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2 v% h" H8 y. k& S& y. ^0 R) n: o~SOMETIMES~
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6 E b$ y# d: B8 E1 R4 \) SSometimes people come into your life
/ l+ f" k& L3 e/ oyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
2 u3 [/ E* v8 ^/ n$ U- wto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
! ~3 K) T. p0 E% Por to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.' O5 }1 L7 M, t' {+ ~, e
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You never know who these people may be' t+ Q# n' \* o1 J4 c
but when you lock eyes with them,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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5 l. G5 d1 f. H8 T9 Y8 L1 XThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
; l L: S0 s; d9 xThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
3 H" B/ A5 [. U, D- k( ]/ fThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time, r" W/ Y; X6 ?* H. x
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.4 Y5 l6 J% p( b& Q( w/ G- F( n
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
& I9 |# _$ s3 l" \( a( GSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand." _) [$ |7 F7 R+ p0 p; P$ P0 M
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! `& |; M0 S0 x6 pWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
9 N$ A4 X+ z; p0 E2 O0 Zour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
3 d! n% g9 ~ iThe prayer you sent up has been answered.! c+ y7 D& R; z- i/ X) u/ ?$ x1 h
And now it is time for you to move on.! i5 Y& j! |9 v {, d1 r" o
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Then people come into your life for a REASON. I! S. J$ G0 G/ o, D' N
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.) X7 _7 R' }+ {7 s9 j
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.. D+ n- H& F, [- C
They may teach you something you have never done.- u- s# r8 ^% u& V
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.$ g4 Z6 B7 [; \
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦' x& N4 K* J4 q i. ^, {
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4 D3 m2 K$ u( [LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
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Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
" G8 y4 r/ T) p; W3 E. E, o6 D7 O q* SEverything happens for a reason.3 r9 h) C5 E X5 h) L
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
( R0 a3 E' a" c5 c! T& H9 kIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
: V/ n4 K# ?9 aand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
% q- h& |' d& E* wYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
5 L% b( E! q8 n6 C8 CIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
0 t7 ^1 x0 {! K4 I9 hfor they have helped you learn about trust' p3 |7 k4 x5 j; @: Y- C w
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart." V+ ]( D- w, f% c
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,1 L$ I, s# n& b' m
Try to love them back unconditionally,
+ G0 V: c8 @7 S: [5 j* Anot only because they love you, but because in a way,* s" x# y9 m' ]! ?( F
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.( S! p M; Z) {% P$ x* i8 }
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
1 }3 s% G1 Z' i6 l' ~/ a" CA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,8 e0 o" `1 W/ O! T( i/ d0 e2 j. ?9 _5 m
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."$ c2 [7 v1 |' r; a& [
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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