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1 j7 v% Z8 z; ]' V' @( b# N; U+ a2 LSometimes people come into your life V b2 [8 s" u( w. A6 ]
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
3 l/ E$ ]/ m# _8 T F/ S! N8 u. l1 ]to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,% o+ x* ?" ]/ T ~' a2 E
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.8 V, f% ~( o$ h" h, W/ W- V
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: o4 ]# I7 E$ S6 @You never know who these people may be
8 Q# \, Q8 m. J9 t6 Q7 v' g7 G1 Ebut when you lock eyes with them,
8 ?1 E: s6 T, g; ^+ ~7 Oyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
* f% q( \) U0 [7 z; y4 c4 QThey are there for the reason you need them to be., e8 ~2 z% P/ y$ w1 H8 \
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,, X8 Q' p) k& a* {0 I/ L
; G; k& F, V6 @2 @. xThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.% |, g# `; @0 J* @7 P2 d
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.; C) g* X6 i; R6 @
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,2 S: @% n! L# n$ f0 Y
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.) d, b/ g; B6 G/ a6 W5 q( O1 x
The prayer you sent up has been answered.! Q3 |& W( r' C6 S' D" x/ c
And now it is time for you to move on.6 U( k W1 L* M
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
4 l0 I5 k# u9 a9 ?Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
, J! P z1 R/ g- V) _They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
) U9 T$ A1 i. E7 G" j: W6 ]$ rThey may teach you something you have never done.
7 S% m# A1 d6 mThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
! c5 Z2 \! X0 b) e2 {4 mBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
! x0 K+ P% t( c- w3 ^- FYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
/ J' _" P. O7 h9 v/ ]Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.& U* z) p; B! N' b p. W4 F2 p4 _
Everything happens for a reason.5 h- C" Q( ?/ y# r" q9 B
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
) M) S- s, Y/ t6 c/ S0 V+ kIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
4 D) r& b- {' C; f' [and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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4 j! P; V: t0 Y3 E( O o# YIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,* }0 \. l: Z: l$ b6 N- S# h6 H0 j
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,; S6 c7 I5 p- X
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,+ J8 z& A' Y1 W
for they have helped you learn about trust8 `1 g9 S( l/ Q" w* e. }! J
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
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Try to love them back unconditionally,3 `/ l. t- G& u7 f/ D# n
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
2 x2 w' q( W+ Kthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things., I. a5 Q* n7 W5 T3 E1 }9 T) o( y
& b( o2 ~& {- b; p, H0 y! y9 b7 `$ sThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.9 f" ]- A" q6 T" ^# N- ]
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
2 d4 |5 |3 k5 H# p: A8 ^7 dand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
) s, @* K: E9 Q$ EGod's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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