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Follow Your Dream
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9 k: F; X/ Z( ~( i: T9 hI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
& L: L$ }- |/ @/ j6 a9 o) yHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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+ A1 S( r/ u! j6 \+ ^7 a# J" _The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
/ q! m' F ?5 d3 K3 o9 Iwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young / h2 ~& i+ K" x6 J/ c6 e
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable / p6 p/ [, H8 t
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
& O& g! L6 e0 K+ } J0 U+ f1 z, r9 r. n, |$ zhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. $ L; y6 F8 s8 h7 w% }
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted . k/ }3 V9 l- X8 z4 J5 H2 y( y
to be and do when he grew up. 4 ?& \/ R- e) G: H: A+ Z9 h
# j2 ] r0 g, e: u$ }4 m'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
) G6 c6 q# O# @% Oowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
$ J# K: n1 Z# T- Tdrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, : Y& a+ Y v v- {) {
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot & a! s$ S8 p2 g( O/ \( y/ l
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
$ s: f# O5 S* O) Z4 mhanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
. m" J4 u6 |. ROn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 5 I# J" l, T D
`Why did I receive an F?'
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
0 X- g# \6 v" I( FYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. % P/ @& Q0 W' O. U
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. . r, N1 B) ?) u7 d. M7 ~! b6 Z/ N: y8 s
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to * o. ?1 j5 M0 E% ?
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher 3 I7 C8 U( V' V- n
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
7 }" X) a# O, K* c) \2 Mreconsider your grade.’ / c m" p; R( x. e: A: P( z5 G1 s
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
4 k c* A- v6 T4 S3 m% R, rwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your
8 P( @5 o( E* qown mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
8 g* D8 ?/ ~% n* a9 m9 G" Cyou.’
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same 2 {2 R) k1 b3 I0 r9 f
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll 9 I' X r$ N' x% h I/ o# v: N6 C/ s
keep my dream.''
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0 k. p, j) f; [, b3 b. pMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story + D1 O# R2 n- k C* l
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of % U+ l3 d& Y5 e4 z! ~
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the
* A# {+ H T" g& c1 ^1 ~fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago 4 x: u+ r- O* M: Z2 M \; F1 U
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
7 X' ]0 q* W: NWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
/ N6 Y: V! O3 G7 C. nnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During " }/ Q7 y8 H- _: @4 ^9 l8 z
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption ' t ?+ _- O/ S. @
not to give up on yours.’' 4 C; A0 @3 k( u' v( }
- j. H: X, c1 h* |0 f, `Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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