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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑
7 M# {7 U2 S F( B; B7 R兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 
, }; \: R& e9 l. E9 X; ?老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦 Q9 C6 {. e% X$ P$ A" P% g
; ?+ }7 h5 l o5 OThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. , K# A* i6 B3 U8 }% ^6 S" |
[" }# b2 J, a$ T yIn your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.* }* Z; N& z4 u4 t
) U2 F, P% s S; j5 X# q( ?8 JA reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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