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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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# E1 H/ Z& ~# U) nThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic : N5 C5 m4 s; |4 N# E
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name , _& p; w6 I4 k

, t, H$ a' Y2 O1 `of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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of people he/she hates.
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0 O2 h8 k3 c# @" @. NSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with 8 I3 n8 \4 p3 E2 C5 N) B6 o( Q
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 2 _) A% c4 n5 @. |- x$ U( g3 p
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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6 P+ ~4 y! `& Q/ xThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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9 r4 `9 R  X  }1 R9 b% T% uDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain
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- z1 i, {' ]4 X$ s3 k2 {due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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; v  L* V/ W! @7 J% w4 f  vweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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$ K/ p3 ~0 U9 U4 d+ [" jwith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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* d4 j) h, X; |1 `/ Vstarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through 1 M& [! \! h8 C, ^  F( x' ~: Y3 S

1 Y" @2 L0 w$ @9 A& B- jhaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 8 t! x. y( c5 C3 m) R

4 O& D9 t# I5 Y, zwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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# y& i& k' _) tyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 9 T: p& D6 E; d8 m% l3 T
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred 0 S+ i4 J) Q& S- r/ n' ]
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in your heart for your lifetime???" 0 i  N) I* w) O  S9 g& h+ r) e
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it is something you do for yourself. " W5 M0 E! \: u0 c

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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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