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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a , l" k8 l! E1 B- a
nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
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he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready. " X) O2 k7 J, F9 W# l
, e' r4 Q" k; }' T0 z4 a5 H9 PAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
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3 B8 o+ @9 y' G1 q' z"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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! o" E4 B; `5 t0 V! y! {"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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0 ]# E$ \# r* k4 ~& i( u j' Y"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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8 Y0 R$ ], C0 H1 v"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my + ]0 V, r0 }1 I; ]: }" m! h6 v
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how , S& B! H- O: v& F9 J( S+ X9 V
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
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2 X) D6 b; \# E: Y) ~" band be thankful for the ones that do. ' N) K+ n o& b U
+ g2 l: [2 w- |/ ~$ r5 w7 g7 KEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
/ l; F* U& `: a. G8 _day and all the happy memories I've stored away. . z) B# P- E, k; v% N7 f
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Just for this time in my life.
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S* f0 }3 d m9 a3 BOld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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4 h; y' O: c* k* F" gSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
8 b$ k" H7 y i% O8 Aaccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. 2 v. B. z* M- E: {- ?
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: 8 s! G- v+ P) Q6 |
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1. Free your heart from hatred. ) r+ ?( c% [( c% X" o9 n0 ?+ r
2. Free your mind from worries.
6 \7 J. c; m( m, m3 L 3. Live simply.
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5. Expect less. |
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