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~SOMETIMES~9 h$ r1 y' C4 P+ `+ w' }2 x
( S2 {& p9 B* D bSometimes people come into your life
8 W+ y6 x/ q6 Q3 \$ @8 Jyou know right away that they were meant to be there,2 {2 r' _, b. k! v
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,' ~$ f1 C/ j9 n1 t8 F
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,
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0 A; W9 I0 ?( P5 k* v% C9 T! w d9 cThey will affect your life in some profound way: U1 f5 R7 ~7 j& B% I% A
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
) b+ L, B+ ]* ^3 U% e lThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
0 q" M* Z$ ]6 W( }7 J0 sThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,( T M$ R9 G9 c( q- U
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.- Q) S+ D% E) A* F
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.& r/ Z( Q y* F
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.- q% M: T" w* p: g3 K0 a
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
" i" Q& b4 d4 m" t0 Xour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
4 `. X# s. o3 aThe prayer you sent up has been answered., f: }% ?4 c6 e
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
* R0 M* d) @8 _" T* cBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.3 U5 ^: y* z+ ^$ ?
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.8 ~: {" U' I$ ?+ Q7 ]% k3 [9 B
They may teach you something you have never done.
4 k, e0 P# _9 W8 uThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
4 m: w7 t- F1 `/ B; F# NBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦( c% j2 F3 d, X- E/ \
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:" L* e) L: V; q) J, Q) G% i
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
0 P& s4 _/ g3 i! \. GPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.& n2 E' g& H" ]
Everything happens for a reason.
3 M Q f% U# H8 J$ y1 |) F2 V" fNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
) {% y, u+ d I4 O& {2 a, z$ KIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,$ h M6 f P7 U/ d, j- M0 z' Y# C
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
" c8 M3 k) y; T3 s& g5 DYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
) @; @ h+ u, c& A( [/ l6 {1 ]7 GIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,0 h* y$ I+ `2 m* X8 l v" Z3 l
for they have helped you learn about trust
9 P; }' r* i5 e% `* _: Nand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
. G- b$ j* R( h1 l% R# @$ n" T- y5 l6 \If someone loves you, express your appreciation,2 \; u# C9 }3 y1 ]: |, ^! ]
Try to love them back unconditionally,
4 u" }1 b* T- t2 U5 P0 o1 b6 I" {not only because they love you, but because in a way,0 o# V$ a; O2 [# E# {9 O
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.( D5 d# h* _9 \4 y; X7 a' E5 m
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
3 w4 S3 i& E( R# ?. T1 Band a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
' X" A6 I1 P8 f+ h O5 e. @God's grace is as a healing hand.
% y4 p( N# y3 `As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
1 J% M- H! C9 m2 o$ I4 jthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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