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Sometimes people come into your life
' `& O! m. ~- C" X& Xyou know right away that they were meant to be there,2 t+ ]* |' y( F7 b' p
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
! |) h3 X, u; K5 |or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.( X$ b2 q9 P$ W. M& q/ H8 r4 k' d: U
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You never know who these people may be
" X, ]- m) ]* A# wbut when you lock eyes with them,
0 T7 J8 z! W9 S" W6 ~, r6 P2 U; c+ Yyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way( N# S) p. ]8 Z. d- i
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
. L* h, r0 B3 h& R8 O# mThey are there for the reason you need them to be.) K# b; ]6 Q. T$ N
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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; `3 R$ F. g# t# i8 I0 X2 zThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.$ h' g; c2 s$ _* Y( ^- w
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,6 ?' G, l" R4 V9 ], g
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.; @- h8 L/ h7 N! L8 p* G& c
The prayer you sent up has been answered.& ]) u; k9 R; t! d1 L
And now it is time for you to move on.
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, L$ |6 c* J# @ T7 a5 q9 nThen people come into your life for a REASON" ^- g5 Q. x8 f% R% |, w4 M- R
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
# i$ `* P6 P$ L7 `$ `3 Z- M0 P1 I RThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
s0 ~& p8 S; B! n) {4 |. A; vThey may teach you something you have never done. _' w7 I# ^# c& t0 {. p
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
- |( Y- Q! P& iBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦7 }4 s' o! p8 [
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8 a5 e! P! o! m- m( aLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
2 b, H9 |* C1 n+ U% _% i7 r/ Y3 CYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,1 z$ A s- R& N; a
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.) a* k- s/ {7 s% [" O* c2 d: a
Everything happens for a reason.
! i1 Z7 X4 Q1 |Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”./ O: F, ?, [" w' X/ |6 _
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
! [0 l3 O( {. V: pand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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# y7 `9 h: ]3 q& [) EIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,) h: W: n4 k: b; ]3 H; P
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,* M2 U# F* F0 }* E: }9 x
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
2 O. O% J) u* }( @/ H+ |, Afor they have helped you learn about trust
. Z: |+ \1 C, L' _5 Y; Nand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
; `9 G% X' H) ~If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
' ~9 K2 ^5 D8 _' aTry to love them back unconditionally,& ~# H# Z1 f4 @! W
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
0 \/ c* j3 _3 n) rthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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+ J- F" G7 p& U$ B0 f% fThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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( {9 I# G5 x0 b9 S+ fand a time to every purpose under the sun.
& z- u( F" l' s" xA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,% O3 J) V: \3 F- n/ c* J
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."& F2 l4 @( C$ @7 u3 K, I; y9 z
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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