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Sometimes people come into your life
* |& ?4 o" L# o9 i0 Kyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
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or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be. V8 A& Z; p2 e4 M$ H
but when you lock eyes with them,' K, n' V; d/ j* t: \1 _1 y1 a
you know at that very moment, u+ S4 c0 ^- K& w( K
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They will affect your life in some profound way- }) m5 o- S8 V
% E% C+ d, j% @- @. k7 }They may seem like a godsend, and they are!3 J6 K: t Y a) J6 X: @/ g3 n
They are there for the reason you need them to be.; e* l3 y! M/ m5 v- @& q& @4 V" z
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,, Q R0 w6 L5 u c9 }9 k2 t, B
) d \9 g1 W& Q4 cThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.* L% g3 d2 y# q
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
/ Y) q0 I2 C+ |$ f. G8 ~% QSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,2 C% w7 ?) C! D- A% K7 t4 o# f
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
0 L7 Y+ t1 q# _% ]! CThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
, e/ ]# s5 Q8 q2 S0 Y# {+ ]And now it is time for you to move on.5 ]( p$ u. P6 l: }" H' n/ T
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
" p8 J6 M: e- Z( \Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.- c( N8 D# N1 x7 e; p
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh./ M0 ~3 V6 b/ a1 t) c: y' d
They may teach you something you have never done.2 `6 H* I3 J1 E0 ?( V6 d
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
4 g+ L: ^$ \9 \& I. t: h4 iBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦) ^# F! g* |+ H. x6 ]2 V
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Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life, \6 W! s; W8 x# ?
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.# k) U5 Z: _# A) {
Everything happens for a reason.
! B# X$ d, v: n$ C' `) CNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
( J" Z3 n: @$ m* K3 M7 zIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
+ ]# ~+ h- F5 X$ Nand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
4 d6 [& A' H4 C! e& a3 ^You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
1 x, U) w0 U% b) w6 rIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
: \1 H& E6 p9 j* P S# ofor they have helped you learn about trust% o& d3 h8 l/ ?" M5 _9 @: X/ N
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
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Try to love them back unconditionally,
# K1 z. k; D5 b/ e& R/ Onot only because they love you, but because in a way,$ D. W9 q9 O2 }4 f$ V: F% s( L" h- q
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.5 ]9 }0 J+ j5 n& S2 l8 O
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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3 @$ B) d7 Y8 D3 ^6 x6 nand a time to every purpose under the sun.
+ e4 i9 |4 |" q4 V$ uA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,& _+ q4 M0 {) t' \& Z1 s
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."+ _- K) C' r# N5 K
God's grace is as a healing hand.: H+ Y( V1 w. T$ r: A
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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