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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to0 d* o& w7 J0 e- g
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear; y; r4 f8 s% j5 u- C6 E; @
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
8 N0 _9 p: F9 c6 myou're going to say next or worrying about what others will; g' w1 q' I1 E7 C
think of you.
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. n( a( A- M7 u4 L) `3 RUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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9 ~# G* o- D8 k$ x1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
9 \- i& g6 B9 Y2) The second second: Don't think about what to
, ]. I( J: N1 M& [say—listen for the name.8 N$ C' j+ ^# p, b, a2 b
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
( z3 c: ?+ ~6 Q) U- X4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the5 k4 o4 |6 }& d2 O- z, I/ F
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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