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Sometimes people come into your life
r6 P/ t- f% r0 j0 K, F' m C4 Oyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
: v: y. A/ _8 }2 Y0 }1 C% }* Wto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,- [! u1 H9 m3 l0 ?$ w, w
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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+ s' d" J9 n0 WYou never know who these people may be1 M% N8 h' Y; M: b8 u* `+ u4 ?
but when you lock eyes with them,
" k5 k h# o S4 xyou know at that very moment,, p9 y; @% B( b+ s& J# n
6 P' n( M" y0 W' [7 i0 X' lThey will affect your life in some profound way( C4 v2 f) v7 X% U3 x
4 @( A h2 g; m0 i) T }They may seem like a godsend, and they are!. s7 ?9 a: ^9 P/ m* C9 n
They are there for the reason you need them to be.* V4 G2 A; T: p8 L8 c
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,( R R) ?% [# N9 }& P
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.5 h% T5 O' B3 A& k K4 P, ?# U
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
" b: n, g8 T) a& @( XSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.& n1 w0 p' t8 G3 {9 d4 h
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.! T5 Q2 e8 ]# u' K
And now it is time for you to move on.
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5 d+ x; ?- G- u: @: o5 g- lThen people come into your life for a REASON. V" _# Q C, }* y0 k% W- Q- t2 H
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
_* t0 [3 H$ u3 b% lThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.) ~8 W8 r o' V! ~0 G! _8 @2 T3 b
They may teach you something you have never done.
# T1 Y# t5 B. z! W" q, MThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
7 ~5 v) u/ \* }' C l) b2 r0 o! }Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦% ~: w: v2 u6 S
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
% R( | Z2 i/ D$ Y/ ^6 Q$ }7 gYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
% X: p7 `* `* bPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.) v- C; b3 k# Q! l% v* x
Everything happens for a reason.
* s7 ^1 y2 o8 S: t& C- x# W1 }Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.+ |# w- U) p1 A2 L' K
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
' q7 Z0 x8 E; ` R& i- A nand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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" a1 J T) [# {# e. H* gIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,, o6 d+ z0 E& J2 B
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
' \! V) s1 `$ _$ G% \) C* bIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
. i9 _+ Z6 Y2 w' {9 L7 j+ |- Nfor they have helped you learn about trust
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, f9 V) c+ t' }) y6 d5 N! wIf someone loves you, express your appreciation," \+ a$ e9 a1 A2 e- n
Try to love them back unconditionally,
% u) U1 g9 h# Gnot only because they love you, but because in a way,- H; j0 X. ]: g; i
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.7 V' ^ o& w3 i8 h$ O
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,7 B" F" P& c0 z9 r
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
% o/ `. r7 o; p# vA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,4 g9 }! M. d2 E8 S6 @: Q2 s! r
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
. p; ^& O; K" S" NGod's grace is as a healing hand.
) b/ V2 B I" } M) b" ?% ? [ EAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,% k; T. {# s, I, P8 w( d' X' y2 S
the warm memories and love for those we have lost. \1 k& t7 p4 N/ p' F) M' M9 O
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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