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How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters0 t/ A$ F+ s1 k x1 h/ |$ A
$ Z1 {* J& Q; V. M' S( m# ~There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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" i% c5 K9 k3 p8 lYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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- M$ }9 s3 r; {Not bad.
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".) K% [2 ^6 W7 [! c) C) M0 F% ?( I
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Fine, thanks.% `/ t) }% Y3 R
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.4 [7 t9 P1 Q! a: \
7 j# s& {1 s7 x+ qVery well, thanks.
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7 N0 j5 t; G$ z4 ~A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.6 D$ M/ @- s" @; B
3 f& g2 C" h# ~ d" }Pretty good.
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual." O8 {. H& x" B: k a3 x; n
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Great! How are you doing?+ q, ~5 g& O( y9 ~9 f6 ~
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.% z( g8 G& G1 _' U" |/ v% R
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.+ w. T) X) l' p+ [
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I've been better.
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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2 u! @& q7 N% H+ g7 DA: How are you?
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B: I've been better.+ L0 e) u$ @4 L d/ Y
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off.
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- W4 i" ^) W6 C' q A7 R& wHow's it going?
4 k& h( Z2 _! ~. J; CThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.' x4 J1 ^* t! m
: @. j9 C _6 @5 o$ sHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"' w' c5 F9 p( }% ]. I* ~2 y) R; J
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It's going well. 1 \2 K( ?& t! Z8 S$ |
; p" {8 K8 Y+ ?8 P: s& v) p* n2 J, rThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. , {( B& i3 o6 I- S8 ]+ i# n
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What's up?
" W% K/ J' ^3 p2 t# gThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.2 i; M9 w! k9 j
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."/ I$ {+ m; R. B* y
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.( R4 p X7 N; R2 w
; L- {1 e3 F7 z3 X2 f& k2 V# ]Nothing.
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! w( b6 b. ~1 W* M; `8 a9 tThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.
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2 X9 T8 M( X' I2 C* IAnswer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.! E; ?$ a( F9 }; d) K
0 T: e& } \1 P/ }) J& }. IJust the same old same old.
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* U: k- U# R2 W* k2 b( pThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.* x# r# P. J: }* X- R
; s9 V, a7 R% W8 kOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!( A- k5 ?: q% U. l% }
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?3 @4 C/ H( _' L, M
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.- X, t5 y1 o: V a! r
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