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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed 2 A2 N9 }9 k8 K# T5 D. ~
each morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably coifed and
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nursing home today.
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# U) O9 _# T6 D% s l# N; _% |His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. - ?9 e8 E. G# ?3 H. t; X0 m
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, & O! y8 q$ j" S
he smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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+ r0 z4 I% K) L: {/ NAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
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hung on his window. % q; W d2 F! O
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having
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7 m+ g6 d) U# J, k A8 |7 }"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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- o7 E. F X8 h' z"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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* f& ~2 c3 s% \3 g"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my 5 e3 I& N1 E* Z: ^: R
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how 3 ^% ~) O) d1 Y- q" ]
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it." 3 {9 {, K, A4 |& {: B- q# H
7 Z( D. [! B& F/ d) E+ e U3 vIt's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. ; W. V! `/ }- Q) h9 E$ Z
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
9 w7 O" p7 X; Y: E Chave with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed ) [; x) c! |) ^/ `
and be thankful for the ones that do.
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! y. G0 [% h( N; a. p! Y! kEach day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new / O) `1 k; `, h, s+ q: a
day and all the happy memories I've stored away. 6 V% A0 B! D: M( X; L0 e
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Just for this time in my life.
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9 f3 d6 I. D2 |- a' qOld age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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* \8 v7 P E/ NSo, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank 3 d+ C6 t+ o" E. K
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. 6 U/ s1 P, N/ b1 W3 e; j0 o
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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1. Free your heart from hatred. $ g; O j6 |9 ]2 c
2. Free your mind from worries.
# G1 T$ _* ^. ]* {5 p6 a 3. Live simply. 4 `' r' H# D( p3 ~2 `/ ?% d# w
4. Give more. 8 O/ G! b2 k. m, Z1 Y
5. Expect less. |
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