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Sometimes people come into your life
0 A4 `' U7 E7 e8 r# l8 Nyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
4 K' ]' z3 I; @% e8 |to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,8 a! O3 D/ O" D; \& D& S
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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1 }& a- r, E' V+ i* U3 K+ U8 g: nYou never know who these people may be
9 Z+ y0 C0 e1 A* d1 F* Cbut when you lock eyes with them,
3 J! B6 {2 G* d+ v; W3 j3 eyou know at that very moment,# f% f) Q3 g% c, L
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They will affect your life in some profound way
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) c" c! Y; e: X# zThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!( _% h% k# f' ~7 O9 s+ I: J k
They are there for the reason you need them to be.: b- p2 L. l8 F a
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,/ c! t/ L% t" z- c; ] \4 O
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.6 B8 [% K9 a# E
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.. A, c; V$ `# c* n
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand./ v! ?! [5 S* N* ]# z. o" h1 O
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,# i% M5 _1 ~* X3 I
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
* R' `+ O+ @6 H: }The prayer you sent up has been answered.1 R( {; T0 ]) h, j n
And now it is time for you to move on.
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* ~2 k6 ]6 K! `9 I; f" {- UThen people come into your life for a REASON0 s* E2 M' c& s! q- g% p
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
5 O [# h; o8 VThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.% n, ]7 {! Q* l- d! n. z, A" \
They may teach you something you have never done.
- D/ H# C* {; O$ o5 _' o T" tThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.8 y7 h" d, s" a0 t3 \+ E7 x
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦0 `# q- J$ d% j/ w
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
% ?- i( e% v: n# d* [, uYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
5 ?* V% N/ f, t& V- uPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
; A9 t6 K2 j/ F* s; Z) TEverything happens for a reason.
8 n8 k5 U1 f- _6 D+ qNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
. ]& l8 L+ k4 eIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,5 G% }0 H$ ?; l, V7 B$ `7 V5 L5 N
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
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If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
$ ?, Y' Y1 g/ R: W+ C7 efor they have helped you learn about trust2 M& |( H9 B5 {3 A9 i0 p
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
0 n+ Y' k. ?/ Z7 DIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,& |2 n) H1 i* n# n1 O' C$ I
Try to love them back unconditionally,. A6 U5 `8 L$ S
not only because they love you, but because in a way,; b8 {/ H8 o1 X7 D& m/ b2 E
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,3 m) Y8 M6 ~: n# r
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
' F& I0 L* k0 i6 V# QGod's grace is as a healing hand.
2 o- v! @+ n: s9 o4 ~As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,8 |5 X5 m$ x/ g* e
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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