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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life
, l9 a. A8 c: V) v& }6 U/ J. Uyou know right away that they were meant to be there,0 G) m, W# S3 @! v
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,3 \* z& T6 v, g7 `4 q/ x
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
. B/ s$ I" r3 k8 Qbut when you lock eyes with them,1 c8 m' L/ G2 y8 y
you know at that very moment,
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' n7 x7 N! i! C( D1 u) fThey will affect your life in some profound way
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; C+ |! ~( h* u+ S, B( qThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
3 B- M! ^0 h- q* B kThey are there for the reason you need them to be.$ ~7 X) p& o( D! j
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,, ^0 x+ _6 j* P" k7 s) H
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.7 H m& b1 d% _0 a. I
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.6 H$ b/ d# p# d% t8 `! X+ a4 W* J
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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4 r$ v2 T1 I, g* E: e/ Y# F. wWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,( u$ M- O* w) p+ C- E
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
% v( V/ f# M: ?& d0 DThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
; T! g) d3 y" }6 A& BAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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% N* ?- o8 m" Y! ^Then people come into your life for a REASON( a( F" V& E, m/ \
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.6 q4 |: m* Z$ _9 k7 P6 d
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.% k. D2 |+ H( [6 \" `# Q
They may teach you something you have never done.9 s! z5 V) x2 C/ E( O
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. h! H2 D! v8 b7 M" a
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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& b0 m# @$ E& M: n" JLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:4 n' ^2 O& d4 @. W# t
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
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, I5 R/ u8 y1 K; F9 ^ XEverything happens for a reason.0 S3 p4 A8 v5 Y4 t) w5 Y& t8 h, {
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.5 f* Z4 m1 b. _# g9 u! ]& t* U. Z
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,, i6 L7 y0 q0 L
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.2 } O+ r8 c0 x7 j) o
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$ b( P$ Q3 B9 c$ p- h3 UIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
- s' r% G$ f# g6 N% H6 yfor they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
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not only because they love you, but because in a way,) v2 }! }' J: X: v
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.6 u/ m7 n2 t5 P! K! o- n# F% D4 c
+ |" N& h: Y- R- I n/ h, G( G Z6 fThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,2 {: _8 I9 z' K. |% ~: A
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
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and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."! t* {+ n) U; h1 W
God's grace is as a healing hand.
& U& S9 f- E# p$ u3 A1 hAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
/ F2 }( X9 A# d9 O ithe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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