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+ L& E, m' W u- a~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life8 S+ g0 b. u+ j' V( T$ [+ Z6 x
you know right away that they were meant to be there,* ]5 R, r' p* m; D3 H1 P
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,( e s7 G E! c; h) w- U! I3 i+ W
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.5 r5 y! p6 E! H" D' \( C
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7 r7 U7 d1 G2 P% n9 zYou never know who these people may be
) f( S8 E) w# q6 k9 qbut when you lock eyes with them,9 ^6 q2 Z) C5 f3 g
you know at that very moment,% A) z" a4 {# l+ s I6 Q. m
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!) g* z r2 u5 W! K- S% ?. X2 g- G
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
$ Z, |3 h% `" ?+ u( W& QThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,& \ b0 ]$ Y$ l
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
* p6 T4 {3 c% J7 Y, n+ KSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.8 o# l+ A2 w4 `$ s: Z( K
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,' R- S S# U+ B
our desire fulfilled, their work is done. {5 ~ O' h3 r0 J3 G
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
% @6 M( R/ F+ g: jAnd now it is time for you to move on.& R1 d$ `5 t- p8 j
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
2 b }, n7 c, o1 LBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.4 j9 H% W( L) p& [8 x/ ]3 Q
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh., L% N0 E E' n9 O
They may teach you something you have never done.1 Y5 Y. v% W8 y2 R" U; }9 G0 t
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
9 u$ T" e$ `. ^$ W5 z9 M. IBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:- L+ H+ O) k1 Y0 {9 T
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
& S; v7 i' _( P4 s( f! B) cPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.6 Z2 d9 G- G7 b( x
Everything happens for a reason.
) k. t ]' t, F& x, j( _6 E2 hNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.+ u! Z; L, F. G
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
# H% s y: d! s2 ^7 T1 h9 uand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.3 j6 x6 L& t8 L9 B
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,2 w5 M( b9 }* B% |
for they have helped you learn about trust( u+ {, a3 t ]; C" g, Q5 P
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
& g* T2 @( |! j2 wIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
+ R, M% G( V6 z/ UTry to love them back unconditionally,
9 C6 ~" ]( F% t; a+ Wnot only because they love you, but because in a way,- E% Y% v; U" ]3 I; z
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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/ [* c& K0 l& |+ x( ~1 { ^4 z6 h: UThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,1 k: @: X# O9 B# y+ D6 k' B
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.) Z. { c- h8 c
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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God's grace is as a healing hand.9 i% x+ @- v; C. M. @, J8 W
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,* R3 C, j, ^0 I, n# G; Z K) p
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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