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4 D7 p2 ]5 q; t, \. hHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters/ [5 w) n4 A+ T, J1 b6 w& k8 D9 ]
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.1 m, V" U: i- d5 A5 d: g: \% I
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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" K! ^4 o7 z! o; tFine.9 ]+ N9 Q# ~4 h3 X9 q9 z
; Q) G! N' k" \) B2 x, QThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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0 |3 ?! _7 j: l% l: A6 o& m, PNot bad./ N8 K. Q% z7 E: ?; |" F: [' Z: e7 T8 [
- u3 I) w) E4 x( N( aThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".; Z/ l, p) W7 l1 V3 q9 t
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Fine, thanks.; M6 J# z2 l u% Q. s- ]
6 i5 \, u* ^; z! C7 JThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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5 k8 c% Z( Z; W' }( `. F( iVery well, thanks.; U8 D9 S! E+ H! C; Z& \
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.5 }$ k+ j* m* f* t: [
& Y! r7 Z5 K+ K3 D$ R) b9 C2 IPretty good.
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+ E7 H% G2 _" R5 }3 N! P- qIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.' _+ q# {: q, P% r! `2 N) Y- ?
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Great! How are you doing?8 \" G+ B4 U1 c& P9 A
1 N& d$ h# H. ]+ h0 t% ^9 Z* SThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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+ K/ z1 ?& `3 z9 T& R$ X( UThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.2 v. \+ f$ K, W
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I've been better.2 N( R9 U4 O1 b, j6 T* z
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:1 j* j. f) f! P
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A: How are you?
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B: I've been better.
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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4 V- x" u$ o+ e7 E% vHow's it going?" }/ ?' l) O; N9 m
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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" [9 F$ w- l; u+ K0 t' g. aHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. , Z) R; t* K: t; R
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( ]( x9 o S: `) q+ \This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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Nothing.
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- I. @) X0 {. E" @3 z6 [$ ]* eThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.1 T6 s% a: h2 Y# I& z+ W8 B
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Oh, just the usual.
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9 Z8 b! L$ I1 G5 ?' w2 v# sAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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* @ F, M5 m' K+ s2 JJust the same old same old.. [7 X" y' i. @" x
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.7 D1 P6 l/ q! P8 y
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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5 H! }7 ]* b% e5 B0 ^$ v. @/ zYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?
. u' u* M Q$ u) m; GThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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