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Sometimes people come into your life
2 Z0 s5 U! @1 [; Ryou know right away that they were meant to be there,$ {' A, A) g9 w# w* @2 z) B
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,9 R6 O* u0 w' [, H. W, e% U' [
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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6 q0 Q4 g# I+ M; y) TYou never know who these people may be9 W8 i& Z. D$ ^
but when you lock eyes with them,
/ V1 Y- J& j. \5 ^! Cyou know at that very moment,$ R+ ?; P4 h2 g
% b2 x& D7 x9 [) \They will affect your life in some profound way7 ^3 o/ s3 c) y5 H, ]
2 g* t$ `0 R4 BThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
/ d1 g( d! l" M9 Y UThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
8 c! Q& T3 R& z8 v, xThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,, u) j7 t* U& p( [7 e
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
% @* v) @2 G' w) W1 ZSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.( v# ]" N% i" |( s& t j& e
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
4 n" D- x2 G, e. R$ w( qour desire fulfilled, their work is done.+ c3 D T8 q5 n
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
7 d8 e. \& F0 _And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
& E. g% P) ]; F9 U; \8 L8 F; FBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
i4 E! d8 A) u1 k R1 V. P. j, k( V0 QThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
& A) _' v) |( M. `They may teach you something you have never done.
* ?& G0 \% x# Z4 q! s' e* aThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.! e% O8 X) |7 v
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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4 |) M! b4 h& q9 R( t1 b2 eLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:4 V) a. Z5 R" W/ u4 I
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
~* Y% V- q/ X$ OPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.: I$ v. M& P! b$ a4 o
Everything happens for a reason.
p) L1 N; F& L$ o( yNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.9 I3 W/ Y% n/ n6 |
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and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.6 y7 l" H% C0 X
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# a2 F' e9 K- g: S4 L* AIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,$ }/ k) K; ]' t2 T. o
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,5 u! o% j- G3 J) O& H/ L
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
5 t8 c; K! \! h" _for they have helped you learn about trust
6 W& s" k/ H/ J2 Sand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
' R- b- O \) W' w9 SIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,9 P5 w- l8 w4 D# L! k0 ]
Try to love them back unconditionally,7 _% S9 v+ I g* L s; N$ x
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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! u/ Q( q- ^; g2 D& C# AThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,1 ^5 y8 d* {1 z+ _
9 J( L' T6 u7 Q r nand a time to every purpose under the sun.9 @5 W9 J. H: q8 V5 j. l: b- M3 ?
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
3 k* Y6 e0 \. \" ~2 Nand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
$ j$ r4 s a( ^: b WGod's grace is as a healing hand.
: [4 M4 N. N! z/ Q6 e( e: zAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,5 |* \+ R6 j8 Z7 x
the warm memories and love for those we have lost3 \0 m9 O! L% c: p
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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