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7 g0 A( P+ n! }How to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters/ C, C0 S4 F6 A6 _" ^7 E( J8 @: \
: W/ V2 i3 N7 W. A% K: [1 b' o( s: eThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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You've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"% C2 R' ^% R4 B6 _' |
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How are you?$ C, l. f6 h2 l6 e8 \4 B
Fine.3 Z: H& w5 V% x: f& O! y: ]" e
% w" P$ Q4 f" s) eThis is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.
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' ?/ r9 u! U% o- q1 fNot bad./ @1 y6 q( U( B) f, y7 n! V
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This is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".
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Fine, thanks.
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: f0 T. j" k9 z Y! E& sThis answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.- R3 H. Y' B3 L( N& _% L4 M0 |
9 w6 `& W5 R6 b+ S6 r! d3 \Very well, thanks.4 ^* p% X: j2 l/ Z" b2 {. ~
2 u7 `. l2 ?8 d; H' a, cA person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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$ u( `- _, r N, D3 K( p4 JPretty good.$ Y. P% \0 d5 M! T1 a+ n9 l2 F
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If you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?
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$ }4 K) o/ ^# H% ^8 D; [This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.8 l& M$ i7 b2 |7 O4 V0 P
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I'm hanging in there.
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This answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.$ ?. {) |; A C1 `" r( R# Z- {/ ?2 E
7 Z' q6 D( C0 ~, t+ O& \, [I've been better.
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, U0 ^5 M/ k, `3 JPeople usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:( E9 L7 z; ~$ b" v
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A: How are you?
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7 `+ }+ Q5 m, d. R7 fB: I've been better.$ B8 `1 ?( m @0 k$ S/ r
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& o* ^3 D# @+ Y! UB: I just found out that I'm being laid off.# q7 s, p `) `! K: J5 U
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How's it going?
3 V X9 z0 u% F* N" eThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.( v: ~% y& z' M- ^0 I
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"* b) m% A' ~* W; P$ c* A7 j6 Y
# U" W1 g, Q$ q; u8 x9 w7 oIt's going well.
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! a- H1 M0 o% ^ F3 b- s: {1 M5 h. G. mThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?
( n0 }5 X( G+ B/ k8 I, t7 K- h! YThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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8 s2 B" Y' z2 `- mNothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.$ A8 g2 V4 O7 W5 j: M* i
- }) ^ f. c; w0 l* k8 p9 i6 EThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.. }, }* v- K: i
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+ A5 S6 s2 L: f6 FThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.% \. S/ Z& A) t8 n$ \
. V- ~+ {- B5 P& MOh, just the usual." ]( f0 k3 P# Y- V* J F
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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0 ?* F( ?. K, \' c! fJust the same old same old.
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; _- o, v5 s1 uThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!# ^! J$ X ?6 t+ ~' w7 ^
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?/ p, A8 V: Z; B' V) X# ~- s
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.* ~6 S# K6 P; r- u# t& \* ~$ d6 u
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