Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes
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; [2 [/ B5 M2 A: B  k+ \6 RWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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9 B1 B% A+ O+ f) P4 Z1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
4 {) V. l; U  Y+ K/ j3 s+ GTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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7 X& ~8 n7 C: k: ^8 n) a  z9 u2.        Speak up when she’s good
7 U3 y. a& t# Y" |$ N" t9 N; Y& f4 ^If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
) \% f+ T; j5 W: i/ E5 F3 ]Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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