Day home的差別

藍精靈 · 发表于 2011-11-9 12:51

搜尋一下現在dayhome有的有經過agency有些是私人的，請問差別在哪？
各位爸媽們你們又會幫自己的寶貝選擇哪種的呢？

吉祥如意 · 发表于 2011-11-9 14:01

I don't have any experiences on day homes. Here are some suggestions on picking daycares from a teacher in Child Education. Hope it helps a little bit.

It will be important for you to go and visit any centre you are thinking of putting your child in – even a couple times - and stay for the morning to see what the program is like and what the routines (snack, getting dressed to go outside, lunch and nap time) look like. I would think twice about any centre that won’t let you do this.

While there:
- Listen to how staff speak to children (most staff will be on their best behavior when parents are visiting but it does give you a sense of who caregivers are)
- Do staff engage in play with children (positive) or do they just watch them, “supervise” (negative)?
- Do staff sit with children at snack and lunch and engage in conversation (positive) or do they stand most of the time and rush children to eat (negative and actually against licensing requirements – staff must sit with children during lunch time)?
- Do children wash their hands before and after eating? Do staff wash their hands before and after eating? Do staff wash their hands after blowing noses?
- Do children get free play time to pick what they would like to do or are they “taught” in large groups with compulsory circle time (inappropriate especially for toddlers)?
- Do staff correct children’s artwork or complete it for children (negative)? Does all artwork look the same (negative)?
- There should not be work sheets, colouring sheets or flash cards – young children need hands-on experiences and opportunities to manipulate toys and materials themselves – young children learn through play rather than by being taught to memorize letters and numbers by adults
- Do staff let children know the reasons for their concerns when a child is doing something staff do not want them to do (“When you flick sand, I’m worried it will get in children’s eyes.” - positive) or do they use “No, Stop and Don’t” or “I need you to…” to guide behaviour (negative)
- Do staff offer children choices and attempt to problem solve (i.e. “What can we do so that you both get a chance to play with the truck?”)
- A toddler or preschool room should not feel like, look like nor operate like an elementary classroom

- See if the centre is Accredited or at least going through the Accreditation process – doesn’t necessarily mean that it is automatically a good centre but it is a start.

- Ask to take a look at the centre’s Child Guidance Policy or Discipline Policy – better centres will not include “time out” in their discipline methods

- Look at the walls for staff credentials – level 3 is the highest credential (usually a 2 year diploma in early childhood or equivalent), level 2 is one year of training in ECD and level 1 is 45 hours of ECD training) – although there are some quite wonderful level 1’s and 2’s working with children!

The important thing is that you feel comfortable and like the centre is somewhere that you want to leave you child.

藍精靈 · 发表于 2011-11-9 19:57

謝謝樓上的回答，第一次送寶貝去dayhome,第一天去的時候
哭的很慘，阿姨説她有一直抱住他，下班去接他時他看起來還
好，也沒什麼特別的，阿姨説他要回家了來給阿姨抱抱，他也抱
了阿姨，第二天去的時候一樣哭，後來阿姨説他一下就好了，但
這次阿姨回家要抱他他馬上搖頭説不要，説要回家，回家路上我
問了他今天好玩嗎？他馬上説他明天不要去阿姨家，問他為什麼？
他説阿姨罵他，我説是不是你頑皮不聽話阿姨罵你，他説"玩車車＂
阿姨罵，回家他跟老公説他不要再去，老公就也決不再讓他去，因為
老公説，一般送孩子去時，她們應該會讓我們先給孩子説清楚爸媽現
在去上班，你在阿姨這邊玩一下，下班來接你，讓孩子知道，但是當
我們第一次送去dayhome,阿姨也不讓我們進去，就開了門，抱了孩子
告訴我們沒關係的，你們快走吧！老公很不放心站在外面等，聽到孩子哭
卻看不見如何！所以有些人認為有經過agency的dayhome比較安全，好像
也不是很全然。還是有愛心比較重要！

发芽的拐杖 · 发表于 2011-11-12 18:28

pretty · 发表于 2011-11-12 19:48

万不得已还是不要去DAY HOME，一个人看几个，能看成什么样？也没有人监督。DAYCARE好在是公开的工作环境，有RULE和行为规范制约CARE GIVER。
以前看过一个讲DAY HOME的帖子，看过就够了

钱小妹 · 发表于 2011-11-13 11:36

唉，叹气，我现在坚定认为前几天一定要陪好孩子。上次去的daycare也是不让待，结果说我孩子不好带，现在不去了。没个渐进过程大人适应都难，何况孩子啊。

JoyceAccSG · 发表于 2011-11-15 16:42

最近比较烦 · 发表于 2011-11-16 13:26

dayhome必须是經過agency的吧。
所谓的私人的合法吗？怎么给孩子们购买保险？

angelcoco · 发表于 2011-11-17 10:42

听说有的可以到家里来看宝宝，是吗？

jenniferming · 发表于 2011-11-17 12:09

6# 钱小妹

My daughter's daycare let us stay if we want. So you just need to find the right daycare.

