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~SOMETIMES~5 n# G: F* T g9 N! x" A
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Sometimes people come into your life
; h. L( ^% J8 f! t. E' @! wyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
6 ^- _7 k/ P, r: B# rto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,4 {$ i ~ y7 h2 P. Y0 ?( T4 |( _
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.$ U) a" M2 q6 G
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: F( j7 a. D8 dYou never know who these people may be
) _5 f1 T( h& Y% Qbut when you lock eyes with them,
9 g$ B) ^; a1 A4 P0 Q1 t5 Nyou know at that very moment,: t* O/ H' U. l9 N7 j3 Q; d
4 y. k# `( H$ k& o7 HThey will affect your life in some profound way8 N9 |6 X# L, @/ s% S( B
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!# x; o6 B/ h3 Z/ B& X2 p
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
0 |; d5 [- b! T c2 G% xThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,3 Y( s7 w. r% J; S2 D
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
. y; }/ d8 c8 s* a$ ]7 fSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
* L) w6 o0 x/ O# v% L f5 F8 eSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.2 e, R6 x, D$ j, |+ C1 l
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( g. g& G; B! J, R- S- rWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
9 v* V1 R2 R0 I8 |8 Gour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
/ n- N' r1 {& C3 r5 X$ m+ [9 I0 wThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
2 f: W! Z* b. L6 J1 {! UAnd now it is time for you to move on.& ?9 |' u1 \8 J; P2 J c8 [7 u
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: ~' R2 u! ^5 s5 s; P1 h. i; Z+ KThen people come into your life for a REASON h3 |6 F W7 c; C3 I
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.% h& z' a7 p! g2 S
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
8 | B0 e: J6 lThey may teach you something you have never done.
% D& `9 C1 Q2 ^. v3 KThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.+ K. q4 x; |' Y: F5 n7 P
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦5 t" A4 P& `+ N" S; }
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
9 [# \8 c- @! f! F& N8 r8 F: uYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
/ I( e. R6 i" r, TPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.$ v9 P* m9 M* Y: {$ M8 D2 ?
Everything happens for a reason.
3 b( A8 v* o ~7 J, wNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
- S% b3 s: m5 zIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,0 N* b' N9 _4 h2 `7 L
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.- }1 Z) ^) J2 A& ^
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4 W( x5 K% q( uIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
/ q2 d7 @3 ^% z* iYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
; q2 v8 c$ J, X! HIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them," Y& N/ c6 K0 ^" N3 a. b
for they have helped you learn about trust
3 {# H/ Q$ ? k( S# ]0 Nand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
1 T0 k7 W5 q; z' ?* c3 W* m9 t& wIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,% h ^0 [; f2 u/ h2 ^
Try to love them back unconditionally,
. x& A4 S; j0 @0 I8 @not only because they love you, but because in a way,
0 z+ s6 |7 w" N+ U* v# Zthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.$ e P2 z2 K1 ]" I$ y: ?- v
" O; n( b0 a# }9 I9 d; ]2 EThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.- l6 @ l% P" P' F
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
; U9 Z$ _* N3 W/ O9 Y7 k% Q- I0 zand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."& R) b" M2 c% S. e: ^- a' M3 T
God's grace is as a healing hand.7 `* v/ B$ `; s- u$ T1 d# M
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
5 X# v0 g6 G0 Z S0 ]the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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