The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to : b( J+ s. c) F* w+ N5 q! n& _7 }$ ~focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear0 B# Y# g9 A: n6 N! ^
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what 1 U; y/ l. G4 N0 eyou're going to say next or worrying about what others will 4 Y8 p: {/ i; s6 B5 \! b$ |think of you. 5 f0 B8 {0 C: K4 a0 g+ e. X+ V! K5 |1 D/ @8 Q
Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first 0 m9 `/ ?$ g0 j, R$ I" q: Z& Hnames: r5 H2 | q8 R1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction. ( R$ J0 O7 a7 f4 B/ J& L2) The second second: Don't think about what to 7 s& E$ s7 e) ?. K/ Bsay—listen for the name.6 W- |& M E) H
3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud. D' n/ A/ i: U; b4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know4 f `/ P0 R0 C
with the same name. . a0 n6 \$ U. `5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the 1 z6 t3 Y ]7 V6 G% f8 v) l: uend of the conversation. / t& D9 Z/ {6 V2 `* ? U A5 u; @2 s5 s
---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>>