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Sometimes people come into your life: F9 F4 P, L/ _' K
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
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or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.' Y7 K# X0 i' y4 s. a4 ?
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You never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,# e% U0 x( _/ |$ r3 J$ f
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They will affect your life in some profound way- A( V3 H# M \4 w
; \% g& K, ]7 ]They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
# ~8 Y0 r$ k$ `/ u$ RThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
6 D, q4 |# g6 n. D6 ]' [# n. OThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,, e/ |3 e" u( N- w
7 g% D/ l) t; p- [% A+ o3 D8 @# b' BThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
* |+ H) s. V/ {5 G/ E: VSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
# e, f6 o0 R5 d& T1 \! `6 TSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,6 l2 _+ k3 S6 B# x
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.! U$ D3 ^1 k. s0 g- ~3 w# a
The prayer you sent up has been answered.# O) B" m& p- H* T
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON4 U) H/ ]+ u4 M- X5 A+ W% P( \$ I. L
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.) Z9 V) b/ e) D/ [
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.. L; m6 N, K8 b' K
They may teach you something you have never done.
6 X5 u+ A5 n$ F1 M l3 k0 lThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.7 q( D5 ^1 n9 l. ]
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦+ d% \' {/ ?+ }2 T
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:" g! ?6 _3 k/ z# J9 `
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life, o1 y. M/ I2 T) T/ }, {6 X
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
: v, b+ d" q, |/ k4 j$ T, o; tEverything happens for a reason.; I, i8 v4 T% s7 h1 s9 A+ z, t- P
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
7 j# u& t: |+ \$ z( J" g; m( d uIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
& j4 i% h, Y G e2 D+ q) R% i% Tand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.6 z2 m0 h& ?9 q+ q
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,+ h& L3 [1 {: V+ ^# V
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,. L' Y; U0 V9 \
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,6 Z2 R8 E% ]2 C0 h8 n
for they have helped you learn about trust
! i1 S9 j2 A" c. D5 mand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.& ~& f% O% [8 H+ w1 a, o# `
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,0 u4 E" v$ n. n2 a6 S# l" z' X% u8 S7 I
Try to love them back unconditionally,- x# i. y9 u( w3 h" b% r7 }6 T2 p
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
. ?8 J7 ^' r: s3 XA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,5 d% U) Q+ @) [7 F, E
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."# i. z" P7 c* h/ T
God's grace is as a healing hand.
' A. K D) b F. G3 e0 U4 i2 v0 {5 W w% RAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,8 e8 r- [) n4 e: n I7 P% m
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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