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~SOMETIMES~" G$ e+ W1 G) u! u( g
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Sometimes people come into your life& A5 L: T/ ?, [5 r5 b! K3 n; F
you know right away that they were meant to be there,+ H3 L2 N5 r* t8 T
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,: ^& ^1 G* v& Y
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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5 W8 d/ j8 @5 M. FYou never know who these people may be6 \7 k6 ~( |: W0 w
but when you lock eyes with them,
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They will affect your life in some profound way5 T/ K0 ~& U. y8 M# j* n0 I4 n0 Y
9 t0 E4 W0 ?2 [6 u% XThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!& S+ j2 W4 \. e4 A( }8 `+ z9 h
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
& h5 a5 h6 T& X* H% eThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.8 F5 D* f; D" x Z. O. k! J
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
6 }* }$ [, G+ @- {7 pSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.# }. x% j3 Y7 B& z2 M, u
And now it is time for you to move on.
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$ {7 n* Z1 ^8 oThen people come into your life for a REASON
% K& d1 Y+ y8 d% J, z! vBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.0 r/ L" t% y y: y1 T6 [* y* `
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.5 b6 f+ r* k+ H t u# J' Z# n
They may teach you something you have never done.0 d5 m/ B. `. O1 ~
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.4 ?" A4 c, w! n& w' T$ j4 X6 x( g
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
5 ]+ i6 _ e vYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,5 }$ m* v# s# g3 H- u6 h
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.& t7 P3 l2 s7 B7 B- _+ y3 K/ _
Everything happens for a reason.
7 t" e, v* e! c/ ]Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
$ w" N5 Q# n$ g/ d; b* f3 IIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,8 ] P" x: |* x( n0 C9 W& _6 l
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.7 [* z( k$ h# h, C: e/ v5 |
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
0 ]+ O! n; W/ j0 q( S( y: j/ Jfor they have helped you learn about trust
8 S4 |1 T3 P8 Pand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
) A" n% m8 j U/ O$ b, E' @If someone loves you, express your appreciation,7 e* E0 ^6 B$ L( H1 V; W
Try to love them back unconditionally,* U9 @4 n, }, c/ t2 `0 r
not only because they love you, but because in a way,9 p' e/ h4 r% ]/ b* k4 D S
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.$ h$ Z4 `+ D0 k- B% J% P
- {% d8 K5 L3 X3 RThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.3 {/ V, I$ O* | d, z8 D
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,( H3 P$ [+ c4 \3 N; t6 ^' @1 `7 R
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."+ {& x' [# n r& t" e* [0 m
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost0 O0 @& X0 X! `
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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