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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
: ] s( X+ _, u2 W$ s8 s7 L, QHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you $ N3 x$ R5 U0 @1 P1 b5 n4 C- s
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young ) i! a! H2 f& W
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
& z( V: r/ r* s3 uto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
H6 B H3 n! ]* j% Fhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
5 F3 Y% V) i7 T$ a [When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
7 R9 o$ M, o. v" q+ i2 n( v9 oto be and do when he grew up.
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& U: M! ~* c S& I'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
# P6 D2 U5 a1 Y: rowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even * e* W6 z J! x4 @) i4 l
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, & a! X0 P0 P8 m, I; i [+ |
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
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5 _& h# Z- J: f; y0 K- A: F; D'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he : i! b& C5 s0 {: |) ^ A0 L$ \7 W
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
4 A$ L& N! S, }# NOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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& }- k% ~$ T% ~0 L! H' L8 R'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
- A5 q- e1 \3 l8 z+ a* T`Why did I receive an F?' 9 l; @* `3 z4 U" x
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
2 X" w1 f) \7 H2 b. ]You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. " Y. y6 C' o2 f
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
! i; _% Y6 p8 F" V8 H& RYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
$ n% m9 z" Q% a7 W( V7 Spay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
1 |8 `7 \) U7 h9 S% Vadded, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will ) e4 D J! |8 p. q/ U
reconsider your grade.’
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. {- P2 l1 q. d7 a; k/ S'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
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own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for ' A% z2 P4 e q% V) X4 U1 Q- s
you.’
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same / w' B8 \! O, f3 N k- T B( t
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll ) ^! D$ T1 n: K/ r
keep my dream.'' 7 x: t/ c# R2 U3 h6 b/ G/ `$ `! B
& Z) Q: Y3 Z1 ^9 z! W; o% EMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story 7 `1 f4 z+ K o: F8 h% c+ p
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
; P! j5 y( Z! omy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the
# ]! K4 k, n; H* v9 J2 K1 vfireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
3 {% v' t8 Q7 T; ythat same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
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now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
, C: N' I1 q! y* \those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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7 M: y, F+ }3 Z5 b5 g9 gDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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