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Sometimes people come into your life) Y2 H5 {5 R+ {! D) F
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
9 I7 e/ ^! D. o# y$ mto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson," u0 j* C2 @! X& `' n: V
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
( q9 l& Z/ z- Fbut when you lock eyes with them,
, Y5 B, Y p1 L* m6 ~5 F- x; Iyou know at that very moment,+ q% ~4 V Y; U/ h! \5 K
7 M6 R4 D& A& j' e! x9 o. NThey will affect your life in some profound way
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5 W$ o1 T% h" @, Z) rThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
( H9 [4 a* p) s5 E; M. R/ H* lThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
: u9 Q0 X% o f2 m+ X# S" \Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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! H/ t& T x& K+ rThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
; P( p- i' i" E# C) F! e, v+ DSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.: e% u$ y+ p7 J6 K1 I2 G& a( k
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
' K' A% n6 u9 U( y0 I' Y9 A& X- _3 lour desire fulfilled, their work is done./ Z/ v: k$ G& }3 P
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
7 D* m" q' p6 B: D0 H3 _6 X: BAnd now it is time for you to move on." a4 j5 V. Q' x0 d
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Then people come into your life for a REASON) u; g [1 X6 e, u
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.' ]9 J: E" s% ^& }! c% I
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.6 _1 R: c, O/ s
They may teach you something you have never done.: w5 g" |. T5 K; E
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.( d/ l$ ?7 E: R3 v2 J; g& H+ h
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦3 y' \9 t+ ~, a( a. d) R& \* {/ ] D5 T
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: ~& |, C3 b+ @$ x8 h
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
* m$ F2 B8 Y' @0 I' j8 _* ]Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
- u6 o$ V' z7 R7 H/ B [1 ?5 Z# eEverything happens for a reason.
5 C* h: W9 O, K4 W0 S- [9 ^Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
w n* a1 f* ?6 h( s4 eIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,# b$ A0 n/ e5 W3 G L. Y( k
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.7 V$ }9 Q4 J7 }: p: [+ F
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7 x% O/ U- S1 e1 u( d, n) OIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,( Y, p& Y# O! A% p# e
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
' T1 j' ^# [& \+ S# N3 j$ qIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,5 E" i. A9 J% D# X6 m1 c6 O9 B
for they have helped you learn about trust
# r% O5 g& H; ?* `, G+ tand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
4 a; Y" [# V4 T& @If someone loves you, express your appreciation,9 o7 K: w( \4 U" [# \
Try to love them back unconditionally,# Q5 B1 K- F; L- X
not only because they love you, but because in a way,+ V6 T' F/ ? g* Z# D9 z8 Z8 b
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things./ Z1 N6 ^. P7 p% c- x7 e1 J
! T$ V! g3 T2 qThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,/ I0 k: O2 T, [
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.' b) v4 V9 W. N7 Z3 Y. D
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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God's grace is as a healing hand.# N8 x) W* k& m' F/ Y! j w
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
" R& ?5 o* ^# I- ?- Zthe warm memories and love for those we have lost" L y- q6 q3 c# A0 c
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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