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. K: G& ]2 c: k+ BHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters' B$ @. p( u3 d) y' G
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.* G ^. _# h+ P0 N
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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Fine.
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.8 i) t& j* m# D5 l6 ?; |
6 }! p: K" U. i, Y* KNot bad.$ l2 Z: x9 d2 ^& L
; b3 G, b/ v- _* I' w, vThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".; [% |8 S" |2 t$ Y( a# u! \- e. n$ J
$ J. V& {8 F7 U6 EFine, thanks.
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks./ a" v/ |6 F9 n8 a0 F) t: f w
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.' H7 V9 ]) r8 P3 {8 I$ f$ k' G( B
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Great! How are you doing?
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.5 h) e; z6 B: r; i; h4 X6 l
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I've been better.
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* O0 x, a$ _6 U6 d1 c. ]$ jPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong: q& T% Z5 Q1 ?( q/ v1 E
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A: How are you?. d" x: z( @" _9 x7 I6 P- y
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B: I've been better.8 \/ G* z0 s- v$ n
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A: What's wrong?
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7 k: g- P. _. Y8 ZB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.1 z8 {" V& z# a; b* W; T
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How's it going?
& E2 b* X4 X D/ t4 X jThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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. @4 X+ D( x8 E+ Y# ]6 QIt's going well.
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, J, v. f0 R! `( {% S n9 W# f8 ^; tThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?, L/ G2 n/ H( u( }! v# \
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:5 w/ g7 y; _- k! A$ x! E
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.( @6 x5 m2 D2 v
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.
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+ k T( X/ b( l/ p8 ^/ D! F: AJust the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it./ C: K, L. q/ m0 W9 M5 ?
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!3 Q( I, }; U, ^2 D/ i# P* R
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.% d) p: r# w$ e& m
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This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.( G$ T% d7 W) o. F* h7 _& h
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