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Sometimes people come into your life
; y7 M& `9 Z2 f" cyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
# t6 q+ v4 E6 ~+ Xto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,9 r7 ^) ?% Z; S+ g. b; c' J; R' t! U
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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% ^! p% l# \& o' YYou never know who these people may be
% V K: d% [' D hbut when you lock eyes with them,
- {* u# ] a$ q" z( {you know at that very moment," j0 ]2 ~' T2 A k: e' U0 A
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!# P; a- L s) w; p) P
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
2 {+ Z) c. M/ [Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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& c& I4 N. F/ c: I: n. ?The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
4 R! d: Q! g2 Y1 P9 u C( U6 h. gSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
/ G8 [. _9 P4 Y( e \6 jSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.6 u9 W9 U% Q% I4 H
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- a* y6 ]$ a$ \* Q: A) aWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,- N9 T# e% N! j, j+ @4 _
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.) V Q- j& d$ O) F9 Z- g
The prayer you sent up has been answered.: d' |+ V$ V0 K& O9 b, D: Y
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON5 L: m. Z6 Q) h& g* ~4 e6 F$ {
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.$ `1 b2 R2 ]/ s' d3 d
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
8 x% g# y' e5 c, Z) ?9 F( o: wThey may teach you something you have never done.
/ ^6 J* t( \ t2 V8 L( A8 VThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.' W1 ~5 k( ^: Q$ q
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦- J& w6 A- I% T- d
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:! W% x% c3 M6 l% x. g+ z3 W
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,- S0 Z# }0 m, M' w" I
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.' t3 W; O5 M7 R. e% f( W4 t/ u
Everything happens for a reason.
$ u5 l7 n& G5 p0 [8 YNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
5 |. o# s3 Z2 M3 ?" ?Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,2 f/ q) w+ u& \2 U5 V! ~+ R4 j5 y
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,9 t4 i* A9 W( N
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,# Y. i Q1 @* R/ i5 n
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
! I& z# l% m* Gfor they have helped you learn about trust
6 y2 W! J0 ~8 B3 k) gand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart./ x1 a3 a& a! J
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
5 s3 [0 m. e9 }8 l7 D( y* N9 aTry to love them back unconditionally,; h: O2 a$ |: ?1 g1 P a7 N" ^5 P
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
5 p: a5 T E6 E" q; J" Lthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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: q2 j" X( ]* }# {! J0 x, ?and a time to every purpose under the sun.
- L9 `7 j! p: [+ C' \A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,4 Y4 a5 g; p8 {
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."6 o. Y* V9 i* @7 U6 x" S
God's grace is as a healing hand.
* u0 X* o: r2 c0 j: [) a+ NAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
+ E0 S0 I- |6 Z/ T1 x" V5 s4 Othe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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