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Sometimes people come into your life% t6 O# W0 n5 H8 Y6 r
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
' q# P* x& V' x, `7 a vto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,. M% L5 D9 x! p. j6 @
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.7 B' ~1 Y _( o7 s
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+ V" a1 K( E* b9 |$ ?You never know who these people may be
2 J2 n+ ^1 r' d% r% Q& Jbut when you lock eyes with them,2 D6 ?! h* o2 A/ |; }. g
you know at that very moment,- n: N C8 Z: p. A) e
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!0 _8 ^& a4 y2 `1 Z! @7 C
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
. k' g4 Z$ T5 K$ ?3 ZThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time, u: S: O: K6 p/ c8 y/ S) g
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
, D# f% s+ q% y4 c) Z [4 g" rSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away., G; y7 M/ Z) I6 C1 D& J& T( H
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.& ?% }( D/ }/ X- K- Q+ g/ ^
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4 S" q/ u; N: L% PWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
2 U6 J/ r' z# W! J3 ]our desire fulfilled, their work is done.1 M3 Q v% }) I. K8 r/ W
The prayer you sent up has been answered.( v3 b" G1 \) [" c
And now it is time for you to move on.
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; V1 G; z6 [; a" h" w6 l0 F9 KThen people come into your life for a REASON/ P, P+ e* {; V
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.& P. z, w: J6 J( d# M3 h- I
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.; q5 y0 V+ P- @& R6 c8 C
They may teach you something you have never done.
+ j. U2 t: V8 s: K: Y/ t* n) mThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
* e' r$ M6 L, ?: V$ dBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦. [! X0 c+ d9 O+ \; e! V( |
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5 Q! s6 k% d4 A" d& _% D, ~& k5 `0 ?3 pLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
# M2 I0 m$ ?8 H. IYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,: |) h8 o0 a( L7 [! Q1 P! l0 r
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
0 q; e9 }) Q+ v, D% X7 DEverything happens for a reason.8 n, u( y' z0 w1 K5 _
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.9 n; ^; c B$ Z( g
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
/ v W1 h2 L- C$ E- @5 o* j' rand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.# Y( C/ e2 R( d4 ~- t0 ~
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. \6 p* ^& k3 N3 q0 d0 L( wIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
! Y: r7 l' a) U) `You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,0 _7 o4 ^4 [$ u, x
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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+ {8 F$ m" E+ Kand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
+ R4 |! `' G- O A. F% MIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
6 ~- _6 c, S9 c$ {: JTry to love them back unconditionally,
9 u. q* j4 A6 K8 N/ h% U3 Gnot only because they love you, but because in a way,- d- [# f8 L. \: F3 P/ z
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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' U8 z a P2 UThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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$ {9 ?- C) j7 z1 ?/ \and a time to every purpose under the sun.
# \- o, Z( N/ \' A" `A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,2 e$ Q/ H6 Z/ A- e" p
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."4 N! V: Y x+ x* n% f
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost; C# E1 k S5 s, x2 U% L0 J
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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