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Sometimes people come into your life+ o, K& T# A/ `6 g. v7 M: @1 H
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
1 O/ r( n) H, R# Pto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,# e2 |. p2 m) O4 q
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
! b5 G- O" D& v1 Y9 F6 x* _' C+ ^& I% Rbut when you lock eyes with them,
; `9 Q0 w t2 f2 P/ h0 Hyou know at that very moment,- L, u: a6 A6 N
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They will affect your life in some profound way9 F8 m5 B* V w4 R N; c
N5 B. b( k, v9 K' q/ y! F. oThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!' v2 V8 r- q3 z$ H* G
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
& n4 Q+ O% P" F, M- C- h% n" ZThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,0 `( R; B7 C- |. c" D# G6 F, u
2 s1 E9 g6 u: J- r- T0 m' }The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
( ]5 V8 t/ N8 y3 z4 J8 N- u& NSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.: I1 t) ~7 B+ {/ `
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.+ s L4 `5 r( A7 }5 n
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' p4 S& [ q3 {6 nWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,# x$ m: `" Y% c# ?+ z( {9 p
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.* y2 Z* C$ \' ]+ S8 {" J& g
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
: E1 C% O7 N9 t5 C5 W6 @And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
: c( r" T9 i* ]/ ~, p! OBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn." Q$ ^/ e1 u0 {3 `
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
2 u1 g+ M- ^# b/ S$ |) OThey may teach you something you have never done.
2 \$ w9 `! q7 j' a) T' NThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.9 f5 [4 q3 Y' n3 P
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:/ H) q+ @3 ?; C( U4 Z* C- L* x
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,% e3 j. @. a& N8 \0 Y& m
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
# `6 s& K& u* yEverything happens for a reason.
. ^0 I4 I$ u' }+ dNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
: u' o" R$ i( j, a" L1 n( PIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,; H3 W. M* V* r
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.6 d: ^3 W$ d0 M0 I3 _7 X. m
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# k. q q3 O h3 ?. c4 u& `( oIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
! N+ Y3 P0 z5 }! yYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,$ d! _" D" t1 l: R9 ?8 @! p# Q
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
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and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.+ |* K' o/ J4 Z, Q7 U
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,2 i4 v3 V% P3 D& O- s- i
Try to love them back unconditionally,
* V" a/ Z3 F! M8 G/ b {not only because they love you, but because in a way,; c4 R5 O% S' {, `1 k: U
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.; o& \# y3 D1 w F
: N: {( g, \1 PThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.2 n7 ]. U# W6 n0 r' n
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
8 X0 K9 s. P$ Nand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
2 _& [9 I4 i# ~God's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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