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~SOMETIMES~5 P/ h- m: p; k: B3 A8 i- p
( N# ^# F- P# Y/ @1 X; X9 n# ~Sometimes people come into your life
; s" f* W4 a8 `you know right away that they were meant to be there,: N7 |1 H- {1 k0 u+ y) R
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,( X/ H& g2 n5 }
or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.
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9 O" x( J/ W/ S, @You never know who these people may be/ O5 B0 V+ k4 P, C( g( f! m
but when you lock eyes with them,
2 q: N4 s# [" M# m& U8 S& z7 L, m- tyou know at that very moment,
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" c3 e, t* X! z% TThey will affect your life in some profound way ` y: X3 U* v1 k1 ]0 G
5 Y2 L0 d: @# C8 fThey may seem like a godsend, and they are!6 S+ q( j' n% Z- s* I: ?+ @2 n: S
They are there for the reason you need them to be.8 H% Z7 D' k- w' t) M0 A! N) f
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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' i( C R8 f D. t( E" u* z9 sThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
$ Z* f" I- C) X" T/ \' c$ C; |' G9 XSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.. b! a* ^! ~( M7 l
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,3 e& q$ q- ~* h. }8 A+ C0 ^! U
our desire fulfilled, their work is done./ C, a1 r, M. `
The prayer you sent up has been answered.$ w: v$ i. U& ]+ @4 m/ Z* f |
And now it is time for you to move on.
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Then people come into your life for a REASON
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They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.0 j& L+ n, w* j8 S: ]; [
They may teach you something you have never done.# O' N8 |" g" P; i- N# ]) N
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.5 D' }" u8 f- ^( X9 z
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦0 p8 W/ R- w! I4 Y) n5 H
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
$ C2 o4 l. r! f: C2 zYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,
% Q' e2 i0 @1 Q3 P/ VPut what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.$ |# ]& {1 u1 E- Q1 b/ R
Everything happens for a reason.
4 | \' H) u7 M, O# h* wNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
& F7 n) C% B0 A( p) BIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
1 Q/ ?- r$ J/ t. T- [and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.* G) j, t( N2 U; _
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4 }( z- N( p( S" OIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
$ I2 T- x5 s4 vYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
; E- S2 X' [9 O( mIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,5 ^& m8 ?' Y c T& f
for they have helped you learn about trust
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1 }+ ^: k w+ ~7 E( s( f3 n) E# H5 V5 {If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
. ?" E. W1 _1 d9 G2 f2 CTry to love them back unconditionally,6 P; n- _! y F- r( G
not only because they love you, but because in a way,
: I* x2 t* E& \" \. j9 r: b* F; sthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.! @ X0 C5 v6 E s, I3 p J0 G! ?
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,
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7 t5 W4 Y0 j g2 y' G& Aand a time to every purpose under the sun.8 e7 H5 X h1 a+ O3 }. l) w3 w, d! d0 E
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,5 K4 \+ d. a7 M5 x
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
, ~) Y) R- P, q6 q$ q; ~God's grace is as a healing hand.: d L. ]+ ]+ }
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
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will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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