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Sometimes people come into your life2 h6 z; V) X# e i& S" i
you know right away that they were meant to be there,/ x; q) ]4 z+ v2 n3 j% L
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,! z B( }, k0 ~. |& Y$ K
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.! j* o/ `4 ^3 b0 `0 x
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You never know who these people may be2 t$ @: {. H& p- J
but when you lock eyes with them,! o: z2 J# K* E: B! `
you know at that very moment,
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; p- b4 _0 U# ?They will affect your life in some profound way% j" `! R% X5 L
- Y% o0 E% Q+ U4 IThey may seem like a godsend, and they are! L/ N4 M( a; N
They are there for the reason you need them to be.+ `, z: O3 Y5 z/ k) L
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
l% v% f1 }# y4 q& l# L" Y. J9 TSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.8 E5 q3 H2 E+ G
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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; F4 n* ^( C/ P( r/ g% p0 rWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
/ B5 Z# Y3 ~& Y8 V( Y1 O2 Zour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
V" u h, y+ uThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
7 \, B' G2 F# r# Y) Z, W6 DAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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$ A; J/ h% s2 t( P$ RThen people come into your life for a REASON+ ]) t& T" ]. }
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
: A G2 N5 y/ y6 XThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
2 F# ^: r; L, O1 S7 e4 p$ xThey may teach you something you have never done.
9 I: a: ]& n/ y9 [They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.6 y4 }% ~1 L% y( H+ [
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:# X' r5 I9 s/ `. V: {9 @' y N
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,) V) Q4 \3 a; n5 T
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
- `* S( L ~. G4 j& K' m0 p* DEverything happens for a reason.7 `9 e4 T% @; W, h: c* X& C% Z
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.7 M: r" M0 h4 i2 f, B" s9 y
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
9 X) Z* ?9 X4 L; q+ X6 yand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.6 j. b# B- ] ]) v# E
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7 W1 \/ ?6 S- N9 v0 E9 W* c& ]If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
) J$ W/ |1 N* NYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,& {. y( w( e- W, v
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,, B5 j$ a" z$ q' ?- K
for they have helped you learn about trust
8 S; @0 _7 H( hand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
4 L1 z1 a( S, N2 B2 d h1 WIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,0 Z" i& r/ ~3 T
Try to love them back unconditionally,! ?" |, O" {' x+ |- e
not only because they love you, but because in a way,7 c* b+ F* T* @! p
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.: I, N: ?% g9 ]
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
0 r: h1 G: `7 q' ]7 b3 I% Xand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."* y$ d0 U- t8 f0 }$ j
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost) l3 t& i+ l* F6 J( K- S' l
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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