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$ j) M# X+ y. F1 `) \ ~ mSometimes people come into your life
9 ~ q/ X) s' c( p1 H3 ]you know right away that they were meant to be there,' f$ Z: s8 b, J$ T# p0 s
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
. \7 w" a5 {/ p/ L$ i* B2 Aor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.* d& y. g9 E1 O+ y8 n
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You never know who these people may be! P) {6 A. Z, o- F! F
but when you lock eyes with them,, T, m8 m2 A+ Q0 {. f: _1 Z
you know at that very moment,
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6 w, @! c; h) A! L gThey will affect your life in some profound way1 \& N4 Q+ y$ W) g
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
& q, J( L& f$ l$ m; xThey are there for the reason you need them to be.# [* O7 f4 q# {+ V: c% Q
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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) Q2 M; R2 |; I, HThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
& q0 E9 G3 c( {, N9 `3 A) r' L% |Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.8 B t1 a% H! _, i8 V, }
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,% C9 e- c/ d- s
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
0 o( N+ W9 i+ H7 c/ ~; HThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
( w% E* K$ J- u7 x1 E& bAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
) I: [# H$ M2 T1 @4 X4 iBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.2 X5 ^/ J& ^! P. p% ^3 v
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.% Q* z, k7 J" R; }5 v- Q
They may teach you something you have never done.
6 h4 r* C) L6 j" @9 J0 TThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.( D/ ?8 u8 X2 c
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦- o$ W# R! N6 ~2 R# \
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8 v9 P" _4 N5 c q; K* i$ PLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
" i6 t4 f- K$ G% R2 _4 r% TYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,/ G' P. m% N: E8 [3 d' o3 q0 \& M. X
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
0 E9 o) N5 i! u% R! Z& mEverything happens for a reason.* V8 U6 q) h6 v0 d* Z
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.' f" T3 G( w* ~" z2 i
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,. B8 s9 z( X+ n' m# z; m
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.) z1 ]# q8 [" U: V; y
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8 |7 u8 W0 D9 ?& j9 \If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,6 e$ g0 t% ^5 c; @
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,: `/ f g' p2 a0 l3 }' { g
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
' c) S1 u: h1 K+ E7 ~5 U& Qfor they have helped you learn about trust5 U7 d- R7 ~# I. |. Z3 W$ U# }; n, q
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.5 [; T2 B% s: X9 Y) x
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
$ o8 H# Q4 q0 q- @9 x2 ~* u* J/ ^Try to love them back unconditionally,
! h, U7 l. ^/ p0 n8 E: ]! i' Lnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
' A% |' K5 f( J athey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,0 {5 E3 u/ ]* W6 ]2 P
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
, O8 Q& G5 j. l' eA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,& w8 x: }: ?, a9 x" ]& M
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."% w! N0 X7 U9 P8 U
God's grace is as a healing hand.0 e3 p: K6 K7 k! f
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
3 L, K" L" e; N: ?$ t2 b- }7 w+ Tthe warm memories and love for those we have lost% i7 E) J0 e: O+ v0 ]
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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