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8 t; C' C( z) c+ WSometimes people come into your life
3 h; P$ u' C a/ D2 `8 Gyou know right away that they were meant to be there,. ~2 I0 I! A. L1 e0 W. W
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,9 z* h0 @9 C- g( L
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
& E- ^* \4 K, [( g) Xbut when you lock eyes with them,' k7 H! |3 K% @
you know at that very moment,6 u1 G/ r; o7 L& L4 u) x
" w( ~2 X' K1 \; v3 P# S! wThey will affect your life in some profound way2 {( R3 h c9 t# E! `5 E+ `4 X
- D/ B" M0 f* N/ y0 X# SThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!& V/ E" U9 B, S# X8 _
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
6 d1 m% k. |: c9 ]) U# vThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,8 h8 h( Z2 [" S9 C' i
7 T3 L8 V2 q/ C5 xThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end." K' N+ ?# w- `" M& [
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
& l0 Y% }9 w" l0 c$ m; a4 }7 tSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.# z6 v. T q j7 u! f8 {. N
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" H* a! u" W) x- Q) p0 `What we must realize is that our need has been met,- g. P% a3 i" G6 E+ F
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.6 s! L& p# H; W5 O" c7 w$ r! u9 @
The prayer you sent up has been answered., y8 l. ~7 U0 d, F
And now it is time for you to move on.6 z$ S! ?! A/ }) |! m
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Then people come into your life for a REASON I2 Y p9 o) H- o# p
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
. k7 }5 b, F9 c1 PThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh./ I9 L# F1 y, p. C2 l
They may teach you something you have never done." D+ H* N/ D1 G! L% V; L9 q
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
4 n X+ e+ t& C- \; l: JBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:$ J9 Z* l5 \* M% c4 ~
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
+ O/ ]/ {! b) _8 z5 n1 rPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
) Y/ j% P/ D+ |% r# ~Everything happens for a reason.- N' i. q' H( f, d
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.9 Y8 n2 i9 }& f
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,* V" [$ ] t; U) A1 }# `
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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' z" v: P4 C/ a8 lIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
. O4 y" L9 ]2 D- ?0 V# lYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,4 y/ J+ Q# {6 W6 K( U( e
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
( A) t" V" M4 Z3 Bfor they have helped you learn about trust
9 y6 S' Y0 P. z2 t* E# {and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.$ u4 z* S! x' e& [0 x
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
9 H) O5 T# R+ hTry to love them back unconditionally,
" z0 n" d) R' ?. U1 ]2 R/ |not only because they love you, but because in a way,
0 a1 ^: n5 a5 K2 k, T2 Nthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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9 p) [1 @* v. a9 g/ _& R+ qThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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! `' Z' H. J9 c2 _# u3 iand a time to every purpose under the sun.2 i! l9 o! }* J7 |' O
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,! P) ~3 ~, L) S1 R( e
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
6 g3 l* B- [! D0 _God's grace is as a healing hand.
$ B9 Y9 G! p& v; TAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,! ]5 Y0 z8 o) E1 Y7 `3 f _
the warm memories and love for those we have lost" n0 x5 ~/ m2 i" e
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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