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~SOMETIMES~
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, t& a- m2 g) |; A) cSometimes people come into your life
6 W8 o3 }! B2 x, S- qyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
8 J& G) r$ c- N$ j- e8 L6 P6 rto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,- F# ]$ k- _9 ]7 X1 t+ ]
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.* Q. E! j7 Y" p8 I$ ?
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3 W% D8 |- m( t+ {You never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,$ {. }( E( I5 \5 ]/ N h
1 V2 A7 a2 G+ f- n% `4 G* @They will affect your life in some profound way
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# |# Y8 [$ q$ c/ R0 [+ {' @( y+ vThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
% \% c0 F" T% ], @9 X& _1 g6 V4 v, _1 aThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
7 Q; t, r7 x4 z9 C3 tThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,$ G$ Z, C/ d z# b5 o
) C0 Z* n/ X# }: x; L1 |* yThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.+ H( m1 {7 P6 v
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.. L1 X: A/ q7 Q" F1 P2 n
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.) d: T% f3 T e) n
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,: d6 C4 i) L# ^4 w
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
. i- Z, o! U; Y2 U9 YThe prayer you sent up has been answered.8 [$ [7 j: s& S# t, F1 a3 M
And now it is time for you to move on.2 y' W$ ~# C" d1 a/ X- ^7 b
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
1 d; a. u8 {& h' j% @Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.. D! B3 B3 q) t9 ~
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.& S+ L+ {- Z( V& m" Z$ O
They may teach you something you have never done., W$ s0 F3 C1 J2 Z5 f7 D# \
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.: d: z8 s- C Y5 o8 L: X4 }/ V2 L
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦& I7 u+ Q( c; H
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0 w/ G; @/ C5 BLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
# {$ R& o4 G+ V4 CYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,: v% z. a# p R$ A0 E& t* G
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
& R" k2 S& M. ^! T$ D4 _2 aEverything happens for a reason.
& t# L) }' G+ e$ W& T/ d1 e" JNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.; d. ~/ P: Q4 D( A4 V0 w4 `
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
# D; J: _) W9 \1 r- C5 ?and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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E ?( ]/ E. l& w% TIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,3 E) z: ?" c; u6 W
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,0 `; d* G7 k& l( P
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,7 ^0 F9 F! M$ E) d. t6 h: e+ N- r
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,3 J( W4 M# u& _7 ^ f
Try to love them back unconditionally,
0 u2 ^' I+ Y( Qnot only because they love you, but because in a way,; i+ o/ W; P4 a/ S# W
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,; r5 Q/ T1 r6 \! p1 o& D
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
2 B5 ]" g0 a% o& z: \A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
% P# y4 F4 ?/ U: E# m& _, eand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."0 X5 i. v% F" ~
God's grace is as a healing hand.
; }" B0 L; H4 V7 HAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
% E% C" d5 \! z3 g4 Q. w* ithe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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