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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to2 k: c& Z U& x1 _5 ~6 ?- S
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear
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7 P# v0 X! @: Kyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will, W, J5 n8 ]3 g! I. u4 A
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! n6 {2 e+ H( LUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.% M5 y+ e1 O' d, e
2) The second second: Don't think about what to
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3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
5 l! @8 _) b. ~4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know. E/ o! O7 |8 d3 P) i$ Q8 D
with the same name.
$ ?$ G0 O, j5 J4 E: m5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the9 m7 s* H5 q% P+ W4 ^- d
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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