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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.
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Think this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position. . ^. f- d7 p$ z/ F2 i% N. p2 f
If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do.
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