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Follow Your Dream
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1 \4 l4 N* r0 F4 ~, x8 v" cI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
/ A4 ?3 ^: k1 B5 \5 CHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money & E4 K2 Z& \2 y: F; j/ Q7 i" s1 C
for youth at risk programs. 7 p9 l( l5 T9 S. W d8 }
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
4 g! V( _- X2 P* L- L! Zwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
6 B7 G# V6 ?2 n/ Z# o/ u6 ~' Nman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
5 Q/ g1 [" a3 Qto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training 8 J2 Z/ |' K' a7 M. F. B& G
horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. - G- |; W1 `, G0 k
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
e" a. \& G8 c5 t" x3 t( nowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 4 c! R9 n- w% ^% u
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
4 x! M; [, r% D9 Cthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
; ^4 f; \: \5 R- Z( b+ fhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. 9 g v/ B( [( |1 d+ P4 H
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
+ r& ~8 b3 F. j2 V6 S0 R* d8 xhanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. . M! o3 q0 h5 z
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after * L8 ?$ p# U. J
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
. w! s* t( p% eYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 5 ?+ Y0 V4 e# f, T
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
8 ?7 r/ }7 O* WYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
* p) I* Q' E2 e4 V0 m7 X Mpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
0 t. y0 ]* a$ |: nadded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will + z1 U! X2 }$ A5 X/ w
reconsider your grade.’
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
9 n& D) Q! V5 Ewhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
/ _. R, S' L2 ?3 {own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for 3 Y5 @" n) p& {6 s9 N& H
you.’
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
. Y5 @) {) I2 m* `* w: Ppaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
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4 {; o* }( p2 @( ~( XMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
$ s- a% I7 j+ J% a) c6 mbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
3 Z3 [. j6 ^) V h- d+ T$ Smy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the - Z& x- c& h# b3 m2 H0 v8 o
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago ; k* {4 x; u( Z' I; x/ R* W: `+ r
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
; L* p% M! c& ^: E) k sWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
0 n, H* z$ Q6 O5 O! v. wnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During 5 ^- p! e. s9 U' D- F# M! ?3 D
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption }2 F5 q7 M. Z" M
not to give up on yours.’' " L2 i0 Q- \/ Z. h& _3 q2 A
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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