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~SOMETIMES~
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3 f K2 k& G! {8 L7 gSometimes people come into your life1 B5 \! w/ D+ v4 m9 O2 h$ j
you know right away that they were meant to be there,* H4 {( b, r! p, q: f
to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson,
+ B+ ?9 a1 z& o( F$ eor to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.0 j% U% Z- _2 X
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3 d7 T7 p. _3 P/ f7 Y, }4 Z5 zYou never know who these people may be6 c% ?0 K5 x* ]1 I# S \
but when you lock eyes with them,7 i4 ^5 H4 Z. @, A; N, y4 ^
you know at that very moment,
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& f. Y. P" G! n" F/ u6 @4 H0 aThey will affect your life in some profound way% G- `' n; c) t9 q0 W' M5 f+ C
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!
2 M# g; {0 _7 zThey are there for the reason you need them to be./ K J# z% g& C5 S1 N( ~) o
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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2 T; H* r! h& G0 i# SThe person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
, \' H. x5 y2 |& x. z1 P4 O' X" |Sometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away. z9 ?3 F* a5 h7 X
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.+ ^' ~( ]; v) |- x
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What we must realize is that our need has been met,0 h5 B ?/ s8 `7 x6 ?" ~, S
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.9 Q" s1 ^7 l3 O
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
! K# Q4 `( B- f! s0 N; U `( [And now it is time for you to move on.) k" O7 ~2 X4 t. v V( M" ~0 x# N' O
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Then people come into your life for a REASON2 \) @4 \+ S+ f% j4 v" e
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.7 j' U! i, L& ]; M
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
& c' b( o; P, SThey may teach you something you have never done.
6 ~* t0 N$ z6 ?7 [' I% YThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
. k8 H. B# J/ fBelieve it! It is real! But, only for a season¦
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:: C3 W/ r4 l9 L) i* S
Your job is to accept the lesson, love your life,4 @( J1 D# F' |! ^4 P
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.. N% w) [2 J0 B7 p
Everything happens for a reason.
$ p+ k" J' d( Y: p- GNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.) {9 n2 ]" R9 Q9 F9 n6 G; |
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,
0 s: [0 |) t# Y$ g3 j* dand sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.6 z3 v9 Q: x! A: v1 F% T
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If you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,
0 O; H1 v: m+ i, R& VYou have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
; q- z3 o% w* r" a7 L/ W7 P0 z0 HIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
f0 s& A( i- i) u4 G& w7 Jfor they have helped you learn about trust# H. R. g b | R: T; L1 V% K
and the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.
1 V! s$ ~9 B0 j4 _, F- qIf someone loves you, express your appreciation,
. o; J# w. o; [Try to love them back unconditionally,3 Z6 q8 I" o& {9 \* U+ k5 } ]
not only because they love you, but because in a way,5 {, q/ B+ {7 X
they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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) ` A0 s6 D' M/ ^- l& P, G0 qThe Bible says: "To everything there is a season,! a; C2 \: f" c7 h- k
5 ~3 t( l/ X2 g& U$ Iand a time to every purpose under the sun.& x9 W- s8 c, {; d( G
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,6 t6 n# z0 N1 @" f
and a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
' R6 B# p. h R7 J+ I, P& e9 YGod's grace is as a healing hand.
& c+ a; h' v- Z' q) y$ Y# s* S! {As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,- H& P0 j) m9 @
the warm memories and love for those we have lost
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