 鲜花( 0)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
转自《出轨的中年女人》http://web.wenxuecity.com/BBSVie ... e&MsgID=3285188
9 a0 e' J9 t; _
' c+ [0 b$ p$ k- M/ Y~SOMETIMES~
- c5 ~7 g% u2 ]6 t' t; s+ `0 U/ H! J3 R% u1 U6 `5 X5 Z8 k
Sometimes people come into your life
' Q- l {' l) @4 Z- u3 n/ Zyou know right away that they were meant to be there,' J3 l' I$ e3 q4 y0 [5 H
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,. Z3 N$ B, f w
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
+ W+ G9 m# M9 E8 h+ Y2 U) v: z1 @" e1 w- d
* G( v( P, O7 U' A% H% t8 r1 ]4 ], f0 ^3 {7 f
You never know who these people may be% n6 ]6 Y$ L# z; P, b
but when you lock eyes with them,
( B& u* q2 b5 M% ~) ayou know at that very moment,
1 k/ g/ _1 n" w! b9 Z$ D6 C6 x6 _- q6 y
They will affect your life in some profound way
9 `1 O3 t. m8 Y/ K2 n _1 P
3 j$ W8 y# o J/ S. @4 f4 |& ZThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!% ]1 v0 V( t) j) [1 h5 ^; g! G: B
They are there for the reason you need them to be.. h8 t8 B5 W2 {
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
0 V( T+ |: e8 |! k- t2 M3 I6 `( `0 i1 l
The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.' K* u. }8 @7 _: a3 Q
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.& W' N5 S( H. R: p4 j9 B/ N
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.0 J& P2 d- w3 g: e1 c5 v
7 ?& ` |$ M) U* Y
' i4 d5 l$ r/ Q; \% S3 f
What we must realize is that our need has been met,3 y( D, e8 J& g( V) |1 S5 `' a
our desire fulfilled, their work is done., f* s# [4 P5 r! v9 e! J. J$ k/ Y
The prayer you sent up has been answered.3 r% `- c- A6 H, s
And now it is time for you to move on.7 F$ w4 `& b, [" Y" ?9 V' Y
4 B& ~1 `" k# k$ O
* u8 a6 j# J" M' B6 k: z- v
4 S% @: @/ l, }* \( A2 S" q* b; A xThen people come into your life for a REASON
3 _# E4 b! z- A& s' Q8 A0 ?Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
! g! E, n9 A$ i. NThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
4 }/ {6 _; h8 B% [* gThey may teach you something you have never done.0 R9 {6 i0 n+ p5 k. h
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
2 u6 m O! u. r- s; k9 M lBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦! `, b7 _. Z! k4 Z
5 l6 d& A: n# T
& J/ K0 ]. j" C* L; h0 J" b6 l9 p% g4 L; i ~7 n( h; e
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
5 @8 m1 p' v( k( W+ ZYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,# w7 p' J% d! v
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
7 M% d+ q- d: u1 b& S+ sEverything happens for a reason.% r8 y2 L0 R. T; N) M. e+ E
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.6 \% ^8 [6 e& q e2 Z. N. F3 j
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,' M, G2 k- @- L8 _9 \' Z
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
% u6 K, J4 f% l
. `$ I! w* x2 Z8 `
' X8 z3 J4 D* E1 M; f, m
' N. Q# G# ?! ~/ f0 ]If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,! L/ ]. F4 d; a& T: }/ z3 ]8 ]* H
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,& E$ m* C! p" n, O* \
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,5 X$ I7 _8 @& C) g) g% o* Y3 M$ M
for they have helped you learn about trust
t& t0 D6 P+ A0 Aand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.* s6 r5 K2 f/ x B# T
If someone loves you, express your appreciation," j8 J: h& m' \1 k9 }9 q; g
Try to love them back unconditionally,# D/ ]) o V* C: ]9 W* X
not only because they love you, but because in a way,4 z, {. Z* _# M7 l6 W
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.* U8 @0 x. q* m( X/ I
% ~+ j. X9 O9 Z/ l- }) {9 p
The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
2 l! ]0 m* Z& `; ?# i& |; e* v
" x' l9 c+ e0 d# S/ `: C4 Cand a time to every purpose under the sun.
' k, n& O& B1 m% F- mA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,9 F% A/ {; S9 D7 P5 b7 ]% g) S
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
5 e$ h& g( O: \, t$ @God's grace is as a healing hand.- D7 O1 m" q1 K& D
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,' @9 g2 u5 P/ I& r0 H
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
7 v4 k* Z3 y- K$ cwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
|