<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

秀色可餐

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, M' L2 B! S' T; D# p今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗，觉得很好，贴出来和大家一起分享
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# Y6 `. x7 I% y/ w1 B5 ZOn Children
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7 R* o  n2 W$ x& k6 ]Your children are not your children.
5 j0 Z8 T1 e0 p8 j0 L7 H# ~They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
' ^  m! j. T- P$ k* \+ xThey come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
* x/ y* O& [- z+ c( v/ U7 Y* JYou may give them your love but not your thoughts,
9 z2 b$ m8 c" DFor they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
5 F( X, V' G9 ~4 E6 ^0 f3 u, ewhich you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
5 w, `! r7 i* [1 vYou may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
. X7 L1 k' T) i3 RFor life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
8 _; o8 X5 V/ }5 LYou are the bows from which your children
+ ^2 K* c! g( M, `6 }& L2 R. cas living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
! B( z  F9 d6 Aand He bends you with His might
) g0 }/ P; z- S6 m4 i- g. `  J  k% ythat His arrows may go swift and far.
' ?2 m: ~' g( ^2 P8 q$ @) W* V5 uLet your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
+ f/ z7 l) y: H0 zFor even as He loves the arrow that flies,
8 Y/ a7 u0 f% qso He loves also the bow that is stable.

秀色可餐

下面是中文翻译，可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时，便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。

+ O% \9 B- X: H  B你的子女，其实不是你的子女。
( I: }$ `- @% q( N+ u他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。
他们借助你来到这世界，却非因你而来。
他们在你身旁，却并不属于你。
你可以给予他们的是你的爱，却不是你的思想，
因为他们有自己的思想。
2 g- U; p+ C( n/ m  ?你可以庇护的是他们的身体，却不是他们的灵魂，
! |, p9 r* L& F0 c% i因为他们的灵魂属于明天，属于你做梦都无法到达的明天，
你可以拚尽全力，变得像他们一样，
却不要让他们变得和你一样，
' ^- R0 Y( @( V7 V6 Y! o$ t因为生命不会后退，也不在过去停留。
$ T( ~3 D) M+ s- W你是弓，儿女是从你那里射出的箭。
7 j# }) ~8 f/ c  f/ K弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶，
/ C: M& ?" }) ~" x7 r3 t它用尽力气将你拉开，使他的箭射得又快又远。
怀着快乐的心情，在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧，
因为他爱一路飞翔的箭，也爱无比稳定的弓。

马桶上的思想家

太美了，而且句句精辟深刻！

钱小妹

体会体会，非常有理

Rainbowjj

真是好文，谢谢分享！！！