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~SOMETIMES~
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3 }* _5 b! F& [( ZSometimes people come into your life
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, W/ N1 e" H! ^3 h' Jto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,( J' K9 A! a( L8 v6 I
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.- R0 [/ ^ O: q# X7 f# v! L
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! H1 @+ M/ t7 i" r' D5 YYou never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,& Q! L. |, l8 n3 Y: u) }. }
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!9 p1 g- j% a7 n, i
They are there for the reason you need them to be." I8 Q9 m# f" r
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.: w6 m u8 @6 _* C% N& {* O, i
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.: r6 G# {3 Y$ }# C5 o, M: i2 z- _7 O
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.- {8 [8 Z. H+ m( w5 y1 W
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* D6 b0 G l8 a( DWhat we must realize is that our need has been met," x0 m/ R8 T0 @" @' _7 M
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.! @9 K) h& q, o" P
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
2 `/ \" @0 a! Q$ E# nAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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) a6 x1 b+ R: ZThen people come into your life for a REASON3 W: y; B# C0 b
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.+ M) {5 T) ?( p! x( T/ {
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
, L4 d) W2 l: UThey may teach you something you have never done.- R, h6 g0 W3 c- F9 o/ _+ q9 d7 ?9 M* `
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.% U0 u* F0 U" j, T/ T# O: [9 l7 `' m
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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$ \. Q* g2 \. z+ l; Y1 ]. hLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
1 @( W5 _* o* U/ x( T4 s" B6 ^1 PYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
) k3 G; T6 x1 V, m: A: m! I% h, qPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
0 u, X. l6 ]0 F# ZEverything happens for a reason.3 n1 ^0 s7 h+ j0 i6 }8 e
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
% }# O+ I. f. X6 v+ \0 T$ z4 f: \5 MIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
/ w D7 G3 g( V8 z) q, I6 yand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.0 ?3 ?: g+ Q' j' x
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; e) b/ T2 M. s+ i( d# T2 b, u7 _If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,) x2 A4 a; R- x# m% T
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
2 K2 r& b9 a* ?If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
7 K- B' T% X( g d1 ]2 Lfor they have helped you learn about trust
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2 V0 S5 K% x0 b2 K- H- pIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
- @! J8 W9 [: S! f( R! lTry to love them back unconditionally,( r0 k0 v- g3 Y- c- j3 x0 }2 Z& o
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
' t; r" [, ~. T1 |& P; _they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.( T" P* |, @+ ~: f6 ?7 [ R
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,+ B5 Q0 A' v& B3 Y0 D. L; o
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
7 `) ?) B# a2 L- ?7 N% BGod's grace is as a healing hand.
1 N" ?% K% {9 S$ [- s H+ {As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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