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Sometimes people come into your life
/ a: {8 G( Y4 s" Uyou know right away that they were meant to be there,4 \: T: g' u$ [4 U
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,: r `5 ?& M+ A
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.- k1 n! g/ A# P/ S
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* ~# U% D5 Y) u5 C# CYou never know who these people may be4 }/ x% P: b- }
but when you lock eyes with them,
/ f0 i7 m: i0 Z% Syou know at that very moment,
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# M: D2 Z: ]7 p+ PThey will affect your life in some profound way' k$ a! j5 B6 i7 m( g7 z
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
- w# ^8 w3 `3 h9 [They are there for the reason you need them to be." [2 X2 F* _& a0 W
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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3 @% O. M: _2 y4 ]5 i1 W$ ?The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
6 U' a+ i* K1 X3 m0 L! p/ rSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.9 w0 P8 t" A, ?) g, S% F ]! G( @
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,' j% L' ?7 E- `7 ]1 H0 n t
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
3 P }% r0 t& k# AThe prayer you sent up has been answered.# x& C- P" G# z2 j
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
/ {4 W% b$ l9 ^( sBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn., z, Q& f. [" h% ?- \
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.9 I4 C: z3 \- c; Q. y
They may teach you something you have never done.
. Q& {$ j. O* ]* rThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.& j8 t2 C0 q7 ?8 I2 `
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦6 ^* T$ |. ]7 Q( i/ V) a% S4 u
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. D& Q0 l" A: x* w" ]LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:/ |$ Q$ Y. q( O; \7 M$ ]; @
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,* L2 _+ ?( J# a/ ~0 k
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.+ {1 U% A f- F0 n& k
Everything happens for a reason.
: E( s4 M. r9 q5 F; ^Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
3 G6 U; h" C* W! J1 W1 H ?Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
4 a W' Y$ J/ C& G' h6 M4 `' hand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.. u+ O& a7 ?% ~1 I5 [/ y
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6 i3 H( d0 }* @2 e7 J; d% R) ^1 j, XIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,6 `' Y8 O: O x( ?7 T
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
9 o4 ~3 C/ g) H5 m: T7 NIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,( e7 R8 Z9 a7 @9 P# p
for they have helped you learn about trust3 n& R+ X5 i8 E( B0 A0 N3 i- d. h
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.4 W5 I' h( g- V
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
& D4 ^' I. D$ P! O. H+ K+ W" b z7 VTry to love them back unconditionally,2 |+ K. ^( l) H, f( j! R
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
8 W7 W0 b* l2 F. U* vthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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' G2 i& u* \$ O6 d; G4 dThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,: @! s& [6 h) h6 o$ K8 ]
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.+ M8 z0 [$ x4 c4 d
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
' v' | d# D& i: z1 vand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."& S1 M& g' N8 i* q( z! t5 D0 S
God's grace is as a healing hand.
- M4 _4 N' { B5 j- j$ t ^As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
* n( G/ C& h" h3 gthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
% C+ @7 i2 }% G, Ywill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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