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Sometimes people come into your life4 J7 g6 h+ U2 N7 \. k; P% h2 Z0 e! e
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
% X; J( F' N* w- m/ nto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,# D1 \7 P1 C) ^* n3 y
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.8 h6 g$ X g, ^5 z7 y
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- ?2 L# c# J( L8 r) ZYou never know who these people may be4 D% t9 @1 n1 H7 v9 m
but when you lock eyes with them,
+ A/ y( A+ c, Ayou know at that very moment,! R; W+ S, a8 f. v3 i- _6 J i9 K. K
: `" h& e; w0 l/ B5 K0 `They will affect your life in some profound way- e f1 g1 [6 ^9 T
2 v/ A; e2 w7 r; z8 k9 e1 K$ p$ {They may seem like a godsend, and they are!+ E+ _; x Z5 j7 A: x
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
2 Y8 d4 |! z* {Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.! n: P$ ~& ]: `% {- R0 I
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.5 b+ D- v% C) D% g/ @' h2 Y
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.
& p0 Z( f5 ]$ j; `2 c6 M. h8 FAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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, }# e0 C3 s3 L% SThen people come into your life for a REASON p% O8 C+ R0 Q. k
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 l0 `+ ], y4 }They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
* `/ w$ G! u4 c7 x6 @$ p0 s- C# i6 EThey may teach you something you have never done.% W8 a, c g* {7 [# D- ?" [
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.. K5 b; z- ~ z6 [! G
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:9 A4 z$ ~' Z! J5 d' a8 S0 l
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,5 f1 _- P) n& ^8 X
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
# G4 }- U4 Q2 F5 N& ^5 yEverything happens for a reason.2 v6 f* b: C) s
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.+ F0 S% J; M9 r2 X/ t
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
) u( P; D4 ]; y0 x3 Z# Zand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
# d0 i' t. M3 n. g) U- ^You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
) u. \+ ]/ j) X6 ZIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,9 Z0 Y2 N! R, `
for they have helped you learn about trust! K4 }2 ?: ]. B2 s: e4 `) f
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
# l1 j+ d3 J" ?% k1 n% \: x" |( pIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,& d! y$ E7 b; S( h# L2 K2 `7 z
Try to love them back unconditionally,* c, Q1 U1 p# X; a3 K [
not only because they love you, but because in a way,! V, G) j$ b) j0 s; p- _
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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5 g* @3 j* h7 i0 E7 Q1 aThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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6 C5 x0 _) E V: P5 a% {and a time to every purpose under the sun.4 q, x3 J/ N- ^6 J! D1 n# J" B
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
7 u/ w* N: [' I6 N$ \3 vand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
2 D% b& }* A: Q& z+ e+ x$ Q( oGod's grace is as a healing hand.
; s- _" A8 E! I2 PAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
' A2 {. p7 a0 k% Pthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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