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发表于 2008-8-27 22:44 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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I would like to take this chance to talk about the issues of how to make a last and profound conversation with locals since some friends have complained that they only have the ability to do the short talks with co-workers or strangers. I call the short talk the Cold War, meaning it is a long last personal struggle or an impossible mission. I still remember I have encountered few embarrass seniors few years ago, but things are getting better year after year. Since this summer, I start to feel very comfortable as I chat with people I met every day. For example, I need to find some info around the place I just moved in. While I was driving around the blocks this afternoon, I saw a good lady was mending her yard. She was the only person I can find, so I decided to talk to this lady. I parked the car and greeted to her. I asked her about the neighborhood such as banks, supermarkets and so on. She answered me with her best capability. Then she invited me to her condo to have a little chat. She wrote down some of the contact names and the numbers of her friends in case I need more help and told me about few neighbor’s stories. At the end, I got plenty of information than I intended to. It all came very natural and our conversation was quite enjoyable.
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So here are some of self-made rules which have worked well for me.
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Every morning, practice the chat and image that you are both A and B actors or actresses:
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& \1 E0 A: K5 o& N' }, gDay 1: Good morning, Sandra (You)
7 n$ P" [6 z: \" _            Good morning, Ming. How are you? (Co-worker)
) f! o  r9 A( Y            I am fine, thanks!       (You)
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3 ]! j  b! g. M" nDay 2: Repeat  Day 1 (You). c& I6 f) S/ i* I1 p& i# Y
            Repeat  Day 1 (Co-worker)# y" u, p5 G3 ~7 X
            I am fine, and how are you. (You)4 H* u% M3 F2 G& X# |$ K
            Not too bad, I like your shirt; it looks gorgers (Co-Worker)
+ h! _* _. b0 Z8 P8 W            Thanks, I bought it from China last summer. (You)  J) ^7 Z2 \/ |5 c7 f

  g3 K. {8 P& L6 _- V( i1 lDay 3: Repeat+ g% [+ r" |; R% B4 O0 H
            Repeat! I3 d) [! d" B, E! q
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            I could not be better, Thank god it is Friday. (Co-worker)1 Q7 _6 v/ T' e, M( R6 c& }
            Finally, so do you have plan for the weekend? (You)- K9 [& W. r! V/ P8 ~, ^, Q% r% f
            Oh, ya, I am going to visit my mother-in-law even I hates her, but my husband will make me to see her. (Co-worker), [9 w; p1 K% \( _: h! I
           Poor you, oh, I wish you have a good weekend, and come back with a good mood. You know what I mean. (You)! ]# ~$ I: p% h8 a; n1 A( ^

" D( P0 b' a- N- S, b% _Next Monday: Repeat0 y- S' ?1 a* g5 n
                        Repeat
7 f, N+ m, Z& J( m8 S; W                        How was your weekend? (You)
) p& [3 n, O. b4 }/ d6 O9 }" N                        Not bad. My mother-in-law was so tolerable this time, and she made a big super. So we all sit outside and enjoyed the beautiful day with family. (Co-worker); E; g: x1 N$ J- U- @- @" V
                        Is that right? Where does your mother-in-law live? (You)) R  q& F. u' ^% Q9 ^: {3 ]2 ?( N
                        Pigeon Lake. It was packed on the weekend. (Co-worker)
9 H( o% @3 C4 Y4 ^8 Y1 s6 R                        Oh, Pigeon Lake, I have been there once and we caught some good fish.
5 r9 V$ f2 [. }3 b9 {6 i3 Z                        Really, I don’t know you like fishing, may be you should come with me next time.
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                        Then you see the boss walking by, c) N6 M: ~3 C; t2 u/ K1 w
                         It is time to stop.
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The above mentioned examples are under daily small talks or gossip category.  The serious business conversation will be with another topic.8 y3 ~: J* O* Q" Y, V; [0 c0 A
And I advise everyone should find the way that works best for her/him.5 h3 W# {% J1 j) p7 L
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