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Sometimes people come into your life
1 Y0 K4 z* {7 Y, ?you know right away that they were meant to be there,- i1 O! O( i, q% c
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
& x) M# D5 J: sor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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- h+ U. m' F; I, W3 G' RYou never know who these people may be
, C/ U8 T8 s% W9 ]/ _5 Cbut when you lock eyes with them,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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4 S. c( k; @! j: G) eThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
I* j, ~3 s K! \; m GThey are there for the reason you need them to be.9 I$ R( W9 u4 s% S2 l( J" i" B1 n
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.- U/ |4 R- F, Y. o( ]3 @, }9 U6 r
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.$ A- O0 y( o; f: F8 i1 g0 C
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
& P w2 j7 ^% Qour desire fulfilled, their work is done.- l) `5 B4 d" l- l0 P
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
$ k( l2 G5 @4 }/ }And now it is time for you to move on.! V7 ]/ p6 m. m
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
8 Z7 `! i" Y$ A8 I5 O* k8 N) J3 j( TBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.% G- x: W2 F5 ~: m: |% ]
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
2 ?/ u' \8 ]( s4 m5 nThey may teach you something you have never done.- |) }# ~" P/ {3 G8 m
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.- p( k1 ~# _: }0 S5 `% Y( d3 T& `
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦% j! V+ r8 a% ^! p
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1 e8 R) U0 B- e0 ^" z! X, ILIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
5 H9 J. G* w1 j! T. G7 H& zYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
& C& V- N6 u1 \+ BPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
& f6 A/ |) Q/ C1 B8 j5 d2 bEverything happens for a reason.
0 b* V2 j: o8 d- r$ K6 kNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
! ]" h# n9 N i- i6 ^Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,8 p8 ~0 T) d8 @/ D3 z7 X+ Q, ] _% U
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.7 ^" ?' q" M4 e
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0 a" W& |% x3 ^, XIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful, P" S; T1 {5 _7 T- X
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
7 f3 @3 ~6 R/ |5 s0 |' A; fIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,2 l7 `! E$ s% p8 s
for they have helped you learn about trust
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6 T' z( a4 [5 d+ M' R8 P" {% kIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,9 G- `8 |2 ~$ t3 ^4 I$ ]
Try to love them back unconditionally,; v8 _/ y U/ b+ e# M0 Y
not only because they love you, but because in a way,4 t) Y2 ^: q& Z4 J$ R
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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4 `: w, L! }* O/ ~- YThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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- o4 N* j w, D) Hand a time to every purpose under the sun.
2 @& {8 l! k: O- z, P" V' j1 JA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
2 F- J5 l# r/ s& o5 d' Y F* Uand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
1 D6 w; B# E/ a; bGod's grace is as a healing hand.* n E8 z+ ^3 m1 W A5 @ _
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,# D' }+ P* d1 h( ? t( {
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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