 鲜花( 0)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
Follow Your Dream* Z+ d9 p, z5 Z% T# G" N: D" Q
& U$ e9 T% s& V: l9 F
: c' x8 E7 a: o* M; |
! E- k v" T9 c8 f8 |8 J. c" H3 TI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. ) I) [# f. e+ t0 I$ W6 o
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
5 J# f. P; O, ?3 S. Z8 W" X; }for youth at risk programs. 8 S; `8 V+ _ I5 `8 N
0 C# \5 S5 g2 S- W4 R2 X7 G, G1 gThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 8 b- Y3 K8 d2 o1 n* k9 M3 a, k' h
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
% Q) A: s% J0 x- P9 Wman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable * A4 \# T7 X# ]" U- h8 ]
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
! D7 C" I1 R3 e# j4 vhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
2 c3 ?: f p+ X* K4 l4 ]2 G$ Q7 XWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
" A$ \- c1 T, g& T% Kto be and do when he grew up. ( Y! o: n4 n4 @9 r/ l
G1 ^- M: r- w+ z/ ]& d# m) k
'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday 6 W# [# H( P0 b/ y3 U$ Y7 U5 `
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
- l$ p8 }( b# `2 H* r* ?drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
6 |3 e4 `( H7 n% g( E& M& E! O/ e" e$ w& Hthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
* U. k8 P/ C2 ]. w2 jhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. . J! |! r5 R7 i" d5 O& w: m( n
) Y# w8 l V- y3 w! u* T% q'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he " d6 \, ]1 T! C. s) J
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
$ g* [+ y) \0 {9 y# xOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after 3 U7 y3 T7 `5 Z. x& I
class.' 1 I' L9 L# {3 z& a
6 c. `6 ?- F' ?8 F'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, ) x/ j) W5 i5 l- W
`Why did I receive an F?'
+ X7 x: U9 L4 v, Z' X2 h; V% D, @% ^: W1 Q W( k: P
'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
% @* n+ g2 C! nYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
f2 v* B1 r) X! |Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. - V: k: P, t. t. k" w' g2 Y
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
7 U) h5 E& r& K: apay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher * d# e8 w3 U3 ]3 {* X4 N
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
. X C) i( Y% G- u' J4 Treconsider your grade.’
2 \. m2 Q; e& Y$ \. G8 O. |: i: M' X4 |6 L
'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father ' M# w8 w( `5 p
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your 3 v. T. r" M0 i3 J
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for ( w+ i- b. e1 k; ]0 r
you.’
3 i3 M9 S% `1 X( M) J- `# n- N/ @" C+ {, v2 o
'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same 3 [% S& _+ s. A. S }) q
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
. ]7 F9 l: o, U# J* Jkeep my dream.'' 0 c- E: k' F9 s
1 \. Q: \! a* j0 C# V- Q
Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
. w t% ?) H% R: O! r; kbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of / u! k3 T. K0 d3 N& o
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 1 w9 M! P4 z9 o" I7 ?: C6 k
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago 2 @1 C" J5 ^# [( A f3 f C: }( I
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' * ? L% C1 ]2 K8 R$ o( b8 O7 v
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
1 F# Z. q* ^4 s# f( qnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
2 y3 r2 ?' t) ]2 `8 `0 Q; Cthose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
9 ?! I* G1 q" ?% t0 t2 [ ^1 Bnot to give up on yours.’'
( R" V# p/ y) t# ]9 ]
" G3 w1 n# k" c! \- YDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
|