wpbaby · 发表于 2011-11-17 19:17

万不得已还是不要去DAY HOME，一个人看几个，能看成什么样？也没有人监督。DAYCARE好在是公开的工作环境，有RULE和行为规范制约CARE GIVER。
% R1 D2 E" _7 I* J& Z以前看过一个讲DAY HOME的帖子，看过就够了
5 p' x: d! r) wpretty 发表于 2011-11-12 19:48

有的人竟然开着DAYHOME看着很多孩子还做着生意，不知那些妈妈们放心吗？其实也就是比外面便宜个一两百块钱。。。

藍精靈 · 发表于 2011-11-17 20:49

所以爸媽們你們會比較選擇讓孩子去dayhome嗎?

angelcoco · 发表于 2011-11-18 12:51

DAYHOME是不是孩子少，感冒机会少呢，如果很小的宝宝没准适合？我也在考察比较中

jiezhuang88 · 发表于 2011-11-22 14:38

如果选对了dayhome，还是挺好的。尤其是年龄小的宝宝。我家宝宝19个月时去过YMCA，连续半年都在生病，后来到了dayhome, 从来都不生病了。

angelcoco · 发表于 2011-11-22 16:29

请问楼上送的DAYHOME 在哪？南边吗？我的小孩准备7个月送去，孩子还不会说话，找个好的DAYHOME孩子大人都少些麻烦

jiezhuang88 · 发表于 2011-11-24 15:19

15# angelcoco

是在南面呀，在111st&23ave南面一点的twin brooks。家里条件不错，而且阿姨一般只带两个小孩，都是从很小看到大，这样比较有感情。其实我在其它帖子也提过，阿姨叫sandy，电话7809072888。有兴趣可以去看看。

fushiyu · 发表于 2011-11-24 15:54

本帖最后由 fushiyu 于 2011-11-24 15:56 编辑

所以爸媽們你們會比較選擇讓孩子去dayhome嗎?
; R+ `, W3 G! |& y& W: ]藍精靈发表于 2011-11-17 20:49

大一些的孩子还是去daycare的好，小一点的怕生病就去dayhome吧。基本上每个孩子都会经历半年生病这个过程的。
虽然送孩子去是请人照顾，但从孩子内心出发，应该是提供给一个让孩子玩和学习的环境。所以要从孩子的角度来选。
家长自己问自己：成天闷在一个小环境里面，和三四个固定的人打交道好玩，还是在一个大环境里（空间大、玩具多）和一群孩子在一起好玩呢？

jiezhuang88 · 发表于 2011-11-25 09:46

17# fushiyu

这个我同意，宝宝懂事了以后是应该去Daycare，但要尽量选一个比较好的。

好妈妈胜好老师 · 发表于 2011-12-17 19:42

个人认为三岁前就自己带，三岁后不管是daycare还是dayhome, 孩子适应一二周后，高兴去的就是好。

zjzaqwsx · 发表于 2011-12-22 00:19

本帖最后由 zjzaqwsx 于 2011-12-22 00:20 编辑

去dayhome好,对三岁以内少得病,早晚接送也较灵活,接晚了不罚款,离家较近,价格较低,服务好,饮食好(中西餐结合),可学国语.而去daycare人太多,甚至有病的孩子也往那送,发病机会较高,接送时间太死,周末更别想(dayhome 可以如你有事在周末,或几小时都可以),大部分daycare离家较远,价格太贵,服务一般(因工作人员只是雇员不会象雇主一样的精心),小孩不爱吃饭也不会给你另做一些可口的给ta,甚至也不喂.只吃西餐很少有中餐,只讲英语不讲国语,觉得小孩还是学点国语好,英语将来上学自然又成为ta们的母语.daycare的最大的好处是设施齐全.

JimZ1 · 发表于 2011-12-22 00:31

听说西南地区还有一家五证齐全dayhome特火,好多人在外面排队好几个月都进不去,很多走了去daycare又回去了.好象在Rutherford一带,离我太远搞不准.

toddlers · 发表于 2011-12-25 22:48

好妈妈胜好老师发表于 2011-12-17 19:42 4 t3 @9 k4 T+ R; b0 ?7 S& K
个人认为三岁前就自己带，三岁后不管是daycare还是dayhome, 孩子适应一二周后，高兴去的就是好。

个人认为三岁前就自己带

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