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~SOMETIMES~! ~9 b4 ^5 B; ^6 P+ R% `
0 x7 J9 I9 l5 `4 y% g A% _3 GSometimes people come into your life. e( c* V6 ]7 d% m. S" e! P
you know right away that they were meant to be there,; G# X! J3 ~& A4 q: B$ _9 d) W
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
8 E" i, r5 f0 }* S% u) `* Y- @or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be." A/ G V; h( G) B h
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$ r5 B3 A! }7 D+ PYou never know who these people may be3 L7 u9 E. W1 s' |3 `
but when you lock eyes with them,
$ @9 S8 _( M& v$ d+ Qyou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way. Y# g+ U0 G& U/ ~' n
6 e4 e* g- d& M1 XThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
3 v" \2 L U- vThey are there for the reason you need them to be.. m. `+ i3 j7 n
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.0 J7 z+ A8 d% w9 t# v/ R4 }
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.0 i6 w/ g9 V% x& ?, J/ Q2 E# L& z
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.! T/ X v' o! v3 D
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+ S, H/ U* V/ O8 _& EWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,6 I2 Q6 A& O3 `4 ?
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
5 a) Y' ]1 p3 o1 R2 r6 P' iThe prayer you sent up has been answered.8 [6 K5 W/ Q0 a1 B) {
And now it is time for you to move on.
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* u+ W' v M* U: oThen people come into your life for a REASON/ T$ Y1 d, U7 V5 J# l, _
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
5 X1 h( x( t2 y$ F. z1 `% mThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
( E; v) V* W4 M6 V% oThey may teach you something you have never done.7 G# g% ]0 L0 H4 l4 D
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy." I; ?4 p/ D' [, D- T! u( Y
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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( x8 c; t; ~; E! j* d' VLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:; v: x3 H$ U# o) O# s
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
) T- ^0 M8 h0 c! B w1 P- a) V3 ^Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.3 g7 O; ?( M Z6 u9 W
Everything happens for a reason.7 B5 A. E B! t1 P- p9 V& ]
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.7 F7 c& D2 @5 f2 c0 j5 R( c
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,. r* H5 {* }2 e& o
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.8 d& m- C$ a# G# M8 i/ x7 V
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3 n" e) W. P/ b6 {If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
7 ^! `2 p1 l4 ?6 C, ?You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
% l% o# K5 p( H3 {; a9 oIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,2 ~8 o) \9 w! N7 Z/ x
for they have helped you learn about trust/ E& z$ ^ [4 [" a/ u7 l
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
6 }. ]+ C9 y/ f. x" kIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,2 o4 M7 v% U) L, O9 B
Try to love them back unconditionally,
y! g$ c6 |* ?not only because they love you, but because in a way,5 H$ C+ g3 `+ g
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.4 a e) Q2 z2 w: q# K* y
1 e) l1 z1 y. L5 v _, O3 fThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,' i3 e; h, [; a, y, |* Q
6 H5 ?4 A5 V" i8 |2 Z, g; Dand a time to every purpose under the sun.
: z, {8 d3 J* h. p$ `A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,4 H3 R7 U) c4 y c7 C
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
4 Q* X4 A, @8 YGod's grace is as a healing hand.& ?2 t+ t1 N" C- X6 i/ `
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
1 o& @8 o# I$ _1 d/ ~) f9 H4 [the warm memories and love for those we have lost
0 D0 a2 ~0 R3 ]: l1 A ]will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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