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Sometimes people come into your life
& [4 g7 X4 R" @you know right away that they were meant to be there,
/ I2 B3 A3 Q! U% j4 W/ K8 ?5 @to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,( t/ ~9 S! B% c! x: g+ @. p
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.6 @" F B( l: K+ e$ R) U% M; `. b1 r
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You never know who these people may be3 x* w0 q5 Z) u; s4 l$ T
but when you lock eyes with them,8 i X0 I0 U$ V p% x
you know at that very moment,+ I! Q; }1 K+ {# P; {
0 \$ s( Q$ t* @# b' o6 U% GThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
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Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
8 k) Y; p" }8 X& E& o5 H8 i ]1 dSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.- A0 x" m( ^9 u3 z
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,8 b- W( d- r, L! n B) e
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
( s+ \" c$ F. lThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
: u* t6 q3 o& `* S/ r+ U) [And now it is time for you to move on.& I( N2 [/ c+ }
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Then people come into your life for a REASON% e( p0 x. B+ Q: x+ C: c6 d; [
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.0 i; V/ j; s- x& h& v% o. d
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh. N7 `7 [, K7 X! A& L! s) n
They may teach you something you have never done.& a* K' m7 f; P' v% B& m
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
3 H' L' J( v+ H" V# BBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ l+ ^: n1 X- a
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
( Y" o4 I: I5 }8 `5 V: m6 AYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,, F+ I# l' ?9 X0 [ s, I4 n) }
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.2 K O+ x8 x* d; ~
Everything happens for a reason.
4 v' L9 s" S+ F# ` UNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
+ t* N+ b$ [* h, R7 y4 e5 i1 fIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,& k; m$ r6 k( B
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.3 V+ w. J3 k' E/ |" f5 z
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/ j* A# E) i/ b. i0 Y: Z( S( lIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,' ^+ U1 j% ^" `. H' R* n' k
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
_: v* c# ?; B) n0 LIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them," c: N o. R- R* P( b5 Z
for they have helped you learn about trust
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, X4 n* C2 ]/ ?7 n6 ~4 a& K/ xIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,( d' q1 F6 H, d
Try to love them back unconditionally,
: p- x8 E3 U9 |$ w% k mnot only because they love you, but because in a way,$ ~2 M) M& N" e" r1 h
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.7 ?" `- M+ O$ ]0 S# K& R B: K, _
8 M3 P x) A# g+ B; QThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
( T6 ]+ i+ k) B nA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
$ e8 T8 x) S; ~7 r1 |! C3 O1 [and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
/ v: I0 Z) z- C( `2 N# FGod's grace is as a healing hand.
4 L* G$ N* M$ Q& j0 X, z- {As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
; q# V% Q9 j4 Kthe warm memories and love for those we have lost0 \" {, y* a2 r P
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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