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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life
9 @2 U) ^6 Y& e" f, c) t' l2 f$ Fyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
8 ]$ T: K- p& c7 {to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
# c: l2 W |9 r# Q: F# q1 P) A `. [or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.+ a3 T3 ?2 o+ f& A: p# F% W
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You never know who these people may be
. B6 Q2 d7 X/ I3 nbut when you lock eyes with them,
6 X- z' `& r' [# S& N9 ayou know at that very moment,
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8 T6 C6 }1 t$ L1 a( V6 cThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
) F4 _, k6 f; w. WThey are there for the reason you need them to be.1 f: W3 \$ \5 N; B1 a7 L
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,6 ~+ }" ?. m H8 l5 s! S& U. b
! L/ @: C, U: o# Q/ d9 RThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
0 C9 O4 g* \$ A2 J) BSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
9 `' P! d# ~& KSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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) d, d) Q1 w" Q2 S. Z, |What we must realize is that our need has been met,
9 e1 W. k& _0 ?our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
$ c: P9 h2 T5 z. t! k+ mThe prayer you sent up has been answered.$ k" G, }( x( l
And now it is time for you to move on.) d$ {" @ x2 w1 _" c* |
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, |; x, _: @$ N2 W pThen people come into your life for a REASON; r" t5 e. p* K6 f
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
$ p3 e+ m/ s" J* MThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh." S5 u- N0 o2 N3 T) c" h' S6 Z/ S( N
They may teach you something you have never done.9 F. c) p& {/ J. J% |
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.! F" C5 B" E5 v: a7 R
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ Q7 |' l8 l& E; ]8 ^
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( L7 ^/ Q6 m% _* WLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:! o4 b+ l$ y, x) p* H6 X' D$ A' o
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,: A' i3 {& C9 L7 X% ]1 K
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
3 U2 D& [2 [% B8 M6 ]& j7 eEverything happens for a reason.) |4 P( Z9 J2 h" @6 \
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
. A' G) w4 T! y2 ?+ K7 \3 {: gIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,7 H4 c$ x) C. e$ U* l$ [$ m
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.7 f' Q! S7 _# C0 y3 p
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0 @9 t. L4 ^! {7 _5 }5 k, f+ K) u: fIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,& x* u3 M) ]/ j- L l9 _( T, l
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
5 }. m1 U+ R" T# R2 L8 ^, a0 q, K" HIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,% Y6 E- H" y! n+ C7 a0 p. m, h; t
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,; \* s- `: d0 x+ E3 g& l+ A
Try to love them back unconditionally,
+ _8 x% R2 v9 {" Dnot only because they love you, but because in a way,+ N& N( A( d' m# S: _( F
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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4 S7 O" X$ H, ]4 lThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season," t2 L1 e- D# o1 W- G+ R8 h
/ a4 e; b$ E ~# eand a time to every purpose under the sun.
2 M6 A! S6 F( c1 Y y( cA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,7 W( T: q! r' v7 @" a4 J& ~5 T
and a time to pluck up that which is planted...") c' O+ D- D z
God's grace is as a healing hand.
% L) m Z# h$ K: ?9 g0 ~) CAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
; |( Y) I. H- n+ { x7 S- b+ L' ~ d3 vthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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