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~SOMETIMES~' {6 N+ K+ j8 F0 z$ ~6 { X9 r/ g
5 N) c/ m( _& Z+ o# NSometimes people come into your life
& M3 z: M* d2 \$ r5 h% `you know right away that they were meant to be there,
+ z, T" b" x F# D- _9 Q! O. q' g0 eto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, n" x3 P; V* ?. `
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.8 s& h/ K$ R4 M" y9 m
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C5 `& I$ s1 k# G- {. \) rYou never know who these people may be/ g8 t& E- t/ J! g. x3 s
but when you lock eyes with them,: N/ G$ ?2 {6 @9 b) u
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way5 ^& `+ C# i/ ^0 d* f, C
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!# s: p$ y6 U7 t3 q1 a- w! V
They are there for the reason you need them to be.3 u* q) ^% y6 v1 U
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.9 L# C7 T; P ^: C& m
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
$ x, H2 S& y5 K/ M9 l, h/ qSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.* g7 k; g: { W) k! }
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
9 o% L& q: V7 r: Xour desire fulfilled, their work is done.9 u0 a! U# e, h! F* k
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
$ u7 T! S. [+ }: JAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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, C& q% ^' l& C; r2 z4 g2 }1 t# E2 bThen people come into your life for a REASON& F6 ^- {, a. y4 q6 V/ @+ c' x
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.9 t, B; d1 n; c C# a( T: h2 I
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
' ?) k% @9 {0 B4 X# T4 ~6 rThey may teach you something you have never done.
/ R( G2 i4 m# X# ?$ t) m% OThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.% \. Q( s: Z# @1 m, a6 V2 N0 c
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:" K2 q6 g* y6 y9 S- F- k. D5 G
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,: w/ l3 K( Z/ Q! P9 g0 D' F4 E/ c
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
- I0 C6 H8 z8 f) }Everything happens for a reason. j- Q3 M. y' R0 j
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.- Z# k3 G& B. D+ W4 K t& `
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
' o* s- y `- F2 u9 o' @ W2 xand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
9 C; ]/ P! X0 E5 U: M2 EYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
% l }3 L- X' W! o3 E, o& E: O& }If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
; Q, \! D0 m. T/ f, Q+ j; Bfor they have helped you learn about trust" O$ p1 G. y7 z7 k
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
9 D' w& {; F# G7 b1 f% H! X" A3 @% ^If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
+ J; i; ]9 m `, Y0 L. XTry to love them back unconditionally,2 w: t$ B7 J2 Y9 k8 q' x4 g& R
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
+ n& m! A. t+ n3 j; C( vthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.; X& d1 K7 X; L6 w. u
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,/ Q, f H7 S$ ]' l. r/ W$ G
1 b* X3 \+ Q. u4 _- ^% a& h8 b- Y) nand a time to every purpose under the sun.
; G& o _# V, UA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
. e& a! f' y m% L- E |and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
6 M7 P# e9 U4 UGod's grace is as a healing hand.7 o( x% Y" |: U" \
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
% q. L6 D# w; E. {the warm memories and love for those we have lost8 L, `* Y) n9 t( F% C: d* }5 }1 w
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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