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4 g, k# C, Z% S% i' h% @ b~SOMETIMES~
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) y. B8 J- N1 j9 l4 ^Sometimes people come into your life
6 X& [0 }& L- k6 z/ u1 Byou know right away that they were meant to be there, I9 V9 P( c# j, V0 s
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,2 |. d( z0 F- k0 C8 M% [
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.+ e( H" d6 Y( c t, ]+ w* t
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2 a3 C9 n7 d5 }3 `* J+ FYou never know who these people may be, `8 f, O* X: K- L2 o9 N8 y
but when you lock eyes with them,6 K2 n: U6 x/ T5 B5 O3 V5 Q
you know at that very moment,& [1 c( |$ r1 V2 H. X i7 g
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They will affect your life in some profound way6 P( o) [* x. y
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!) ^6 |/ |- |" H: \- D. z
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
- Q% t: e4 Y7 @# ~Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,% }9 L9 t% l! s0 F
2 _/ u% z: B/ ^- bThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
; A3 ?9 \/ q( {( S0 l H+ a' u# w ~Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
, a. O7 f% u% o8 G$ ASometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.: r" B" e+ f W; M9 r
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What we must realize is that our need has been met," ^2 z' C9 m3 g# \6 h
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
" h, Z |2 f1 r& Y0 y HThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
0 v( F S4 v. w' ~9 t+ dAnd now it is time for you to move on.' ]* P/ M7 V& o& Q
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$ A7 T7 a& F0 L( w; b7 [1 u5 c# zThen people come into your life for a REASON0 _$ o1 s5 u7 R" H
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.! H. @+ a. d2 M4 e; e9 k, j1 j
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
/ Y. Q5 t, {/ Z" z, y' f* k' |7 `They may teach you something you have never done.
$ U& a) s+ `/ B& `5 cThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
7 \' e. C9 `% CBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦ K( D3 w9 D: `
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:& Y+ n# }' |2 e
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
) x+ K' _# s1 l- w, ~( ZPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
( G! Y, w$ b% Z% [Everything happens for a reason.6 i2 ?! ~4 M E- a
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”., |% O. H) T# B. b) | X/ m. D
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,1 y: N5 K I2 A( r2 q% G) S6 ^
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,4 X+ d6 M4 M( V K- }
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
7 A; ~4 c, H: e- o4 i& G% mIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,% `% N6 F& L" U* p- q3 I7 m
for they have helped you learn about trust+ x/ l& b) ~" d! _0 {
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
) o& z0 H, x/ \& j6 N; @If someone loves you, express your appreciation,- D$ I( n M d2 Y
Try to love them back unconditionally,
. g! j4 o( n5 @" pnot only because they love you, but because in a way,& J$ i. v) q0 _& o5 B* ]2 O4 @
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.( ^7 w" A, f$ f
' M6 c0 a7 E2 ?% l S! JThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,0 q' y% |# P, a9 Q$ W) r
: b* L2 t5 `5 E& @: w, K) oand a time to every purpose under the sun.! t& D# U9 P! ]. |# \" Y
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
* k( x0 r: D6 Q% o$ `* Zand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."5 B- ~. }0 f: j( [ d
God's grace is as a healing hand." U x- b' Z d) `* t5 E& \/ D
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
5 ?8 t) C7 \7 n0 @the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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