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~SOMETIMES~
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6 N" q9 d, D# |2 t) MSometimes people come into your life4 d# c* r8 {& l' Y9 W* V$ ~
you know right away that they were meant to be there,7 o$ P# O" A- e
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,7 J5 }! n( N: y6 f j4 ~
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
9 @8 ? T0 H+ F; pbut when you lock eyes with them,
2 a: g% h& a5 o" k. A( H8 I0 c% S- fyou know at that very moment,0 ~& ~9 v9 |. ~1 [. t; b
) ~& L F8 P3 X' J- p& v6 |They will affect your life in some profound way6 ~1 ^0 O0 F, @. R/ L
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
' E! ~2 M. ~0 @7 C" VThey are there for the reason you need them to be./ A& U l% G& [5 c2 d0 H4 R5 a
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,6 M3 C- k6 [7 M" a5 y! ?
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.7 h- o1 s4 m( \$ E. n/ N
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.* Y1 u9 }1 b6 F& t/ i! B- W! g
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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6 g5 I4 t$ v4 pWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered." _% t. w2 k% J' s& Q5 [
And now it is time for you to move on.2 A; n5 l: F5 x" ^
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; g5 S3 X% B* U6 w0 _# {Then people come into your life for a REASON
0 j: R6 W) P7 j6 S* |6 L6 `/ W: |+ WBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
$ g! F! @* c8 E9 x, Y" YThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
9 O; @8 r1 ^* U- ^. ~& Y+ e! rThey may teach you something you have never done.* X R1 e- I) R7 _+ U5 u
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy., i, p$ q' y N% f
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ x) N7 u# }- M0 t2 K9 Y* M
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:/ A) ~- Y( A9 ?& [% J1 S! l
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,1 J) A- Y3 s# f, B
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
8 [" X% B `- G8 B- ?) \. _Everything happens for a reason.+ X" }# ~% s' I" E' |/ L c: N
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.0 f5 t# K" `* h: ]/ j
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and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.& s9 y7 D; ~$ c4 W" d6 X/ q' a, y
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
7 y. m* E7 V$ z& ]You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,$ g" R* K `: E# B8 ~% B5 q
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
' ~! A: L( Y) r9 o$ X, E4 q( DIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,- ?6 Q' m8 |: {( p
Try to love them back unconditionally,/ D6 W0 V0 N8 d1 E' M$ |
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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0 C, z2 M! Z9 c. A+ i+ d& a) NThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,7 Q3 Y2 O( W/ d; e3 ~1 M
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.' J. O* Z3 i5 L4 F; Q
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,# ~4 l1 ~* @! x/ m4 N+ x
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
3 ]+ N& r* K: yGod's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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