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~SOMETIMES~+ z6 X" I7 n2 C' G* Z9 E' y* R
/ T7 c( g1 a* X' xSometimes people come into your life1 r6 q+ d! I; z2 r+ r# e G# e$ b
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
- y: ^! E0 Z4 r1 a Lto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,. Q( h [& x3 Z, E( T7 N$ {
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.* i3 ~& \4 {; K# n8 @* d# @# Y0 \1 ?
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0 m( F2 f0 n+ `You never know who these people may be$ u- B& d$ _# @5 ]% {
but when you lock eyes with them,
" W0 Z' a& P$ ]9 g5 wyou know at that very moment,
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1 b( N$ H; f# e8 h8 N1 A. _They will affect your life in some profound way' h" c* ~1 E+ K# s# h: y" [( Y
2 S4 Z8 }; N* tThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
3 r* j5 r2 Y' D$ sThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
4 C# x6 P% O4 _" \$ j# [. `; |. Y3 G1 sThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,0 u2 {- T, a' ]4 D
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.- t, w% |# J9 s/ D. d6 f9 _
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
6 M: y5 l9 Z: ~1 ASometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
3 }- [1 u/ Q; S* I, o8 L* L gour desire fulfilled, their work is done.$ z8 R* @% P( a$ Q. Z/ A9 o
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
0 A3 o; s+ K. m9 ]6 ]And now it is time for you to move on.2 |, O8 Q% f! u$ c0 @( Q
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Then people come into your life for a REASON* A4 x% s5 G6 M; g; D2 Y
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.2 x6 F" L( U/ |) ?
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
5 R6 Y9 A6 v+ k1 B+ d/ I T8 P* aThey may teach you something you have never done.0 j; C5 e( K" ?$ h1 j! B4 e& U X
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
- l) q8 ~( r; s- V9 `: aBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦6 K+ G; r- z; g7 N( z. K' O9 A
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7 c# D0 w+ A4 M/ M+ v4 P& WLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:1 p5 U0 ~4 w+ `1 R6 Q
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,( B0 W' s. \! n. e6 o
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.8 U \$ [8 m$ c9 l3 ?1 g7 q
Everything happens for a reason.& w# N4 \7 S! F1 D
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.9 ^# _& e7 r/ L0 k9 a" G
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,6 S6 h7 T$ Q2 w, h% g
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.; X. a8 O/ v7 b2 [
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,: E- f0 Q8 |; |( m6 c. M
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,8 w' d, y$ S( d; Q$ ^) b. q
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them, U8 x& F5 w! @2 c% w- a
for they have helped you learn about trust, W) _2 L& @; y
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.) e% J% U& C$ o; P! F
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,5 F& c! q" O$ |' Q3 u+ Q! \
Try to love them back unconditionally,
$ K4 N6 ]+ E9 c7 D2 mnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
% A n9 h% V) y. t! _* b. W Vthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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& @$ b3 L1 v( O& G, G! yThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,. d6 F) W6 O1 a! y
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.6 g. ~* E9 u S9 X
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,% o) y: Q- p! w1 P
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
! X; L( f' W$ R& ]' ?God's grace is as a healing hand.! k' Y8 p/ E5 b' S
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
8 F4 n2 K" i# o ^the warm memories and love for those we have lost
* F4 ?0 d+ j0 P$ {$ mwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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