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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.9 ~* }0 x c- x" H8 |/ D L' ~
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7 Z1 E h5 D2 X! S" SThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
- O8 C3 t7 }, L1 WIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do.
6 E9 C. @! G( G7 xAs the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years., T) H- @ w% [; E- S+ k
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