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1 O# ]; z+ I, rSometimes people come into your life
8 g5 H0 o( t4 [you know right away that they were meant to be there,
, v- g5 X8 E2 o2 p3 w& \ pto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
4 N# }9 r }' {( g3 wor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
; f2 x" p6 x% c7 F# [( tbut when you lock eyes with them,
( z5 {1 N/ E$ Y. p4 w, q1 y3 W4 Oyou know at that very moment,( Q! U) O+ y8 B/ X7 o. k
! y! n n% n% @. [They will affect your life in some profound way
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- K i8 v5 H _% d3 Y; }They may seem like a godsend, and they are!4 H! A/ \" M1 x& Y0 w3 v! Z% c
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
' G0 R. n: G, W( ^4 L. F; yThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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* ^. a$ c2 Y* C& v8 R& h% EThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.- \0 c6 g6 E5 g. g
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
5 ?9 w m9 Q* ? w6 P6 WSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.: H W' A0 Z/ j) X& q3 ?
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
2 `; h C8 Q6 Y$ ^! v) j* Tour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
" ~; C* d; ]6 S& `The prayer you sent up has been answered.
( |. `. N8 [: c: g( B* KAnd now it is time for you to move on.2 D/ H5 H8 g5 u! {% p: P( A
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Then people come into your life for a REASON, _ A$ J: H+ m! |; G" z1 W
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.6 g% A! Z6 W4 g# _5 u- J. p
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.0 y) L w1 q( Z+ g- _5 J: f. c
They may teach you something you have never done.7 T; r. ?9 b. U" l7 @# w
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
* `3 G7 Y' Y( c" PBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦& m. Z( Q M$ i
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t. E, V) ~/ B" G9 K+ S2 R/ i1 HLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
9 M* n( o! g/ n( i: [8 z1 aYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
( M: F, |: T# b! p ^0 R, lPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
* J! b$ b+ W* LEverything happens for a reason.
( I) y; _4 y8 |Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.! f! e; h9 g( h- x
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
' N* H/ P9 S7 _4 ]6 A3 ]and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul./ P) v' z) v0 B I; i& N* k
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2 I. @1 n$ c. p& j4 t2 M( ^6 N. ^If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,0 s: Y M0 ~& O( a9 A
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,: ?7 A3 `. r' ~) c2 r7 ~4 |
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,3 j1 E& S; }; e" C% r
for they have helped you learn about trust
) v& P' N0 ]5 v5 U2 Pand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.2 f, Q5 w8 p) S6 l. a4 a- A( {& x
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
* _" D8 j2 ]5 g3 yTry to love them back unconditionally,
/ `! f+ E/ l {not only because they love you, but because in a way,
7 @& k9 t O8 r! Q* k3 fthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,. W8 n2 R1 Z1 w' B, U
9 W# N4 L b8 j; Aand a time to every purpose under the sun.$ q% J8 V$ W) x6 b K7 M
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,; A) G4 m& g; s) i5 p
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
* }2 O+ C& C3 g: Y" m9 p; d0 ?God's grace is as a healing hand.
. q' O+ {4 Z2 Q0 N$ w+ {As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
1 A1 d+ \* q% x9 F; X4 i) Rthe warm memories and love for those we have lost( n. X" t' R; o& p
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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