Five Seconds to Success in remembering people's names

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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
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% [4 z" W8 B9 uUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first
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% G9 Z2 ]( ]: I, E: c% W1 e1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
( w4 c* l( V# E9 |0 d7 N( F2) The second second: Don't think about what to
) p$ W* u$ O! Y  K9 }2 g. Nsay—listen for the name.
8 o4 Z8 H$ H; R! n3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
) e5 s. w/ E8 v$ H; I/ b4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
9 m) z' q/ a# y  `- mwith the same name.
$ E( T' o2 Q* T8 |7 X) @5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the
end of the conversation.
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' a5 P& w- w; K! S2 b9 q2 X$ B! c---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>