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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to8 I0 ]4 N s5 q) O8 \* \
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear0 ]$ }& H. K# k# O) y- `# {
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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' \: _; y% o+ k% U, ]& m2 lthink of you.( E! |: w0 R% R1 S9 C5 u7 N
! ~$ D3 ?! l2 c0 b/ |: rUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first# Z- q, Y% V }9 c4 H6 Y- @
names:7 d& a. D, i# `6 b1 ~
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
$ b' b* B$ w3 [2) The second second: Don't think about what to
( G7 ]9 s4 X6 O2 f5 J2 E* |say—listen for the name.
; A7 i0 E' V7 s. G! O( T3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
8 m" `, N% W) q* ~& }4 p4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know' {. t. I9 V! b5 n/ b
with the same name.
* X+ [+ R" ]0 h) F" O: o6 S5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
. Q) Y$ t% q& ?2 c& Z9 x. tend of the conversation.
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/ D. S% }2 w @9 m3 K---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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