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: u, ]$ w6 ~# }; S3 W0 g3 ySometimes people come into your life& W$ B1 M; s5 ~+ T9 C8 u% U
you know right away that they were meant to be there," X! s5 M# u9 P
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
5 u* O( g0 P5 G: mor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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; b6 Y6 s" O7 CYou never know who these people may be
, o. R$ w( Y% t: x# ~; cbut when you lock eyes with them,
% D1 k: v- q$ ^ W* C; b; T6 @, L: Gyou know at that very moment,& `, t" W$ {3 D9 B! K
2 y) Y/ H8 L+ p. G8 ]' I8 uThey will affect your life in some profound way. \+ R1 G: x# V$ m7 t6 W5 ^
; Z7 I( F& E0 mThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
) N, p# c+ v! PThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
$ n0 z' x# C/ }0 {1 Z+ YThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,0 o' K5 Q% F. z2 {1 D: `$ M; f
" o: m0 k/ l5 o' YThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
5 K6 f1 w0 w4 r* VSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.8 f; U! k: J1 l
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
9 R3 H: S6 ?8 J. ]our desire fulfilled, their work is done.- K! w8 j2 Z7 A) R: f# s# o* p
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
6 H& E; |; C6 D, ?' FAnd now it is time for you to move on.9 P& H5 B* i1 ~& r. `
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. w; Y* j K: V3 gThen people come into your life for a REASON5 h$ V' B; w/ ?! `: ^
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn./ Q- p2 o) O' J9 b. |2 v
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh. G0 F, o! Z7 N% x
They may teach you something you have never done.
$ g$ O2 K+ n# K R. E& sThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.+ }/ p9 t! ], U/ |$ o
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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6 d4 [( O: Z' C0 r, V( p2 _LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:: R6 Q8 x$ D' D4 Y( s; N
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
l( H- J3 ~ k7 D% I! RPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.4 K+ v: S6 Z. p9 q! \
Everything happens for a reason.
# A- ]1 P5 b4 U- }" B0 H8 P0 oNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”." d8 c; X: G8 k, e2 W" z) A
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,: u1 y3 e2 k. K
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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9 {# M B G6 W8 @If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
1 W j: A* Z* E" t! OYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
, I7 O- v$ a% ~9 RIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,7 W$ z: E. q2 X6 X- m: K2 a( R C
for they have helped you learn about trust* W) Y; S8 k% c f6 R. n+ u# J
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.2 w: I- Q& S: p& N, V _( e8 {# I
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
4 Q4 ~3 D4 p" J) s9 `Try to love them back unconditionally,
' t* G" V- F. [not only because they love you, but because in a way,/ o: G% [+ X& @& I
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.8 }9 y1 Q5 R6 X1 J5 z0 o
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,- l1 h) l9 b9 y
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.$ g' O% R' ]) r' o2 u
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
2 p. M% [) _& Y/ U0 Eand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."2 }+ v/ ~# O% g0 q
God's grace is as a healing hand.+ Q w+ S9 i: ^4 k3 A. w
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
) j- f( ^; d3 kthe warm memories and love for those we have lost! Z$ x4 h4 O/ I8 r; N0 O( {
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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