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Sometimes people come into your life
/ ~: ]# N& r# W+ Dyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
$ C5 {; X2 \3 p6 h" {% Y3 G, Kto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,7 i- f: L( Y. X3 x" T- J
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
1 X8 I) `1 ~+ J( H V% S: lbut when you lock eyes with them,
% U7 }; h+ q! T& Eyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!5 Q; |$ g9 E! X2 \
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
$ I# M4 `! u, Z- }& t0 W; W) SThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
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Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
, N* k( x \& Z1 h% gour desire fulfilled, their work is done.# l) m' |9 {8 M9 x; M, J
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
1 o9 R3 j% A4 \7 m# }9 L. |' V7 RAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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( O7 D: f* k5 }Then people come into your life for a REASON7 J$ t! [# | K- M6 x
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn." H$ n; w1 ?7 ?7 |1 w8 f# A" {
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
& l6 B" G9 O: h* }$ A6 |They may teach you something you have never done.
+ r, e5 r2 M4 ?: U; uThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
+ V! ?5 s6 P6 n+ A# V0 B: TBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦) p( C- ^0 b, Q! i1 E1 j% I4 N
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:: F6 ~- ?2 b1 O7 N0 X0 b2 Y
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
$ L( m" ?) a+ c* }, y) iPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.+ p* d9 p& {: W0 f5 o: c7 Y
Everything happens for a reason.
5 @7 R: O& L6 G9 o- z% {0 E+ J! v. rNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
. O" q* _7 ~( ]3 a I% j5 dIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
/ M, Z' U7 P+ n' qand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.: M3 [0 [1 D' T4 M& F1 A
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,6 l1 b0 w5 Y# F' t+ s
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure," r! r' J; e7 M6 t5 k
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
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Try to love them back unconditionally,
1 z2 _: ?% [! ?4 I; ?* E9 Tnot only because they love you, but because in a way,$ _5 Z, @( t! ?: x0 q
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun., V$ w9 K% a; U. D! S
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,( Z! v& V5 k' i4 I8 Q7 I
and a time to pluck up that which is planted...") r+ r# n Z* N! u/ F
God's grace is as a healing hand.
, |3 Q' I( |6 L9 S! Z3 Q$ ]$ t3 cAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
9 l5 z9 T+ J+ R2 z" y0 ythe warm memories and love for those we have lost( v8 u( ~) E9 `4 j3 {
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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