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' n x" q) m3 ^ d% ~Sometimes people come into your life* K4 v" b' _5 g( n
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
1 w% B: B6 ]! V2 ^to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
2 i: ^# W. j: `: Jor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.& h# v" w" O+ N2 T# q# P) N
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You never know who these people may be/ E8 N1 q! ~: t
but when you lock eyes with them,8 _0 J4 m7 o& S9 M" q0 J% T! j
you know at that very moment,
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1 z+ n B G3 o! z: ^3 x. QThey will affect your life in some profound way+ n" B' s, l1 }: N: _
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
! h$ m1 W3 p% \/ R2 {They are there for the reason you need them to be.. n$ ~9 B' K+ \% K5 v
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.* I+ ^) {. h% ]" g6 x
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
0 o% K+ E6 [; w1 ]6 ^. LSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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$ I2 W, ?4 t6 h5 M0 qWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
& _8 n& p, d0 R4 `our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
, C6 v* p. j# S- y4 l( [. ~The prayer you sent up has been answered.
6 v( o6 V( C4 Z! q( u( \, v) C& H. kAnd now it is time for you to move on." v9 `* [; a3 ^7 ~0 s1 w' H7 M5 I9 |
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
/ a9 n' b2 e5 \: kBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
, s9 s; l$ }) { PThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
1 B- C1 U' ~8 ^& nThey may teach you something you have never done.* X; l- N3 [ O0 W, M2 S
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.$ [1 D* G/ G! {6 e' H k) T
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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V. S; E6 d! @3 W9 F$ Q1 QLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:* N6 E( }! v3 r) A: x2 q+ P- i
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
7 p: a6 X* R9 N$ LPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.' w/ V, d) U3 h9 R1 s$ s: \/ l
Everything happens for a reason.
" W, s1 Z$ S5 o4 cNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”." X; c3 h8 i' z* y
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ y. f% g! u) O" F5 b- e4 r6 r
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,+ `1 y" z* _5 b! ^, S5 l; @6 P; A
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
8 @- P. B0 f! iIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
l# I9 u! n, l) ]6 bfor they have helped you learn about trust
# H& J q" J* L7 [% W9 e# vand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.! o) m0 H d. U J, s
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
. Z, b1 L/ u2 s1 p G8 _: R: R/ dTry to love them back unconditionally,4 b. [6 W8 ~. c7 L
not only because they love you, but because in a way,6 M! f _& M' _) c8 q* T
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,. h Q) \7 c( s4 s& u3 g O
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
5 N$ S& @* Q: _A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, H1 k7 u: I4 V! h% f
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
6 J' F% }/ _0 H( o: L- b" [2 OGod's grace is as a healing hand.
" f# |6 P7 x- ~# B+ J# _3 {As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
) k, l# M9 x) }) pthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
1 Q# Z w' q* w; z! _; n+ {3 Swill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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