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* ~# b7 } E+ q% D% t~SOMETIMES~
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( B5 ?$ v2 @0 `" ~1 F, n; m' }Sometimes people come into your life
# u) q( p3 b0 j9 H" syou know right away that they were meant to be there,
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or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be- T% T0 ^, O3 P" j9 O
but when you lock eyes with them,* S4 P$ J/ n$ E, j$ C
you know at that very moment,
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- W, U7 R( A- L2 f. }; QThey will affect your life in some profound way Y# M) ]" \% n" s" j
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
2 R) u7 @: ^6 \3 [- [% t0 o. ]They are there for the reason you need them to be., r$ Z/ J0 E' _
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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, R$ z2 `3 x m2 _2 k2 PThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.! @* T! e" S3 i7 g& }8 I5 v; V
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
" w+ ]! A9 Y/ A, }3 w3 lSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,9 i/ n% L2 X. o/ B6 e
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
/ V3 m$ k, U3 `3 G& dThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
' K7 q7 t9 |5 ?# cAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON; m) ~# m! ]! z- p9 o
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
6 ?6 }7 g! e4 u2 S" [0 t6 f; @; {They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.- a/ `# F- r$ K
They may teach you something you have never done.
2 d- C! I# L( N1 A. ~: |They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
G' N e4 z4 k8 \( \5 l# i* BBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦7 {" d; X. @5 F Y0 o) N l
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:6 M, }) @" \# G& [8 S
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,$ V( T) e* w( A! K; ]: l
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.; s k; R+ _! G1 C6 l# F2 X
Everything happens for a reason.
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Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,' u5 z9 Z/ o5 n+ b9 @# x& S/ \; z+ R
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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/ }- X% u T9 ZIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,% j: x) C- X" |, s% S a4 M3 ?
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
/ W1 K) E1 _" f7 eIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
+ ^, b' U3 O9 y3 `1 Yfor they have helped you learn about trust
( \) r) K8 H9 s9 z: ^& D1 r$ band the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
. z( l' z; h# d8 _- O( P# _8 FIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,( }/ N: R* M' }2 E" J- ^
Try to love them back unconditionally,, L9 H1 F( b5 B- J: D% u3 U2 `
not only because they love you, but because in a way, k$ P6 V: [, h. y( a1 n
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.$ T* m4 D6 _1 F6 r3 q o! r
I) p- D$ s9 v8 V4 wThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
0 w2 h; w. W; D! nA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
7 `' K' P; Y+ E4 Fand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
0 k$ ]: h) K3 @" EGod's grace is as a healing hand.4 ]; x/ W7 j5 H# C5 S$ @$ M& {
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,8 C+ f9 }% N- q" B
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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