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~SOMETIMES~6 ], b3 H* y0 J D2 W
& S' W. C% O4 w1 A* U$ i4 J. {Sometimes people come into your life, r( k! x5 X" E+ q3 r, q
you know right away that they were meant to be there,6 N' j) J$ x, l( \' b
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
L& Q6 a k' Jor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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6 x7 H% L3 s! IYou never know who these people may be( D/ H$ O! ^" |8 ~* ~* [9 _* t/ @
but when you lock eyes with them,
3 Z! u7 s C. P/ \9 N: hyou know at that very moment,
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6 y8 s; T/ X4 B4 s; dThey will affect your life in some profound way
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$ C2 r/ c0 i/ a9 `% m( ]$ AThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!9 h2 c4 Z9 M# s( b/ C% A
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
) c" L; }1 r" ]8 ~8 DThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
/ b' H" K- L6 {, N7 c P9 M9 ~5 x' MSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.$ g( x c3 |& d- u. q
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.& ]$ G1 y- j7 ^. V. W4 r
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~. F2 V* U3 g# NWhat we must realize is that our need has been met, ?9 Y w2 X: P; P$ X' H6 a( o
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.: o# l0 H3 a( o; K: C6 _* i V
The prayer you sent up has been answered.0 ~/ q0 j: V+ D }* i4 O1 C6 j
And now it is time for you to move on.1 {- I( j& h' l
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0 {: v6 l: g: ^& {4 c6 p X% fThen people come into your life for a REASON" O/ M2 ]: l, a
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
0 j* W6 W* w1 S' X3 k" aThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.4 O7 P+ F7 w* O% h- g; {- q6 p
They may teach you something you have never done.& a1 X) c9 @! R
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy." f, N' Z# F: @6 U# J
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦6 |. O) b# f3 J
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2 o3 n. q. Z' A+ ELIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:3 W" V6 p6 }6 z* A, E8 k2 |% C7 _0 |
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,( q, h7 W: i+ F
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
& S% I1 q; i3 P& ~Everything happens for a reason.
) x+ x: H3 a2 w4 V8 d0 eNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.6 X a: J/ f7 s9 m; E; {
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
) v3 p( x8 }( {6 Oand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,- e; k9 n5 f ^: n
for they have helped you learn about trust1 ~1 M7 E; H# ]. R- ^/ w
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
9 V! z9 `9 G- H6 X3 ]; s! |If someone loves you, express your appreciation,( h1 M2 p/ p6 l6 _1 E
Try to love them back unconditionally,
& n( P. t# k; {4 F9 [2 knot only because they love you, but because in a way,( c0 U. G- j4 i* g
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. k) p. a; O D( V# b: ~ x
; w0 L! l! E8 E9 T" N. fThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,2 ~9 U7 }! W2 m4 p5 [+ E( x8 x
5 s0 c7 c; f! @8 Z5 Hand a time to every purpose under the sun.
9 Y' a9 s: Q+ b# A3 uA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
h2 [. |2 n1 [9 Iand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."& o' P& n& p/ p2 W! i2 P
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost+ n) n) U5 ?) G; V
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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