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( M6 T9 ?/ J. T~SOMETIMES~: T7 _6 V n6 V; U4 I Y" A
) J" t- n P* KSometimes people come into your life
; Y: _* {( C2 ~2 T9 x9 M1 c2 ]you know right away that they were meant to be there,0 @1 @# b/ ?' w$ H) d9 @5 J1 ?. T- D
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,, b% ^4 Q5 ]" D1 S k2 J
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
+ @& ^- g" x+ ^5 P: wbut when you lock eyes with them,7 E4 k3 j* m5 v" I o/ o" T: J- d
you know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way& K# f2 z4 S6 k! K6 j# t; E
7 O% Q) w, e1 | x1 i$ |They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
' A, [! Q( J3 M9 hThey are there for the reason you need them to be.& Z. S, e y- l! S) S/ j7 @9 y: [: A
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
. E5 l1 G0 p1 C5 U, u' v0 u6 NSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.% Q) X e& n* u1 K' A
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.4 ]/ N7 O& `9 n2 e7 l
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+ J% G% J) |2 Q# j" n# y0 D% y9 |What we must realize is that our need has been met,# G$ w V w- }8 ^
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
, s7 C& v4 ]- j9 dThe prayer you sent up has been answered.7 _6 S1 b* {- o; N* k9 z
And now it is time for you to move on.
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b, T! Z$ @0 p1 H+ L+ V; lThen people come into your life for a REASON
/ u. M: B4 r* kBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 D0 m* I- J& Q, q- xThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
" d9 o) l# s! {. O2 x/ r5 [: c7 DThey may teach you something you have never done. G% |; f" R- ~, U
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.4 F5 H$ ^& i+ |! u7 ~
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦. C! Z% f" Z! M
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! _3 R, K+ ^: S+ e% T% ` s% |LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
+ H2 F V/ d# K# l; fYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,) g \: f$ ?9 C
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.1 T8 V2 X; y( y& {
Everything happens for a reason.: ?# z8 i2 B! y9 u3 m
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.) f$ _* ]& i- i+ l; I1 u8 k
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,, j6 k% M8 w6 ^: z: n
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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& m) P$ q: J6 dIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful, _6 B, t6 f/ J, U' Z
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,* }" v8 ^! y2 S; p/ V/ X
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,, o3 d- Y; l* ~8 w& i
for they have helped you learn about trust; X9 U- F3 l3 J: s$ E, Q
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
+ \# j( H# P* V. {1 F' t8 a1 W( }If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
- M" w9 h: T# d' i1 k, A. ~9 K! cTry to love them back unconditionally,
, ? L; v( [. V! Rnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
5 @: [* Y) ^/ k. ]they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.8 k9 [0 v& V$ n; t8 a7 H3 h/ n
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,# M: H9 c; \8 ~, G& X: R
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.: X; h% }% `- g# |4 L$ S
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
2 l8 m. A2 E* L" m2 g3 L! ^and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
! [: q5 H& _) y4 q) k0 ^God's grace is as a healing hand.6 D( B0 o- p5 @8 B& N; Y- R
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
5 D0 z* Y& J& z$ J1 H/ Uthe warm memories and love for those we have lost; j6 S" h; j1 |& ~
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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