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1 X2 h& s, G" S$ N- W! S& iSometimes people come into your life
0 |0 W3 F! W% R% n6 `. B+ Lyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
! v, e6 A8 d$ z2 v8 s/ Y0 S. M [to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,* I) o' I' ^" p* J1 d3 s0 w$ @
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.# b$ |0 ^9 [7 G9 X' u4 A! ]
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& H- j; H: O7 |8 A; j* X& \* kYou never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,% }1 O: }1 {! ?- x* F
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!9 D6 d; @+ J [$ S+ i
They are there for the reason you need them to be./ y A, X( v+ }5 n6 S) F+ r* X J
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.5 w+ \9 G' q0 S4 v4 @
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.* d0 `( R. f( `, B" Y8 W) m
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.
+ o( U* p4 @& I1 i* JAnd now it is time for you to move on.( l' P/ `1 y6 b) a8 ^6 N# t0 T: [
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Then people come into your life for a REASON8 G) Q6 R& F" Y8 e/ C" Z' e
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.4 F) L7 a: \" N8 D+ U7 q
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
D/ ?' h, O) ]2 W8 P" h: RThey may teach you something you have never done.
/ W `0 ]0 ?$ D EThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy." j# O. R- F: d; A4 n
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ G# l; y5 ^ `0 q1 y
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9 E* o3 d6 W& c. w3 C" l; NLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:1 W" o* e. D( j X$ ^8 _
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,2 ]) K# U% k7 r
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.6 }: S4 v+ u8 z1 _- G$ |( _4 T
Everything happens for a reason.' L* ]1 [- m5 i7 [9 B
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.( l& ?& ~% Q5 z: ~
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ h" D7 [! \& y, T4 }) M7 z
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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& u! n1 v+ x# t+ ~If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,) L2 r1 g3 _& \, q
for they have helped you learn about trust; @( W2 s. Q$ b) `) s/ Y8 Y: v
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
& x8 Z( g6 ?; B5 F2 D4 J; C ~) hIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
4 t$ O' z; p0 |0 g2 y' N/ ~& ]4 tTry to love them back unconditionally,6 b0 X7 W# C$ H7 p& q, p- N
not only because they love you, but because in a way,, Q, s4 @: h* U. s
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.( {# E4 Z! g5 v: W d* t' I
* J% N }5 U f1 v& e0 EThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,3 f; O* `0 ^/ l9 }7 v. o' k4 \) r8 v
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.0 e+ d* N- R- S+ b
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,+ d8 n' Z. y/ X& f; U1 b7 p; [
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
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As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,/ E: J4 Q7 q: ]: O# W! F: e; N
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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