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~SOMETIMES~7 q3 {' j! M6 A; G" c/ P
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Sometimes people come into your life
8 s/ L5 J3 {# Z9 \( I* p+ dyou know right away that they were meant to be there,: ?, N- N2 _% R& J6 i3 g( O: e
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
# X. [' P0 C7 H1 H& F) Hor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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. m& D8 }) a3 OYou never know who these people may be% Z) g6 ^ {/ P4 `
but when you lock eyes with them,0 e( b( ?/ n$ U" a: Y5 [7 i
you know at that very moment,5 Y2 u) p- |& v' F$ e
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They will affect your life in some profound way, {- X* W/ @7 S% P* h; }, K
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!3 x% u" J8 {& u& O4 ]% P n/ m
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
/ H/ S. C* X$ R/ \( G) D$ f& cThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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1 s. @9 x: @% ~. E* UThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.+ G$ C% Q1 h) l
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.% Y7 \ k9 f2 a" q# I6 ?0 Q
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand., D) Q% b$ n8 T
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`$ d; L; m9 ~! U* ]What we must realize is that our need has been met,
9 }+ ^6 M8 I6 v, Vour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
1 ?" k* d G; H7 M. q4 t" Q( s8 QThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
( _* O; ?2 S0 f% x) Y' VAnd now it is time for you to move on." S M) R* C* o1 u( u; o/ J
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Then people come into your life for a REASON& ]! H$ e( k4 A6 k/ @3 e& V A
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
( }0 g) R5 N3 E9 B- \# B; _They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.' m# X2 S, g5 k" S+ T! j9 w
They may teach you something you have never done.
4 ?! k& z$ N( J; ]) ], TThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.# F$ j+ v0 e+ k& n9 C/ N- V- j8 b$ U
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦8 ~( ?; S4 c1 B6 e5 _ R
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* m& S. C% G4 P8 K$ U) x+ G! E Z0 eLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:" I2 b% `$ p1 l% v5 I" n- M
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,- S7 y7 d- p& A; ~. P
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.$ J0 ?( ~1 Z8 K4 i) \
Everything happens for a reason.# p) ^ w$ r! d0 M8 J) c
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.! ?( w& E9 N4 u: Q4 d# o- o& H
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
9 G% j z) M( u1 y9 eand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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# J* _" ~$ }5 uIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
) x2 r: H O/ ^; D E' p7 SYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
2 f# E) g* Q; b. t$ PIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
8 U1 y Y7 Y' mfor they have helped you learn about trust' S' C6 w# D1 }, Y
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.! Z9 H6 K' P2 D: [7 c
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
# i; a6 O2 J/ Q! i0 _: C0 MTry to love them back unconditionally,) |+ X* k2 j1 ~8 d# o
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
7 `" F! O) G2 T/ Q: V* A& rthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season," j, A- c# x! a4 R: \" \: O
0 K% i, _9 G7 J( t; @( g0 F. ]and a time to every purpose under the sun.& ]3 F: ~8 B! h4 r7 w( i
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
, A. z3 R6 |7 B% y3 N: _' E# Yand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
1 d0 ^- O' F- E- s: mGod's grace is as a healing hand.+ q/ ^3 G$ Q- L
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,0 E/ _% \9 N' f4 Z. l8 K5 J$ K' F+ c
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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