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3 A9 E5 B* ~. G0 m l~SOMETIMES~! Y2 W/ r7 Y( G& H
/ A* t: w- l) u6 f; ySometimes people come into your life
. D; P5 W. ~* s! q- q. Q+ Pyou know right away that they were meant to be there,, Z1 _1 G# R" l) T7 Q
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
1 A3 Q/ ?7 a* |2 q+ o, dor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.9 w; h9 i6 H6 g9 N3 L) K3 ?
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8 U' q9 p5 Q" m% F! ^$ {You never know who these people may be0 h1 A& w* C/ T: m5 a
but when you lock eyes with them,5 t. v R# |1 X. W2 Q- c) y
you know at that very moment,
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4 z$ s# e5 T7 y x& MThey will affect your life in some profound way
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!' q; x' W3 I9 q# j! r) B
They are there for the reason you need them to be.( ]' z; N: C: m( R# u6 y# H
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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~3 f7 y. a# \3 V# C& [ aThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.! o U- H. y4 j* s8 b2 G; g
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.1 s7 I, o* }5 U" ]
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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, p& {% j6 Z1 n4 U. m' O! a) QWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,
; x6 i% R5 g/ Nour desire fulfilled, their work is done.& K$ W" ]4 [+ r5 K* j2 Y2 [
The prayer you sent up has been answered.5 e! S4 }( u# Y! [
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON! q- m& z2 q/ f
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
! q, D7 a8 F; v7 w) ?They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.. B- W8 I- h9 K! v) D
They may teach you something you have never done.
0 f# {4 r" A$ ^They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
: j" R# H. _2 U. c3 xBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:+ I$ |( f) z& k& d6 F& H
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,6 C6 Y! _4 w6 Q M) i9 p
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.6 y3 H ^6 B0 R4 \* S- Z7 \
Everything happens for a reason.
- \! H1 G4 w" u" Q- pNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
; @ T, q- G7 A( Y% i% E$ x5 @6 eIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
3 D' b* D. q5 o# E3 |) {4 ]/ Vand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
0 e A4 ^: i$ hYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
8 J2 T8 Z9 n3 v" f' Q8 {2 J; W! dIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,0 q3 N/ D' M/ L0 a
for they have helped you learn about trust
4 C) J8 r- t0 h4 I" g& fand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
4 r5 v" y" F7 @9 n2 m7 l" y; GIf someone loves you, express your appreciation, m! B8 w. M7 U
Try to love them back unconditionally,
8 ]1 d8 v* [) Gnot only because they love you, but because in a way,' v, \+ g! H. \+ `1 ?8 \' e
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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6 Q1 |: x4 L; E/ ^) A" pThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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. p' p( w$ X! d; Cand a time to every purpose under the sun./ P, j5 K F, c2 a* b+ T8 u
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
# q# V# G7 [0 I5 w. Rand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
& y% n. c: ~; q: \( ^: sGod's grace is as a healing hand.
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the warm memories and love for those we have lost7 r7 n' }, K1 M# H
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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