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~SOMETIMES~
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: Z6 K/ ^! F% M: ~$ r% J0 a' o# O+ _5 t8 uSometimes people come into your life
2 {! a1 a( }- j |; `. [you know right away that they were meant to be there, Q, ~: J. M4 S; X$ I1 c0 ^( }0 s
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
5 s, o) i$ Z! d" _or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.* R6 c6 u# N$ {9 g& F0 D
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# y" Q' ^9 ]6 G* \0 j, wYou never know who these people may be. V$ d& {( D# k H4 q" q& `! V
but when you lock eyes with them,
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$ l% k6 |: r' `They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
+ L: A5 ]! |$ n1 }" |3 a0 ?They are there for the reason you need them to be.
/ b7 h/ Q% n% ~4 B A' S; b d$ v TThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.$ o) G, C6 I1 v9 X6 i; o* F
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.. N9 J, ]2 C. N8 A* h
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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8 F1 x' h- v2 }4 s" \What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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5 t W: _/ s& n3 y JThe prayer you sent up has been answered.2 u# _4 Z) Q$ E9 |( F1 F# R
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON) `# V% ~ l* [+ X6 t% ?6 q ?
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
2 j7 E9 V: a# ^- s# _- u2 [0 gThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.$ A4 k3 g' Z/ N d% q2 a7 K" \
They may teach you something you have never done.
# d# h2 f5 F+ O4 \) KThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.4 g9 b2 \! V- N- `
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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5 m6 X6 r6 `; ^3 eLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
# d! G, M/ _) x1 z8 o$ QYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,0 S& o `0 _* b% a v
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.3 f+ E, ?4 h! o8 i
Everything happens for a reason.9 `8 v+ h- A1 g. \' L" d1 j' M
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.7 B0 W* }# E; S v' z- K" O3 R9 c
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
- h- Y4 G* u. z" rand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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+ F2 R, q/ l* v+ Z: _' t- l1 JIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
; p" y; j7 @( U; p9 sYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
3 i0 [* d4 T5 t& g2 D; c+ kIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,- K, U2 K/ R- \0 U4 R" f5 n
for they have helped you learn about trust. d2 C) v! Z1 t
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.9 b3 {: ]! V7 D2 Q8 F! o
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
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not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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% G+ V3 ]4 P. T+ M. \! RThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.5 y6 |0 V# q/ T5 X
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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7 Q% r+ E2 U F9 U; t$ n) AGod's grace is as a healing hand. \% { F9 }9 W3 ?. y! H
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
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