 鲜花( 0)  鸡蛋( 0)
|
转自《出轨的中年女人》http://web.wenxuecity.com/BBSVie ... e&MsgID=3285188 ; }( E7 ]& `1 z
/ W" |- ~ g7 }, b8 Y9 U4 I# q# w
~SOMETIMES~: d0 D! @* ^$ G
7 N) `. L3 |2 N- z' A" k: M
Sometimes people come into your life7 C2 V. E' O4 @1 Z# Q: L
you know right away that they were meant to be there,& ^9 n( M7 C y0 Y
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
. h" [, b. ^- V- u6 Jor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
* _9 ~% G6 e [: G3 g( z; r; N# k& F Q1 A. o z
k5 G T3 w! B
You never know who these people may be
* v' d1 C* v( }- l4 f7 jbut when you lock eyes with them,
- C# C1 c2 f5 G2 I& u) D. F+ fyou know at that very moment,
( I. ?7 T7 x$ L* B' M0 O" v s! g) W2 ~! c
( u) [! R) Y, y" o. s: G2 nThey will affect your life in some profound way
$ R, I2 ]# `* U( c( S" E2 k) I: E4 R7 ]* s m" Z' H
They may seem like a godsend, and they are!4 X( D, I: J) V; M8 K$ S
They are there for the reason you need them to be.7 @( @2 H6 n: R; V+ C0 x1 O
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
, n9 I& L, z+ E) Z5 G! E
; ]. b/ k9 o6 n# `/ e1 \The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. C, F0 b! p0 T% d
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
4 ?4 k2 j. w1 ?" zSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand./ r1 D0 |% h( _ d% X* }* {2 c
" a9 C) G: M$ o% p4 V; l/ j* R. a
# b v h( q% O, nWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,9 Y k( A* l# u( u* Z
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
. M$ X+ C1 ]( n2 P3 aThe prayer you sent up has been answered.* w9 [! W0 v% p+ q% G
And now it is time for you to move on.
& q; t# T5 ]+ U& k x! v9 }; y& R" a: ?
0 x# X; y1 e i/ ^! N
2 B* `5 l4 I2 _' |; k8 VThen people come into your life for a REASON4 T% \$ n8 V5 F& |+ |
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.- E5 T3 B+ W O+ c _7 S z
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
* A1 m1 E$ h' v2 n8 [They may teach you something you have never done.
; t; H" L% z( M* j1 N wThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.) D# P! G' }( y3 D+ f" j+ }* u
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦* m) N8 ]) t/ m) `
% n7 Z( s# l2 U% @" h) O+ t; W4 i& y1 u5 }8 k
* {% n5 i' M% |) aLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
% E1 D; V, m4 Z! {( u0 YYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
. j1 z3 p, O8 y ]Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
* z' y6 _- q# `2 g) l" F3 P- C9 fEverything happens for a reason.; F R" W% ]. O
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.6 F7 M; ?8 u- v+ n
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
6 }" S, s* r, A3 |" K6 \$ nand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
" K3 V6 ]5 i( `9 |5 r8 M/ J6 v7 x) E! m' c
+ t8 @7 J! W3 H6 a) F% n: I% ?* D
5 }, q( G3 a2 s* dIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,: g: e) U6 I- A
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,! A) }" ]9 w7 b$ Y* R$ m
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
% a4 c3 ^0 N- J: Wfor they have helped you learn about trust
5 z" s( q0 } A% u( i6 `6 @and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
7 i |6 l0 W0 \% ^! F9 v3 l1 a& CIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,. w% ?: F, ~" ? z
Try to love them back unconditionally,
+ r. ^2 X* o, Wnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
+ u' L# o' B" u- Tthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
# x" q3 R, G* {4 [1 @$ l
/ r Q; W) L' T4 f. l" S$ o$ iThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,$ Y5 c5 C) Q1 I T- `
& T6 d8 S2 e5 f/ ?9 t
and a time to every purpose under the sun.
9 _$ o1 k7 S5 Z* x% ~A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
! z$ |2 n/ Q x4 sand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
. T+ c8 z2 r; i" rGod's grace is as a healing hand.
- \3 U0 R" A; k# qAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
- ] m8 u0 J4 n, G- \3 F9 ~! D9 H" kthe warm memories and love for those we have lost% w% u; k9 s5 V$ x" l- A4 x/ w
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
|