 鲜花( 0)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
转自《出轨的中年女人》http://web.wenxuecity.com/BBSVie ... e&MsgID=3285188 ) B4 F5 N4 D Z* Y$ F
8 \9 M$ n( D' u* a! Q. t' n~SOMETIMES~
. z+ H* B+ F. O
$ ?; O5 c( M7 ISometimes people come into your life0 N" U; B- m0 Y t5 a2 }
you know right away that they were meant to be there,: i* K# w: G( [
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,: u3 u& g* R1 ]( v7 H
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
8 m2 b& K' P+ b; d; G) I8 X0 ]# U+ M% s6 q1 q/ X3 L
! Y( `! A# m0 T; ]+ q
You never know who these people may be
2 r2 o' A0 J1 Q c6 D; ubut when you lock eyes with them,$ G0 j; ]- c' [
you know at that very moment,
9 C1 s. l6 x2 J8 J( X& X! ^6 r. d2 N' v% D
They will affect your life in some profound way- Y# X' S+ D) L2 W$ X
! k2 j/ ^6 b. E6 v/ N3 n3 uThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!# g& K/ ?! A! s/ V/ ^. ?8 d
They are there for the reason you need them to be.0 e* n# m( F6 o, Z! S5 ~
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,; T c$ H* K0 Q. @
: a: e$ `- q7 H: G# L8 r7 B+ ~( v
The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.7 y3 J% V+ w8 H' J
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.* g8 n; p$ A" x" W+ u# g
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
) B: W; [7 J' w! N, Y! G6 m% j
. }0 x, M6 I1 _- z( q$ V, `$ h: e( s5 J& Q; i" m$ Y
What we must realize is that our need has been met,5 c2 R Q$ w0 \" ]
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
, H0 C& M1 i1 XThe prayer you sent up has been answered.; K8 ]8 m# I5 ]; o7 ^5 h1 r: R
And now it is time for you to move on.
' t+ T/ Y- r5 _ }5 U G( j/ j( j/ `5 q' D) h! P# S- a o
# {6 h; c5 D8 x+ a1 V |, E' ]6 G# m j% z9 X% y& d3 g& O
Then people come into your life for a REASON: u1 N2 |* t w/ L# s" ^$ n1 \
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
2 o7 @# w" V0 u# X bThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.* ~- g% P* k8 _" w
They may teach you something you have never done.
3 K9 t: R6 `: M; j" K: }3 h7 cThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
: ]1 j. S% \3 w0 s0 p5 ABelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
% y% r) Y+ U6 [! \
/ s% K! n% }4 b! u" Q1 f0 y
5 l+ n% s8 X+ D2 K
3 F' ]' b+ x6 P* l6 `5 uLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:! ^4 M7 k- F3 }+ _' D# S9 v1 [
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
# L) f3 x, Q" W! _8 Z2 JPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.( {& q# q: R c. C/ k
Everything happens for a reason.
5 [7 ` f( d$ d4 `, K4 E* u* PNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
7 {3 p) X* v8 |+ uIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ Z, S) M; o* o" u: L. J
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
! g! b' f0 r& x. Q
, X' x- n! f/ O5 ]+ f
2 W- R: q( j) y/ ]4 u5 X- Z- ?$ M8 [( o) G
If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
% b; G( S- T$ r; XYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,- X: Q9 O' t0 h
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
+ Q+ T0 A- \& _1 _for they have helped you learn about trust
% K0 m( t! P1 @- w$ nand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.! F6 E5 [" h/ V: {; t- \
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
, f8 j( v7 M c- w: ?( N2 ^Try to love them back unconditionally,! d9 p$ I3 D0 a! E3 e3 h
not only because they love you, but because in a way,9 s2 t) S }! f. M& ~5 c. R
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things./ v) P1 \# x8 W8 {
7 y* V$ ~, u! ~% _7 m$ I
The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
* e7 l7 Y# r1 L6 O
! w. ? X) W# e: T5 ~and a time to every purpose under the sun.4 A5 J( [! P N6 k; D; i' G
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
# h1 X/ a$ z0 |) o0 A3 Cand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
" J* m; V* J5 W7 |God's grace is as a healing hand.
+ B4 Q& Y/ _' V4 u% p5 a IAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
' c1 u- V6 e) othe warm memories and love for those we have lost
6 S+ r% I% V* n3 Lwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
|