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" D: d; a) b- k* A9 \~SOMETIMES~
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+ i1 x! E8 J# q) C& DSometimes people come into your life7 A' U& N( t! v3 ^6 Y
you know right away that they were meant to be there,: y8 T$ o) z# ]9 s
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,& M4 s/ j5 W- l- N m# M
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.5 z+ Z2 ^7 E3 v, U. ~" K* ^
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You never know who these people may be
* h. F: b) r2 J& y& Kbut when you lock eyes with them,- h0 H. o. I- g
you know at that very moment,
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2 h; j- `& Q/ G' q% tThey will affect your life in some profound way
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7 N4 m( Q8 f6 J( i, B( RThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
+ |6 {6 H* v' F2 V: z9 ]8 WThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
+ Z+ V( g8 S2 f! t' j2 mThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.. F6 b* W- x, G7 l J" ?
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
5 F: f" R* u6 o# {8 nSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
W6 ?0 _- N# s" i$ uour desire fulfilled, their work is done.! k6 \9 o: @2 N' _ G4 E
The prayer you sent up has been answered.! u3 o& T/ v' L4 f D/ H k
And now it is time for you to move on.
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% C4 D* w6 T- Y; TThen people come into your life for a REASON1 v3 a! h* S* `9 M H
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.* [' M4 k2 i: E1 C- c# @; }
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.+ @: I3 z$ E, V9 }! ]
They may teach you something you have never done.& P! x. ^; G0 X# h4 N( h' D, o
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
8 p: u6 P! G$ _6 S$ KBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:& b) I @* [, ~6 g
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,6 X+ C$ r% @) u* m$ s# J
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
7 o I9 \8 P6 A5 z/ REverything happens for a reason.
1 c5 \- t( v( u8 d2 s5 @Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
* Q$ I2 y d/ N! z9 ~# _Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,1 A) c) H4 O' `0 k2 O! {
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.1 F: X \0 b- n S( @. t# ?
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5 e, g. h' i* G! S% N: d% ^$ R* Y$ aIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
- \3 {( X, a+ g4 N! B/ bYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,7 p# ^. r8 B0 g( y. {5 R0 D0 R
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them," y+ \2 {' X/ u' F# S1 Z8 {' ^/ q
for they have helped you learn about trust9 Y7 Q) q! U6 w$ |3 m- e; U' I
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.* Y' ?! C6 O! m! \' [% K9 A4 y
If someone loves you, express your appreciation," q0 s4 e5 O% H! o! ]; ]% Z# ?
Try to love them back unconditionally,
$ |* i$ F* U9 \not only because they love you, but because in a way,$ |5 u8 R+ \9 ]. Z2 I7 K1 v
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things., ^7 f6 z- t+ V- D- x, U
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.7 H* ]: g6 K9 q( a0 g" D& o. _
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
, Z6 q7 y# Q- k* m# T9 f2 N4 F( |and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
/ p) A" `! X. _6 J: IGod's grace is as a healing hand.: _: r. l+ k; ?; s: o1 D% y* v
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,+ u8 G& [7 {' K8 y5 U
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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