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When I was a kid, my mom liked to make3 R0 q1 l+ i& g
breakfast food for dinner every now and then. And I remember one night in
" j4 t; H- p; ]particular when she had made breakfast after a long, hard day at work. On that
9 X- k& E) M0 g6 Q: Pevening so long ago, my mom placed a plate of eggs, sausage and extremely burned
0 B v$ M# v6 Gbiscuits in front of my dad.. I remember waiting to see if anyone noticed! Yet% U" a2 g# K# w
all my dad did was reach for his biscuit, smile at my mom and ask me how my day
; d& g0 x$ t! o$ z% w/ o5 @was at school. I don't remember what I told him that night, but I do remember0 c5 y3 u% l7 J0 x! \0 H5 a9 f
watching him smear butter and jelly on that biscuit and eat every( Q2 L% x8 q$ k% ?* e+ V
bite!
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& t+ d1 Q: X* _# w2 ^& d8 NWhen I got up from the table that evening, I remember hearing my
4 h9 b, H/ I9 y. Q# hmom apologize to my dad for burning the biscuits. And I'll never forget what he9 [* D9 m* Y# a" E9 b* F
said: "Honey, I love burned biscuits."3 p4 `% p+ V! S, |; ^. N
4 I6 O, ?. a+ J- z) qLater that night, I went to kiss Daddy good night and I asked him if he really liked his biscuits burned. He wrapped me in his arms and said, "Your Momma put in a hard day at work today and2 e1 a- p1 Q1 k. Q, N
she's real tired. And besides - a little burnt biscuit never hurt anyone!"
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You know, life is full of imperfect things.....and imperfect& A! x0 @' b9 ^7 y$ T
people. I'm not the best at hardly anything, and I forget birthdays and. O# z/ Z( {, m. _ I
anniversaries just like everyone else.0 s9 J. h$ f" N% v! V
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What I've learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults - and choosing to celebrate
/ L1 N- v- u+ z+ n7 C7 {each others differences - is one of the most important keys to creating a
& V( j/ _8 }! m0 j8 J9 Dhealthy, growing, and lasting relationship.% }9 m. q( y2 N$ b* d8 d+ D; a. J
! a3 j+ n3 [- i% ]6 s3 {, kAnd that's my prayer for you today. That you will learn to take the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of your life and lay them at the feet of God. Because in the end, He's the only One who will be able to give you a relationship where a burnt biscuit isn't a deal-breaker!5 b" f. {, w) `
( P6 e U$ U* [0 ^3 v' `1 r! AWe could extend this to any relationship. In fact,4 m" z9 B, X" R- U r" I
understanding is the base of any relationship, be it a husband-wife or
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"Don't put the key to your happiness in3 L& G( u1 X; R, A% j( b9 h% ^
someone else's pocket - keep it in your own." |
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