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So glad to know there are so many little trouble makers like my older one. !- Here's the bright side: : }! g' ~- y5 ?" I4 m$ ~My older daughter used to be my headache and hurt my feelings a lot, now she is a swee ... % {/ m8 s4 | \/ M3 I莫迭儿 发表于 2010-5-21 09:54
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Remember, small kids are easy to forget. But don't get frustrated, just keep educating him. + V/ e: U- z3 l) ?, o. V$ H W: q9 L) T d& F9 b7 p
I was so frustated with my 2.5 yrs daughter when she repeated the same mistakes...but after .../ P7 P9 ~7 A: f' w' O4 v# J
莫迭儿 发表于 2010-5-21 10:10
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是的, 将孩子当作大人被有些人列为育儿误区no1,这还是跟expectation相关。因孩子不听从你的教训而愤怒也是我们要尽量避免的错误。 / E. W4 R; j6 q5 Z4 ?0 u 2 ], k' n# W# ?: m9 H在立规矩方面基本上要将孩子当小动物来训练:收起说教,立下铁规,持之以恒,愠而不怒。这个我自己在老大小的时候做得非常好,但是她现在快四岁了,我发现自己却越来越容易发怒,因为我潜意识里开始把她当大人,期待值又不对了。