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Sometimes people come into your life
3 S% c8 g# @1 u) pyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
- l3 H( R( R3 i+ ^+ v( qto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,- ~6 G8 r6 z+ I4 X
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be
, V8 ?9 S0 h; y+ U: \, fbut when you lock eyes with them,
' z: V. v# W# v( h, x* myou know at that very moment,
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They will affect your life in some profound way U' Q# N% c$ l# y' G9 h
) ~- I7 m' q! a: w6 FThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!
0 T' x2 Z" E! G* Y# oThey are there for the reason you need them to be.9 L; ?9 a+ i6 ^2 @3 ~$ N- J( |
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,: }2 {# C$ |8 [( g
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
, E/ ]5 n6 f% |. XSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.) g$ E0 W: ]& B. K% Y# z
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.- t! ?& } ]" K, Z F
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,; d, v4 B+ `& o
our desire fulfilled, their work is done. T+ H7 z- x. g1 s' D
The prayer you sent up has been answered.. G. H" i3 {3 T0 G4 M
And now it is time for you to move on.- B( M. Y9 j7 y/ H1 r! K. Y
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
4 I- Q0 p% {8 y2 a6 SBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.& y$ A/ p' o' B2 C1 N
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.+ g7 b( B" j4 k; z1 E; Z- n) _
They may teach you something you have never done.
! ^+ R$ i" c+ y% s9 aThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
W1 w I8 R1 Y) `) _; k6 JBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦+ G2 H' T1 L- |& m% e' m
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8 L, p3 n5 \1 M2 t1 cLIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
/ I$ m8 @! F' o$ N3 L ~4 ]5 v& {Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,; O, i# Y: M+ F/ ?: Y1 Z# q8 s
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
7 H/ q: l8 Z& u& ?9 XEverything happens for a reason. ^" u$ s/ @: A6 {0 Q* o
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.% b. d! W0 z' Z/ n# v& ~( [8 v
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, M9 ?; e5 x: ~7 |0 _- r/ s
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
# |/ ?4 H' Q( g! U, J' gYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
: S5 o' y* W- Y( k0 AIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
; ~8 D8 P4 m7 O) B! D5 Q9 ]for they have helped you learn about trust
' q7 i/ Q2 R1 f5 h5 kand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
% j, v) ?: u5 l6 J9 I2 ]- [1 g1 eIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,! `( v* ^2 d c2 |/ A6 |
Try to love them back unconditionally,
2 h. {+ Z! X9 V- l5 D8 S! dnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
4 e+ P- @2 [3 ^: ^2 w# R! Pthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.1 ?- k- D# p% z& s# V% T
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,% u% }5 n1 x# w4 h9 Q, U
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.
$ a- Z0 t: V z* f- U9 i qA time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant," |! ]: L# L: v* g7 W6 I- a8 a; `
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
# V# D6 P2 Z3 }. f; s Z% [2 yGod's grace is as a healing hand.4 K( A; L3 B1 f1 _) B ?' m& Q U" O
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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