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~SOMETIMES~1 ]$ O3 [* b2 h8 E% x& d
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Sometimes people come into your life) _) B5 P- Y3 p& l" _7 Q5 O
you know right away that they were meant to be there,
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or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to be.4 a- t* b7 K; ~7 C" p: Y% v
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0 N0 F# {5 W$ sYou never know who these people may be
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0 b) ?2 F& n7 ]( ~5 v dyou know at that very moment,: ~4 f# L! j) p9 l
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They will affect your life in some profound way; Y; H8 l0 L+ |0 P4 e9 d |# a9 x/ f
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They may seem like a godsend, and they are!) X7 Q: D4 z% |/ K3 a
They are there for the reason you need them to be.- n' m8 A0 T. w- ]
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or even at an inconvenient time,
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The person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
6 O* U5 {, s/ C! Q( u9 CSometimes they change; Sometimes they walk away.
6 h9 [9 v$ i4 dSometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.. u' C. R1 \: z6 e8 y- V" p
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) B4 t/ I4 x) R, ~# a7 uWhat we must realize is that our need has been met,! L0 m( V) j5 c. z
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.% {- y! o: E$ H. b
The prayer you sent up has been answered.
, H% ]" A: a: |1 V& p4 @% @; [/ SAnd now it is time for you to move on.5 h) e8 O# I2 x" N
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Then people come into your life for a REASON+ G6 b+ ]) p; ^8 K, k# _6 k4 u
Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.$ V r- _5 \& K X
They bring you an experience of love, or make you laugh.
7 v! B5 ?# F$ {They may teach you something you have never done.
" V2 J4 ^; W9 Y# C$ f# v, V) qThey usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.$ E+ w& Y" B, e# h
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season¦' P* l. K: k, l8 g6 I
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LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons:
; ^3 g0 [" a' S7 f" r0 VYour job is to accept the lesson, love your life,8 x2 w' i! j4 g3 z3 b1 @" m$ T2 u
Put what you have learned to use in all other relationships of your life.& R* \' V. e# M( u3 m
Everything happens for a reason.
% v; N' p/ D# D# b1 W" j r( J WNothing happens by chance or by means of “just happened”.+ Q/ J! j) f1 K- m9 Y) h
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness,# _* t5 O. f8 M6 R! s
and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.
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( a1 T* M& G# P" `5 jIf you did something wrongfully, hurt your loved ones, knowing that we are all sinful,8 V0 h# {" Q! |5 d6 z; P; w
You have learned what’s valuable to your life and what you should treasure,
) r9 A0 U9 C* A0 m7 N3 T `% ZIf someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them,
4 n5 z/ q' Q& V$ u2 ]4 I% Rfor they have helped you learn about trust
; L2 _ N+ F/ T( gand the importance of being cautious to when you open your heart.1 [3 ^, U1 b& r* |
If someone loves you, express your appreciation,
+ q F. M3 V' Z5 ]' U7 BTry to love them back unconditionally,
7 r( @/ \7 h! a" x+ D$ p7 g+ Qnot only because they love you, but because in a way,
: K7 e2 U. V2 n( bthey are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
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The Bible says: "To everything there is a season, `* y- G* S% x4 o4 U
8 J6 q2 B3 x8 b" Q N- Fand a time to every purpose under the sun." [' c; M3 z6 O' S s" @
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant,
- w/ @. l0 E# y2 i- fand a time to pluck up that which is planted..."
; t# F5 S& o/ U( `God's grace is as a healing hand." S+ a; V. L; Y. |- r: g+ l/ c
As does the sweet scent of the poppy linger in the air,
+ z& \1 w+ H/ g/ lthe warm memories and love for those we have lost
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