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~SOMETIMES~, I$ N5 N, B! m3 H- ], ]8 S
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Sometimes people come into your life
- [1 j( z+ k+ |! ^' @ Jyou know right away that they were meant to be there,
8 K$ }! J, p/ Kto serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
/ Z1 X& {6 D, G) k/ c5 Wor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.' [% m$ \5 U) v% |% p3 Y! p% a
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1 V- b5 _5 M( U! E; d( oYou never know who these people may be
4 K+ w" q- {0 d3 rbut when you lock eyes with them,
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6 J% P8 v o) o; x% e9 q- z+ k5 u( XThey will affect your life in some profound way! G# q' B( L, Z- _
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!0 u1 d* d: [; I* a* m% `) A! i
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
7 i3 j! Q0 q J3 R- L+ t3 xThen, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,6 a* \ d/ O1 r+ X
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end." K. }- k5 x- Z# ?, I7 C" a/ }4 d
Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
$ S: [( M8 u* o, z; A3 K1 J; fSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand., V3 _( N8 D1 S3 X
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* v2 A1 T V+ IWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,9 v" M7 E7 W5 G# G$ a
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
! \+ i: {# h( AThe prayer you sent up has been answered.
5 q/ n- }' n9 o: y" _, AAnd now it is time for you to move on.9 J2 d. A- Z' `3 e" F: ^
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. l) j; U n* v; }# Y& fThen people come into your life for a REASON
0 k& z5 L) `) P' P( Z; f& bBecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.$ p: R- Y9 M0 y, Z: U _2 |' s
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.0 e$ w; E7 j* T; n% H- C6 \4 E
They may teach you something you have never done.+ t# \8 ?2 |) j& j+ ?
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
( u4 p& b! _ Z, O' jBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦% Q2 [4 W+ L1 k- M: H
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:6 c4 i( K! y# i9 G Y
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,& G+ j; t5 ]3 G, W- x' r3 c
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.$ J0 @. N& B( C, u
Everything happens for a reason.5 m. ^3 p) F3 n+ q! K' i6 m3 |0 M; v T
Nothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.
# g4 a% \0 u6 M7 fIllness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
+ k; M' e0 t& q" |and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,' s* X) a' F" H' y- s' }
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
; H0 m. l* ^: h) q% RIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,2 E7 E- D4 u& p. g) B7 p) h
for they have helped you learn about trust
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If someone loves you, express your appreciation,) A4 K8 r; D$ d0 Y7 I4 } m" U
Try to love them back unconditionally,% |2 B2 [, y4 S t. Q! c! Q
not only because they love you, but because in a way,+ r+ k" A4 j! V, Y* J) f
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.1 I7 q5 A2 C; b3 o" @
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season,# w, \+ M/ `) A* q/ D
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A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
# `7 I$ I" M( c6 p0 @$ u& Yand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."# ]% J& ~7 Y A& A. p+ P
God's grace is as a healing hand.& h0 R: Z- Q9 }
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,4 k( W. p- G. S% S
the warm memories and love for those we have lost" ~* l1 D7 B% ]
will remain always safe in our hearts. |
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