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~SOMETIMES~% [- A2 a! l/ d1 E1 J4 m7 J
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Sometimes people come into your life
9 l( Z. [$ K3 o% H6 ryou know right away that they were meant to be there,$ S. r& R: ?3 H
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
! U p9 v1 M7 [) y1 O1 y: sor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.2 R1 A m* j" {2 F7 X
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You never know who these people may be
; C# \: R& K; U' }but when you lock eyes with them,
; K7 c+ K; X. U' L: Yyou know at that very moment,4 Y5 b2 Y% Z1 x
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
# i6 N. @) {% c$ h& K, gThey are there for the reason you need them to be. F/ Q- \0 g0 z+ l
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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+ j/ X* p6 x! n' q- RThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.7 m+ V3 O( v! J2 x: w- X
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.- W7 z5 [3 B9 K% Z
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.) `" e& V5 o7 Q; \$ [2 K# R) s
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,- F4 V7 B+ A0 i0 ]# o3 F
our desire fulfilled, their work is done." b, O. p9 L' C# |# ], |
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
# e& r) u8 S0 F9 G$ }And now it is time for you to move on.$ R, n4 s5 n( u3 N8 V6 t+ w. p
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
7 Y! V1 H% B( J E9 x/ }0 FBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
/ e+ a) Z% F* z$ W! _. y$ TThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
5 ` |+ O3 J$ m! M9 \3 {They may teach you something you have never done.
$ s6 W3 y2 V+ O' E; RThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
: O, f4 S3 `, z5 u- q' W7 w" sBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦2 b, s% e+ P2 }2 j2 q2 F" D z
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9 _( W: M1 W: A' y" x! w% [LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
: D' t# f$ Y; A$ {* k7 ?Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
* K) B+ F( l0 `Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.9 {/ f6 y/ z) j, C. q
Everything happens for a reason. b7 D. i) ?* V$ h! b) y/ z
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
. f4 H6 |8 T5 f2 d* K. V' KIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,0 B, d1 Q1 l, O; S' u3 e0 }6 c4 ?
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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3 r- `& F# R: }% L7 t p. D0 D+ TIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,# [- ^, J+ `' O2 L- j
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,* v; c7 l3 d0 K6 g- W& ^
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,% m T" _# m/ Q2 c o4 R6 l
for they have helped you learn about trust9 ? [, n" P+ q+ a5 z# ~* Y3 Y
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.% ?; y9 m$ X* `; ]9 m4 u
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
1 i8 }! Z6 N) v, ~: Z: OTry to love them back unconditionally,5 c+ {4 H& w! b+ a* k* K: Z
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
0 R) x- ^3 `6 W( s8 athey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things. ]7 X# C; _3 ]( r
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,0 G3 m) W& f4 R
7 _# O j# C; m' b2 h- Iand a time to every purpose under the sun.
, N5 F8 R: ?1 F# C8 q7 JA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,5 I. p7 N1 n' z0 s" E5 g+ p( Z0 r1 @6 y
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
/ d- G, e5 e! \2 U0 AGod's grace is as a healing hand.
7 J5 d) ]3 b# m1 rAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
' \( k; G V2 J6 L+ Bthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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