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2 K, R. ?3 j% Z7 m L- hSometimes people come into your life
; n* j. a/ g. Y& b1 @* eyou know right away that they were meant to be there,4 M0 T3 R3 d7 G$ c' ~: }
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
. A7 v' c4 O0 [6 A$ H. qor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.# I' Y1 d9 {, p, U
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You never know who these people may be
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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6 q& Y) v2 Q# g/ V/ }& [1 ^6 D. CThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
! X! K/ y i3 I8 }1 iThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
- u+ @4 m' I" g! j& ?Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,5 L7 m3 H$ J% U
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.5 A x( g# X, `( _) Q
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.$ n; \/ u: Y( p
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.% m Y _( ~9 P' ~( \2 M+ G% A; {
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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$ [4 h" A8 a& b" \ h# gThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
. p N7 ]8 y* H1 ]1 D3 ^ I d+ ?And now it is time for you to move on. G" T. Z" A' V2 t+ z$ P
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Then people come into your life for a REASON- q i7 V2 {( ^4 b: d+ e2 d2 ~
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
\9 g# ?4 R7 @3 MThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
6 x3 L. w% T8 ~They may teach you something you have never done.- k5 I& ^( t s5 Z6 }* f+ \
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
/ L. X+ p3 M: c" PBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦! D+ X( [6 s3 X) N& T
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:, m9 G4 ]% W+ L- D
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
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Everything happens for a reason.0 {6 s+ l. m3 u4 y% |4 w
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.) q" w' y- E: p* N' W' S: r
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,2 A1 M- B0 x# r" \4 Q
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
0 D* c* {0 u7 V- e; _- SIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
9 a1 b1 z! c% o" Gfor they have helped you learn about trust
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Try to love them back unconditionally,
8 g- B: m9 K: ?2 K& t7 U" Rnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
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, C& Y8 R1 K$ S% O& DThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.8 Z/ `; m5 t. ]! ?' A1 k K
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,+ ~" s* [6 X& T9 n, |
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."; \6 F' _% p% r1 A4 @
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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