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; y, k1 q& `' o4 P: S0 u5 r% wSometimes people come into your life/ d5 |# S8 K/ e" j
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
7 \) e0 `) S: c5 ]. P; O1 K0 r4 Mto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
( I2 g" Y$ Z" nor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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3 r& B2 r1 @% z3 qYou never know who these people may be% x3 V: k1 P2 d. X; b9 g8 T
but when you lock eyes with them,6 B2 R' \; D5 p9 `/ @
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
$ p" `, E, t: C+ {* EThey are there for the reason you need them to be." D% A5 E, S; F
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,$ F6 E9 V/ H9 G# O' A: X- l
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
% d# |1 A! T: C w4 LSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away., q$ J. h# R) F& T2 v2 S1 Z
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,9 U- ~7 o- ^, z1 s
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
) W3 p( G! Y. ?: uThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
# u6 K b4 W7 ~5 S9 i$ |( sAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
" Q- @" K z+ qBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.0 x6 V' l& x: D5 F0 m7 j
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
8 o( i" j2 A( u8 wThey may teach you something you have never done.
0 L3 k, ]+ l( N3 i0 B' M t' s0 |7 xThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
q" s+ ~9 n! S- ~- n* y3 D! t4 Q& E9 UBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦; Y1 Y4 o: u+ a
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( [2 z) B! W' iLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:. w$ v0 F( Y" y: |
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
5 G. B1 v* R2 z/ g C( Q2 NPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
' A; o9 T7 s% v7 X0 o/ mEverything happens for a reason.5 K3 w+ O2 _, U. j& [
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
" ^8 u+ n( c5 D+ OIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,5 M2 @" n) x0 L
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,9 i: Y& o7 }: E# a4 \
for they have helped you learn about trust
0 c: b" ^2 d8 h. b) \7 W6 g2 `and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
0 e) ^; ?* V8 I2 B% R7 [: |, }% {If someone loves you, express your appreciation,# V( X$ U) V' \4 A- Q4 x
Try to love them back unconditionally,# M$ b& L) P4 h8 P' P
not only because they love you, but because in a way,1 k; T; J' v4 D' r" O& f
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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4 `! T/ \" d2 aand a time to every purpose under the sun.) z# Z9 F6 P; W7 s% g
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
! `! [5 K" R9 v: ~2 Wand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."( V1 G( q, c3 o( F0 S: ]7 W9 w
God's grace is as a healing hand.
8 m/ k. \/ W: X5 O3 o/ D# G b' kAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,# Z1 R& a- c }2 |. x
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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