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7 I) p7 W8 }1 q: b- T: w& g& qSometimes people come into your life
; U, Y- N2 F: M4 J# dyou know right away that they were meant to be there,, ?" j, J9 w: p! m' t& r6 @
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,6 F# B0 z1 v# X2 `
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.. k% e" B( N- {1 E9 N# [) m
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7 [1 V6 G6 [9 P. ~- QYou never know who these people may be0 ~3 y/ ?# ]9 @
but when you lock eyes with them,
; \! Q1 P* }! K0 n9 n2 @you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!& b( }$ B, H& e, p/ X% ^
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
" Y- U" w/ R/ N0 E& p) P& C/ NThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time, O: S! ^' b2 }/ x
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
" O1 e5 S' l) g# X! j7 y" X7 oSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away./ s0 F- H% O- y( N- {
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,. H% |' r% C, k; ^
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.7 w& y; G/ A/ M+ E$ ?! K# v
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
/ T. x% p# `( G! z& Y% t. e- P8 nAnd now it is time for you to move on.2 C7 o& P3 ?" ], W$ D% j( G" a
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0 _7 S1 R L: L$ T! ?Then people come into your life for a REASON
9 L" l7 o: B+ m& C& x' jBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
; D% n; O4 \# T7 [They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
( d& _5 s* o$ B' i. AThey may teach you something you have never done.: U& K6 ]# W( x' O: t& V0 S6 Z
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
9 T, y4 z4 s$ y0 T! p% V" FBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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2 _+ p4 O3 B- u% yLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:6 D/ z+ k, m" u( v5 v" }' ?! ]$ L2 w
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
- A# N7 Z7 f5 h, H) W8 V1 a0 rPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
% {" V' B4 p* ZEverything happens for a reason.
1 p7 A6 u- i: |Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
8 s3 ^* f: j: |+ B# g2 Y/ BIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
G/ Z2 r2 R: k& @6 Z4 a# hand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
+ M( i0 p* I) C7 CYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ P" [/ G+ T5 x! b
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
1 V8 H8 T$ u& }- Q4 F- hfor they have helped you learn about trust0 T6 o+ T* e' Y! r. n* }
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.% f% c$ `0 |6 x; Y# [$ ]) S
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,% f* l8 Y& A6 [# O4 }
Try to love them back unconditionally,9 n7 u N; U) d5 V( ^+ j
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
4 g* j, R; b0 V( g1 athey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.0 D5 ^1 j: e9 U# K! q: C$ |
. m7 d) d4 p0 _% LThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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5 O1 W/ I% G0 c' Iand a time to every purpose under the sun.
! B, K) n! y8 `4 H' T% T" _A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
) P+ |$ `! l5 B& b: s hand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."/ W3 g, f# t3 o7 [: o. O: s
God's grace is as a healing hand.5 I! q% M. M; M/ C- i8 s' R
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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