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- z$ Z6 f& W3 {/ CSometimes people come into your life
g3 F$ w2 \1 I9 C7 z# i6 L! i5 Ayou know right away that they were meant to be there,
4 K x6 _$ F% ~to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,7 ]; J: C/ l( Z/ e/ n C! Z# m4 l
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
& W6 z9 ~9 g ]; T- pbut when you lock eyes with them,
7 F3 s" H( A% d5 Wyou know at that very moment,
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' K& n2 _ B, y" N6 i" c5 b9 m3 \0 RThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
# b, G& [ D: u/ nThey are there for the reason you need them to be.$ _& n# d2 Z) G/ s0 J4 c. e
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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8 M6 S. i1 X8 L* J& P) r) G3 a$ P8 A' P3 yThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.- Z0 |) d0 P K, X; {9 E5 ]
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.7 y2 F" J1 v, s2 e% {
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand./ A3 i1 J% _2 L* x
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,: L4 i( b+ F* F. |4 j& M
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.. s6 c7 Z6 h% Z f/ Q$ L
The prayer you sent up has been answered.0 t4 v$ d7 U; g6 x, f$ }& x
And now it is time for you to move on.
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4 d) M# u4 B( YThen people come into your life for a REASON, l* P' s( I B& X3 q0 H
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn., D6 Q! l8 D8 a- @4 f: ?
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.* P% j! J, o2 s4 t+ Z9 W
They may teach you something you have never done.6 @ H+ C% ?7 S5 [ x' d
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.4 v6 q3 i' y7 P1 Q5 z
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦; D; z# [. ~/ u! }
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@5 b& v& V7 iLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
% e8 p0 Q6 T( V& O3 W! G; i* f8 t8 ?Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
# c( V! i9 u* w/ U# a8 d( y/ iPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
: J6 P* Z$ v; F& P0 `0 |5 BEverything happens for a reason.
% s* ]% r& Z }- L* Z. w- jNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.8 n3 z% [+ o. D" Y; `
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
7 {: g5 ~) ~7 }/ M( R* J$ sand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.- R ?1 Z6 S; q+ Y
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" |! F' w9 v2 t7 r6 m T- HIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful, {4 ~. `: i9 l
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
6 F* v; E% ?$ u3 R' OIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,% l ^9 |- z- C+ m/ f
for they have helped you learn about trust- `( ? m7 P: e$ n
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.& Z# t) O! B3 j; |/ X- P* |, B3 x
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
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not only because they love you, but because in a way,% R* R3 n! o1 w" |- ~9 [2 W R
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things." E) \/ F2 ^ f4 T$ O b
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,. ] `. S$ z3 u$ `4 Y7 E5 N
D. U3 G+ g% \and a time to every purpose under the sun.+ y% @6 i) K3 q' W0 l) q0 G
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
- h% y3 A1 o1 N& l% ^, |6 K6 Vand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
2 { s+ C1 a7 t% m4 XGod's grace is as a healing hand.
4 s' {+ d6 o5 l4 q3 l' A* s8 a' A: TAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,6 t7 S) |' Q, O! N! ^7 z
the warm memories and love for those we have lost- p9 A) j( o7 r. S
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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