The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to! N5 I- V) p6 u6 G- R
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear 7 Q: \9 { \1 x" N- J# m2 ethem in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what9 ~$ w' V0 w* M! f
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will, p: {9 M- X3 O8 ?( K. V- O2 }1 D
think of you. & L% c h/ ]0 @2 Y' ~- {3 |% s& x& o2 T- y5 O2 y. a6 C
Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first4 S G& v% }- D
names:9 u8 v4 V2 Y, q
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction. ! y9 B! [3 k2 D O3 w$ I2) The second second: Don't think about what to 7 K! l5 `7 N1 A2 A7 f/ N5 E! Zsay—listen for the name. . ~' f% ?& l) i& r3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.3 M9 R9 k. L j* M: O1 q: E
4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know * y* }' X7 t$ ^2 Bwith the same name.. g+ R# j E% D& r2 c& o
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the 0 \) m) k+ _( L* G% Bend of the conversation.' f- [; L" Q8 ]
. R% a- p* b# X4 o s4 R; t---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>