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Sometimes people come into your life# w8 ^8 ]! w) L) i
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
5 a# \' y4 M8 Z7 D2 u( z; Cto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,1 i0 \9 \' e. X7 z' \; _2 p3 [
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
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) c) ~& b x7 u/ D8 Lyou know at that very moment,
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, L- B( M# G2 H6 S+ e4 B9 s3 @They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
* }5 M# @: N+ l% b& XThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
: x' |) ^9 M+ p4 }3 Z# l) o$ F8 ~1 {Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.+ ^8 ?8 i' n' D$ M1 G# R% E/ n" A" s
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
) [7 J; F' B5 ] w4 P3 ^5 W g2 PSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.
+ s) @9 o/ m4 a4 w! Y6 z2 h8 V0 wAnd now it is time for you to move on.# V# b3 S; R3 v6 _4 x. Q# {8 O
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5 z1 c- k3 k8 H$ l) t7 E! h$ q9 BThen people come into your life for a REASON( o( M2 K* z1 C. ^6 j" o
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
L0 q9 W4 g; ^; L' gThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
/ @% ^4 x8 t+ Z! a' q2 }1 v; \7 HThey may teach you something you have never done.7 x5 T" [& X+ }- q" k I2 M+ k3 ~
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.8 }$ y, z* E5 X7 D; n/ p
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ R1 y) P- ]0 Y! v4 C! ]7 `' s4 s+ y
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
: t3 n: r) I+ Z/ bYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
1 Q5 r p# e" |* M: w0 b( ]Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
) m8 U0 N7 p+ bEverything happens for a reason." C, S9 K' M( g7 N
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
. C* B: ]. F" L* T* E9 QIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,: _3 t U, r2 W" ]+ z' H
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,, x+ a" H% G) [! X2 O# {& Q
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure, H; W* U; |% v1 B7 X. G% |
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
2 `2 O; u% J' x, `: @& g# U1 yfor they have helped you learn about trust* L4 [8 H6 q5 ^- M0 ?: R& g
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart. P7 }0 ]0 V5 u; ]5 F
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,4 r0 t' F( y4 {9 u- R
Try to love them back unconditionally,3 S4 n! T3 t) k3 W$ c- |( W5 R
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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# j1 {7 K6 L8 x. L" H" NThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
% y, ?' J% h5 J2 r! R. ^A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
' g2 f3 A6 T0 j) _# A+ h, T2 c. ~and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."# J( T# U1 C: e; U- d' g
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost# Q8 o9 ^4 [/ ]0 A! O1 _- {
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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