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' v$ H$ Y, _ Q~SOMETIMES~1 F1 L) I3 @' d$ R7 f8 N. Z* B
3 @+ P' R0 C4 e5 ~, M6 sSometimes people come into your life @. l$ X# f' x+ j
you know right away that they were meant to be there,1 a6 K8 n: E/ _8 [5 k
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,# \% [. f! j: z$ `: C; B; [
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be1 f4 u+ ^5 Q5 ~
but when you lock eyes with them,
# v6 v! X9 A0 H7 H5 u" a$ yyou know at that very moment,- U$ c& T+ N; `6 `, e- O
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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! t6 B+ @6 Y' v! n& \6 h; I+ F; WThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
2 v; W+ F [5 y) H* V! lThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
2 j* w$ n* ^5 C* z; i/ pThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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1 v0 B. l& R( Y5 R, p# G0 R/ I$ }The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
* |; B3 O; E8 o2 CSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.+ q) A0 F J% K
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. J G0 d3 n' {: c6 s4 w
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; Z# L! Q$ _+ m# o% XWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,# s, K' G6 M' P
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
1 e. [# h4 f4 b+ KThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
& |1 R: C4 |: Q: U- c: mAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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. g7 K! j! }/ y8 n" NThen people come into your life for a REASON* i- [5 ?; V. u- B. m8 _# x
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.2 \. H* f: @+ s" A6 n; k: ]
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh., y0 c0 ^1 E- f- p1 o# ^" g5 B4 S
They may teach you something you have never done.
( J, E, O, T1 y: @- S1 O9 ZThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.( M4 M' {2 m4 ?# U! T2 {4 p0 o" {
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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4 `+ T# ^) }! BLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
, u v$ Y$ ]" Z0 s$ K* x3 R& IYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,) X: n& W+ n& n/ V. z( K9 j1 _
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.; v+ n9 \! _. ]. r5 U9 v% @
Everything happens for a reason.' x1 ~+ E7 M: k+ z
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
+ q8 G2 F3 e; \& D6 u" o- c7 vIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
5 v% T7 V. ]7 O0 `) m! W9 F$ hand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
3 N# o$ U4 [" L E/ M$ gYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,6 r+ T: z/ T1 C
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,4 a) G3 H5 e2 e, H
for they have helped you learn about trust/ x- w# R4 L: L3 e
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
( \, v; Y" y: @, }) F. X1 b, q, gIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,# H0 F, ]+ i& o! I
Try to love them back unconditionally,
; j% _; C5 E5 ^5 M, O9 ~1 ynot only because they love you, but because in a way,
8 N3 K; O2 e) J& Pthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.* F1 z6 M& w! A5 j
5 ~; h/ k6 _/ W d wThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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9 `2 A* _' c1 J$ ?9 m+ i! Band a time to every purpose under the sun. G) @9 _3 M7 j# r
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant," U. J1 q! @9 |3 `$ I/ j' ^
and a time to pluck up that which is planted...". n( |* s- _- h* j3 p+ W4 ?5 G
God's grace is as a healing hand." ?- D1 ]& Q! x& M
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
$ ~* W# h; A- H* c& kthe warm memories and love for those we have lost1 v' m5 y) t8 T' p
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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