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) V$ f- l G6 g. v' N sSometimes people come into your life
$ Z+ U7 p/ ~( ?* c, `you know right away that they were meant to be there,
% n1 W7 Y4 y6 P- N' T; |1 E2 Q0 T* Oto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,8 u& U2 Q; o, z4 a
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be." L: p* Y p" @. f8 k t
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You never know who these people may be0 W. r- w+ W" r& y' ]
but when you lock eyes with them,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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: T% S; T4 v9 ]They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
/ p" i4 x: ~; c6 O7 \: ]6 X! m+ _They are there for the reason you need them to be.& w0 b% X7 o' V* a
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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9 J1 p! g- n# g/ U, `+ @2 u$ CThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. X9 w/ Q; W: P5 i) y$ _1 M
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.; S: B1 x: a, q) g
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.' h$ Q3 N) y; f$ x4 N. [! O
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
& P' s4 T5 q6 ^$ ?, P$ hour desire fulfilled, their work is done.! U* Y1 ]; q! a% m5 S( y( ?
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
& w, Q2 {- H5 ^3 wAnd now it is time for you to move on.) {; N `# p8 L* B& h% ~' {, r
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Then people come into your life for a REASON# x7 Y8 B5 i2 F) E$ k
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
2 z8 Q$ l( D! {6 H EThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh. R! k: [2 m7 Y: Q+ D; n* S0 M, J
They may teach you something you have never done.& S {9 ^: u" X6 B$ J
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.+ o( c+ \) i. Y# [) n3 H
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦5 B; p, K f( a2 L6 N
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:! z4 p; W# Z! u1 b$ j$ L
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
. _+ n% R. e. I% A+ SPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.% w3 Y+ @( d6 ]8 B( ~
Everything happens for a reason.
5 ]0 b8 ]' \; m1 zNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
; x* N2 _ L3 w/ X9 CIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,$ d7 D N, S1 C S
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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3 E5 E0 z% A( K2 gIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
! `4 r4 H7 ?# k$ k6 S% p9 |You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
- ~1 j' R: |1 h! M4 l. R2 y# fIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,: W9 @" W1 h. S9 Q8 B" e* b$ R2 e
for they have helped you learn about trust' Z. s% c7 h" q
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
, Z4 B# @, e" E1 s) AIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
9 t7 ?4 M# U, \" ^9 w3 u, u1 RTry to love them back unconditionally,6 n1 Q/ L+ p3 D8 N5 e1 K
not only because they love you, but because in a way,+ U8 i1 k* {; ?. W ]
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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9 W* O) d( Q8 vThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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5 B) E S8 C$ ?and a time to every purpose under the sun.
3 I. u+ P- p! t+ _2 T. z2 XA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,! M" T3 C; ~( a
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..." c* {4 ^$ Z" N/ E4 P" V9 @: Y
God's grace is as a healing hand.3 P9 D: e3 A- @( M+ u5 w- A
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
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