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# e# {3 \- g8 `+ x# x' z5 M$ v% P; `~SOMETIMES~ Y0 I: g/ j1 z
% l& Q. L4 O- ^& J# |Sometimes people come into your life
3 b# O$ g9 N# byou know right away that they were meant to be there,
- B& a l% [+ i3 Gto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,3 c5 J. s. |4 w9 W. y
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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: Z; R5 U w3 l* q ^% dYou never know who these people may be
3 }; Y$ O' O; E( }( b( R4 t% `but when you lock eyes with them,
) E8 v. N8 O! qyou know at that very moment,: r; u! p% Y4 G& b1 b
% g( a$ I3 E4 X3 R0 xThey will affect your life in some profound way4 H$ Q0 y8 t! {
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
/ C8 C" Y( k. y P: B, h; y/ OThey are there for the reason you need them to be.5 Q0 Z3 R! v4 U" }: k
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
; @8 h5 P* h" iSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.2 J( v0 A% y' K L p- i
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.* ~4 s# D' r0 O3 l, h
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
7 e6 I" h' }/ T$ qour desire fulfilled, their work is done.1 @5 W/ w8 {% B' F
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
) Z: k& L$ B5 O4 j: ]5 N0 R" [9 pAnd now it is time for you to move on., ^8 Q: w' T2 z" H4 s
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8 c1 C$ w- P' D+ O& j% ?9 cThen people come into your life for a REASON
+ @' P5 }+ c; C9 a, L- [Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 U$ [. \, H3 f3 Q, pThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.* o$ j! f7 e& Q6 G% Z
They may teach you something you have never done.
" U1 {8 J7 \2 A K/ IThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
0 w( _5 z O, e0 D$ HBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦+ b7 l9 N; u+ v' d3 B) B9 z5 t1 o
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:4 t+ j* l- B# `
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,+ p" w1 s1 G8 ~* C
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
! D0 B# Y- A8 o1 f3 h! eEverything happens for a reason.
% [& c6 _( [# A" ?2 B7 eNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
! G# S8 C2 V; V) F6 e# Y _Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,7 w4 f* h0 A" v% [2 O, }
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.3 p0 }; d: a4 U1 d( Z8 P
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& |# p5 i) k! X3 e$ I" \" UIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,+ w6 S7 F1 Y( g4 q& Z) }+ O
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
+ l3 Y2 ?- M: e" Z0 FIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,5 i9 Z3 a% L& A* p+ @- s
for they have helped you learn about trust {0 F1 Z' B4 K7 G/ C( L4 I
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.6 E" N$ a( ?3 U9 I: C
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,' f, }& e9 O3 _" j& x* z
Try to love them back unconditionally,
' F W# n% {) t' w' H- i$ a2 Enot only because they love you, but because in a way,
* z6 m# F4 ]9 h+ `8 O8 Lthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.% h, z0 {9 X4 u3 O3 A8 x6 u. n
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.! }: S# b" F& \% z: m! a' `' D* d
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
; F$ z+ g* p+ R( Y9 _$ z# Hand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
+ B' R7 h9 H3 v: @% } `+ qGod's grace is as a healing hand.
& \) g) g& a; c0 j& k \6 b3 |+ o0 EAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,0 q& ^1 s8 i! l8 b& g
the warm memories and love for those we have lost1 c" {, j% P+ O9 @' c7 @6 U
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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