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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 - e9 F( c4 X8 X2 Y3 K2 {1 [+ `
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" j. A9 [0 O+ b今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享
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On Children$ F3 ?% @) E* P, j0 e
Kahlil Gibran
, \! ?6 ?0 J" s- k6 Q% P( p! T! QYour children are not your children.2 P$ O$ }" j: S. E; Z9 j5 H9 W
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.3 V5 x5 f* W3 N% j' C4 m5 M1 s
They come through you but not from you,
1 r$ ^3 X5 l' b9 A" vAnd though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
) k" ^4 a4 m6 E7 x( AYou may give them your love but not your thoughts,' S4 S8 k% K: @$ h9 G( ~( N8 p8 m: a0 O
For they have their own thoughts.
$ l: y/ p- n9 y: D" D& KYou may house their bodies but not their souls,, |9 v6 ~. T9 h
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
+ N7 R. f1 `8 c1 cwhich you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
/ |% x0 }/ q. X. L' RYou may strive to be like them,& t) N! @* d1 `" ~: `4 G$ H# b+ t5 D
but seek not to make them like you.
( b4 o* ], Q! RFor life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
& b. S$ c' l, `You are the bows from which your children' c* k$ E# Y8 x2 f$ S6 H8 n2 K* m
as living arrows are sent forth.
9 e8 ]" D, C$ h  g2 T# n; @The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,2 }0 y/ k3 Q" @
and He bends you with His might
. W, t: g( r; q1 Xthat His arrows may go swift and far.9 s9 _5 Z5 [3 j% P6 q1 z# k& L
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;0 s- x) x2 U2 g% k9 y- G/ ]
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
5 `" n% R8 J2 Oso He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。5 Y5 `# |6 r, y: w  H0 {

, E1 L' u4 \$ s1 v, h0 e0 q你的子女,其实不是你的子女。& J; r0 @0 z5 M* X! p, w- h
他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。
, I3 L# j' P  h2 w+ |他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。+ n, S8 y% c- A2 z/ {2 g
他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。  _. S) V& Y7 C
你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,
5 H* j: Q" V1 a4 {6 }  |% m因为他们有自己的思想。
. _% U+ U( w% R" G* M5 P# X你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,, y0 l) S/ n! S& s: j! q7 d6 A" u6 g
因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,; W2 @6 h/ H& W1 u# \5 e1 E
你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
& h  |3 g8 g; U) X却不要让他们变得和你一样,8 m" a9 w# {2 ?) L7 {( _% b- O
因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。9 @, D9 ?8 P: W1 z/ z9 {% \$ J! E, }
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
4 x, _8 r% \( X0 J弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,
. @, E' I8 l: h; s它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。
( D. R0 l5 c! _* @: w怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,
  _$ R; p$ `. O, ?% m因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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