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* l- R3 m- K" R8 A~SOMETIMES~
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. A$ ]3 R z7 Q5 w J7 O( u0 G w' YSometimes people come into your life1 _- Z( P. q5 `; w" \1 q
you know right away that they were meant to be there,- K0 \- e9 G$ [3 ?& f* x+ y- G# k& S2 n
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
8 j( {+ ]' ~& L7 Lor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.* k0 U7 g; Q! O1 Q# n3 c; T) ?
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- N' L6 t9 V( I% o, t# [6 aYou never know who these people may be
) g2 q% m) V* y% o/ r* U& f; h# zbut when you lock eyes with them,
9 E( g; ^. ?. h! {you know at that very moment,. T: P3 ^0 N+ Q6 Q K/ Y1 d: ~" a1 v
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They will affect your life in some profound way* i8 k1 x C- f8 G
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!- `. L8 t/ q1 m* n
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
4 ^9 d# Y/ u5 f1 mThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,8 g: S7 _3 @1 e! k! Q
% k- ^+ ?8 ?6 m: HThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end." E. R" F# v3 U
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
6 I5 O* b, v) t1 B. SSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.9 {/ d) Z ]6 Q. d7 y& H/ I
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' U0 V% a* T. P4 S7 cWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered." ~, G$ X; s$ v2 y. w H' M4 [
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON4 M7 W I$ a2 \" r
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.; ?; Q* s7 V; E6 X3 {
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.% c) @' ]' ^) z4 x# \ y( o9 O
They may teach you something you have never done./ H. ^* l) _5 Q* U- E' b
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
; B6 j+ g7 W5 h: X0 KBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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1 \0 J$ L b0 y* b, FLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:6 {! N+ X5 r8 X9 Y% `4 F7 C: M/ L
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
8 f' `& [7 H9 KPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.7 _; J& { o! i0 W
Everything happens for a reason.5 e4 K0 k$ s; q E
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
4 z" Q/ r9 _# b6 aIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
/ o# k7 ?- q0 eand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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8 C& O6 }% q0 {If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,5 ^4 B" ~( }2 h" P; U. Y' m2 N% L7 c
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
4 a+ e3 M1 D% w- `; b5 {% d6 `* ?If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
9 m) @8 d2 b _1 \2 vfor they have helped you learn about trust! l8 G* L8 E" O
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
4 R9 m- J3 `. b, x. ZIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,& T$ |, O# [) M* W. c: m) i: D
Try to love them back unconditionally,* Q3 F9 p! B0 v& L: O9 n" |
not only because they love you, but because in a way,# p2 \, w4 e0 J( j E, R9 e
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.& N/ c4 G0 l3 t5 N
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,6 N ~4 b7 P2 i* W2 x+ ^) f/ t# i
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
& \% N' V: n+ V( C" v+ A" EA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,7 Z& [7 U; c V/ `7 K/ x' |6 ~
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
, L: [0 p1 q: y+ j6 V* FGod's grace is as a healing hand.. B9 w+ w& b& j1 F/ E, W
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,1 j6 W1 s! s: p' |9 i% o
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
" b% } Z2 O9 \; f2 I( Fwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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