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Sometimes people come into your life
6 ^( U: I A) {0 o, |: lyou know right away that they were meant to be there,! Y( z" s1 D) h$ C3 r, Z
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
8 j' T1 p+ P& o( V5 n# H/ r' K$ P& Dor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
/ q* a/ I$ l$ K) O4 z2 W: Fbut when you lock eyes with them,
( n; l/ s1 h2 Z. B7 Uyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way, e/ ]- c7 ]4 g) V k3 R/ H
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
7 R _% _4 {6 p! D/ S! |They are there for the reason you need them to be.. k, V; Q; O4 i9 ~
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.# M; m. I6 X0 K6 O2 p3 E, B& t
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.; |* s2 k+ I u
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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7 q+ ~# M( n+ ~# uWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,) m( C* A" K" W- W
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
0 c0 K6 T( q; S$ P" o5 o+ f! ^The prayer you sent up has been answered.% o. ?0 t, x7 Z" u
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON4 U+ g, w5 d! @+ C, d+ r6 R
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 l# q: y& n. ?" m: FThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.8 s8 o# v: d& P% C0 X/ r
They may teach you something you have never done.
. @9 l5 |% I# n" Z$ {# C& _7 MThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
" w4 s- k( O" T( G. i! }9 `. DBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦' g1 f( j3 b( t% r) k
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:/ Q6 `. `) y7 L
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,) i4 I1 |2 R* I* ^* j
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.& I! y0 u* q1 r
Everything happens for a reason.
7 g9 y3 C$ G) \% ^' _Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
3 I6 F$ f& Y5 b& P( XIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
0 e. D8 k" m- H W& ^8 Gand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.% M8 ~1 G4 l. X! M6 a
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9 \$ ^/ z3 a( {! O# cIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,# {; |2 U @* c/ v3 l
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,( ~' R: o7 ?& {) J" V: z4 Y& T
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.& }. o% }3 e3 }# @. {
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
% B* M( r8 o6 ?Try to love them back unconditionally,7 j) x8 G9 V; T* _
not only because they love you, but because in a way,. l: p$ s, G8 e2 D
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.: o+ @: K5 e: o# J6 y
+ l$ g+ ] n/ P! b+ pThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,3 u* |, K- b' X, I s; S9 Z
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and a time to every purpose under the sun./ O+ E% Z! ~1 w5 i0 k
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,! p/ q7 ^, q5 G, B& K8 c# x
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
: e( ?* c4 Z( H* S) mGod's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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