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. ^' {( y9 P. {0 }I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
% {1 K/ \( ~& Z I2 A. EHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money / x8 V, B% K/ e0 c0 K3 h
for youth at risk programs.
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
% h4 B* s# W; T( Awhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
* x& Z! y7 I( v2 M, i) J. ^man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
: J+ l/ b" `& d& U0 cto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
; v" q+ f& ]7 v0 {- d+ j9 chorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
' |: H* l$ L+ ]When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted . v' Q9 P; n+ m& l+ w
to be and do when he grew up. ; ~/ |$ H/ n5 k) Q
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday 1 d6 n k8 V* _
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even . d: E2 }3 e9 b& v2 R: X/ \ ~
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
9 P# w$ `7 S! r1 ^$ W. C, Qthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
' x, U! L+ H" P5 }6 S$ q0 v* `4 {house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
. f! r2 {; R& y. G/ G( y' o+ N$ Uhanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
' @* a+ `' d& ~. }. d4 h. tOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
& T$ y, c9 X! H/ Y9 ]; v`Why did I receive an F?' ( _0 T5 G! E+ I) N, Z" Y& E
; w2 S1 H0 Y' H'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. ! s# F0 L. [* A
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 7 B! M( X/ |- T9 \
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 4 q+ P1 t6 g: |* ~6 Q; A
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
+ }% @6 F' q% T3 l: z9 Gpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher ! O' \8 p3 V0 ^# s! ^$ D @( ?2 s2 D
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
( e) d& {& O1 w$ V) preconsider your grade.’
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
+ \6 f3 P: Z% L: G9 lwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your ! ?& P" g- f& O8 i( {/ d
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for & [- w7 Z& x% v4 b! R4 T
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same . i, D5 T& d. H) B3 R& e3 H
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
$ n4 e# p" N* |4 u7 ?keep my dream.'' 7 Z+ F2 Y# b2 c; {" }& @
7 N) S2 w5 T& TMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story , @9 A+ N. t5 ^) g7 Z$ q1 m( z8 v" D
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
; A( w# {$ u5 l, i# s/ xmy 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 1 O# f( v% G8 }% E2 u. C
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago 1 o, D C; c/ ]" `$ e
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' 4 e* I3 ]( {( C% d4 J
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
1 `/ f. [! m* |* R* e+ y$ t- `! mnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During 0 ], p% f* H$ k$ q) N: b) c
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
1 I0 _! R( E ~4 Q' d& T$ O0 V; pnot to give up on yours.’' * H7 O5 A J" G
) {5 @: m1 M8 h1 ? w+ Y/ HDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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