Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

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3 M4 u1 S$ Q. m9 z; ZIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

2 R. ~3 W, \$ m3.        Stay one step ahead
: w5 r0 I9 d  B( L0 C& W3 D8 YLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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/ d! c% }1 [# l: ]' }; z) k1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
1 E% ^6 w! d! ?  R; v& t- Y+ pTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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