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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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nursing home today.
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( b' x. F" \$ {" Q# U3 ^His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
5 y3 S- k" d- r, H- X, IAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
: a8 q. {7 q# L Ihe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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: m" D' K3 L( t& o, tAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual 4 P5 O8 p, g$ R, n# z& g2 m: B
description of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been
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3 b4 \' m$ G) L W! l"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having 2 z9 h! q0 W0 ?. h8 G6 C% @
just been presented with a new puppy.
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"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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% T- T* c' N- e4 k& ]" @" m1 R"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
( _9 f: q7 ^# k) [' O2 kroom or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how
& F5 w7 J/ q1 L; ~8 q2 ~$ ]I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I & ~' V/ d& z, u
have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
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Just for this time in my life. ( B& G6 m# W! R
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.
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So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank - [# ]2 I+ ?" U1 i2 s
account of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. # f ~# \4 h2 h# C% z9 X2 n
I am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
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9 K) A7 t+ ~, F# b 1. Free your heart from hatred. 3 N; a' m/ m8 [7 ~' r9 x
2. Free your mind from worries. 8 E( c! K% u6 O9 w
3. Live simply.
5 q9 V' c; j6 ^8 } 4. Give more. ) V: N' R9 _. e, G6 X
5. Expect less. |
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