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Sometimes people come into your life$ M$ x" h- |7 U# t; s
you know right away that they were meant to be there,* ^; R$ L& L) k% X' |' m
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,) U3 z& r8 |4 u$ N
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.( f- ]7 s/ a0 G1 l
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You never know who these people may be0 M, B0 m4 V) \4 `3 q4 s
but when you lock eyes with them,
: r6 O! d* d- f( N7 ^4 M- u+ _. syou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way5 ?3 ]7 Y0 s6 c- Y c, g
# A" n/ x# C; S8 ^; s; bThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
* B3 [) H3 a& i# pThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
# b! P: O5 ~ b tThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,. c( {7 X0 O! a$ t ?1 L
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.; Q- j/ L K+ K: v% A
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
5 u b5 E# w9 w1 \# t& tSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
' _& P6 K. o; ]our desire fulfilled, their work is done.3 \& ?" U2 }# R' A ?9 I1 Y" }
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
& H& k# {( R8 w! v1 EAnd now it is time for you to move on.! K7 Z) Q7 i z2 ^& y; x1 T* [
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& v! ` v- {5 y4 @Then people come into your life for a REASON
$ v+ S( O; w* V/ bBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn., R& J+ M4 K- f, V6 K& J- j
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.4 _; E/ v O" ~% P' z
They may teach you something you have never done.% i, D: Y1 X K t$ ]1 S# z
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.% R1 W! i) w, j
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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6 c8 P0 j% z% D& l5 SLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
. r2 E! v- T* @ uYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
- j" l; U: S$ u& ?9 f$ v8 iPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
( j7 X5 ]5 s' J9 r( xEverything happens for a reason.* i2 h) v; P7 {5 }9 z
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.+ D, v( W- W, H; u% c: A
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,3 e, U$ y; z1 I, g: |" \
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.9 k' i0 h' m' ]! u# N! V
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7 ?1 `$ C0 `* IIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,. M+ T1 b$ l3 J8 t! k6 K
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,$ M& h( O2 `! L: s, u
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,, c) v8 z' c5 k0 O: ~( x
for they have helped you learn about trust6 U5 g5 B0 O2 B/ x( U
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
+ x% R: f* l+ g5 @& ?' VIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,& P8 K2 @# E% e4 j _, f. x
Try to love them back unconditionally,' K7 {; I! b9 N, k" |
not only because they love you, but because in a way,3 P# y3 R+ ]' ^4 c+ `2 n- v
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.6 W* m7 |" G/ R) ~8 h+ k
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,( S0 [* C: Y w
: I. o4 p8 C% u7 T- Y' ^1 yand a time to every purpose under the sun., ~- J4 r5 V& r
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
' A& c, e- v( c% S$ Zand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."; n8 @9 z5 T: H. z, N% ^) L
God's grace is as a healing hand./ v- R( ?+ G$ W8 a! a; U5 R
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
7 U1 M% ]" S$ L. @the warm memories and love for those we have lost
4 K6 H- j9 h+ uwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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