Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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7 Y' M" [7 J  o% y; m; E1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
' y8 U% o, H  A8 E9 {Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

1 r0 }+ x2 y2 i8 j" H8 {  D. h2.        Speak up when she’s good
. n; u7 e1 l8 g! b9 v: uIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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' ~$ T7 Z; A0 w3 p; t, I1 [3.        Stay one step ahead
" e5 D" V4 ]: G% d! ]2 B! tLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
2 a& H$ W7 b0 Z" P, h. HFrom no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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