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Sometimes people come into your life' \! d9 T+ ^* F& K3 e
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
1 K# x% X0 z" v' \+ s$ h7 @3 E: gto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,5 i5 y. h7 R3 I6 M8 \# `
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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1 j6 T; @* k9 V4 f, sYou never know who these people may be$ M, o1 e# h8 u. H, { g( D0 l
but when you lock eyes with them,
" y4 r1 |# b% o$ S2 V q. i( wyou know at that very moment,
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4 V: q2 Q" O. A; X4 S$ j$ hThey will affect your life in some profound way8 z ` }' ?) O
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!) w, Z# ~ y) }
They are there for the reason you need them to be.7 e7 c$ |+ S E7 K7 j0 A3 S! D
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time, s- G3 u. Q! } G# D7 i
! S4 o8 H# J: o7 `$ hThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.3 @ M$ S) c: X- O& J$ ^" ~: ~$ Y
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
0 _4 E& L, }3 w9 v) ^0 HSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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- y6 |6 [7 X1 k( n& ^What we must realize is that our need has been met,
2 T' S' [' r' ` _5 V* \our desire fulfilled, their work is done.$ ~# p7 W h$ V3 Y$ ?, Y
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
) b, \, y G0 Q& ]2 eAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON {! X" i6 X5 R+ z6 `* R$ a
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.5 n1 ~; H4 T7 B% I8 c" F% X
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.2 f2 Z" ]) m" p1 F2 m9 S( @$ v
They may teach you something you have never done.
5 C# |. \+ W, l+ q3 F2 N, S7 SThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. n" o9 P: t" t" ~
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦$ ]1 |* y6 I1 B7 L7 h
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4 k z1 z* J- C& |! e. @# uLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
2 Q& v' `+ e5 B2 @- Z/ }Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
) ^7 x4 Q8 B! UPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.+ K6 r |! q) y# c3 M5 I7 \
Everything happens for a reason.
/ U) O- b% p( B: t5 \Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
/ t# d8 N# T. l. K. R' O3 KIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,+ }2 E8 Z* m( G* n
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.7 E$ u5 s8 t: ^! l2 q
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,* I. }9 L- k8 F* I6 Y6 J- R7 `
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
/ E, T' R, ^0 A: |" \3 gIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
- q# ?( {9 a- u4 {% ]$ w0 s9 mfor they have helped you learn about trust
" B6 g& N' @0 x) C( Fand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
4 e% h- r: x! @5 U& E0 {If someone loves you, express your appreciation,5 `7 \! P6 X! B1 f; \
Try to love them back unconditionally,
, s2 M9 H: H2 i4 K- `0 @not only because they love you, but because in a way,
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- k6 @" E7 H, f" [$ D# \1 j4 ?1 \- P* }The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,: I+ `* V- s. w5 P0 \
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.7 i: i5 W1 }9 c
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,; N0 c5 N( w) R B
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
( n- m5 y4 S/ _7 e0 a" |God's grace is as a healing hand.
+ ~' }, F$ R7 |- b# ?( n. mAs does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,4 `1 w1 U1 b3 T- z; o& r
the warm memories and love for those we have lost- a3 q W( t1 \/ K1 x, T! A
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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