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' j$ D, Y/ S1 PSometimes people come into your life8 k$ g' I# K& k8 Q$ u7 ?
you know right away that they were meant to be there,6 ?% Q8 P Y! Y: P/ S' U" k- j# B( Z" i" D
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,/ y; ^0 x {6 s& _, o
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.& \2 M$ Q& x. l+ }( X
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$ c6 `! j. b8 v& R8 f- S4 }You never know who these people may be4 ]: p) N/ C8 ~ o" u" b. R
but when you lock eyes with them,
8 e5 ^+ Y+ C( N* fyou know at that very moment,% P% r2 @$ @9 v, X7 a
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!0 E; ?+ I. v7 M% j; W
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
$ t+ \- z t. ~9 L' oThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,/ X$ D4 h2 w. Q) G% ?/ z
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
9 v+ j3 D* p8 Z# W6 @Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.5 v% A/ `4 ?) S S4 O" h
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.. e. f" c) ]" J1 D
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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4 k. Q# ]8 f* H) q: o% j/ XThe prayer you sent up has been answered.3 U7 _; l. ~3 W2 d
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
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They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
6 @: k2 H) [2 s, K! L7 | eThey may teach you something you have never done.: F! u3 D& `$ T2 {3 v
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
, r4 [; p' c( \3 N& \- sBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:! K/ e# k# {$ N5 G" o8 T
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,2 C; H4 d1 T1 z6 o+ a' b
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.% w7 K k( Q) @5 l
Everything happens for a reason.
; ]; X! ]. H) n! ONothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”." z2 T# o; Q& [, Y k. n8 `. A
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
2 t9 h5 o+ ?9 _) @: G8 ]( e$ yand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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% z. v1 s) A( v" P! m+ @If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
1 i# Z+ G8 b: M: Z0 R4 ]% N; OYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
0 m5 Z: }. c$ x( _6 f3 ^If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
( Q" T, h( r- l) ^5 o1 U- {1 Zfor they have helped you learn about trust
5 p# N% z3 y) S' j$ H% Iand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.* P0 E% m# F" b2 f% T" Z8 ^! [
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
% b5 Q. F1 Z* A! CTry to love them back unconditionally,
. K$ ^+ ]0 i0 K6 w* _' t$ j. {( r8 enot only because they love you, but because in a way,
/ d- w* g' A4 X8 ~they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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5 \9 i( w" ?; t8 v( ]0 H2 |, TThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun." P! P3 w% ?) B$ ?% F
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,8 m1 v' g! p# B" J, r5 F
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
& Y% N/ R: C+ m1 C7 f2 p0 yGod's grace is as a healing hand.
6 ?/ q, V4 k5 {1 i0 L( VAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
& N6 m1 d0 P! M- Tthe warm memories and love for those we have lost1 e1 |, i$ I+ ]2 s5 x
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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