L) t' B8 R- s5 [They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.3 X  _$ g3 M2 Y
They come through you but not from you,6 W+ M3 Y: M) ^. n
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
# n7 s# e0 C& Y$ TYou may give them your love but not your thoughts,
2 l# Y; ?+ P% M' L! }% ~7 S  WFor they have their own thoughts.
1 R* }" A6 o2 }You may house their bodies but not their souls,# x' h% `: r: d2 r7 b
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
2 A6 u4 ?. r+ ^' G  i6 m/ _" dwhich you cannot visit, not even in your dreams., x1 y( n! b0 R$ V8 }1 z& f1 J3 A6 A
You may strive to be like them,8 h/ j; N. U) e9 l! S
but seek not to make them like you.4 g8 l' X9 O' X
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
9 \1 M, J$ }5 z, V- e% fYou are the bows from which your children
- a) ]/ ?/ u7 X6 ^( j* gas living arrows are sent forth.
6 y, e& P' n6 X4 E. b  y6 @The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
9 M7 N/ i9 z; ]7 m# Land He bends you with His might8 ^+ H8 D+ U/ X9 g- |6 Q
that His arrows may go swift and far.
: g: X0 ~7 N5 rLet your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;$ g1 m, u& Z% k& P) |
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,! g: v* k" z- S# ]0 e! f# M
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。+ K4 x& v0 E- t$ T: x
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你的子女,其实不是你的子女。
; R5 \  O3 n! \& e+ c他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。1 d+ \# I* @1 C5 o! a' z
他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。% g2 g1 _$ |* D* N
他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。
, k% Q9 E( |: @: T你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,
9 D: D$ {# h1 b因为他们有自己的思想。
5 Y2 X9 X, w- G你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,
3 m0 B9 B, i0 J$ I+ I因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,
. v2 ]" H' x7 ^/ {你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
( S8 I2 ^% h- N: _5 ?. h2 ]却不要让他们变得和你一样,
8 f/ h& L( A2 K7 M8 z因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。
4 |6 R% L% I4 D你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。3 H, _7 A7 c: W& x: b
弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,
0 c/ h9 N1 M( Z它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。
! q' d1 q# l1 F0 f* e; ?怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,  D% s6 P6 N9 o5 A1 n& [% I- d
因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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