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2 m' x# E) E/ |: `; j! ISometimes people come into your life
/ p9 A" R- s1 u, D8 O' r1 xyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
O2 V# K, h) zto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
! M0 a2 d9 ^1 K& \or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
2 L0 z6 n+ b: A: |5 pbut when you lock eyes with them,) C9 o0 v! r0 F& T! {; [ |
you know at that very moment,! j# W/ T# l/ r! ?2 D
/ g8 J+ `* p( C6 w/ QThey will affect your life in some profound way: X) T% V( g7 s' U, U
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!+ X1 H) }& J' L5 w4 d& X+ ?
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
. J" [" k8 ]) O0 o0 L3 c3 sThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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# ]. T. \; u0 u$ I3 ~6 }4 n" iThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.. c& m& C1 j6 d0 P* r5 f
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
: v; Q2 V- N4 [7 USometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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2 D8 I6 j4 Q& q) Q& t+ SWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,+ V0 f% r# m/ n' b
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.5 c0 I* W1 `0 z# {) T
The prayer you sent up has been answered.: z6 i. z9 b) W3 l8 w$ g" }
And now it is time for you to move on.+ s" V" m2 P1 h/ ~1 f) N
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
4 x4 Z' b" x* X2 M6 j+ F$ HBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.& W4 c8 t% P0 C- F
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.1 Z* n1 {, ]" y, `, L) U# `
They may teach you something you have never done.
! k3 ~- Z, b; N l# k) n! M$ s- ?# UThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.+ N/ M E' V8 n5 R; W: W5 c
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ K4 P$ `% P) W3 i
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. J: r A+ A6 x0 i3 DLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:8 L3 I) r% E: n3 v" m# g4 |! ~7 C& u
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
* \2 E' ^' K f$ J6 i) L6 JPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.0 B/ a$ u+ O/ B) g! U. e
Everything happens for a reason.' n) V% ~" U8 P
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
6 E" q6 H' O4 ^Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
/ l7 C/ a% {4 I# a' o4 G Tand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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! I% }- |: z0 M! SIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful, Q! P$ |$ x: H7 h# X, F
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ i( s7 x. d1 p7 Q7 X) L K
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
, M3 a8 C5 l1 V: `; i0 c9 K) Zfor they have helped you learn about trust
0 G1 s+ N5 U& Z$ C. A/ \ |& _and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
' x: y/ q Y5 eIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,, F5 e0 n) Z8 y/ }1 h i6 T
Try to love them back unconditionally,
4 s( g N) N& ]) s& Pnot only because they love you, but because in a way,0 n; U* [! b6 q# |1 C! F
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.8 v9 o. ~: R) z' Y7 b9 h p( U
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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* t1 m1 C$ U; `, \and a time to every purpose under the sun.
6 R. s, A6 l- g, mA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
% @* W, y: G' U5 c) Oand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
# m& h! Q, ?+ ^3 CGod's grace is as a healing hand.
5 ] B' s1 k3 M3 @) \% ]As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
) h' m4 ~; b! |. K. vthe warm memories and love for those we have lost5 [/ I: M/ @& X5 L/ |+ D7 Q9 e
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