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: S+ j( U, v& F+ i, Q- oSometimes people come into your life
3 }! q) A% o O8 t5 W \1 fyou know right away that they were meant to be there,0 p4 A$ ~1 k3 ?
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,- h/ v1 \, z# E6 T6 i1 y2 K5 u
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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+ j N. @/ I2 @* ^1 V5 YYou never know who these people may be" ]( }/ M( E4 X! M6 k" ?9 T
but when you lock eyes with them,8 [/ Q5 m! I. ~
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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2 F8 ~7 l5 s9 C+ PThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!' P7 j1 l: g1 C: ?* }9 W
They are there for the reason you need them to be.' k) D7 E: r$ Z' `! _5 a
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,' v$ o6 T; K8 e; w
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
0 C$ W; r- Y( l5 g! w& _Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.8 }. Y) u% k2 ?5 \9 [% h
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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6 q- S8 n! S; _" w& oWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
: a- q1 ]2 A+ p/ K5 ~) ^our desire fulfilled, their work is done.: ?0 _; H: ~% n" _4 T
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
% c( V _4 n; [3 P( IAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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# R& i# | x5 ~+ s2 B! L# c6 [* ~Then people come into your life for a REASON _$ }. x* }2 m$ ^- |; [
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.5 w9 Y) p6 v% Z& X0 s$ L
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.0 V% Q. g I! M: d0 ?8 J0 E
They may teach you something you have never done.
! q+ Q1 N3 e/ z" eThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
6 r# U4 o* \/ f% g4 g0 P* N: oBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦. t. K' R- a( s+ I/ \7 S2 b
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:4 r' k! E1 W5 {
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,5 p: f% S+ \( r! l/ N
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.# Z+ A" R9 {; N
Everything happens for a reason.
; O$ w2 M2 e% C9 u" A8 W3 PNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
6 z! n" f. M, T/ v N6 i ]Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,2 Z9 J+ ?, p' e
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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+ g8 T2 D9 c3 Y: q! J/ D+ lIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
) N8 m6 Z+ G1 T1 wYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,. p, O! O( E: ^5 y( h: D! @
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,, J8 y4 V7 ~6 W
for they have helped you learn about trust
6 H4 v( }5 z) _and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
$ d7 M# O! l3 b& t0 W) z- V/ ?3 X5 KIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,! T! g; v) _/ C+ F {: q/ q+ W
Try to love them back unconditionally,4 w* \0 w9 n' J$ K6 _
not only because they love you, but because in a way,! o: [6 a" m' H' G
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things./ a. r4 b' Q- f! J3 D* Q) P# k2 Z
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,' o2 x( l# `) k3 A2 E. T% J+ l
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.* E$ U* B0 R) W' n# P; ]
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,9 T# d* Y! c3 o9 g# k! Q4 H
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
0 f' Z$ U0 H. i; j& DGod's grace is as a healing hand.
7 O4 _" J! H4 l; A( h7 [As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
# z7 a8 ^9 s- p0 g* H2 T! fthe warm memories and love for those we have lost5 ~4 a/ {& ~ ~7 c7 x
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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