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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.4 ~" T' s. Y4 v+ V8 a
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Think this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
/ z, Z' X- l; H% P: q, D' h- k! ?% CIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. ! D1 J4 l) K' b- h! N: x: d8 b
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.' t5 s, g; G8 l9 j3 t1 X7 M
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