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. k7 H% C: L! Q9 t! r6 M3 gHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters$ B0 T. ^( R! [' f
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.3 y5 C, q+ Z5 W$ I' C5 O
7 I) F) @7 Q' a. X$ E; dYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"* \& V, d: S; ~) b& U: N0 `) O$ O
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How are you?
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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Not bad.
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) r' s5 x, `4 k- T ~. o) ]4 SThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".+ b$ u; J$ [4 [; Y! T% z
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. l$ B: @& l( Y% n; n# fThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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6 T8 q7 @5 ?( I$ A& T1 M% VA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.5 Q4 l. P/ ~3 s: C3 @, Z
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Pretty good.
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1 g: R2 o% D4 u m9 X; DIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?
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3 B6 M q2 f5 p, t( HThis is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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7 ? J) I7 G8 G6 ] c* u- tI've been better.9 Y5 c) O8 m+ X
3 |% b9 A- A- {* G* WPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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B: I've been better.% O! r' A; T5 k. v0 ]
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( Q3 [$ K3 p j3 M& p, VB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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How's it going?
& F# ~3 H- Q+ VThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.! C& @6 ?( o% d; g3 K6 o
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"9 [4 b* L8 f% J; f6 h" R0 s
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& k& _* z# K% V4 LThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:5 N# [* \( W/ o7 [
! }6 U5 R; ~ g# R4 UNothing much.
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- k5 g3 x; B3 M$ U- G5 m8 iThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation.". r- u, z6 i1 i+ m
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/ L+ x! Z" y) k! QThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.
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) c0 K2 n2 r, _9 BAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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; z5 N" ~: C" s$ ]Just the same old same old.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!& ?( I5 r! C/ W' b% ~$ Q
4 k, @+ L4 e' r1 V4 AYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.- X+ S# h5 n% v1 K" h) D
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j9 s7 o1 | z) r; q9 A7 XThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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