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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life# i, Z- ?# h3 L1 y) z; g! a
you know right away that they were meant to be there,, _- U4 }5 n5 i2 L) O
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
6 U0 a! j- X6 ~) F$ E, ^; Lor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.% a9 N; ~- P1 L5 t$ K
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You never know who these people may be: @4 a0 o0 ^' c8 P& a/ V; X
but when you lock eyes with them,6 b7 f& x9 F7 f* T/ T
you know at that very moment, z5 a6 ], `% }. T+ p* i3 P# B: ~% R
9 ~ J) B$ s5 z" P# G' L5 rThey will affect your life in some profound way7 k# S1 P* Y2 R; P7 X, ~, `
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!# u0 m ?. I5 F
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
/ @6 Q& r4 j" F5 T. LThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.- R% C- H5 H {, Z7 j
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.; z7 P H& d' a) u5 k* o
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.7 p$ {6 E7 P; Z+ j6 v9 g! k* Q
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3 u0 R' g8 c" e6 y" j) {What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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. y. c- `4 T2 a/ `, F8 HThe prayer you sent up has been answered.6 F4 B* F' {' w: p- w8 \
And now it is time for you to move on.. V3 a9 S* j& u2 `, r- P
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
9 o6 j9 O' o6 ]" Q( q( e9 _Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. U8 y) v4 v$ I Z; j9 E
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.6 K8 x* X+ ]* W9 [" v
They may teach you something you have never done.- ?7 K" p+ ^- }
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
' j: h; k( k% ?( jBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦- e8 }9 ?! o* s& A( q) W* Z
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- P8 m. _- Z/ `3 ILIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:: u2 J( r# c2 T/ w6 [. b6 E# [; u/ P
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
7 t6 z. t# o5 P6 h. O2 U" vPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.) X9 e2 N: ^4 t3 a
Everything happens for a reason.
/ m* v2 ]' ^! n& G! A% a3 K' k4 lNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.9 l' [3 }0 i. t7 e4 Y& M4 Z
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
) B+ R. b( m! k8 c4 E Pand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
Y2 z' S5 f% C1 f/ cYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
+ z; G- {9 R; a+ _( b' h/ i9 mIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,4 \1 c7 ]% p, ~6 \( z8 T
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,0 E( x$ o# e# ~# a' J, U
Try to love them back unconditionally,
5 P0 q+ E4 {' D: c+ x$ Y+ U1 Q4 znot only because they love you, but because in a way,0 C \ g# ]5 V6 X6 H; C1 U: z3 h
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.1 t$ v* T ~9 B
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season," _# i$ G1 L0 E4 h% i$ U& Y7 f
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.+ l5 A' z! [8 T3 i& d. Y+ q
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
) r) ^( q- g' x; X. x7 l8 qand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
+ O8 n2 r$ ^; ~7 AGod's grace is as a healing hand." p8 f. I; C% T, H( L. K0 L c# q
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,5 T! I2 ~; m& h
the warm memories and love for those we have lost) h/ U2 A: K: L: B4 E
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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