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~SOMETIMES~& u5 Z" c9 \! F& X9 g, A( r. C0 O
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Sometimes people come into your life6 G4 t* i( Q: S: ?& F. Y9 h; H
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
5 n3 ?. n8 R) U1 a- E1 z+ `" h, gto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
& O& ~/ L5 Z3 G0 qor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.9 U* U, v6 M/ J
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You never know who these people may be
+ W: X1 {1 r+ [2 hbut when you lock eyes with them,9 y, X/ c0 O2 l; ~+ q3 ^% U
you know at that very moment,
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6 K/ @; D+ K; {4 R! `: n' V' SThey will affect your life in some profound way1 H# Y5 p' Y) ]/ ]
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!7 ?2 ]% o* u3 T7 M! L* k; D
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
. s* [: o; p# Z* K3 HThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
+ s1 t& A+ l4 @0 H; lSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.5 O0 P2 r1 q. |( D4 Y: w( u
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
, H- W) @5 |+ \+ t$ B( n) [- Mour desire fulfilled, their work is done.- o- H) i& m2 H$ Z& O
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
# v+ _/ J) [5 R I2 d! }And now it is time for you to move on.8 ]7 z; h" B4 ] f5 W0 A
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& n$ C+ R. @3 ^6 n! v) k* \2 fThen people come into your life for a REASON: ?5 E% g/ N9 W* V: e
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.! C- ~# K; t% w' w
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
0 t$ b0 d* s- v5 Z+ n0 b |They may teach you something you have never done.
$ ?# p& r( i A" rThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
$ M6 m' m: `" r! h0 bBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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2 O5 w2 y. t3 G {/ eLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: W, v/ d7 T$ W7 U) M
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,% `5 l5 l8 h9 K7 I: t( H
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.& R9 p' {3 b |% b) t- ]. z
Everything happens for a reason.
+ T* k. P0 Z) xNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
! a. x; X- D7 [9 L4 I% r) Y0 @Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,9 E$ `5 V$ x0 N: W
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.2 n! r+ W. S( p. q$ I
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,! V( |# L. o1 n/ Z% Q/ T: _
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,0 k' I8 @4 C: g: U
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,2 X! H" d% J6 ^0 t- d4 n
for they have helped you learn about trust
$ X3 f- V9 s2 _and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.4 }' Q' Y) }2 Z1 k. \) ^
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
8 v1 D1 h! a( K6 X/ l+ J# wTry to love them back unconditionally,
/ L% ]$ H5 |) inot only because they love you, but because in a way,$ |0 c- ^7 h0 i! y
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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8 \3 D$ F( u$ R( F" lThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,; D0 u" l5 b L w. k
4 m4 t' i6 }; o( t) ?and a time to every purpose under the sun.
2 t% l1 L$ m" e* U' W" J( zA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,9 Z, `; \: A4 l8 M
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
$ H! T8 m2 F/ T% w; oGod's grace is as a healing hand.& N9 e2 V, g1 Z* `" [
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,' V' I3 S9 z+ q6 l A4 |7 i
the warm memories and love for those we have lost+ D9 n8 o7 h C
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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