i am reading another good book by Gary Chapman " The Five Love Languages of Children". Act of service is just a part of parenting (very important during 0-6 years old), but in China for this case, it's almost everything of parenting...lol
本帖最后由 marie 于 2014-10-13 17:55 编辑 4 C" x. w' r/ n9 `& r5 s
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我让孩子自己去面对一切,我们separate 生活, 让孩子自己去锻炼. follow up 孩子, 1 e, ]) }3 D6 |9 R! p& f. r孩子不喜歡,自己活着真累.最重要的是使孩子成为对社会有用的人4 o, r! [& z2 |) Z
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我见some chinese phd, master, 2-3 degrees, almost 40, never working.