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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
4 t) U1 p: m' P, z1 NHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 8 t" D8 N0 R# c' w8 f* a/ g: i
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young 7 S4 K" B# X# q t9 f
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
! h% h/ f9 u* oto stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
# v2 n& o0 |" F7 o, uhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. % ^2 R5 p' c5 M7 |% F6 j
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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1 A* t5 @/ C' l' z( [0 g F% z6 r'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
: X; p/ S( G/ E7 a T$ Howning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even ) F; [6 m, m+ ]
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
8 t. X0 u+ F# I5 C& Kthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
/ E4 h: |& I' N0 W* rhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
: |/ W7 G/ J9 k5 }1 chanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
1 [* C4 C' l. `6 j% d- C9 g# JOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after / P" h# o n9 E8 }0 f9 {. r
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: K9 ^( J" T4 U7 r( h s'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
9 Y( _7 B$ S+ P1 Q`Why did I receive an F?' , ]. |7 P g: H( X8 E
5 y( ^3 c m$ w4 _'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
- w5 b- \ t p' hYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. : D c) g; }6 V) e i8 a4 Q
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
( V& ?, ?$ r1 d: \' F; c$ HYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to 3 j+ z( H; a0 I% j' P" N
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher / S4 r7 F4 T" u
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
0 k% {/ {1 Z! Q$ Ureconsider your grade.’ 2 j2 t# S" s$ w; n0 A! J6 a7 ]
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father , p# J, W( k. a- e0 P/ Q( }7 ?
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
4 i- y- n. _+ `# v6 }own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for 7 [! q% |- D. y% J) x* a' D, r2 C
you.’
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same ' Z6 L' E$ z$ k! L# N& J |* w
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll " a& M" j6 u; j& y! J4 Y
keep my dream.''
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
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my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the ' v% ~( F2 R7 l- |. ]# h5 m
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago 1 i8 H3 M. F0 S1 g
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' " G7 n( E: ~$ Z/ {
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this 0 z" o; ]+ P9 p0 p7 w* c
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
' J, ]6 T: _6 ?those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption # U- S+ a8 Z( y
not to give up on yours.’'
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& w& Z& l' e/ p! yDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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