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3 p3 W6 J) q! X9 R7 qSometimes people come into your life R+ @; l) O, X5 w5 j+ J! T- ?& M p
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
8 R& D" @# t) I5 r+ C" Jto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
7 Y5 ~% v: E: t; W% r' _. for to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.2 g1 X9 l6 c4 J8 f# b, r/ y5 T$ D
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& k @8 @8 r) K8 Z- L4 C6 O% |You never know who these people may be% W' A: k9 L: G2 Q6 ] q
but when you lock eyes with them,% Q o9 B/ H6 I3 ^
you know at that very moment,
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3 E% F* V+ Y0 ]. A& z/ i$ i, HThey will affect your life in some profound way- {0 d' e9 k0 c# x9 d: J1 K# |
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!/ r; R( S8 U* W* Y% R5 d. c
They are there for the reason you need them to be., I3 ~1 `9 [: W/ B$ d2 H$ c
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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4 ^4 ~& ~, ~. b; y3 R. B& `- [$ F8 IThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
% N( t+ `7 Z9 k9 K# `- Y' \& F) \Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.1 [" I8 f. j7 ]; S, `3 ~
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.: c3 z3 Z: O6 R5 _
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
' Q0 R1 s3 a: H( T, D* Gour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
) ~& A8 Q2 ]$ u+ u( ~4 q8 l8 MThe prayer you sent up has been answered., {) i7 U2 t! e$ l$ R% D+ T
And now it is time for you to move on.! A" K m8 e+ i+ J
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( e& s$ q3 h) O6 d) CThen people come into your life for a REASON( q2 ]3 ^, V5 [' v8 b
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
& v" K; P: C' g& A! B4 Z1 MThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
" o" B1 ?; a+ z& e: \6 q5 oThey may teach you something you have never done.
" C4 D' m9 F/ F* k, v0 fThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.9 m6 t5 t9 U( W
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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7 @5 B( ^ B! A0 `' u" Z0 cLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
* k6 p5 c9 Q) z' \# IYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
/ K& [- ~$ l, I8 Z gPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
& e% z6 C4 V. o h, dEverything happens for a reason.; m' o3 l( L$ T3 O0 i; x) ]
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.1 I) L* W1 B8 n: f
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
& P* J7 b5 J0 c: M2 band sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.+ i ]; r- x1 N0 W& h* v
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) J" z+ I/ M# n) yIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,9 l, m: I# b7 x. V9 x! `
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
, K, O7 I0 S$ Y% KIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
. i$ Y8 h+ s( ]" F x/ S- Kfor they have helped you learn about trust
. W8 Z( T: l* Z/ H7 r, Wand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.8 a5 A" E$ x7 o+ y' ?
If someone loves you, express your appreciation, h; k/ p: s y" G! D1 _
Try to love them back unconditionally,
+ w, o/ m2 k0 v; rnot only because they love you, but because in a way,' \' _: \! w6 k# [0 h/ M
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.7 P- Z; Y: j3 [$ V z
2 a1 H9 ]) T2 _0 C1 g# a9 tThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,5 | O# I! m) E, r) k. {+ K
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.0 Q& S4 b# Y# ], s$ |- K
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,+ t0 J" @! u& y2 a n: P& h
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
" b. M; j% ]2 [: H" q# n" X& T$ LGod's grace is as a healing hand.7 F) @" j8 g/ U6 x1 i8 U
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,3 y7 ?4 g+ I7 _8 |" d7 e; k' ?! Q
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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