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~SOMETIMES~" a. l6 R; x. W/ b! i
- u M# c+ M5 f k6 I$ C5 E" ?Sometimes people come into your life* l2 b! _0 {, p* `* h0 C
you know right away that they were meant to be there,5 G* z0 @% `9 G D
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
$ \ s: h3 h, M1 q- r* T- bor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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% @8 x' E E K# Q0 yYou never know who these people may be2 Y: N# U( V1 G0 e6 n& P& l% ] A$ i1 z
but when you lock eyes with them,% n- T2 A3 v6 X5 R0 J8 D$ E
you know at that very moment,8 y/ F% e" A% D4 c9 c C$ m
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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$ G4 S8 l0 `: \" i4 w7 R6 A- BThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
6 W5 S7 W0 b! x e5 P: o: t# qThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
3 l# f3 c% O/ K& D1 ~% q3 iThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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* o( B, ^. z, w% T, S! j7 x; gThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
! Z" H0 f: d2 v7 DSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.7 c0 N* }( E7 U! ?% {/ r0 [
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.- {- v2 q: E# B! G4 k
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7 u6 c2 g% J1 aWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,* w/ ? i6 ]9 Z" A. |3 |
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.% n. V/ Y+ ]6 Z; R; g
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
5 y) E9 t5 ]- e9 U" [1 `. R$ H* BAnd now it is time for you to move on.5 j9 S4 S0 e# E3 D- c$ U$ H2 u
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
5 \. P8 b! e' o3 Z4 ^; wBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.% P1 P1 G6 o' K
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.1 H1 z" j* X% k% W3 B
They may teach you something you have never done. Q/ P# N; G' F* q7 C6 X
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.$ Q% `/ u2 M5 w9 U7 A/ E
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:7 m5 k( _: i- m+ e8 }
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
6 a3 ?6 M" o) I' @% aPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
) P2 `4 i n+ k7 v) c* b2 Q! i. Z2 UEverything happens for a reason.
3 s8 Q9 Q0 o d# `4 l! INothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”." g+ G# u4 r ^+ O! l0 u$ d/ L* ^2 H
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
3 f* ~' s ^1 S2 w/ ^! _and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.! ~ p$ h2 r7 r8 `3 n
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,, \; @/ T- ]% h
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,* p- k# o8 E: D6 l0 x, B
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
( i. ? E. Q6 }# D6 d3 B) q5 ?" m6 xfor they have helped you learn about trust3 {1 [( B; Q! P9 E
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.2 m/ K( q0 s S
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,0 A! g) J/ Y4 T* c; A
Try to love them back unconditionally,
P( M4 q" ~* Fnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
7 Q/ q- _5 N& Jthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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( ]9 u% C/ Y1 _: |7 k- i4 nThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
: _, A$ y8 R7 o5 O1 RA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
S8 C7 l' Y. V, W# X0 d6 l2 U) P- [and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
% \5 k7 b. B1 a$ NGod's grace is as a healing hand.
- M# R1 Z$ D/ S; iAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
3 t/ ^6 J1 d7 H: B1 d0 Mthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
+ e4 g, e1 |3 K4 l9 Mwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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