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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
, m) a4 w- z. M. t3 LHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money ; H! @+ d7 K9 Z% }9 U% f
for youth at risk programs.
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you 1 d$ w( D. w/ q3 C8 T2 p
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
$ A5 K2 n, J0 j- cman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable [8 b2 t* q3 q6 v1 m+ Y
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training 0 u- N+ K% G# _# B1 B3 ^& R+ n z! ~. ]
horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. " Z! B) j3 k- m" ]! C0 y7 Z
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday 2 Y, e) ?% Z( _- P
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even 2 H) O+ e7 R5 }: ~" B. J& {, g
drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, 3 @: @1 B2 `' v. h
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
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* I5 X3 ^) {/ r' M'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he 2 O5 b6 x5 a, H2 ?* e5 ?2 }
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. : M& A& A1 f) M1 O
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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' K. K8 ~/ `/ S8 u7 C'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 3 t4 ?$ W4 \& |" A( q+ j0 h5 W, g
`Why did I receive an F?' $ T5 Q% D, `1 N% w
, w' d5 `: |: [: X6 r9 W'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
% g, P) o# _3 W+ L$ |* dYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
/ L; J m! K' m; e+ ?6 J4 j* POwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
Z$ O8 |8 H/ C4 o- g' mYou have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
6 H+ L5 U+ I' U0 l! u( ^- opay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher
9 O3 A: f) j/ b& z3 Q/ e& |added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will $ H0 M7 @3 J- b1 [, V
reconsider your grade.’
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
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own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for : a& D* F7 c) {% ?( O
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same
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keep my dream.'' * P5 K% M- v2 T& k. l; }6 l
9 J# A) M' q+ ~4 g- {1 h2 [- LMonty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
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my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the - B" b! q/ V* X7 Q% ^
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago / H2 _7 T+ b) I' O& h1 l+ P$ X
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' 4 |3 `( g' M. D+ F, _8 p
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
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those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
6 g# ]. n. Z. f: H# u0 m/ V9 Jnot to give up on yours.’' 8 K9 c3 _: t: t- `/ i' x
5 ]% K& R a9 z2 W, L$ PDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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