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8 N% b3 H4 F1 O+ U0 E~SOMETIMES~
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: K4 O. J G9 A- HSometimes people come into your life
" c5 F* E8 l# F4 C% {& myou know right away that they were meant to be there,$ [. u, R8 \- p! ^; U7 q" I
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
, A, C2 t! ?$ e1 _or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.7 x) V- z# E* w1 W8 `6 v. u( P
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You never know who these people may be9 e- y. Y4 C9 C5 Z6 A
but when you lock eyes with them,
0 z8 C' f2 M. I$ i C6 Dyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!3 z9 S4 ~) ^1 l+ w) Z+ r
They are there for the reason you need them to be.: E" f( ?) b$ T8 Z6 r/ o1 p
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.' h- Z& i6 L! G+ N x
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.( ?- y* i' N) Y7 f7 @/ ~3 r
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,5 Z/ F8 Q1 m( h1 ?) E; r( x0 J7 t
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.+ n; l6 X" V. Z( e$ N: c
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
; h0 z9 y; E: R8 K4 J; jAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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! C5 h$ O0 N7 B9 nThen people come into your life for a REASON- h: [ y0 d5 Y# \' m/ ~( _' ^
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.1 u- ~$ n0 a+ ?7 F7 c; k, W( u
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
1 i' I- f$ ]/ d5 H* j/ K4 jThey may teach you something you have never done.
3 e# r! {: k& W9 o& N& t: R6 eThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
; Y5 L+ B" t3 z; ?: ZBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ o4 ~' k# w7 Q7 s# y! R
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
! k% A* n( W, G5 ]( w7 ~+ rYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
~/ l/ h7 V* p- h. aPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.: v8 K6 J: e( j; j) b% ~% S0 |
Everything happens for a reason.- K+ j; I# i7 b, m v5 ~8 f
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.6 z, q$ e3 }5 k5 ~7 Q& [
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,9 }# n }7 k) `, \6 e) @
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.3 @* o: c7 F% L8 m' T
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7 K: q+ o( f+ [( gIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,. x \1 W' M2 [' m
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
. j, w4 O1 A3 F8 n: ]. ^* w5 _If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,5 E t" V& S* f! F! K4 i
for they have helped you learn about trust# N! t- c# J% s4 g& t q* R: w# D
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.$ h4 Y5 r# S. G* D0 s8 X p
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
1 x3 j2 ^+ R# |+ qTry to love them back unconditionally,1 b3 I4 C5 ~. ^
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
$ Q3 x- o0 Z0 Z" Z9 ]- `they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.2 S- V' z; ?/ [3 ~
% s, a2 @- \3 W1 T0 p5 wThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,7 ~( h9 t5 \, }1 I7 P: [0 S
$ j" y% ^- [. \. w- \and a time to every purpose under the sun.9 e- a X. s- _+ G# ?0 b) ]
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
; H- `$ n1 t+ M! N- h( @( T* L4 p1 x) Kand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."! \$ O7 g! n& u' \" I: J2 x
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost6 N1 _# g: R$ r6 \5 k4 t, L
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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