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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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1 i2 N2 ?: O8 B8 O4 z8 MThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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0 R [3 {7 l! H: Y. N( KYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"& U4 a% ?! S0 i% g/ W9 u
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Fine.: h( r' O8 H9 P( q8 E# S' m1 U
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.6 N5 X5 ~$ |' N9 z9 W; Y
( l6 _$ \2 ?8 |! ]) Y5 [$ dNot bad.: }7 J, u1 M" L- ^- B! u8 ~8 }
. O8 T3 Q$ R5 l6 {& M! AThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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: `5 A+ N0 @1 d$ j5 FFine, thanks.
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& O. S6 t" I* h7 E# k2 KThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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- B8 ^) t, S! x0 E6 c3 p% hVery well, thanks.7 O: u( g0 S: i- ?8 y( _
$ q# x7 S9 G0 \8 x$ @A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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6 g" ]7 j& O& g$ d, a" D5 SIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.( c7 u* {- p# h2 _
" X$ e, l8 O% [! {% e; ?1 IGreat! How are you doing?5 t1 B0 n* _0 h' k
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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I'm hanging in there." L7 z( t- I5 `7 T
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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* b+ T6 G" c; q. \' d( y8 Q/ S. uI've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:/ p' |( f4 q8 [' `2 w
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A: How are you?$ b" p3 m$ C) N% y! G2 P1 g9 S
' U3 H" d) Q- B8 Z' j: z8 EB: I've been better.& T$ F2 b/ E6 f" Z' v
- X! R8 w8 k S) GA: What's wrong?4 ^) {/ U6 S) _" f' ]
% E7 z6 d. K4 I4 E/ NB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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3 T0 g- H3 g; H+ [How's it going?6 j- N1 \6 m3 k" t* E% I# v5 j
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?") x3 ], R8 y* \% Z# O6 e; i
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It's going well. 4 Q& J# o T+ A) S( I3 h3 T
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. 3 E3 E; I+ Y, E" V5 f
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/ } o/ f' d. s! q% I) t3 H, `* kThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much. [1 ^0 I! ^9 I/ ^5 Q# z
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."2 I" y6 Z6 P2 ]
7 @; U: n* H6 e3 [. M$ ONot a lot.
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, D( s( L# I! X( G1 L& DThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common. h: P. t1 `2 {' p0 o7 `3 j" b. v
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Nothing.
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& a& U* O2 i3 `! ]3 H' AThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.6 h1 \2 v* Q6 I0 ?( a i7 D) @% `
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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; u; g' m P, n' T( Z4 w/ [Just the same old same old.1 O P |9 I2 \1 k
$ d1 o+ F( y& I- S' K" E. n, E/ zThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.4 f1 m2 Z& Q& I
: t! k& e; Y/ f1 mOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!
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9 o% {3 z/ Y d2 @9 Z' n! |7 ]% TYou can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.2 g1 Q+ u- [( }! v% n
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What's happening?6 p# `0 Z' x5 l5 O: z6 _7 K
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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