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+ k0 [# F0 x# I: m~SOMETIMES~
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* w# f6 e3 j, lSometimes people come into your life
1 ?! \ }- F% O5 f$ q' s s/ byou know right away that they were meant to be there,5 a0 A$ W5 N) e2 U- N# v
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,5 G- B2 V" ]$ m
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be- x& {5 O3 ?7 M) @
but when you lock eyes with them,4 t6 B. v! g! B2 c, Z
you know at that very moment,1 `% ~5 z$ l$ N: S# {
% H5 P( s0 Z! C/ G& L0 `7 L# zThey will affect your life in some profound way7 p, f0 S, U/ g4 @% Y
4 ^4 ?# L+ U* N+ t) l L! HThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!/ ^! z: E4 q1 R9 S& O
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
+ \ B I3 }/ j, q; ~$ [/ MThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,0 Y0 W" u, V0 k( s9 c y7 I/ \
4 O, G% N- Q) D' d! xThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.+ T D. y0 m, O) R7 p& Q
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
1 _1 Y5 u% v+ _( j) J& Q9 z* rSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
5 T E/ e1 F! z: f$ I/ your desire fulfilled, their work is done.
- [& M6 {" m2 x( IThe prayer you sent up has been answered.4 N3 T: N- W& o. ]: O
And now it is time for you to move on., f9 `$ }6 K5 g% i5 |" h
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Then people come into your life for a REASON" Q3 X ]% } F
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.9 D4 t4 s6 Z' _# |8 V. R+ |
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
& h7 M+ C! K8 S" D8 Z. gThey may teach you something you have never done.
; D6 J( n1 H, _9 [, I, uThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
; j% H( \- ^- g9 `Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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0 |- Y6 f4 T: K+ L8 ~: r) {LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:6 g% g7 e% E* v: {9 W
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
: \7 I" g2 u ?! [9 APut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life. _" w& k, X( w0 L' N* @+ V$ _$ W( ]0 ]
Everything happens for a reason.
/ s5 k: G) J" Z+ Q% fNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.+ y* [. B* S: k: s2 ~- L( |
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
0 ` _/ J5 Z! s* Oand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
U6 B6 r# h7 ], z+ _You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
/ k+ P$ ~4 F: f+ m& a+ U; H4 ?0 iIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them," M3 X" H8 n: B4 X+ q9 ?
for they have helped you learn about trust
4 g, o' a2 ^- K( \9 i/ _7 Band the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
/ [( \ z& s) zIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
5 J8 [/ O* n. l/ I2 ?2 b' NTry to love them back unconditionally,
( [+ e6 Q7 Z6 C0 s. U Snot only because they love you, but because in a way,
5 C& R- |( K; A9 ? l' l2 |8 |" qthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.+ ]) i# {4 H4 r8 _6 X
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,, E0 T* S4 @+ f+ Z5 ~/ `) |
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
# P( a8 Y/ T: I/ _# tGod's grace is as a healing hand.
& a0 A) E+ M+ l- ]! b0 CAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
( J% `, g" K3 T" b }the warm memories and love for those we have lost
0 f1 ]6 A7 `- k" B* ^3 Kwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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