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7 i( ]0 n( S- f~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life
2 F: l5 a+ t8 ~" ~you know right away that they were meant to be there,
! j/ j$ W# }! M3 ^" F7 | ]to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,- n/ g1 L# l1 |4 [5 k C6 d
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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N+ P, k4 U, e& oYou never know who these people may be
( x6 d8 M- z5 `% d! ?but when you lock eyes with them,5 B7 p9 Q# S3 \! h5 L- a
you know at that very moment,
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8 f% U1 Q1 |" s0 j2 E: xThey will affect your life in some profound way2 C. w7 f6 h9 B5 D9 u
3 _ ^6 L, M( V! c9 ~% h OThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
) {$ e( H4 g3 _( TThey are there for the reason you need them to be.( O# \; P8 S: W/ \! n g7 U3 T0 F p
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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* R9 O- x) V5 `: u; ZThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
6 A; V% P9 ?) p0 H7 T: tSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
- I5 Z% {2 J# V& q7 D; P" `Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.# W0 T- h g- w) R. Z" G4 p
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,, p8 d0 }" g1 {
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.2 L, \+ F! z" q3 z
The prayer you sent up has been answered., _9 F6 j- o) q3 f- H
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON6 N$ w7 O0 T* j2 S8 a
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
. X5 E V: Y1 [: a0 H8 E3 HThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
) U- m4 A0 t& M/ SThey may teach you something you have never done.
9 @1 ~+ _+ d# L, x) iThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
- \) }) q$ c' S- ?! V- SBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:/ Q% ]) a1 G+ ]* L2 ^% t& ?
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
7 D3 s' D$ B! x! b; b% QPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.6 D# N: R& s7 q
Everything happens for a reason.
( n) [& z5 [/ ~3 e* oNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
8 i$ T2 z4 y8 R) _& _: }$ wIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,, _' a" t/ C: o8 ?% u; b. w1 C
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
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Try to love them back unconditionally,
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they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.9 w' L% H- P6 ^; D m4 N2 g3 L
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,8 O8 q L6 A6 M9 h% U
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.' k1 L7 C% U6 \0 T) _/ H I- `
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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5 x5 L' j1 o: g# z: \( DGod's grace is as a healing hand.2 Z7 K: {( [& O4 |8 x4 |
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
! N! F, g% U" f" T, r6 d9 e- w( H7 gthe warm memories and love for those we have lost* \8 q7 n- m. S) ]* ~+ { S7 \
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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