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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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THE STENCH OF HATRED , G  F/ j% `: R0 z) [* \8 Z

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6 I7 M9 s( Z. s: d9 g) ?5 aA kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. 7 X) b3 o9 j6 Y3 ?$ s
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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- v) q0 B& }% x, Z8 H7 o4 {3 Hbag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name $ U) r( r. E2 y2 L- f

/ a4 u6 X" Z& D1 M# h1 q1 b# g7 aof a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that ! v2 ?7 u2 N+ f- R9 J! B9 @
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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of people he/she hates.
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3 }$ j9 [5 \8 {5 O1 A+ M# T( p1 W9 oSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with ! d$ x9 Z) `1 l$ y0 X$ x+ _

) J" V+ p5 F9 V3 R# q% gthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some ( ~+ `* i/ ~. ~/ i( s7 t4 o+ ~4 {
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes.
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The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain . S" w- g. Z4 ^. G. S+ M

  l* O! A1 p* `5 mdue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 8 s/ Y  A4 r5 S1 @

( m5 n: {/ Z+ w6 |3 N! b  P- F& @- Oweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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. Y& o! S; J+ B, X, O: o" ]! m9 OThe teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes 8 O5 |, e  F7 K8 I2 c, A

$ r/ H) H# U0 c; B6 Ywith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and , G* F! L$ u; }& s0 d
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started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through ) T0 [7 t  D9 Q! e' @! x! v
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having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. $ ^2 V4 c" W" i9 f
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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( K' L( u! ]/ y$ `your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred 1 \7 _9 {2 u; G  v. k

3 k) P3 x' e7 s; O! _: b% {will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever
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% e% S( P; l4 I9 W* H4 Xyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just . i% v- o* H' b* \7 z6 S. a& @
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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it is something you do for yourself.
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Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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