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Sometimes people come into your life: C, L- c- ~% s3 ~# \ S
you know right away that they were meant to be there,& N: J- O6 I ]. W1 j$ F
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,( O5 c9 e& |& R# A2 b
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.9 E: z( g7 M: L0 ^
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$ I# J. G2 x' e5 w0 z4 `You never know who these people may be
( t A- w3 X5 `2 \but when you lock eyes with them,
& F% f* W( J1 U3 H3 F0 a( K4 T7 hyou know at that very moment,- U. }0 }& H3 o) D/ h
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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+ _1 ^+ |" {$ eThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
1 d& K+ T" t7 e2 D' i# rThey are there for the reason you need them to be.# a2 o& t# o- G+ _6 _2 b5 E# f
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,1 ]. k6 L7 T- E/ {
: F9 F4 c! v3 n" E6 aThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
' T# [- G9 b( ^1 w" xSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
" W9 @" B9 S9 v8 i3 YSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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' N, L( K9 @+ O, D$ ?# o% J" V" vWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,9 Z0 F' K1 d$ A: m
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
' P+ }- S4 Y" SThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
3 D6 _! L6 a" X I7 y, q) c# KAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON2 w9 y4 c; T4 y# S4 e
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
3 }. u1 ?# P* L5 `0 r/ mThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
2 h/ `9 `# Z. z8 G& XThey may teach you something you have never done.$ T8 Z# h* z! r6 r Y
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
! U/ @2 \( F$ f/ E, h4 `Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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/ Z3 p0 X ?# V$ y5 R1 sLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:0 O1 v6 {( u6 W. w2 Y2 h
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,1 g, s: J2 l. J; K+ T) N- P3 U |
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life./ k% |6 j; e8 Z8 n) Y
Everything happens for a reason.4 u. E4 W0 J7 l4 p, d
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
% `, U: [2 y& Q' BIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,5 z( M7 o9 ? P+ N+ }
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,1 C5 N! o0 C; R0 |" ]
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,6 E, C Q+ V" b, E3 o
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,. V$ g1 t7 c0 o
for they have helped you learn about trust! `+ U, e- n6 [% ^0 q
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
4 d5 S0 y! D: uIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,. ?" }5 y' R8 h. W0 ]: J& V
Try to love them back unconditionally,
& _0 P, _; c4 }9 w3 vnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
. Y0 u7 Y3 j6 G" _& U1 Vthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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$ v1 M" g+ u) m' M4 [3 J. w: lThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,- O* J: H) P+ x0 c; @
! F& M1 m& @! t" ]and a time to every purpose under the sun.( O0 {8 E) p" m0 `# b* E
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
H2 I d5 n! b& W; mand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
( m! Q% M/ x8 o: P# pGod's grace is as a healing hand.
" x6 l: j5 p$ S( [0 H! v/ g) `5 AAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,' v9 Y3 l$ [" w8 ?6 V7 ?
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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