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' P- M, _: n- A3 T5 f* j6 I~SOMETIMES~& K+ p! W3 v3 b% A: [& R
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Sometimes people come into your life. a( y9 S' g+ u' f, {- P9 e6 Y$ i
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
5 o& G+ g( |1 I' K d3 G) l& wto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,4 d3 O% c C9 S) I! B
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
5 h q% F/ R7 S" O: b4 Nbut when you lock eyes with them,- f* }* N* Z O5 `+ \. }; s
you know at that very moment,) Z1 d* X9 j/ ^4 j$ l
: d! X# C5 W( N4 GThey will affect your life in some profound way- @; P* M+ D5 r1 E! T9 `; H& Y3 _
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!2 b+ G1 S; D, C+ {; O0 ]
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
8 G9 b, v( C: cThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,, w7 s# q% Q+ F5 |+ m: D
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.$ i) {" n% Z/ J* {! { b7 X
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
) _% b9 F( Z, m3 ?, e, O$ nSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met, J3 W( ?. v; k+ D1 l @5 F0 W
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
' h" r( I) {5 h. P2 J5 d$ Y* U& L$ |The prayer you sent up has been answered.9 \6 N/ v0 i( L% G5 \+ q
And now it is time for you to move on.0 s- X5 r+ ~1 ^' L
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: ]" _2 S4 I3 U6 I/ x8 H. A+ R# FThen people come into your life for a REASON0 p* X2 Q' H) s; p/ J" p% ^+ W! i
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn., `# N) u- B6 d+ F! e
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
- @& _% G- j- |They may teach you something you have never done.
: l; ?0 D- T7 ?2 H9 IThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.5 n0 J7 a( M- i. q' x# l
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦0 p, V( K, x; G! Y
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$ G& [; n6 h. w/ S; T" b1 YLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
! t* k7 ^+ I8 T2 y, \# GYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,* B7 j1 i4 h/ o* w# o6 H: O
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
8 ], }: C$ e- wEverything happens for a reason.
0 z& y' m1 }% y# hNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.1 ^9 n8 p4 Q7 o' H, A& G" W' ]
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
% r6 Z( N& Q; r2 y7 Fand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,9 y5 M' {- X. q% @6 ^- }
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,- U# V) E, G, k. _ a. E( h
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
% R8 `: b; D. j. M6 efor they have helped you learn about trust
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7 f- V- V+ B. I$ d4 B5 T1 sIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,. Z1 A% |; E+ j K, f; x; u% e
Try to love them back unconditionally,5 V- r1 L. x! O1 ~+ c! j
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
' {/ r# o3 F2 y: U$ Q. N) q z. K5 lthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,3 n+ ?! i# o6 m! n6 o
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
5 C4 z0 f, l- B, ]+ T2 Y. q% ~A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant," _) J% t9 O' h
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
: [ H" o6 q9 z, [, v; I. P; RGod's grace is as a healing hand.
. F1 R$ b; E' F" i& B& [4 h9 RAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,/ E. c4 R/ o3 i( D+ I6 ?' D
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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