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Sometimes people come into your life" ~1 ]; @' r2 q8 i
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
' w1 {/ Z: O2 Q2 cto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,/ Q4 i9 x/ S1 I% U1 B( i5 i9 _4 b
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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' B, o$ i d' ^4 d8 CYou never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,+ A) B, F2 X0 E4 R4 K0 T x. \
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They will affect your life in some profound way2 R+ `1 k6 y. i% R H" g
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!, |( O6 x/ [! e2 |* g( M% s% c! L
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
' R# ` k9 Y# G' a7 Y7 `Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,% t, M- m6 Z7 S5 f. s1 L
2 `; {; ^8 f. r. O& bThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end." X7 U! a: B0 V
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.' o5 X" R% r1 ^/ c0 M- F$ X8 K
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.6 y6 L1 R; ]9 C) W
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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, m* }! i6 v" Y8 b. qThe prayer you sent up has been answered.# t1 L7 r2 a0 |1 @" ~( |5 E
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON9 F+ p7 A7 _6 @# p' W
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
/ K& Y& p0 ]! v) K8 PThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.$ g% r* H) \9 G+ c2 s' @
They may teach you something you have never done.5 H# g) k/ B# w6 }# c
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.$ v4 P6 L) @( ~$ O
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦5 D" i* _2 C8 y3 W- j
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
, D# f& X- q+ s# lYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
7 j2 B) ~& D" Q$ [Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.8 q+ U( r% m; M
Everything happens for a reason.! o9 N6 h* y, G q2 N* a
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.2 [" U; b! q! {' [
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,% C+ R" H& u% Q' z# s: G% Q
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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% O% T, g! E! {9 M* y3 SIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,& E4 K, Q: b! }7 Y+ y5 @, w
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ H8 i6 C/ _$ D& p8 S1 f2 \
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,& A, ?# ?& _0 F1 W8 N* B
for they have helped you learn about trust5 D2 X- H. v, c: ]! [0 V. T1 M
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
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Try to love them back unconditionally,. }$ b o0 e8 f
not only because they love you, but because in a way,; b! G7 K* I; e3 C" m1 ?
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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; N% b4 R6 _0 Q9 L' jThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.7 J7 V [# z. ?" \/ A7 H# U2 y9 O9 \
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, e2 J) R7 b% T- }4 {( J; D) [9 R
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."3 V+ `, ?0 R1 H% P+ {- I
God's grace is as a healing hand.5 }6 r ?* i5 B+ c
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,, W6 C* ?7 D$ b
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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