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# R5 u5 K# @4 u$ l- u! a> What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line,
* X8 H2 U! j( G8 ]% l> there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the
( Z# p) D& _7 ]& P$ Y> same choice?
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> At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children,
K# s' u6 h1 W1 O- E/ @> the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be, ~* i l! h/ O& m+ O% F
> forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated
) E4 }, ^! m/ \5 _2 F> staff, he offered a question:
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> 'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is
! h9 ~$ z# ~ W> done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other8 X- a' \7 z+ ^9 W% D
> children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the
* L& I. ]0 d. _' b6 `3 Q> natural order of things in my son?'
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> The audience was stilled by the query.
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> The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, physically
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> true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people. W/ s" |; ^: L) B* V
> treat that child.'/ i+ k& Y# q- b0 x, } h
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% T5 O: J- U& a# k( A% [7 x% Z> Then he told the following story:
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> Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were; e- s: E" o' b3 I
> playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' Shay's
! _/ d! X" L8 e$ U4 ~6 F> father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their
3 b: E4 g3 w/ X' E& x> team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play,7 c6 X k! W% P+ K# B. t0 p$ q2 J9 e
> it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be$ S O8 f( c* l' K+ ], m8 D
> accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.7 _2 U+ W3 H6 l. x$ S
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> Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not
# p& N. J- Z, Q, u9 {> expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and
& }3 z( i" U0 @4 M ]7 e$ M> said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I7 X' R/ d) K7 {+ Z% F4 O3 w
> guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth
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> Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a0 d0 a5 V# G8 O2 S2 w! [& z
> team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in* d% f6 K& @: M- b/ W1 Q4 e
> his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the
, {% r% V5 A1 V/ a X> bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still3 m# G. ]/ P* G: A, `; G
> behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and: h5 v1 r7 {( _5 U7 v
> played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was3 C. M+ \* u6 I" o8 t/ C6 j% y y
> obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from0 c4 q* ^! N- W+ s
> ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the4 M9 i; T: Y: L, V
> ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases Q( Y4 s) e& l9 ?7 I' u) a6 r
> loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be9 k. _3 N* m9 [' D6 Y) Q
> next at bat.
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> At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the
, b+ O* C: o1 F+ ]# }/ \0 Z2 d7 d> game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat Everyone knew that a hit was all/ e6 r4 d5 t9 {0 ^' P& \
> but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly,# n2 E- w9 h6 n( D) @
> much less connect with the ball.
[8 g, z+ v' x# a/ P0 Y# h, [/ {1 p> However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the
4 h) c0 F4 N& _- D& C; e> other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved
% R- }, T; ?3 m$ V, D! n' g/ t8 _$ o9 x> in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make
8 d0 M, w A) S. S1 u> contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The
- B8 x( W5 l5 W$ t$ f> pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.
; b+ Q# j$ U% Q" J; G4 }> As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball" P! J( F2 |4 S; P
> right back to the pitcher. D# V" U, v! D) Y! k
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> The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and; v7 S8 y7 [- V, i i* S
> could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been- N; L |: x F. i {3 G
> out and that would have been the end of the game.
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) N6 h% v% B* J1 m" K/ j> Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out8 e8 o. d! O8 d* W& Y* r
> of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started1 x. z" V( c. k' E8 }
> yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!' Never in his life had Shay ever, A6 j, Q% H# J4 b6 y
> run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline,
% ]7 h/ j+ Q/ q2 E% Y$ V> wide-eyed and startled.
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# s# j8 W4 Z% m, Y$ ?> Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!' Catching his breath, Shay
- ?4 f9 b: S5 H% g! I> awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the/ s) _/ |* G' r0 i" R' {# t
> base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had
# I0 i9 \- z Z5 o) r8 G/ V3 j> the ball ... The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to
6 [( m3 h2 G/ P& ~> be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the' V! U d1 J& A7 Z
> second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intention So he,
: W* |- _3 r8 ~5 {3 Z6 o( H> too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's" a) ]! X# s% }* t4 \' X i, S
> head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him
6 t8 m. u" C' V) L* J3 @> circled the bases toward home.4 A) f f, g0 S: ~4 f$ v5 z* l
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0 l R# t x! e8 M4 K! D. L) e> All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'! f! V2 f; \0 ?
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; G$ v5 l1 ~! z; |. G9 P" A4 F, s: O> Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by2 [8 J4 R8 v8 \5 B
> turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!/ b$ P1 K9 z' L4 {2 q* ]# {
> Shay, run to third!'& R' ]% u8 ]" Y; L" d
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+ z9 ]5 I. O8 h9 d& y( L> As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on
! o/ U8 d# [- {, Q> their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!' Shay ran to home, stepped% [4 O: n0 u7 ~, E6 a! Q* z
> on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the
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1 K) S7 L' b5 T k1 p! ^2 e7 U) T> 'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face,; y) \3 Q, c% J+ l
> 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity
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> Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never; @2 L3 B; p) ~6 Y( C" @
> forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and
5 g% d3 B6 V7 G% q' j2 K2 ], @> seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!. c ^+ k8 H; I. ]' p
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0 j4 n4 L1 L! [ Y2 }0 w> AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes9 v5 ]* O( x, z, W
> through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending
: M* N. ^1 U9 M& M5 @" C1 H> messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude, vulgar, and often( I, u8 u1 N# n' g
> obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency
3 f4 ?, U0 _# H# |# l) k> is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces.4 C& h) I! W: ?& Z5 c$ g
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> If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're
/ L& M, r6 M5 a4 f E> probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the
2 o# W: A8 {3 U" d+ H- f2 D> 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who- I3 `3 @3 V! d- x
> sent you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have/ G! n+ |! U9 O" r: U' O
> thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the 'natural- b0 F5 Q7 q% E: F& {
> order of things.' So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people
0 V) U( M5 p! E7 C> present us with a choice: Do we pass along a little spark of love and* B1 S8 k# V; Z
> humanity or do we pass up those opportunities and leave the world a little5 k7 ? k& g% u" y6 `' ?# v
> bit colder in the process?
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! j P5 T; w1 g# v$ q6 |: q> A wise man once said every society is judged by* o$ P f! D! Y
> how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them.
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> You now have two choices:5 [- Z h; m0 ~, D
> 1. Delete! E- W- U+ R4 E1 D
> 2. Forward0 ~0 M! ?" w. {9 i+ c
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> May your day, be a Shay Day. |
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