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~SOMETIMES~1 {7 P8 Y9 N$ L6 y; c$ M
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Sometimes people come into your life
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to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,+ S2 }+ K* C! u- Y: i9 H: y
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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1 _6 `; W4 z2 M! D2 z% uYou never know who these people may be
7 F: U( u/ l2 z3 b' [but when you lock eyes with them,( L) I2 H$ ~% n' E) F* y4 s* A+ U
you know at that very moment,2 N8 q( j- z4 c2 c+ g+ R
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
# n" \; M: S" bThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
. D" j% p, ]1 zThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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& ?3 \2 y; s& P" [The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.7 ?% k8 k7 x1 k( P2 Z
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
# f& I8 \4 T) V! p) W. e6 ]9 FSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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* c D7 \2 L6 m& z! Z& _What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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And now it is time for you to move on.
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" v2 F6 |& B, d1 D0 Q) rThen people come into your life for a REASON6 u7 }, R) e+ ]
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
- [5 Z9 p, H2 e0 P6 F4 MThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
5 k! O7 x& @% h E. BThey may teach you something you have never done.( i6 W3 G2 u9 p& l* f, I
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
. g1 y8 g6 A, yBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦6 X/ K; W3 I* @" u7 H( O! _% s
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( z L6 J% G8 X3 S: k7 V. g4 oLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: _0 N+ S1 @' W' d" i# Y! h9 B! Q
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
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Everything happens for a reason., X+ B! ]9 ]+ Y2 h6 m! x/ J6 K% j
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”., W) D x4 N" W, b
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
7 l# F2 s- k4 V' ]- sand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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0 c- M% v" A. K4 e& g6 eIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,; q# M- }' A7 j$ }" W# _3 e }0 S& {$ l( G, w
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
/ d+ t+ R2 M* K2 R) u+ H8 aIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,3 Q% I/ }/ V6 @9 l+ T
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,* x/ P, E h4 U: O
Try to love them back unconditionally,! u6 h: K/ ^$ ^7 Q5 u- G6 A6 y
not only because they love you, but because in a way,2 {* Y+ V+ f) E' T) i% i
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.% g7 J. G) V9 t/ U0 E$ Q T! M
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,5 z3 w5 H0 }; h) G; c" r i
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
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As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
+ ?' C) k" h9 }" P. w" T+ ?( k$ Rthe warm memories and love for those we have lost1 s: O; Z+ V% F9 U9 i
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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