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' o- p! V: {/ Z! J7 a8 g" ~~SOMETIMES~
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4 V4 I9 W" ^$ ~- TSometimes people come into your life a9 x- _- E6 e1 S
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
2 B: e* M7 O7 C' m. i* g+ W" `to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,5 s, B% j; s8 l% G6 t
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.+ E1 e: k: i4 H
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* {, ?1 _; b3 |9 [You never know who these people may be; M8 g. W2 O: b- E3 R
but when you lock eyes with them,
, w8 q8 J. B- n! H9 z: V4 iyou know at that very moment,1 I0 m+ ^8 j) L& L; r4 m
, `# c% O/ a; h* T6 E8 v) e0 n# q, [* ~They will affect your life in some profound way$ `! w7 z& S0 A P) O
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
4 u5 \" \2 a/ i; | W9 PThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
2 L0 k) k3 t1 e) b. z& ~, `Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,4 V. {3 z% B$ n
/ a. `! e6 P j5 w* ~* OThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
' G6 P' ]; R4 A6 s: W2 wSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
! X+ O1 m5 B+ m4 xSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met, L6 i! y4 o+ S" V* N2 p
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
! g7 z8 X% D; }% J/ {The prayer you sent up has been answered.. f! z: ~9 N: V4 e, `3 {& G
And now it is time for you to move on.! v' Q2 K0 K* T
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
1 I- |+ h0 X/ g/ w7 DBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
# K; b/ X A$ A+ TThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.8 z4 }; r6 j! e6 y6 H
They may teach you something you have never done.; i4 ]% s- o3 X7 g$ _$ ~5 m
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.- ]. i8 c( m" U. ?
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦* Q2 g5 u& X8 y0 w/ |+ w
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
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Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
& Y6 f/ T$ q- f% \" }3 L; F sEverything happens for a reason.
5 [" G( b1 ^6 t L- @4 J+ B7 NNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
3 T& h. V) p6 }" J$ cIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
( ~+ J& F. q! Z1 U: _$ |. T$ E/ f. dand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,1 U1 ?8 H/ I$ t6 k: h5 c
for they have helped you learn about trust
; _) d+ I" y4 Dand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
' Z6 N* C/ x4 _' } h; ?; o$ S- FIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,1 }/ g+ ]0 V9 C% I% Q z4 [
Try to love them back unconditionally,' L5 b6 D- P9 D" M+ w/ Z
not only because they love you, but because in a way,& }6 Q0 v4 _7 M) f8 ?. H. K
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.& ^; `$ Z* H6 ^4 y! j* c# ~8 z7 B
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.6 E7 |# l- R8 u
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,$ O6 x2 k5 z5 J/ ~ N% V
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."$ Z6 J7 n p7 z! A, }6 p% {% T
God's grace is as a healing hand.
. Z3 G3 N8 i) G% ~" X- dAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
" @! F; z" c. g$ D1 c+ f, H& Sthe warm memories and love for those we have lost- q- P" c8 w, L* e
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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