Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

$ w6 T, J: @% _7 I  A1 {% ?7 zWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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4 P3 a) I$ p9 h0 M# v1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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+ q. L9 R* b8 E" l8 ?2.        Speak up when she’s good
If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

0 S( p* u' O, v9 [" S0 z+ B2 ~3.        Stay one step ahead
7 }8 f5 u9 H! \Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes

( Q3 K( C" Y" d1 L$ z5 f, ^. `" |While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
+ {* L' W+ O3 U+ N% Q. h
1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
3 ?7 o, U% a# ?+ _' u( `' j% CTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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