 鲜花( 0)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
转自《出轨的中年女人》http://web.wenxuecity.com/BBSVie ... e&MsgID=3285188 : l0 @; L* O: w5 l! [
) | N$ \; `1 s B" k. e7 P0 c. w, G~SOMETIMES~( N i. n$ W/ M7 s: X" o
4 k- C; J( K1 [( i" W/ I4 ASometimes people come into your life: b) J8 X8 z1 {1 [7 ^$ Q
you know right away that they were meant to be there,. V e G3 s1 G0 ?; N$ i2 P
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
% Z6 e9 U' x1 Z+ E+ V7 n* T9 gor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.4 ~/ Y$ `2 V0 X
% c- v3 m; s; S8 T/ C- f9 a( \
- C8 w0 o7 a5 _You never know who these people may be1 W# q3 d$ {7 x! S6 g# ]
but when you lock eyes with them,
. j6 @. s7 I/ z3 K) p# pyou know at that very moment,
$ v j/ u9 g: t) X1 t- Q6 M" o
# B8 n6 i" Y, j/ P2 tThey will affect your life in some profound way
& X# [; B3 D& Z9 D" n
( o7 p: K4 W6 F2 e# c9 @5 o* u% BThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!, N# d* x* K( ~
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
: e- b( J; T; HThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,- n0 f% v$ @1 F+ o! P1 ^, @! }. k
[/ @/ J4 l: ]( Y/ D; F
The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.% g+ j1 t8 Y5 N1 _# D8 i0 b
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.+ G3 h7 ~% F$ c1 T0 `
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.# @2 ` p1 ?# o
# O9 w% t( c5 j+ |$ A4 Z, z1 v0 `! i6 N6 w h
What we must realize is that our need has been met,( p: u8 n) B" C; n$ Z
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
- c( _! n8 q/ e7 @6 \) }& q3 q: DThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
+ i$ b; p# c. j9 ]7 EAnd now it is time for you to move on.. A$ F+ F2 _: A! M5 P
% A: u# q- ^9 Q4 q+ N4 Z* L
, l& W) M# B8 l i: g# Z
: @ N1 l# b9 Q7 g* K8 ~Then people come into your life for a REASON
2 D3 e) }7 v# {3 l1 X; vBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.* a8 v# W9 H) ^7 M4 ]4 c
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
, {: @" N# ]/ h9 sThey may teach you something you have never done.' ~, R8 N+ f( D: n p6 n
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
! @: ~) L5 n$ l, |2 |' ^; tBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
$ r2 P5 a+ e: x) M3 G; {& ~; ]2 O4 i7 y
1 I/ P5 Y; l7 u3 s; S2 c, b
3 R/ D; K1 v6 ?7 E$ HLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
4 W; N7 _+ e3 ?" y% K, Y5 P$ LYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,. h# Y: ~ ]# r$ [8 l
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
1 S/ W# p! P/ v- W& z7 _( B h- V. S6 vEverything happens for a reason.
; x$ L9 e' I* [0 Q4 V; vNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
1 U6 S2 B Q; m3 E+ e* |8 hIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,& F- G3 {& Y# d# E# i
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
" y/ u$ X- G; s9 z. J3 G6 ? j) c' ~1 i$ l! ^' J/ s
W# d+ Z4 }! a+ e# F* n
8 Q, @( L* r2 A- b( ]2 yIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
3 K# _. x# C% G1 Z8 ^+ K0 vYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,- V6 l) r X8 V6 _1 T+ U- R# a
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
" o3 F% d5 H& |, m Gfor they have helped you learn about trust
* v2 C. t! _+ nand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.) w7 j" r/ P+ U( R; ?
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
7 d% l. @: c, M mTry to love them back unconditionally,! V/ S' Z/ O' J) I
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
1 }1 C4 v4 r6 z# lthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
4 x) h+ S" f$ }# U) d* V3 ^- d$ |3 B1 I1 a: d6 P1 r1 p' Z0 Y5 C
The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
( x8 \1 e' r& y- }, O' I e" k+ ^
( U( N7 j; i; n, P9 dand a time to every purpose under the sun.1 z7 r( v3 `" }" J) G, ~
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,. K+ m- J. Y- o0 X( s
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
: P4 A9 P% M, \2 p7 wGod's grace is as a healing hand.& X) e- F) L7 h/ k
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
0 f! A3 d3 J! nthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
- C- t; q$ l0 N9 X. ^% l# R# awill remain always safe in our hearts. |
|