Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

3 v9 V" z& w; ^% R; [While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

, g# H; W* b* u* F/ O1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
; S/ v" t* e7 KTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

' H; h, ~& A, I$ Y1 L- e* B2.        Speak up when she’s good
; X5 S/ d, C3 }" oIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

2 d7 X& w6 p" T  e; i% h3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
  a+ s* \6 l% d" k3 F- QTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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