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* ^9 o- a. y4 E; Z: w. t3 L~SOMETIMES~
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; l' F& Y& @# c R0 E9 x7 q8 o; g* ?9 l) ASometimes people come into your life; n2 H& U: K& X3 \+ \4 q
you know right away that they were meant to be there,+ ]0 G5 N, g$ k; S: h$ e( F
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,8 N) z! V a& e, g- i$ Y+ ?% b
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.: S) F) w" p& I$ c
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You never know who these people may be* d; ? [& T6 Y4 ~
but when you lock eyes with them,
9 D) @7 A& b& J) Q2 Gyou know at that very moment,! f: |" N/ U: |! m* K# n
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They will affect your life in some profound way5 S& x; v( L6 X& u9 M
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!' e4 q# W+ Z# Z6 T
They are there for the reason you need them to be.( _* h4 s* z. a2 ^, u: f. E
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
) c, ?( @4 B( e+ o `Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away." N0 h& G R7 m1 n: W! s: Y! ^
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. d$ g+ o9 E6 A. f8 @
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' r. E' h9 L) J5 }5 KWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,# V) @3 B1 L, Z0 x* G; r
our desire fulfilled, their work is done. k& ^3 ?4 a( M, z2 I% p
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
' k1 ]' U. u2 k. L1 G! qAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
: x% h6 A) r9 E2 c9 A/ I' y, GBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
5 D6 C5 [1 X3 {! n1 v# [$ u, PThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.) g# p& q9 u$ Z" {
They may teach you something you have never done.$ ^" g* w8 P. a% t% X+ T1 F- u. N
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.5 c" R, \( _7 } [' T
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦- w* p# s' C" _/ H" q
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:" W0 l3 x1 t, h2 o z% o
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
4 F1 x8 R6 z& l2 g5 CPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
" Y. Q( @* n( r, f! Z: E. SEverything happens for a reason.# H9 L7 ~2 i0 L- M* o1 y
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
' E3 W6 U0 ^9 t' q7 p" x% _8 mIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
7 `, w' L7 G7 X& c& zand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.! Y; P/ Z/ c! C b" t( E
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6 m- A1 {5 n" @4 p, bIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,1 ]' ~0 ?% W: [7 ^$ i+ o% w
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
4 s# e7 @8 Q% u/ mIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
4 N F: z4 o, b I1 hfor they have helped you learn about trust) Q- F( `9 i) b; E( u. G. G
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.8 m b( V3 S( {
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,0 M: G" m1 H1 _8 W/ s$ ^
Try to love them back unconditionally,( B+ T, m5 j5 h
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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0 O, o+ n! F2 ^' F! j0 MThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.7 L( M4 I7 ^+ w3 V1 w
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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. w2 x j' y# u' hGod's grace is as a healing hand., ^9 ^' X4 @4 r9 l+ Z ~# i$ m1 \& V
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
2 F: l( }4 n9 X! m# i5 pthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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