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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life
7 d2 x: n; G" M1 F6 P3 u* Tyou know right away that they were meant to be there,2 ?0 a8 f- @) `0 A( k$ L% E
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
) S% w+ ^, p5 tor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be7 l, U; z4 n$ _: I5 t/ e) C- f$ s/ {
but when you lock eyes with them,2 F9 h* r: y) V; P/ o: F: V/ u
you know at that very moment,
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5 V. j. j( J" V, N% S8 QThey will affect your life in some profound way1 _9 E. P& ?- O k
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
2 z' H6 V, I( M& X6 K9 jThey are there for the reason you need them to be.$ e4 n( q g- u
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.$ X9 `0 p3 {7 ?
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
) {" ]$ h0 n1 @" I- T$ XSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.& C" d% i8 b1 e# f
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8 W& F& ^& u. \) l9 F% NWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,7 b9 w. f; j! g
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.- N; t" }5 v. W8 i: Q& P
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
. |0 p! _5 n+ rAnd now it is time for you to move on.; A: `' G" k E7 ~" p+ \ g' A' G2 H
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Then people come into your life for a REASON* ]6 o( d% T. X( a9 m
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn./ }$ e9 Y! Q5 w0 `* L |7 I; l" t
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.. f) S" b r# Q# u! A/ J' t
They may teach you something you have never done.
4 a3 m8 x9 I/ d( j# ?4 @They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
0 w+ d, P \' o+ f! P# h( gBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦ u' Z$ t7 k; q! h7 X
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7 Y$ F$ F( a% K' ^) [# s$ A; q2 Y) hLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: S1 P) J' Q' B- j
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
/ y) N: m {# M9 a% k2 @8 x) [Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
* l% V( ^: A9 h' |. NEverything happens for a reason.
; a2 T1 j! e# |6 CNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.' l& K2 m0 _. f: y9 _$ D& v5 u
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,* O h" n7 o3 Y5 l" T- X
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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8 H% G: r) E& V+ ~If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful," F6 d1 [0 Q8 w( A' J$ r# r
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
0 z$ w7 X2 t: k" D5 {1 i8 kIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
1 u, B( ]$ I' R+ g8 C" tfor they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
" V/ ^. e t# h% n1 _Try to love them back unconditionally,
: k$ |5 _/ |- s+ P1 N Lnot only because they love you, but because in a way,2 v2 e. {7 p% h- z' F9 J" Q
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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4 d8 k. f' n/ {. b1 v6 T$ U6 g7 l$ ^The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
; Q, d3 x F. ]8 nA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
6 l, S2 c$ P3 }9 {4 iand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
: V4 s1 b3 W5 c2 N9 }God's grace is as a healing hand.0 O7 K" S, F' u: Y3 U$ {7 v" y" |0 Y3 P
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,4 K, f( u+ u; u1 ?' Z
the warm memories and love for those we have lost! P* I* I6 O. ` X( |
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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