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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. / V: u9 f( _. o! E4 x6 ]5 [0 m
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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{0 |% l/ L% E) WThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
* L; X4 {( O! d! @4 @! j6 B1 R% N' o& Pwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
7 s- \ V% p9 x+ {- H+ Rman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
9 p+ b' s8 x( C+ U; `. Dto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
- U4 X k8 y$ l7 V! e+ L. ghorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
e6 H6 u6 [, s5 N( L& e: b0 T) bWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted U, P+ p: E6 e0 | z; v B: _: E
to be and do when he grew up.
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3 }: Y% ~/ f; {, {5 a'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday + ^8 P/ k0 m1 a9 Y& W& m
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 7 @3 P3 Q( A) y# d) |
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, - Q+ l4 R) S+ C$ j
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
/ X4 n; w% E5 Q5 J5 Ghouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. 5 E. D0 ^5 M6 x& r' s
! g8 x4 T5 S+ N( {" p, B'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he " J4 U; S0 c" f* S4 j6 a/ w
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. . x/ |# T& ?. X
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
4 B5 A) q: B7 h' y5 b* m2 c`Why did I receive an F?'
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! Y; F8 ?7 ? Q2 m; q6 e7 _'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
3 X' G( j0 X# {: @You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 7 Y( B! q2 _8 x6 K" K0 Z. g% w
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
: L* }/ E4 D. P0 Z" a; SYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to 9 ~7 T. ]2 q3 A* t# ^
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
/ B* K& T- W! c- a" t( ?added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will " C* ?* f) L) W2 z
reconsider your grade.’
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2 u) K6 b. p6 V# n3 G) B/ G$ `9 A'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father 3 ]: E% G, {0 n0 `7 L
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
, Q1 U" }" E$ _$ kown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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/ V8 f3 h! x+ U! Q'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same 0 z1 o* E9 v6 I; W: z8 Z) T
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
! F% V2 G% H' o N; h; Z+ N bkeep my dream.''
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+ L! J( [' P1 @Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story 2 ~6 J d! [* c4 h n o
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of # t Q. G- _* s M+ {; ?% U
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the # N0 J& J( @# N1 a. M8 ]
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago $ r: {: D- h8 u1 U2 n
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
9 @7 ^- A, F$ M/ V3 FWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
7 B: h0 A/ a& @6 @* x$ `0 ^4 Tnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
" N3 ^: H# i6 i) ^those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
" G2 T, @4 G. f! h. g( pnot to give up on yours.’' 8 N- d+ f7 c. F. Y+ ?- g9 {# y/ Y
% S# k% [. {' z- M8 T! I; ?) x( BDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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