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~SOMETIMES~6 q. ~1 h3 f3 r/ k
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Sometimes people come into your life d' f( j9 U/ S7 k! ]
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
& ]8 {! t4 l$ @% Uto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,& }6 n3 Q: D G% U
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.% {+ i; t9 O3 V% m! v+ n
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9 ]' p% [, v% ~( f3 OYou never know who these people may be
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. h) y( ]/ o- Z# M! b: K8 tyou know at that very moment,
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) M: P# ^! B; w: \They will affect your life in some profound way* [; x" P: z4 ?: l' j7 `- j
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!. x5 L' s+ v F. H
They are there for the reason you need them to be.4 ^1 _1 ]4 C/ e0 d- n' }! f
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,6 h8 X9 J b# p% M P3 n
$ q: I1 P9 E" q( S' U$ FThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.- K8 B" R$ A: w' c/ s7 A) g
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.3 P7 G, O7 z: i
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.6 M+ l) d; s3 ~, j0 ~ e5 K
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* l1 N+ t& h- h8 m; |What we must realize is that our need has been met,6 T0 `, a0 ^( ~3 x6 M
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.- o4 }9 B6 P6 x, U p
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
/ H1 \+ ?2 I; z9 o7 nAnd now it is time for you to move on.+ H9 W3 Q( A' K* d
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Then people come into your life for a REASON0 G; G& d3 V8 X
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
" Q' r0 |0 U: T3 YThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
. x; ?5 G, Q5 ]( BThey may teach you something you have never done.: N4 B x& k9 z8 q" ~7 q
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.! B" w8 z- _7 ~, J# m! d% N" A
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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9 B" z- n. X6 }LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
6 F$ w3 t# O0 V' s u( q- d2 r _Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
/ d% W4 O3 \9 H9 N9 e; LPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
: X( z4 |/ X4 o# ]. l# q- A) eEverything happens for a reason.3 j. X. n) ^4 H5 I. _6 F! W
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”., M* C2 L" L; t. G
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
( } ~* A4 \* u# P! I2 Nand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,) Y- N! a7 A% q$ ?5 G5 K
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ a9 y$ @2 E, T* d
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,/ ]2 N( K1 W. O+ N/ h% ^
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,4 E# L- H" ^& X9 b: |( o
Try to love them back unconditionally,
# \; o: n: n! [9 b- E! u* ynot only because they love you, but because in a way,
7 _/ F% j b0 n9 mthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.9 ^: z p: p& e9 ?2 |
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,) c1 \% _0 ~- x( f8 X2 ~# o* Y1 c
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.& r' T/ _/ b1 }. G4 ~* x( [
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,7 _2 I8 t. R5 S) T6 m
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
r8 s. a* m4 ^. Q5 V1 g1 O( J- oGod's grace is as a healing hand." q" M. u1 O; J" Z/ T0 L- q
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,9 U: u% t7 X& p4 P
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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