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~SOMETIMES~5 n% H: {2 z$ Q! t7 s8 R l0 w
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Sometimes people come into your life( F) Y! l& F* h2 M
you know right away that they were meant to be there,. s4 l2 x/ Y" ]# S7 X( x! v
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,3 {! f4 J1 D! r* T2 ]" d8 u
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.0 r6 S1 [0 s6 i8 a
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9 b& w5 }, Q4 { e+ C \/ r- }+ fYou never know who these people may be' P! v8 i5 g/ N; {7 A: h! q% e
but when you lock eyes with them,5 t" r' f8 r1 P& g+ B5 A
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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. E2 l4 y% |- {, WThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!2 I. d8 ?% T, b; w3 c
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
- Z2 ~; x. H0 @2 v7 l6 CThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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7 g7 X& j; S- q( V$ WThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.8 |* R! ?% Q9 J/ V4 o
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away./ A V; _7 m) Q4 e
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
& g& U# m1 d k0 w: uour desire fulfilled, their work is done.+ {# H3 Z' O5 Q9 E1 a
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON- M' G" U0 u6 e. }
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. h' Z$ ]: u* E& {: L
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
: K9 k7 w1 M2 a0 x+ _; X% fThey may teach you something you have never done.# ?) y: \1 h. \. G. l
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
* Q+ `" w' L* c* y* ^; e+ O5 fBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦2 S% O7 m) O( S5 p
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' w3 n3 Y- J9 @8 u) s1 d' lLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
# |6 t* j, u8 J. [' S2 A( n" xYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,2 C H% O: p& t0 a* p# f
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.6 H+ J* x0 Q8 p9 v; z: H* [
Everything happens for a reason.& p0 M \8 I% e8 N/ G/ M. M
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”., K$ I- }6 `" Z& L2 g7 Z& F5 S) t) s
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
6 D( N1 f- N. v; \' hand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
5 Z& ~8 D5 v" u) \7 |4 O1 NYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,9 p$ g, M. H9 J1 f* e
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them," p5 h$ d! l, W* Y3 j/ x+ V' O( j0 g
for they have helped you learn about trust1 c2 j( u+ t+ N) h
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
N/ E( N2 w! o# p# FIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,7 K1 y7 `# }! c t; e! t* U
Try to love them back unconditionally,
2 V8 e: u0 \% {/ T5 |# wnot only because they love you, but because in a way,; D; W2 j* ?' h
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,% Y& m; a: t. h* e$ R3 B) o
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
( J( k! {6 n$ r, X; Y4 k0 |A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,8 ~' s" h7 Q" B: h
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
, g) B; }9 q9 F# |+ qGod's grace is as a healing hand.2 l6 E F1 y& E" c6 B. i
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,# O( |+ | r T6 x
the warm memories and love for those we have lost5 b5 C. x7 S0 J2 f3 O5 m, g
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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