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~SOMETIMES~
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Sometimes people come into your life
) I. l9 \/ d; B# Dyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
/ N) W" _ m( O: o1 Ito serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
% u& q% X3 J$ v: O1 W% ?; mor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.4 c: p y1 d, g2 M/ \4 m7 W8 C
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u+ Z$ r& E6 Z" z B7 DYou never know who these people may be6 ]" Y) r$ \% v2 t6 k) P( z) O
but when you lock eyes with them,5 D$ q& k; w+ b% P B. ^1 C$ l$ V# a
you know at that very moment,
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' k/ z9 k" \7 m2 \6 `They will affect your life in some profound way
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, o( m6 G# I/ P; `! F7 _7 pThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
5 Y. A7 W8 P/ a9 q( gThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
) a( m+ K o1 c3 O; ~Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,4 J+ c& j5 g x7 \" P5 v
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
9 i5 q0 M& z: E- i! q; u# QSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.+ E$ G; @# @! i, R. i, K. Y' L$ x
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,) i; C& z2 ?$ s) O+ n. I
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.. q: d0 _/ }9 S T0 p) u
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
# j* M" L' g+ PAnd now it is time for you to move on.( j4 v6 @0 }7 R- J1 a
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# L. T8 |0 S- N8 z! T( R: OThen people come into your life for a REASON, n" c- e: T* X2 ?2 R( Z+ Q
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
6 q- B9 T" T- B3 p$ O, g5 W" RThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.& q0 s0 ^2 }# U- W4 Q
They may teach you something you have never done.2 {0 h; g, m& S4 Y! Y8 C" V @3 S/ ]
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
. ~7 F) x0 }2 W/ G; x: U# eBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦, F" m4 W$ l; H; ]+ F
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" P; u# Z- {. t* J8 o( J' PLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
" u% O% D* x; X8 H% i4 s3 n$ fYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,3 m3 ?! m; ?& ~8 ?* X X9 H+ X
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.3 j- T5 O2 Z+ V. w! a( m M
Everything happens for a reason.
) Q- l- O4 u/ J% I8 aNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
6 l% f& a( M& O5 n5 c/ mIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
# n1 I& P3 L+ }; c" w2 W- kand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.8 X; W2 f! q. ?4 c, @
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,3 p, }' m. D' z! }
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,4 ~( |+ X- M! F
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,$ c- p: T5 D3 ~$ R, L5 c& S
for they have helped you learn about trust* p7 e9 r0 }: `: x
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
, J. l( W5 ?) }+ h0 KIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
' V; G8 w9 B: @' A6 `; p" xTry to love them back unconditionally,% e5 |0 t7 z8 p5 d
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
) A0 u; Z! N, U; R6 Z8 o. Gthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.9 C5 [' Y3 P) [
: ]' `. m5 h f! G- b/ HThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,5 }6 f. q) ~8 l$ r+ F) E
( s' s1 S. r$ P! {5 e, k- e* _and a time to every purpose under the sun.
4 g0 i. n! R1 [0 a; oA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
6 i/ W8 o$ Z5 Kand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."3 o( O& D; ]) r% {: y# S' P) Q
God's grace is as a healing hand.
8 n% Z- F6 v7 ?% K5 V; O* [As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,9 x/ H( r- r% j* l0 O
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
( A, }/ R) T: j+ Gwill remain always safe in our hearts. |
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