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 Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it.
) k( M8 h P3 [2 S- _Touching words from the mouths of babes.
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A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'
" V2 h; ~9 A x! g; RThe answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
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& V' Z$ |9 Y. S8 A- V: a'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.; e" h! b' \3 M7 r
3 Q4 w( A2 C: Q' N. s4 J; e) sSo my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'2 a# \+ y) q5 M6 j' F
Rebecca- age 89 R1 h3 p2 d3 J8 }$ d; w
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. U: v) F4 |) r4 G'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
: ?+ w- }. @% S1 r6 t7 wYou just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
; y1 g3 k+ ^* O2 \+ `' T4 U- H% ?Billy - age 4
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'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.', X* V% T( w* d. Y& z
Karl - age 5
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'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.': f, M7 I! N- l" a! d
C hrissy - age 6
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'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'8 X" j ~+ s% w, l. |
Terri - age 4# H5 t O+ g N+ l8 g* m5 C
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5 V: B& g6 R& Q1 G: c# x, ]: h'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
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n3 L# p5 x' ~; ?'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
' J# f, r# L2 X6 ?2 OMy Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'6 s1 z- h) `- a! ?- |+ E$ }$ @
Emily - age 8
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'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'0 J3 d: w9 e. r$ } i
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!); D- a8 A j9 N% @% A: a* Y
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3 _) n; K# U; b$ t. T2 t'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'! Q' Y) C; x j9 ?
! @7 Q4 N# |( S/ {' K' g( T; ENikka - age 6( {& C! K7 f3 x4 P5 j# @) Y$ W
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
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'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'2 I; Y9 k1 T5 W" P# u8 r) m
Noelle - age 7
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) v* V# i) X+ A8 J. A'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.': E/ K1 V) |) L/ O: t
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'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. o+ Q8 S) A) w0 }4 A
0 _& C& y: y! O! E1 ?He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'5 n6 }- X; ?) \; ~+ Q9 {! T+ A# Y
Cindy - age 8 p7 U) Z9 T. r/ b% y
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$ B1 y4 A' p e0 h2 ^'My mommy loves me more than anybody
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You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.', K0 u: c1 H; J% n! L% n5 K
C lare - age 6
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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'7 v. |7 Y4 y$ V4 ?$ C
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* X, a* G. x8 i'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'
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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day'
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+ [3 E: x! ^; A3 T3 @. E# |8 ?4 S'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
: l# O- ~! o' v$ X% a. R, t F2 jLauren - age 4
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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)
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'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'* \& }7 o& ^) V% r' G
Jessica - age 8
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0 G( _# k% S h' bAnd the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
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The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.* Z# r3 H$ e8 Q5 s3 o9 o4 u* n
0 c5 @& Y+ j5 o8 |: c+ }! w2 GThe winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
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( d+ O& ]0 s2 w$ [, NUpon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
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* N4 F- J( b2 d) ~8 S, Q* t+ D, kWhen his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,
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