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Sometimes people come into your life- F" B, s8 b; {& u0 ^
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
0 a$ y# G. ]( x& c$ oto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
: {! k6 A' y) s4 r5 ?$ A9 sor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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; X9 D+ m3 U+ P1 L9 Q, IYou never know who these people may be
7 a- D3 L6 _ D! ]' cbut when you lock eyes with them,( ]5 ^" n; B4 O6 l
you know at that very moment,
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. c" M; S8 X1 h3 Q! z ^% EThey will affect your life in some profound way
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) k ?, d, w1 f+ r; J2 K) jThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!, E/ Y( u ^* q4 ~
They are there for the reason you need them to be.0 T8 B' S& H- ~( v% Y
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.: k& O% h o" q4 \* V( u
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
2 L6 E# d' B+ Z4 K2 z4 Q' v: VSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
9 F3 t, t& I( T: {9 `- P# A+ j' }our desire fulfilled, their work is done.9 E) b- z+ e. m5 s$ q, p: o
The prayer you sent up has been answered.+ }" S8 W8 o1 [
And now it is time for you to move on.. r5 O: l) r# p) h( b
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
7 h! S1 Y1 T+ W8 W) K8 bBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
2 e8 M! L4 s) D( w3 xThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
2 d# c4 ]3 Q0 F' e6 i5 R; PThey may teach you something you have never done., L$ R& p a$ d; e1 t0 f
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
+ Z5 q' p$ I7 \ L- ^Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦8 z8 @; M! h, c
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
' P' \0 D* {: V& yYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,7 R8 }3 f$ @. b3 [% }$ [ s; W
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
/ c( v: |6 b1 \0 N1 J5 eEverything happens for a reason.
, y, h: X/ c0 T& |# WNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
3 \! c1 @% {! R' MIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,2 ]" ]7 N8 M6 _2 t: x' z' ~
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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; P3 t% C9 ?# m* ? \. iIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
4 N, k$ h- t& n2 M0 Tfor they have helped you learn about trust. j9 ]0 f) M$ { a, Y0 p( d7 f" u
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
: t0 O! v! d7 J. OIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
" V. _" @& Q% s9 F+ L$ r5 cTry to love them back unconditionally,! m1 T& a* O: D$ W2 Y! A
not only because they love you, but because in a way,6 b" q, c* C, d1 z5 m( C5 Z8 r
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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1 d/ \7 u& M5 t5 p+ x8 `The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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/ o) ~# y1 B* }, K$ B) d6 _and a time to every purpose under the sun.
( _9 C) Y C8 A% ]4 iA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,% z% K! A+ K& H( U
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
: h( L. \. P4 B* n% cGod's grace is as a healing hand. q- M! z" X# i0 R M: \/ I
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
6 _. i; {3 o3 N: K; P* Kthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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