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Sometimes people come into your life& d& s3 M: Z6 ^9 G
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
/ D8 Y+ T3 K! g. fto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,& \/ ~( n4 J! ?' U1 m
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be& m% y0 o) U; s& @9 F, h
but when you lock eyes with them,, d2 F m. l& j- A2 E8 |: x
you know at that very moment,* H! h; j+ P1 Z) X+ W: V6 R! S
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
1 t ?1 H) F3 w9 x( [. h) L$ NThey are there for the reason you need them to be.; O$ n+ @, [! d/ A3 }& r, E5 h
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end., g& K7 T# y( k9 Q0 f
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.) `/ H( ]/ B; ]6 p" y0 W6 O
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,# o- h( P r6 u
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.2 ~8 A% u8 S* W; V( g/ i% k
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
& Z% Z( D3 b' ~7 q+ m+ hAnd now it is time for you to move on.! u2 P& O9 _% i# G. G& c
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8 u- F3 U: r3 a9 g5 z) M/ PThen people come into your life for a REASON+ g: ~& }2 E& s& I6 E. v& K
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
4 L! J/ f. B& x0 u, G1 L. gThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.7 x; o, m0 f7 ^# A3 X# F
They may teach you something you have never done.$ S8 T& r( y2 L9 J, k. N& w
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
: X$ d4 H4 `7 H' UBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
! P( N4 r! |$ OYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
2 D7 T/ _2 L" t9 u' k H! [) fPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
; s* ?6 \# k% l& ~Everything happens for a reason.7 u3 F" o+ Z6 P3 I
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.* K: O/ u) _9 F2 F, {3 D0 P
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
8 ~5 b+ M( G1 @ k8 g4 n5 ~and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,; k5 e$ f& V" v- ^
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
2 Y) Z6 q. L- O' T. }( D( Y% W. AIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.* t8 G# j8 {$ s, e
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
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not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, G a/ O; f+ z7 K
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."1 ?; I3 p' [$ b
God's grace is as a healing hand.
! k5 h/ t6 u; s0 P @5 f! t: r9 yAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
1 @* q( D! m! R4 T6 jthe warm memories and love for those we have lost% E5 H1 ^0 n' e$ D$ w$ }
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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