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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to
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them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what
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think of you.9 ^2 Y3 I3 c9 X3 ?, |
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Use the following 5-second strategy to remember first$ j' q8 K' ^7 X N3 B
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1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.
" {; w* M% {% ~ o" L2) The second second: Don't think about what to: K j' V4 l# H {$ H) R( d
say—listen for the name.
9 f9 f8 D6 O. x3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
, R( y) f6 l4 w9 |4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know
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) ~' U# [5 a! G5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the: I: ^) T% Z" |7 Y; A
end of the conversation.
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---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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