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2 R8 _- }- Y% w4 o" _1 j: J# ]6 nSometimes people come into your life
2 u& ^4 {, ^+ p$ Y9 d$ Uyou know right away that they were meant to be there,: _8 ?" d1 c& b; c# Q, l
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,3 }- e/ ]7 R4 s, Z/ }
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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You never know who these people may be- \" m4 n. Y# E# `
but when you lock eyes with them,
$ U5 ^" E& }4 M2 T" s M7 Vyou know at that very moment,
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. [ T6 K( A0 n: h2 DThey will affect your life in some profound way- x' k8 L, t. I/ `$ q2 x1 }
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
9 V7 ]7 `4 _4 U! E; L& HThey are there for the reason you need them to be.# f1 [) M7 x- i& d4 O: l
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,3 o! _, r4 H6 v# [# K5 U1 @# }
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.1 z* |6 Q* w" j" O4 L3 @6 [3 ~
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
! u5 ?7 a$ J8 P5 S+ ?8 nSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,
# d9 Z5 K ]% B: M9 J( `- q6 Xour desire fulfilled, their work is done.
" _, I4 p8 _# R+ ZThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
, ?: K9 L" |$ E+ O5 e4 wAnd now it is time for you to move on.
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& Q+ u: N! r# pThen people come into your life for a REASON
) u( F# g2 k/ n" [0 s5 s9 uBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
9 R6 g% g4 H' VThey bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
8 C9 z) T. o3 U( L" JThey may teach you something you have never done.+ p% `0 Q, K8 \2 K$ x
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. o: X# I s! w* c$ O9 w6 \
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦# y- H3 W3 N1 Q! Z8 P+ z
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
% v$ f) B. a, Q( ?$ H" J) }4 OYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
* h& u( D! j2 z" lPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.
# ? {; p5 `/ i6 WEverything happens for a reason./ \+ L4 l) u1 j+ u
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”., l* W# j0 _# H* {9 q0 q! J: O7 n
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,& ]1 K0 k$ \, ^" W9 ~5 a
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
* r$ `. N& N. Z3 gYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,2 C. s. ^8 j6 |! T0 L$ Q
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,2 ?% E& k$ ^% e" p
for they have helped you learn about trust, \/ u7 Y1 r) a8 Q2 N5 N
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
# \* ], k+ I, S. }2 U$ z" l) [If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
" T: o. R. S" w- ^( ^: [Try to love them back unconditionally,
( G/ t0 N1 Q: v! f2 C9 ?2 V' |0 {& @not only because they love you, but because in a way,
5 m' d! s# s4 L- |they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.$ f8 h7 [2 H2 t+ p: j) s! \
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,3 B {( H; h8 B. Z
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and a time to every purpose under the sun.4 h- B: ?3 o% h- V1 y* n
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
2 o# ]5 h! B: J9 Pand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
9 \* J9 J& `0 @( ?4 x4 ~" tGod's grace is as a healing hand.
1 j% R9 c. p) k& G7 _As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air," B4 l2 v; Y& O5 S" S1 F; n
the warm memories and love for those we have lost5 S0 {' V6 @1 m
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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