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~SOMETIMES~
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. m X" d `. ?6 B, p0 XSometimes people come into your life
- _& j$ w. n) ^you know right away that they were meant to be there,
, p/ c) q. U* {to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
7 X( ^! ^( H$ S% q" ^or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.1 j( o$ t3 }/ z; {! Z
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You never know who these people may be u' C' \- W7 Z
but when you lock eyes with them,' g+ M$ d1 z; N0 ^8 u
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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2 t; L2 X, K" U+ F( |) VThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!; B+ D$ b2 j8 _) t; R
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
; H1 z9 h+ A3 J6 s7 V7 WThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,. E6 o; F9 V5 F8 r
+ p7 w/ u/ D( EThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.% M) p2 I7 T7 I3 B
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.6 l: U+ m1 a9 ~/ `4 T8 y
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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; k$ }1 _( k; }' DWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
6 p2 R/ `: R. your desire fulfilled, their work is done.
( ?" z: f. O3 Z O( q2 w) F; i' W" ~; qThe prayer you sent up has been answered.) W: O9 ? ?6 \6 a
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON7 p1 w, [; k. R7 M; E
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 L$ r* I' Y/ o! ]They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.# L' p7 l) J& p6 Z. e
They may teach you something you have never done.
6 C4 M5 b( V) M' Z' N* k+ o0 aThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
3 b2 S$ C$ q8 N4 p0 M2 i' V& y8 dBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦2 l# f8 Y. j R/ a7 V- J/ v, I x
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+ g% @+ |5 Q- s. B) k; R/ HLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:' L Q, X. }; ?+ ?( j9 R9 e6 M, y
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
5 q+ [9 {& c* k7 oPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.8 E' ^, r5 @1 O5 q0 o* {4 B0 g
Everything happens for a reason. f _- V3 F0 ~( M7 B9 R& b
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
. x3 x' o3 P* ?6 T: i- j: M% vIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,. G: l# E3 p, L6 h. c
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.& j# ?: {( U7 U' g" r- O) k
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2 y. X2 U9 S9 I5 b' K( y% {% RIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
( p5 p6 p+ k& R( }You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
6 Z& P, k7 q# S: [' oIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,7 F* |( V0 f4 Z8 L( E
for they have helped you learn about trust
7 V# {- l( z& Iand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
3 ^: S8 ]. [7 }- V9 j) h. IIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
+ o: H8 Z' w# [Try to love them back unconditionally,5 o& G' R. v, j, `! u
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
' h! _4 \6 M1 k$ x& U |6 ?. zthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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8 t2 g+ X- P9 x( ]The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
$ X1 k8 {6 ^- a& zA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
% v$ _4 B7 F( j1 t1 I9 v. j% I# n! U$ Hand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."% f- {$ R/ x; h9 E
God's grace is as a healing hand.4 Z& z* E2 f9 y6 q7 H
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,) C& w" k2 \" q6 _
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
# F s+ i( ^$ D8 `- Z9 lwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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