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4 ]4 l3 R7 P v* Q. l* Z( W~SOMETIMES~/ \- e3 j" ^+ A2 O& X& ^
8 _8 S- g- \* Q" i" R# kSometimes people come into your life% n/ G- z- t8 @- O
you know right away that they were meant to be there,2 e( a5 G' N% p! x/ U
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,* X( g: S) W7 E, q6 G+ D/ A7 _
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be" K. s9 R6 ^& A1 q: X1 W
but when you lock eyes with them,
1 o7 v& V, M# S5 F* U J0 W2 Z4 w; Uyou know at that very moment,
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; E( R+ S0 S. z6 L3 Q. }They will affect your life in some profound way* P5 V2 T& b7 Z" L Q/ W; L
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!8 I% Y, c. p" |
They are there for the reason you need them to be." k5 D: e% K2 G7 E
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end./ I, S9 w, S% a/ ^. ~# m* u
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away. e6 F) ?7 W0 b0 E
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand." K: `4 @, H! \. g N
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; ], E2 O7 |5 e; c: bWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,: v- O' x9 k( x9 p* _% I$ t* q, c
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.' h: ?/ o- _: i8 Y7 f% h) ]( B4 r/ `
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
: f1 ^6 |* Q, s6 e9 Q, FAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON! E+ B3 N/ P5 I: z
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
5 a) L7 y4 p6 i8 E* }They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.+ C: e$ }0 q/ W& J& a: G
They may teach you something you have never done.
& M) r% L) r& s5 ^( X0 cThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
: v3 k6 Q9 i& D, B' f2 g$ l+ M: cBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦: h% F9 v6 e$ o/ k3 I
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:1 o% @% {' }! ]( T# U
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,( y7 ]3 U4 t& ^" X( r$ w7 m3 l
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.5 d a' _) o! z' ?; d
Everything happens for a reason.
6 l: I# t# ^. H3 ?: VNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.# b' b5 x$ Q2 z
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
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0 F8 M& m8 @9 CIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
3 c2 E4 Q2 m* Z2 Y3 R4 a9 sYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure," y7 H5 @+ ?3 }; H; _% X
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,% O- C) G, C7 P- M9 S, l
for they have helped you learn about trust9 K/ d) G: ^ i' [! V# W: T" o2 `
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.$ e1 i! r o+ x+ v, s# \
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,4 ]& a! y( T+ C' x+ O
Try to love them back unconditionally,
8 f2 |# u# x8 R. h8 Z6 [not only because they love you, but because in a way,# Z$ \0 N L& V6 \6 r" j
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.+ e. g2 J( ]. V* S) Y1 H
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,' n% G$ t. g$ @: `0 [0 Y/ t
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.4 c% u9 U0 |& y" P* @+ L
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,5 \* v0 ?/ R9 m% _1 | B4 i
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
- `' w2 L, A3 f, ZGod's grace is as a healing hand.6 W s3 y# w, _( I( n% \
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,# \( U9 ^6 v: c& j! L; N5 _: ~
the warm memories and love for those we have lost4 S; |/ ]. V, X
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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