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~SOMETIMES~# B( G0 @: l. K: G, I
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Sometimes people come into your life/ Y& S; h/ I5 [! G2 ^7 G
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
0 X' K! }1 Q7 n* Hto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,6 H5 N+ _4 C' N/ \6 l
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.& Z3 q% i7 S5 C( W6 u% a: }3 H. {
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You never know who these people may be
* Y+ }8 v& |7 xbut when you lock eyes with them,
) H0 |& |" w L+ Zyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way% I; ~& c! \% O! N
' A" O5 h2 H( @8 h" w: D8 aThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!2 N( p2 |0 j' T0 S
They are there for the reason you need them to be., a- ~' J$ x1 I$ h
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,2 M* y1 _6 G5 P1 z
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.2 B6 T' [% P: C' [! S ~0 K: y
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.( M. Z( u5 O, l# {% T0 q
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
, ~6 {& A; ], g. ^# Wour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
6 E. E4 \% L- l7 j' ?The prayer you sent up has been answered.8 s" V- U& @) y; S5 S
And now it is time for you to move on.
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A! n/ j9 r6 L7 n& r* K" MThen people come into your life for a REASON2 \9 ?% Y! q) |/ o
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.* R& N1 R w3 Z* {8 B0 h6 a
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.9 x0 I- ^9 i; s ?, ^
They may teach you something you have never done.8 h s6 {3 b3 l
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.8 x9 F/ b2 t/ j! v
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦) {& N+ G; U4 m1 o8 ~
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
- E9 V# B. T T' I! K* d/ s+ B6 YYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
! O3 `2 i% E% a% Z# l1 GPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.! i8 H; a* R3 D7 a" H. v
Everything happens for a reason.0 ^# h" v, O* [7 R3 o8 a
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
) G8 d% S+ e+ w* q2 u9 f% tIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ `- c S1 ?, s/ t1 }& a4 W
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
* u0 m; Q, `" r$ d8 ?& r( ZYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
9 y# V/ c8 p# P1 CIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,* |9 c# ^. q0 L! S) e* G$ E) m
for they have helped you learn about trust
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$ V2 \6 M" p& d# v/ KIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
: M( Y9 B8 `7 D rTry to love them back unconditionally,& l$ ?" W. V! m, C$ x5 l' [# q; ?
not only because they love you, but because in a way,7 E0 v1 D7 d" j: [3 F& W( d, ?
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.- @, f/ u+ O$ D# E
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,6 e, O X+ n$ b# T1 \# K
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
7 b5 x2 q/ h( v3 D8 {1 `A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
8 y0 N2 [& Z# s* p% _9 v. \8 s/ Uand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."/ f7 F; V5 |: @- R9 v* V% e
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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