* R2 }, X: X) }0 u! { ycan anyone pls help me with this? / d; I. x: S/ _. r# r1 [ . A" v2 n# e& f( z$ j5 k9 A; ~and btw, the wechat code in other topic is expired, can anyone provide me another one pls?. C5 l) y [* W
can't use QQ at work, at home? don't even have time to use QQ.! L$ s, u! g, N( N# I- l
really prefer wechat, so whenever I have an english question, ask and get help instantly ( wish)% t* w' u+ [/ t3 N
: ]7 b* H2 |: W. X! k7 F% I) F+ O6 Mthank u for all response, still looking for more specific answer.
永远的末班车 发表于 2016-2-2 12:51 4 o; {+ ^, Q" F1 y0 zcan't use QQ at work, at home? don't even have time to use QQ.$ `' A+ U) k) }: F2 n# a! G0 v
really prefer wechat, so whenever I ...
" B! @9 j+ e4 m在工作中和日常生活中,除非被要求,指出别人的错误相当于说you are an idiot!对方很生气,后果很严重。所以你的同事才会变得defensive。即使上级对下级也都是很客气的。当然如果别人侵犯你了,那要另当别论。
newelec 发表于 2016-2-2 14:03+ u4 C' i" q; S& z. w1 {4 K
在工作中和日常生活中,除非被要求,指出别人的错误相当于说you are an idiot!对方很生气,后果很严重。 ...
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我不明白为什么会有这种观点,如果是我,感激还不及呢,不说今后不再犯同样的错,何况我之所以指出他的错,是因为这事件直接联系到Manager.. {% T+ }1 T; v1 y; f* b
我还以为他会感谢我,可能他正是有这种观念,所以才那样回答我。 2 o6 ?& j/ l4 UWell,不认为每个人都会feel being offended, : J! N. k Q, ` c" z! S
只是通过沟通熟悉每个人的风格吧。