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Sometimes people come into your life
. `2 P$ }7 ?& V) |. I" Kyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
, I, c% V) S3 U _" e4 {to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
- H, v# ~2 r% A$ _or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be5 R$ Y7 Z' m$ F: A, ^
but when you lock eyes with them,2 {$ L( |/ S* Y# \! O
you know at that very moment,% t% Q8 Q& v6 t! V# u0 ~2 D3 a% F
0 v# X! w) h- k) @They will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!" p) c6 s. v. y' M8 E! ?
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
1 e) X3 T/ b5 Q9 L7 CThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,9 h( a/ g) ?5 [3 K+ c( e$ A/ ^: a
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
# s8 e/ S1 K4 ]6 xSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.3 p- G; g4 |2 j
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
% E/ @' b4 ~; O1 O% w$ l( A8 Q' zour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
& W0 t+ M" |: @2 g: F$ N9 PThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
^0 z |. B8 P# G' u. K' }' v6 Q% nAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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/ v4 U! A$ v+ }3 H- ]5 WThen people come into your life for a REASON
' Y t. b6 |0 `' t( Z1 r; gBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
6 `/ O5 R) t" \They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh./ J: T1 `$ L4 F! r5 U2 a
They may teach you something you have never done.
) Q" A$ ?# Q0 D1 E& W7 d' YThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
' x( s( L; P: Q4 K4 }* P% lBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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! N) U& a# {( {+ a5 {6 ULIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
- y% P+ a: M! Q. fYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
+ m' f0 S( T0 g1 |1 t9 NPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.8 B) K: w8 J G+ r( W: S
Everything happens for a reason.2 o, ^9 S0 {! z1 t0 m% b- M/ |+ o2 Z
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
7 f8 n# b# C! v% P6 {Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,) D' _3 l$ U5 W
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul." X: a8 x' x& t. i
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You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
8 }) S/ U, I4 A% M) jIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
* K. `2 `. @7 j1 n4 S8 H4 P5 Zfor they have helped you learn about trust
; W0 G: S6 u% zand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
; D! {& j9 W0 X; V5 _If someone loves you, express your appreciation,* X5 Y8 C- t0 Y% |
Try to love them back unconditionally,
6 j4 B# {& j$ R5 hnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
* o- p6 x/ T0 ~; @5 othey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
# i3 [6 j9 B+ H& i; o) m) MA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,% W' q9 V, H u: h7 h
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
) ~! q/ L' z! D' f6 YGod's grace is as a healing hand.$ E5 Y G# E( f+ Z; U- U: j; [- H
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
; n8 ] m0 E8 O# Y* S3 c% G8 nthe warm memories and love for those we have lost. Q% M( U( Y, J4 m& a
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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