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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life8 K m# p2 p7 X' z4 T' u7 r- p8 V
you know right away that they were meant to be there," ^0 |' K1 j2 l# f; D3 z
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
( C, m/ S n5 G; L& H2 X" for to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be/ Q+ P D8 e+ P# r3 H: H8 z
but when you lock eyes with them,, K3 d7 G" t9 |1 J$ K
you know at that very moment,2 m0 _) m. F! T
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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& l4 P, z; S+ Z2 r) Z7 O7 rThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!# n0 g: S f' U8 \4 T, [
They are there for the reason you need them to be.8 O: E) G3 k$ y
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,7 o- w: R8 Q/ |* q& z
* A$ r4 T8 ~4 v/ [The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.3 E' l% q+ v2 P$ u' G
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.5 v. Y l/ U0 t6 M A( n
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
7 q# ], E2 ^" ^0 _our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
) W- P, h$ G n+ I) e$ H5 MThe prayer you sent up has been answered.: {1 Z$ M) R8 U* U
And now it is time for you to move on.
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$ c. i5 ~! [. P! W3 ~: @1 s; R7 ?" n+ iThen people come into your life for a REASON. g$ s" G% C8 S# f
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.& {8 [% g; h+ d' f0 E/ r" m
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.3 h3 H8 w$ r3 q" R/ H
They may teach you something you have never done.
. q9 E+ x, P0 b( E# iThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.& U7 ]6 e- N% W9 t1 I3 n" K9 N& ^
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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8 `; }7 j- f/ h/ b; aLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
$ K3 l% e% p# [+ o% Y( w ~5 ^; oYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
. ~0 C1 Q0 \9 \5 a* F3 W' M2 tPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life." l4 V% e# q3 o- S6 A
Everything happens for a reason.
3 s$ J+ y/ R; `3 m/ sNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
8 P C9 G# T8 A7 j {8 pIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
: r" @$ K. H: `/ `and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.+ l. {6 y/ I ?1 N
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1 t. W( j0 }' y, jIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
; c' q6 K4 o9 d% ^: ?You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,- S7 U: N: z$ F- h! Z2 {+ B
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,( s+ M h7 e9 @* p( @
for they have helped you learn about trust
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" `. w: f/ K: J- o5 lIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,3 {( a; m) w5 W, U+ u
Try to love them back unconditionally,
# ^4 I$ o' A; U) nnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
3 u3 ^! i ~# D5 ?3 ~6 xthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.$ U/ ]* B% Q& L6 E, Z
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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5 J1 e! q; g2 {# I. A4 I5 Nand a time to every purpose under the sun.0 E. }9 J2 f- Q/ k
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
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God's grace is as a healing hand.9 T; ~: q* t. j; h* u; t2 u
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
# r2 h; X# K a3 }the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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