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3 e8 d* C, b" m- SSometimes people come into your life
6 v* E0 X# D5 U$ Q3 h" J7 zyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
& M0 Y- _& I9 I! L! Xto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,, d) U6 _$ D$ | E. w- J
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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" \! [6 [ T4 C) L. ^0 v% c1 T/ ?You never know who these people may be) e2 B4 ]" b7 L5 S9 E5 c
but when you lock eyes with them,
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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: i: Z8 e& A9 o3 T/ @+ qThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
$ C+ l) R! G- {3 c+ rThey are there for the reason you need them to be.
1 k6 d. d9 q- N, k5 \4 f" gThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.' [# C; X7 w: }9 s1 q$ p. f
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.& h3 _7 b" J# F f$ [
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
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/ Z% x. q, L f; JThe prayer you sent up has been answered.8 ^; C* f3 c: R* y) |2 N3 Y! J6 H8 {. h$ j
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
. ^. u9 |( z) d5 F7 s+ l4 C6 J) m& U$ xBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 D* s* d, i( C( DThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.0 ?! k& ]* x, S1 @5 C1 B- A
They may teach you something you have never done.% `. [/ @! |: T" q. C0 C4 {% ^- W
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
1 E; s, |2 H! R+ p* D) Y/ RBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦7 ~$ C5 E* _ S7 B
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$ H' e' M9 P3 T$ d8 |4 `LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
/ O" `( X' r: ZYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,/ s: D- g+ I* t, a6 U
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life./ q$ ]/ A; B/ p* f% t, g
Everything happens for a reason.% j! h8 d; I9 @" b2 S, v4 C
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.* [" r& m/ ?0 U* P
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,/ z% E$ Z% D6 H: r1 U8 Y$ w+ P
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.$ n" {% N# W6 j3 l' c$ X# I+ n
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; Y1 x! @! v6 @+ T! f* qIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,2 D2 E5 W: M, h
for they have helped you learn about trust
: n! M2 R9 B( ]' ~# nand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
7 V- a5 Y3 Q; P; ?( CIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
8 I$ X/ T F& lTry to love them back unconditionally,3 d$ T$ K# {8 o$ g/ b( Z1 p1 x
not only because they love you, but because in a way,2 b' F; F2 ~. z7 L3 F3 @! f. x
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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. U! K* k& y1 a6 W: |The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
0 }; ~% Y7 V$ u" E* @A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
0 C1 r: s7 n V% `8 d; \4 W+ eand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
, C1 A, @; S! D. `$ c0 ]; rGod's grace is as a healing hand. j* Y0 u7 @( t8 X# C: c
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
; ~. A3 l3 X; y& B' |* v% pthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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