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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to5 o2 B+ \3 Q; x/ K7 }' M- ^
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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+ Y- U" s( \6 M y( zUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first; Y* C- E9 O; g% h! j- \9 S/ m
names:
; {1 I7 H" U6 N/ N- k- Q1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.- J4 l4 f% q! r# U/ h
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
! M+ A* }. A3 J j; Tsay—listen for the name.% Y# @" c+ q# I7 a9 ?4 J5 E
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.: M3 b5 J, |% z$ w+ y
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know- ]; k7 L' ?* n- c* j0 ^. G
with the same name.
3 K3 @8 O, D8 J p* Z: C5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the3 E# L* T7 D5 r
end of the conversation.
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3 k e+ M8 h8 B* l5 f7 N) I6 r---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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