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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
6 @3 R& g2 L7 [8 b0 G1 N+ P# hHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money 6 u$ {( B, i, r% [+ q' V0 r
for youth at risk programs.
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
! e* Z; k' {: ~+ R8 X+ w9 d5 @why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
! Z6 Q: h3 `6 M5 p2 lman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable 8 j4 l% C8 D% T8 D: k- T% E( ^
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
) \+ D. M0 N+ ~horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. 1 m, r0 K: X, C! x t
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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; s1 A" O: L( `- |1 G9 c& I1 z' J'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
4 V3 \1 Y/ g4 W# T+ K/ f8 qowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even * v( q/ r# @- c3 T% A' z( U# _
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, : |- m1 d2 }5 k" X
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
+ W8 e: j/ `3 k' c6 ]/ V; _house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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3 X; P2 J- f; j7 a'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he $ [6 m! Y: I: T- p
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. / \$ O3 A3 x, X( w1 Y
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after ; r k9 I2 |/ r& u% w0 K
class.' 3 o# B4 ^3 H+ z+ n" ?3 x% f
* |* f4 N& X' c2 L/ ~: Z( Z'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 5 K& f' P r4 g3 l2 |* z( s r+ C
`Why did I receive an F?'
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( F. V( r: R- e( i# g' u. r* d'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
* q' }2 I) [" d0 [ \. O! f- e8 hYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 3 R5 S3 k- n- f# b# @& b' o" n/ a
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 1 G& D: E! N" K; }# a0 w& o4 \3 J
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
$ X# d7 t2 d! |pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher $ s- c: z2 D8 K4 {3 R* e- r8 [7 q& @
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
6 z3 u, Z7 j9 R: oreconsider your grade.’ 9 D- O6 u' @' z6 I2 N
4 {# g" w( y( l0 _% y+ ?'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
" I5 ~ b4 _/ k9 ^1 Jwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your 1 ~$ M. `3 j; g
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for ; L, b, A" x- g0 R5 X$ b8 l
you.’
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same , t% w; p7 h& _) b; _ F& u
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll % k4 b& C. r" m3 j- p) G* G) z
keep my dream.'' 3 r' {3 z% h* @1 ?
3 u( W- ` _1 A P% f% LMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
: G# ^: U5 o9 D( ~0 wbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
^) k! `: x; T0 {my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 9 @$ X+ \, j! c- ^1 I: E$ w' ~8 W
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
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When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
" F- }) z$ E# K1 z( x3 i% w& mnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
3 b5 c4 V+ W' }0 vthose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption ) X5 [/ L8 N5 q/ h2 N4 z! v. e* @
not to give up on yours.’'
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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