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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.! K- M8 H# Q+ c/ n- ?0 F
Google small court.
3 B1 d( o5 \2 d: L& dThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position. 6 Y! _2 r; V4 L4 ]2 l8 g, j) q3 C5 @
If a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. / z" F% }7 L8 Q$ F& ` J
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.! u& O4 q2 \, r* h* p6 b4 `
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