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! |/ e- t4 q/ i$ RHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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Fine.0 g6 a; b0 O! A& m" s* [
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.1 O/ e q; S( f3 r6 c* o5 L
. E" x7 L8 h* p+ v6 h2 [This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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% y: |% V" ?/ `4 \6 ^% uThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.+ h1 E2 P9 X% C' e; N- C" s
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Great! How are you doing?! L+ U1 i- O" X- @! l' ?
5 ?9 g( l0 x7 ]0 T7 MThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.' B1 H( O g/ M$ K3 j; E0 {
^/ h2 @& t4 s, ~) fI'm hanging in there.0 O5 w2 F0 {3 U
" k2 c$ `% g7 k- T3 W) q" j# xThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.2 S; h* F2 t; P+ C6 c$ C* |
" p6 H9 H6 e$ O! n* II've been better.4 K8 d; e6 M8 m# q* X; ^* h
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:1 t4 d/ P) v. V% C0 h9 s
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A: How are you?4 m7 g1 E6 P" i) W' H6 n0 g0 x
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B: I've been better.
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8 F, J- g: C. WA: What's wrong?
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3 Q* h5 D2 X3 Z6 b: f7 W1 qB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.2 }6 a* c& [* S- H
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# S9 G3 V% Q1 C* h; z8 X0 FThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well./ l9 E# ]) w" S
, W: E5 W2 d- M+ w. u! uHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"! ?( Q' F. H- C
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, [" c; e/ L3 O) kThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up? ]3 n7 K5 Z- g. @
This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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( J4 C4 B7 t! s) ?! z7 DNothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."( h- H- E+ r8 s; @+ f* Q( L
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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5 G2 `$ u- V( k \% \3 d/ R: ^Oh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.7 N9 v8 q* w" k4 ~
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Just the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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