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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life
/ a% O, {; p) M8 v- l& Iyou know right away that they were meant to be there,) C$ {2 o# Y4 x" E, G
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,3 ] ~# p: C7 C3 s
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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& W3 `# V, {0 t) r2 K2 qYou never know who these people may be
5 O: G1 y6 s2 E0 s5 l7 u9 Z3 dbut when you lock eyes with them,
1 W' p" y% O( F$ Lyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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' e; s3 G* g* e8 t! \' p: sThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!3 M2 Y/ p2 v/ E4 I0 Y4 m7 b0 g I3 M
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
, T5 F& r) s, E3 D. nThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,' Q: J# }* n4 P2 i; z8 f
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
1 ~; p8 P3 |# L$ w3 VSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
5 d) \) F9 z1 v: D+ CSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.3 J- @: O- F+ R; I9 }: O' _, h
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7 H {; K3 N2 i) o" LWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
; l" R6 R1 K1 \our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
7 c1 }) v4 t' L0 @The prayer you sent up has been answered./ D* P" L# |, z
And now it is time for you to move on.; u# y6 w9 ^; Y( G
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
! u+ w4 A6 b# _* L6 c) HBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.% T+ v8 e* M8 M" `7 i
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.9 P" n; ~8 W) y# G
They may teach you something you have never done. ]" z4 I' ]1 ^: s# c* }; m& s
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.: O# W: M% {. ^, q0 p6 s0 P- l8 ^) s
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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$ x9 y: s/ S$ }: K# NLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
3 M& J+ Q, l7 I8 j$ u/ |8 C% _Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
& k) q% p; k4 K8 ePut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.: g; |) D: z4 G" N7 M
Everything happens for a reason.9 O7 b) |; L' o1 j: u" x
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
5 S2 n' F* d# D7 I- T/ ^- mIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,* z1 u, o4 V, a5 s" \* Q5 s
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. V5 t/ J% j# I1 e
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,8 B) L* \; K8 C4 K' [# w3 y
Try to love them back unconditionally,
, s3 g; {7 c: ~( a4 L( k% j/ V! onot only because they love you, but because in a way,
" u: M9 k. x0 K( @ f' Gthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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& c8 \, w, D) n+ {/ hThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,& [3 _+ f C& N6 ^
! b, }# S8 y0 gand a time to every purpose under the sun.
: D6 o; y) |6 w! p. }; z9 VA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
4 G! a z8 B0 n$ R2 Tand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
/ e, c: G3 a4 aGod's grace is as a healing hand.
, |; f. ?: C' @3 W- X+ bAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
0 t' X# j9 F$ }: s7 V3 Fthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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