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Follow Your Dream
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1 X. x/ W- C; x" b( h9 f6 o% s4 qI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
9 V/ Q2 A+ C1 A4 t2 H5 v+ e. wHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
1 v- z0 _; ?5 I; Wwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
; E6 r* u9 J& B6 v5 U( Qman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable 3 k" ?9 v' N2 h8 k5 l3 p' q
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
6 h9 m$ L' W! W6 f. ~) ]' `2 J& Hhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. 5 [, X7 {( B! b7 y" y
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted : i1 n! H h( h" a
to be and do when he grew up. , U3 J' `1 Z1 f: _+ {* F# i
3 P4 p- k8 W& v+ c'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
j0 [: s9 R+ M- Z( P/ ~owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 9 y6 q) s- v# n5 f
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, 4 ^5 D3 V4 }- @9 F. \' ?
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
+ ~! ?7 B& u6 G7 ^9 ?6 L2 zhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. ; |+ p' e5 }) D/ ^
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he 7 I0 e) O/ y1 X$ ?6 w* `2 r0 b
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
* ?; A9 i6 e5 L) k2 yOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after 1 d- H* L) A# ], V3 ~/ V9 C4 }
class.'
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! P/ g, h( ~8 E" N- a3 y$ Z- w'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, $ S" K5 H) l6 T* K3 k
`Why did I receive an F?' 5 z4 T* M; i$ o+ ]
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. & J e, j* A0 z) s/ |, l+ J
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
* P$ G: r$ }- W$ EOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 1 O9 D/ P" d. c
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to ! M2 }4 D7 H( ~* }4 C
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
* E% [3 l6 A, W! d6 {5 d( r9 Kadded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
4 N3 P n, W& u9 n+ rreconsider your grade.’
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" ?: _) {' ?3 d/ T- S* W' h8 G'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
1 c$ S1 U1 i, D, Pwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your P) f) `* |# r$ W- I8 {6 W
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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# x3 U% J+ V) z'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
: D$ {& {- t/ g8 d* ~& C/ P$ Cpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
: o( g8 k% b2 H5 ]. t V0 s: ykeep my dream.''
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
5 p1 U: X1 y* Gbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
3 y6 F4 u) z/ {1 |( A" { E, w7 rmy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 3 q9 F2 f I1 j& E
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago 7 `! d0 c6 y$ i; D( L+ L! `
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
9 r: p, L# t- k/ L( oWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
4 i" i+ J- u# P! X0 L- qnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
+ e0 D6 h# O0 {) ~those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption $ m7 q7 a% p$ C9 U
not to give up on yours.’'
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. G; b- R8 G. }6 n5 s$ R( Y" {Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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