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~SOMETIMES~* W; }3 `; M2 T
7 G7 u9 \4 p6 U( A* q! z, @Sometimes people come into your life. k( `6 T+ V, w
you know right away that they were meant to be there,3 e/ N: `7 s# Y
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,. v; o4 S' K: X$ w' R- f" H6 V
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
6 B$ s& } W/ N* I6 y8 N; nbut when you lock eyes with them,
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9 t% G% ^3 f: OThey will affect your life in some profound way* E6 }; X& M- N( `
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
: @ ]. T5 G5 F. v8 eThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
$ x3 _, @: c1 dThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
' U/ a0 X0 W$ `( B, }+ BSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.; L% M+ A/ H. ?% t
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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' M0 _% p& ]" u J- W# wWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
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The prayer you sent up has been answered.( e: m+ n; g1 x# ^3 Q1 l
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
, f+ S( w7 b% C/ k$ v. tBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.- ~! L! B) Z1 C; a5 b
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.* Y% G, @0 b/ F0 x# P; U1 V% \
They may teach you something you have never done.; m& t% j% [( c- I! e( f5 T
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
. K3 ~9 Z% i, aBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:) b5 U% Y3 B. b/ C( }
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,- C5 i/ p" R# C! b/ x7 J
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.) ]/ _& v P0 }
Everything happens for a reason.* _; b' k) g9 N1 t: k% l3 g
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
+ c" e# P) S3 g$ `, M W; R8 U; A' [Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,* l2 `" g* y2 Z
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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# [9 O+ n" U' g8 I K% W: f" ^' eIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,: K. b% g' K2 _: I
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,+ [ D: Z3 v& m- @% I& z
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,6 n3 a0 ]- A8 \6 U% u0 o$ }
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,2 B9 p7 a3 K+ J* n [
Try to love them back unconditionally,4 r# z, @: M6 D L, v/ y9 a
not only because they love you, but because in a way,+ ~$ z! d( S( o3 A3 ]. l4 }
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.: E( R* ?# h8 i/ z0 c, h
- {. S/ h1 N$ `. cThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.4 c0 a# y0 C" ~" a9 j2 a5 d
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,. m6 } t! T0 {1 Y# }6 }
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
' O+ R& O: F% ^5 WGod's grace is as a healing hand.& g$ c! o9 f/ c% s! o
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,0 R( i0 m, C; r! _7 Y. R3 S( x
the warm memories and love for those we have lost9 {4 k6 X. O3 S3 K# \
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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