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+ [1 w! v/ w- _0 {I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. " p- w0 p2 f8 t' f b
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 6 \% ^! L% X; y8 k( u
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
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to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
0 q0 q) g7 l! x* R hhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
- O& B2 |8 }" S$ x$ H" k6 j! SWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
2 |. X8 Q) `3 p: Q/ Xto be and do when he grew up.
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
0 Q% k* ~0 }! d- R% rowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
+ Q- h+ t: p0 j0 X! ?/ y* Mdrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, 8 P2 T- v6 \! c3 ~
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
& E2 x9 S2 q; t: ^house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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6 m5 L5 ^ Y6 M5 a; h; M4 l'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he * o5 ^- _( k j! }+ H( G# ]* k/ c
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. 0 X [ e/ B# v! u* z" w
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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- n$ }4 H+ y( Y7 Q& {. L# n2 t'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, ) A9 P$ L/ W, o0 k8 d
`Why did I receive an F?'
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
: `. q% z5 @, SYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
4 ~* J" O: n9 @# f xOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 5 d+ y% d& {- p/ _/ Z; h6 p
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
8 \, ~5 M9 @3 Ppay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
) R+ F ?- u0 B# k, ^5 U y. ?added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
' c+ T, U2 q, R L6 c& w8 n" Oreconsider your grade.’ . M' |& B; Q8 v% z) e% f
, k* W' \7 R% a+ u5 l'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
+ c) s. s( k% |% K+ g+ f9 Vwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your * ~ L" J$ y6 B/ D
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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5 Q! G8 d$ n8 n$ ]'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
: i; ? S1 l7 l3 R1 b; S6 g V8 @0 Qpaper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
4 s* T0 Z' T# Y* l. u! d& lkeep my dream.'' % [, i; o6 a1 ]' E
1 f" N. W$ Z0 P! u7 U% DMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
/ h' Y9 q0 ^; e' s% _1 L" fbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
9 y0 z# ^$ ~" y3 C* dmy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the . H$ y/ s5 ] |7 h- C
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago " v! K' m+ x' O. J4 |! ~' B
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' . i( o3 a$ ~, {2 v8 D
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
" j0 Z# {# G% w7 U: u( y; Enow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
- S2 x: ~( b7 W. d# L4 _! N/ cthose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption $ y) c! l( X; L. O8 D# x+ ^" R
not to give up on yours.’'
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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