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" {+ M- O* U$ a' kI have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. # `% T' O: V3 R; o( K* s
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you - ~) i; l1 ]# a6 Q& @6 f
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young ' k0 C2 y9 o2 ~5 a% v
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable
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horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
5 k7 k0 ]+ u A6 e* nWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted - Q8 a' D' ~" z8 D
to be and do when he grew up. ! j9 Y* i2 ?- S& p% e% z
: V! D% B; C, l" j( a* l'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
8 t% k$ f S3 z' rowning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even $ x4 ~9 [" N# b( n# j, c4 j
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
& f3 Q- U' h7 P/ T$ Athe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot ; S! x( c) [: m. B8 i9 Z( w
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. * i: Z6 j# G7 q/ Y/ I
: ~, ?+ {5 |, K. `# } ?' J4 Y0 h. F'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
' H0 r4 m/ P% Z& o2 G* Mhanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. 2 I- R. l6 t4 n8 E
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
! H/ J4 H& b" g`Why did I receive an F?' 2 D' U' m4 \: b! N
: P7 M# N& G; s, ^; d% y( W'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. 6 b( n% r* G R i' F! ]6 h7 P
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
2 {' L% t9 C+ A4 O/ ] k. D: SOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. $ R# g; z( I0 e* C: x, }
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
' s. y! ]# ^% Z9 } ~" spay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher - U5 N8 z( P+ @$ e( B0 R5 I( @
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
7 y; A! [! M+ V3 ` C# q- i4 Dreconsider your grade.’ 6 e h' C% ` T. s- y
3 O+ o& k. R) D3 t. q C'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
1 D, _* V6 G, W4 M; \' a8 h& ^what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your : P+ F5 F& i* J6 Z9 Y" i8 ^5 B" [+ P
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for $ F6 ~3 o5 y) D! U& }9 ~
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same $ l5 w# Q1 p7 b0 [+ Y8 i+ B
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll 0 t5 V6 b7 g- m* M$ @
keep my dream.'' : D. B; {7 r, ~$ [& N! a6 j
" c$ a) M+ M. n2 h6 XMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story 8 H5 p( H8 u3 m( W' f6 e
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of $ v8 {" g1 s1 M) |* C: h' N% e+ Y
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 3 M8 q' A) q: k
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago $ t$ J0 Y" d% D" J" h
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
& l$ N$ o- D. R& E0 ^When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
6 [9 {; _- M2 I' Qnow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During ( l! D4 ^2 i. r
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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