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2 V, x! x/ N2 Z2 `~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life8 x, E# m% k# o$ I1 a) i, ~! ?
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
5 s6 A- {, Y/ t& Xto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,7 z( h: S5 p' J8 z: r
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
$ D) D8 ?, |1 E' J; O3 z$ R" wbut when you lock eyes with them,2 U& T2 o' ]3 }# n& f1 H! s. |
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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9 A. P; W }/ D4 g& z1 |" A: Q% U/ HThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
/ G; H n! b7 \2 H- X0 E; TThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
( B& ^; E3 ~4 ?/ M7 \Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,7 {8 L/ W+ U; y8 X7 t% |" ^
7 o# X9 w2 r, Y: fThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.# L1 Y% E, ]9 ?# I' g0 S/ o
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
) o/ }! a7 y7 ]6 f6 hSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,$ X4 Y7 n8 L) W( \* d* j
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.2 C- h4 u! M5 B1 i3 u4 J; L
The prayer you sent up has been answered.! J: j" B3 q5 l2 q0 u
And now it is time for you to move on.) S4 y* _) C0 A; s P
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! N) s$ h: o2 F4 ]( _, v4 AThen people come into your life for a REASON$ j. t/ I7 d+ d. I3 K9 x/ D8 E$ Q
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.. ?7 Y3 Z9 |- g9 r4 I
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.! E% f I" O, e H ?- }
They may teach you something you have never done.
: y T& F, u+ D! Z5 KThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.! j& `0 t7 v6 ~/ G2 Z
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦& G) I3 k& n6 Q1 N' L& c
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
8 I, y Y A E5 r, \7 R8 L5 ]Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
" N+ a7 @8 z7 {* l& p7 CPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
# [' i5 V# r7 ]) o4 J- iEverything happens for a reason.
( u, h: H# B. m5 M7 c" X+ s- nNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
% s% b& s9 v* B: s% |Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,, `% E, }0 ]% P4 ~$ i" ~
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,6 H, s& t0 G0 d5 t0 Z; e2 \+ e" m
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,9 b* q4 j. [8 L* D8 U* ?
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,) }8 ~! `! D2 s9 c& g5 O; ~
for they have helped you learn about trust
8 d2 B& q- p% q; sand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
l" |! P' }2 j& M5 \0 Y/ G YIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
/ Q) Q$ A: W! w% l6 r3 l' JTry to love them back unconditionally,
+ g+ K7 D/ l2 [( e% F( u! K/ unot only because they love you, but because in a way, @, E+ u8 Q, N3 D9 `/ V5 s& r
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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; `7 }3 h {7 t4 cThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,5 `. s+ N" Y6 a
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
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and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."1 j% f' j% t8 D' S( I& E
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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