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Sometimes people come into your life
9 L* M- { W+ A/ K Z' Q' q" D* kyou know right away that they were meant to be there,7 Y- V% E# U9 \% c5 o( t0 @
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,7 d+ @0 ]% J! s% o& ^8 h( P
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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/ b" k' [9 N3 C& ZYou never know who these people may be
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you know at that very moment,
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2 k* @& _/ }- O) R& kThey will affect your life in some profound way7 b x# F, k# F0 J' h) m
; L" n; {; y& ^; B5 TThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!1 x% L3 E7 P; i3 {- B% T) g
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
@5 L; A: |: @5 n5 L. K4 lThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,+ e! n/ |! X3 ^6 o, u/ c9 V4 d
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
- f! v1 R7 X# o: j( {' q1 lSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
: M7 I! N5 m1 z- Y$ u+ YSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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; X3 c! d7 ~6 u% ~4 b$ MWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,8 c0 n9 k' J' m) h
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
5 Z& C5 J. ~9 [/ r W1 H; TThe prayer you sent up has been answered.3 J' B4 m3 a; @" D% @
And now it is time for you to move on., Z, \. J( o& v8 H6 ?* T5 b3 C0 W
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: x6 P9 K/ a* g% mThen people come into your life for a REASON7 W& D. f- m8 d# k
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 ?3 j: k' h! N; r; e$ zThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
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They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
+ I: z2 a, w8 uBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦, m- d3 g( z4 M2 {
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5 _- { I7 j5 V( P7 qLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:* d" t' r) |1 k
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,! C% D# f, c8 c
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.+ H' J5 y* E% ?/ v' ]
Everything happens for a reason.( g# h; d0 ~: J9 ~) L& k8 [2 w
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.4 K) y& r1 Z/ ^! N- G4 p
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,8 c P6 `' R! `8 {/ u6 @* `# ?
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
, {: X& Z4 W0 c: @( \5 P5 qfor they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation, E) }6 g3 B$ p8 E- K- w0 g8 J
Try to love them back unconditionally,
7 a! C7 x Y q; Q$ p4 o2 enot only because they love you, but because in a way,
- s/ Z9 y9 F. ethey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.+ @7 z8 B' m0 ?! G# F8 E7 Q
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,1 ?4 @# q, M7 \+ H) q/ q, L1 c
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
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and a time to pluck up that which is planted..." t& P; Y6 Q5 ]; r0 S+ x3 f1 j u! M
God's grace is as a healing hand.! I* N1 T! E [4 _9 o
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,7 L- x0 y( Y0 }: @
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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