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<转帖>孩子是因你而来,不是为你而来

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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 16:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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本帖最后由 秀色可餐 于 2014-2-28 16:34 编辑 6 m6 o' _( `+ m$ G# k

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) D) j4 ~- Z8 ~" Z/ F. ?2 p今天偶然看到这首纪伯伦的诗,觉得很好,贴出来和大家一起分享
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On Children7 a1 v2 }; x4 l! e4 q
Kahlil Gibran2 A0 o, g2 t5 X! T+ q
Your children are not your children.
2 p9 X* M- D4 XThey are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself., n$ D# c6 Y2 D' D* l
They come through you but not from you,
0 |4 b, H4 W; h, T8 v7 cAnd though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
/ P% K+ [' B' {You may give them your love but not your thoughts,* N( U/ n& M1 J2 r: U' e. U
For they have their own thoughts.
3 N' H3 C8 W# s  IYou may house their bodies but not their souls,
6 A: k" E" j& ]  X8 AFor their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
+ J+ o9 S0 C2 ~; b/ J% n& \3 W6 C5 lwhich you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
6 ~8 ?+ O2 B! `7 p4 ^1 }You may strive to be like them,
0 ?1 h* A% U+ B" e8 rbut seek not to make them like you.
- n* P2 G) e7 G& H% s( pFor life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.' `8 B: R- l, L$ q
You are the bows from which your children
, g: z6 D+ U- k5 W  y+ }5 [as living arrows are sent forth.
  z5 U5 Z( a% k1 P  }0 ^The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
7 }! e! M3 O  t& Kand He bends you with His might, V1 Q7 I' n" k; e: Z3 Z
that His arrows may go swift and far.
" |, F5 _! W: v8 e2 v( J3 ~1 nLet your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;5 @: z2 j6 C* Z( @2 T
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,# `& C" w. e' x* q/ P
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
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鲜花(1010) 鸡蛋(1)
 楼主| 发表于 2014-2-28 16:36 | 显示全部楼层
下面是中文翻译,可能不是很贴切。当你真正体会到其中的涵义时,便会发现其中“爱”、“放手”、“分清责任”、“信任”、“尊重”、“正向信念”这些家庭教育的真谛都包含其中。
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7 K5 J* D1 H( d6 t8 |! |7 s+ ]你的子女,其实不是你的子女。
$ D+ j! T' e) k他们是生命对于自身渴望而诞生的孩子。1 c$ d1 s) w5 Y4 {- f9 ]  G: C# ]+ H
他们借助你来到这世界,却非因你而来。
4 z/ v7 `( v6 l8 E; n0 O他们在你身旁,却并不属于你。
" ]. N: M" ^% L& `: I你可以给予他们的是你的爱,却不是你的思想,1 v1 e& x# U; N  U
因为他们有自己的思想。! b! [8 o. {. X8 U& m
你可以庇护的是他们的身体,却不是他们的灵魂,
; f; Q7 H( A5 A) ]% E; {因为他们的灵魂属于明天,属于你做梦都无法到达的明天,4 ?2 l: h; L. M9 b2 N
你可以拚尽全力,变得像他们一样,
4 T5 S, D* ]6 y/ `却不要让他们变得和你一样,
+ H) ]* G8 V+ h( i& l0 R: z4 R因为生命不会后退,也不在过去停留。9 R. ]* L- @: q. @" r. `* o
你是弓,儿女是从你那里射出的箭。% P9 x( b: a  u6 `" P
弓箭手望着未来之路上的箭靶,
5 c; M/ j2 ^. Y, j1 o- X8 u它用尽力气将你拉开,使他的箭射得又快又远。2 e4 c& A) l8 U- q) `: Z( n
怀着快乐的心情,在弓箭手的手中弯曲吧,: q- n3 q! M  a' c
因为他爱一路飞翔的箭,也爱无比稳定的弓。
鲜花(168) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-2-28 19:04 | 显示全部楼层
太美了,而且句句精辟深刻!
鲜花(8) 鸡蛋(0)
发表于 2014-3-1 20:03 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
体会体会,非常有理
鲜花(172) 鸡蛋(1)
发表于 2014-3-1 21:14 | 显示全部楼层
真是好文,谢谢分享!!!
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