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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life" i* J" A. ]% e6 l( f' A- }
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
, h7 W. G" G: ]5 P' j! e; i( Ato serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,! X& g% i7 x8 D9 S
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be1 F1 A+ z2 `3 Y4 @- L; v$ a
but when you lock eyes with them,
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They will affect your life in some profound way$ Y0 H- X3 W' q3 ~/ P7 c( N
; ^% V9 `4 n' d0 Y; S, u3 aThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!2 G; X# ] s) S4 i
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
: Z: o# G2 |1 N |4 N5 [Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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1 \! c1 D% @5 R& ^0 pThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
2 C2 Q+ y7 D& O! E3 \$ b; ^Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away." j. f/ l* |" T: r$ m
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,+ ~# e( |. |9 M
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
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And now it is time for you to move on.
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1 J+ {9 f- p5 h3 I# k8 d8 W2 O" l) ?Then people come into your life for a REASON
8 |# l7 G1 E k6 iBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
: i' Y3 m1 c2 H. k! m' m: HThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
$ a& F0 w w0 G; S# N; LThey may teach you something you have never done.
8 Y" E, ]0 R9 m4 d9 D3 FThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.6 o# b8 C) `8 D- {, H5 P
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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. o. Q- i0 M7 C5 w9 c! s, i* w$ vLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:! w: W' o( U- }/ n8 [8 f# V
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
8 \ S7 L6 z7 Y) K9 m) G! W" J: ePut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.3 [% R! S% X& W, Y
Everything happens for a reason.
C3 ?3 V2 |: I; D/ wNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
' Q, J' {% J8 ^9 d9 `2 D8 RIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ l1 x& }- f1 V
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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/ x8 I; Z# v/ Y$ ? D+ a0 zIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,$ q8 }3 N: v4 T) f: P4 N7 m
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,$ W: L& F; h+ l
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,$ m, p' h7 F( k0 N
for they have helped you learn about trust0 Q/ T, a: }+ ? B
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
$ Y$ \! f( c* f/ i% I. `If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
1 o" E7 @& J+ [0 r3 }+ bTry to love them back unconditionally,
, w. y- D: I; l: ynot only because they love you, but because in a way," m/ U4 G' R3 c' R3 p1 ]
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things." q, m2 q/ r4 t1 M1 s/ ^
5 @$ p6 o) ~$ J- j% v' AThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.5 ]1 u* ?/ r" w& w: \8 y! s
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, C# Q% Q. q& E. Y$ h8 v1 [
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
; n4 T7 r0 s3 n. nGod's grace is as a healing hand.: |; f! x7 i" `/ W3 {' ?3 m
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,6 S/ M: X/ r- a I$ [5 g
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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