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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. . E$ `' R: O$ q2 @
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money ! c X6 W& {. _) l
for youth at risk programs. 4 y. R) Y8 h |- Z# E
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 2 ]( U: Y4 L( x& p1 }7 l
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
0 o4 v; d% R/ l7 j! m& Tman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable . n8 l5 ?# z+ P" X
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training 8 @8 `7 {+ }- \' f: y7 w8 l
horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
1 c! W+ Q1 f( UWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted 9 J# d: t( O; g1 J; ^
to be and do when he grew up.
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
) N/ N- ^1 s/ W9 }* J8 Aowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 0 N4 e7 L! H* k
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
- W5 A% g' e5 [0 F- O' c1 j' zthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot 5 f# q5 ?$ J0 M( ^4 }# e! O& O
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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O4 ~* F& q: E0 b% b# I8 @'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
7 }7 T' R; d! b+ ~7 @; ^# w+ Ihanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. $ ~! E3 X7 V$ G. D
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after 2 f% c4 g6 @8 K. V- [3 j
class.'
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" j: i4 N K2 i' q4 I6 u% A, L'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
) k) T% u7 O- {/ F9 I7 O`Why did I receive an F?'
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. : s0 p* `4 ~& X( V$ `' m$ ?
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
* }# x, ~+ V6 Y( @4 n8 ]Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
|! E- j. X1 w8 s# IYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to * H/ W2 o/ K5 B1 N' a4 p
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
' ~5 L1 @! m( h0 w& ^! K; Eadded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will & r" W) x+ ^; E
reconsider your grade.’
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
" U0 T8 u. n9 N0 Iwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
0 c+ D1 }7 h) B5 R6 d; }! oown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for 2 \: O+ f" j% c* o5 c
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: f2 w2 F1 N0 E& T0 r# G9 B'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
* R6 O$ w# O) E+ S! H. A3 lpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll 5 o* a+ h& v8 v, \4 y* s' [0 X% a
keep my dream.'' 1 x9 v* W s1 M, J' a! E% y+ Q( j& t
' d3 i6 R" P3 Z3 n) {8 a- ?8 sMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
0 H6 A1 E+ ^! r; D! B: G/ p/ Lbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of 4 d) s ~2 \3 C/ j3 v! _' Y
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the I+ [4 H) e3 |: _6 _
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago ( Q- g: n9 t5 h7 |
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' 6 x' @" B, h& [9 X0 b& C; J) U
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
, u' A, f6 B0 s1 x& Znow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
: ?5 J6 V7 X! f+ [; j$ T2 {those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
% j- q! o# J* k1 V" L% K& Pnot to give up on yours.’'
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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