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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
THE STENCH OF HATRED % E9 Z6 `  u% Q2 r' j: ^7 r
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A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. & m1 q. q/ ?9 q2 V" r
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The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic
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bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that 8 @, Z3 L& J; S9 h

9 N( x4 d" R' ~8 {" e. F) r2 e0 da child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number ! W' H4 J1 ~, Z# v8 N5 z  V

: q& J7 }6 a$ t0 p: U* [" b1 }: ]of people he/she hates. / ^: n4 F8 h3 y# B# ?  g

/ [) H  d" k( _1 o) U/ Y- GSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with 4 S  `/ \9 L* U3 D0 ~7 S& N

* i) v* l- ]( z4 d2 Dthe name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some 2 h  m$ e/ y1 z& g7 [0 Z3 C2 S. m

2 f! S) t; E0 a' G; K- V3 while some up to 5 potatoes. , J$ s( a- ?8 K7 b# [, C# q

; m( v2 b) k# L$ N0 b/ `8 g9 W8 ~$ cThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes 8 I4 `' P5 Y( e5 l# {* x$ W
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in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.
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; Q' M; [; K% [4 T6 S6 DDays after days passed by, and the children started to complain 5 b0 l' a! f' x" b) X. ?/ _9 q
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due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, / a/ `9 s  Z' G( e( ]' I2 R
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those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 ; i" b$ |$ X2 e7 m$ u- o' i
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week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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0 {) r' [$ I# b$ u5 zThe teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes 7 ~7 Q2 ]; Q8 N
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with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and
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" c4 ~4 v- q8 ~* P8 @( j2 [1 Qstarted complaining of the trouble that they had to go through , ^8 {4 U) I- I0 P9 |8 C: H

& M; J  a% ?: u+ x  A" @, K9 s" t# Vhaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. 8 ?! R! l( X) t; I( ]( g6 ?; `
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry . y) N. K. f8 u( M
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your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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  ~2 u6 W8 [+ ~, F- vyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just
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) S+ \" q* _  {4 w5 }/ Ein your heart for your lifetime???" ( a3 ]2 B3 h: `
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else;
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it is something you do for yourself.
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( ?8 i; E7 v7 C$ u" ~, w/ h2 I3 _Give yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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