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~SOMETIMES~8 D, c4 G* W j) n3 E) s1 c
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Sometimes people come into your life% }' Q' l8 j% R: d
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
2 j% U( j$ M9 d; ?7 o, ]7 dto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,& C5 R5 N6 \0 n1 Q* n9 y2 f- x
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.. y G1 V9 f% B+ w& c
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. i7 P& F0 V6 G3 I4 S) gYou never know who these people may be
2 @1 K: @) K- c1 z" }& obut when you lock eyes with them,
4 W' D9 z6 t" ~3 Iyou know at that very moment,$ y# D2 _' D* D3 c# f6 R
+ S; m3 z1 y* H/ rThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!4 K8 y& g+ W7 L$ d
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
+ J! m: w# i2 f, }8 R% {0 {Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
; A; `; a2 s9 a f) ISometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
" t$ l2 O0 M, P2 V: [& zSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.$ u( \3 h( Y( X* P: i
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! |: D f+ W* n+ X! [What we must realize is that our need has been met,! P0 y5 p2 }( J G7 ^0 ^& S0 R. D2 _
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.4 k) o# x7 ^+ q
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
# J# x! E; R AAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON) F c" N8 F1 {# R! [" s
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.2 {9 U, f' E- w! C9 R9 @
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh., Z$ J; [7 q- r$ R2 I
They may teach you something you have never done.
# c9 x- O* G% b" |6 t1 D% c& jThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.3 T2 k- i3 A5 r; _. T
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦2 S' D3 v T. B' p V
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:& v6 j" Y: B% _2 m4 x% |. I. V
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
Q4 b! h! |% [) d( ^( ]/ u: J ?1 OPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.) R0 |! z3 e6 t2 {% F y* X
Everything happens for a reason.: l9 h/ {6 |) @% ^
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.9 [1 x, t/ v, i) _" W( ~9 x& u7 O
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
; F3 a0 |5 r7 R6 ]; N# ]$ I( Oand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,- m6 p9 I+ u5 Q/ m- A I9 ~% a% j, C
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,- p- Y |/ W6 _* ~( [
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
. w1 w# y0 T! Afor they have helped you learn about trust( o2 G7 Y8 N" k3 X3 l5 A( K
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.7 }' X( o3 l' H
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
1 O% P" {# t# F/ n, C/ O# q. s/ x9 OTry to love them back unconditionally,0 u% I$ Y2 C' g
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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) _5 D0 F1 M4 {. OThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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7 s& Z! h* }6 b4 P: j8 T: k4 sand a time to every purpose under the sun.
8 P2 k0 y5 o% f: Z' Z) NA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,2 @% e6 w' T2 V3 H- t# B5 w( b
and a time to pluck up that which is planted...": U; S x+ F3 l5 h5 Z- j, c
God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost6 U! U4 d3 G& i& b$ f
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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