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/ I1 |* d. r0 {( _8 a! N~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life
4 C* w: u% f! I6 k7 ayou know right away that they were meant to be there,
# O. v- |: F- _5 V1 Mto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,- [! _4 c+ y$ g" d* A5 @( {5 y
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
. p, [) `& A3 `* H2 qbut when you lock eyes with them,; M+ W1 Z; n2 m* o
you know at that very moment,& {# n9 u. V" C1 e) |6 L
! Q* f) Z e8 UThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!5 S( ]( o% E7 F
They are there for the reason you need them to be." @ o* R1 f% P
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,5 _! h. z* ^, m3 N
0 Z: \; i9 ?/ _) RThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.* p& w& e" O" B+ f2 O
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.' ?, |. s+ g6 N+ x$ y2 v9 ^
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.4 k' P6 s5 G$ g
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" K1 o& F: U6 ~What we must realize is that our need has been met,
/ [" A! n, ^9 p) b7 N1 aour desire fulfilled, their work is done.& E1 t7 G# R# y
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
- k# T: f, G5 [& G: NAnd now it is time for you to move on.; X3 ?4 W$ `. ^
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; J9 k s" @8 z) O6 R0 d% _& xThen people come into your life for a REASON; _ F' m D+ j2 M7 ?
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn./ P; f# H$ ~/ B& B
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
$ J1 O5 ^2 z" X. \6 [- rThey may teach you something you have never done.
4 s2 G/ f: m, UThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.0 F+ w) D [+ a' T
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:* E i1 O! [4 q+ p
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,9 z2 j: H9 t+ N r( q& t, S; @1 U* n
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
+ E4 U( \6 s. E& h/ vEverything happens for a reason.
4 \/ M" ?* T4 ^5 F& iNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
1 C2 p$ D; i+ N6 A3 Q5 B* rIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,: U9 b8 L! |* A, j% B; I
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.4 }, ?3 a6 {4 M! W# W
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& h2 `, l8 r% OIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,- @* V+ t0 @5 E% z# u2 c. j
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,5 ]+ m# x$ }/ A! c% m' I6 X# r
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,0 r6 H- C/ v |8 Y, Y. a5 U
for they have helped you learn about trust1 z( X3 k) b0 H2 ~" t
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
9 Y9 P4 q6 h/ O# eIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
8 }4 v: c. o; H& K7 P. k+ _Try to love them back unconditionally,) T, ~7 K" b/ M7 I. Q2 ~+ u5 {
not only because they love you, but because in a way,, \% V' s. k+ m5 Q3 t0 P) \
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,1 a' c1 e. c) Q/ c8 g1 N7 x
$ N0 |) I2 y# u* Gand a time to every purpose under the sun.$ j) } Z6 r2 A. P& _9 Z4 n
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
5 U6 B# |% Y: u! Wand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."8 S y2 F- `* }% B5 A
God's grace is as a healing hand.
* g; a: t) c$ TAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
* V& p: _# w/ K9 ^' w' S8 Hthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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