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Two Choices
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> What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line,+ q) Z/ W% h7 r& a: C
> there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the
; t( S* _( n( ]+ j> same choice?
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> At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children,% O& s2 B$ @$ b9 S7 b7 h6 G
> the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be
$ f7 D8 \+ o) ?: | m. f9 \1 M0 o> forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated
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> 'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is5 S: z& B* T: c. y+ \: u
> done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other6 A) G7 K; V. e, f9 o8 y
> children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the
$ H6 L& G3 p- |7 W+ m6 D# b/ D> natural order of things in my son?'0 @0 u- G6 R( y p% q& T& C
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( W; w. E5 o1 K; P' y Z> The audience was stilled by the query.
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1 }% M6 b9 z. \2 R/ U( f7 @8 c> The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, physically
% H% S2 M6 @0 K* O* T! d> and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize- T$ M) _& p' T+ P
> true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people
) u5 H4 J* G, w m> treat that child.'
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> Then he told the following story:
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> Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were) J8 Y' W W" L: o7 d
> playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' Shay's
$ E1 N/ ?- N. ^) q# A> father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their3 @' D3 I+ P: x$ K! a
> team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play,9 N- C# i* p; {* e9 {
> it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be
3 z8 J' I$ V3 A/ r, }" j% Q> accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
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2 W4 N0 d; o! @* d. `> Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not- b0 O& R. r+ M6 s# s+ R
> expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and+ z3 ]; F h3 K
> said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I
, N' V) i+ O( z3 \> guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth! e, V5 H8 l. k. p& j* N+ D
> inning.'
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> Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a
. {& U" N% \' s> team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in+ L3 K0 o7 I) I V. @/ V
> his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the
' c4 n$ J/ U) H# E3 A. ^/ x% M> bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still* P4 Y% H6 b0 ?( M; R
> behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and) W" ^. c" s( ~* w
> played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was
, T) f. o; t T8 U& G9 U> obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from
% P! [7 A5 C8 c4 w) m: O) {3 l> ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the, `( v3 w, T+ B5 k' ^8 G9 L
> ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases
+ k; D; g ]- I; D3 l> loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be
! t+ L/ u/ v3 `6 n6 ~* u> next at bat.
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6 C8 u& f$ l6 `2 @0 w4 l> At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the
' N; ]# t% T, d- O' i$ R> game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat Everyone knew that a hit was all1 @+ A! ~* v" g4 N b
> but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly,
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> However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the
9 H; P4 q% q; K- W' C( f> other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved
9 y7 F" e& @6 f& u) O/ _0 \8 u6 }> in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make
, J4 p- n2 U' D$ ]0 n; q# R" Q% T1 U> contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The
" w7 V0 Z% k' }% c" O2 b! v> pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.: t$ Z3 S0 i2 v3 j
> As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball
3 C. e% ]- l2 _+ [> right back to the pitcher.
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5 e' c0 I0 Q* o% ^: x7 p> The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and- e# y% {; z' Y A( r. w
> could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been3 o2 b6 }! z1 Z' \7 g, e
> out and that would have been the end of the game.
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' r0 h6 m! F( U }> Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out
, x6 ]" S5 z! \0 w> of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started
# B3 D0 x9 ?- w6 K9 \$ V9 O> yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!' Never in his life had Shay ever
4 c, H& a0 h2 R: D s3 y4 X> run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline,( Y$ { |, g0 D7 L
> wide-eyed and startled.6 g2 P# {% L5 z/ C. ]8 t
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> Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!' Catching his breath, Shay
# C! j2 ]4 e h( q, D% U6 r' q- n5 `> awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the
' |( Q0 | V q> base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had( j: Q. d# p, r/ K" G1 Q" o
> the ball ... The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to
& x; y- k8 E) D/ A8 r> be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the; `; q8 L6 D5 C- h2 b
> second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intention So he,3 O( R9 a q6 h7 e. _
> too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's- D, R5 F ]% j. o
> head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him$ x" y3 B: m; O5 q8 J1 g
> circled the bases toward home.% o0 f' I+ x" }% R7 m3 `
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> All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'
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`' B/ ~# I( {> Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by0 V9 Y, Y& y& ^4 C+ P2 }. X
> turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!
7 U. \7 q* s1 Z4 J1 J, E' L> Shay, run to third!'
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> As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on7 u5 s8 b- r V& c+ J# L" w
> their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!' Shay ran to home, stepped7 g( i+ d9 y/ s% P" j/ x
> on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the8 m. V5 N# Z1 |, u2 V1 d4 |
> game for his team.
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> 'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, Q. V+ M5 `, |7 m/ L
> 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity& T+ C. L* H+ l7 y3 L" B& g
> into this world'.) R1 Z/ b, G. Q9 l+ R
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# T0 Q- K; z' l8 S# @> Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never
0 {% ~0 c5 y/ N7 r3 P- \( X7 r2 A7 e9 e> forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and
8 k2 q9 T3 b4 a% `> seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!* Q# v+ s0 `7 E. i5 P0 ~# v
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> AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes8 R o" E4 ]! U0 r, K: t
> through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending2 x) y4 O0 v( G
> messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude, vulgar, and often s, t ?( Z3 X. B9 n2 i
> obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency; h. J7 @, W0 }
> is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces.1 e7 p5 F6 z4 i! r* u5 J
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> If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're
2 a4 }: g3 D; l) i/ }> probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the4 C/ Z, \) |( S' f1 P( z) g* g
> 'appropriate' ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who; n/ p, ^- P8 |1 U0 E
> sent you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have* ?5 L9 f- I- w$ e7 f, m% }
> thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the 'natural6 R6 s, I U& B& h0 \% ^
> order of things.' So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people9 F, ], a6 c* n- ?9 R/ L$ r! e
> present us with a choice: Do we pass along a little spark of love and6 a+ h. C" M9 k+ r W& B
> humanity or do we pass up those opportunities and leave the world a little
$ ^" N+ G/ ]3 X5 J0 A4 {; o> bit colder in the process?
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$ f% T; a$ i0 O9 }& p* Z( Q> A wise man once said every society is judged by: x; {6 ~2 n+ o* j1 D! d
> how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them.3 e8 j# ?6 |) p
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; b3 o6 ^ C9 f# {- h5 I2 |> You now have two choices:. ~. s% M; R+ D( E: ~+ e8 z' g
> 1. Delete- p" H4 w5 q% |
> 2. Forward
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> May your day, be a Shay Day. |
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