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/ T8 s6 h9 \. u/ uSometimes people come into your life1 Z- w# ~/ J7 V5 }0 ]
you know right away that they were meant to be there,% u2 L h( K; e( g3 c6 i0 j
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
! {# e: Q$ r" q( [. X3 s4 v% Z [or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.5 g7 i: d g- F8 t. m. L: s9 A
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/ z" K9 H4 J3 m- ?You never know who these people may be. d( K( [3 N0 W& z; u6 }
but when you lock eyes with them,# t8 r. q, v* \
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way9 l* V0 H8 R' m* a! P
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!" U5 f7 r$ f0 c/ B& v/ m0 f
They are there for the reason you need them to be.! e6 m* J: ~( @( n: T' @
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
, o7 S- P# w9 A- [Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.' k2 Q2 \ L% q6 b5 ]2 Z/ ?- b8 f! M. Z
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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W/ i' D% b ~# n, k. sWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,+ o- z! `9 D0 U4 `1 N' J: F
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
# Y3 w; o8 _; b$ DThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
6 H. U5 m7 \5 }& D9 p* CAnd now it is time for you to move on.) E6 T: {; M0 e( |6 a# O2 W
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
) }' V, U* _* c. X) BBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
6 ]% B# U" r' Q. u! ~They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh. ^+ E$ j& o; ^, S$ L2 r2 n, \+ n+ f
They may teach you something you have never done.
3 u5 ~: g/ T3 lThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.6 h5 [0 h& t' E9 y* } N! x( w2 P
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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, ~$ ^6 i# i u k/ ?+ z. K3 a HLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:. i9 N8 y' e5 }" }5 t
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
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Everything happens for a reason.
, z* ]6 L; ^) @$ {. w3 HNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.) b% F! L8 E) X
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
& z' [: K7 x4 y! Tand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.: s: l. A9 E1 |& O4 q
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
; A/ }8 x d$ B) S/ ^- eYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
/ m: \& C! S: C3 |# L* S9 m9 U# UIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
$ v; U3 q0 s% x8 c+ t3 }; [2 z% G; Sfor they have helped you learn about trust4 i+ O8 t& U' { e Q& }
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart. v+ l# D: O4 j' ^& P
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
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not only because they love you, but because in a way,
3 H4 d# H) A! u1 x! {& P( rthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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% J7 Y. b( i* [7 Band a time to every purpose under the sun.
+ O6 R" }, z3 ]; CA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
' D) Z! |& T" i9 Xand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
: I3 V( Q& f, Q7 p( FGod's grace is as a healing hand.
- k2 A0 i% Q0 u4 yAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
8 n4 J- t3 `3 Q( \4 s1 t3 `) dthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
0 `. \, W4 ?' z, Y, vwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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