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转个公司email,不过对第一代移民意义不大,本地人差不多是这么干的。5 {7 b4 D) }6 {/ \7 @6 c8 u
> Subject: FW: Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee
& B& c. M5 v7 W& B* f( _> When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in
" j5 |+ k, _5 [+ j, _> a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of % W6 ~; P6 D% Z8 D7 D
> coffee.
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> A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
8 L D( A8 C( H; m/ \7 z9 }> of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
8 _( o. w3 m$ j+ S% j, ?6 v> empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
, ?' N# c+ h4 q) j> asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
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> The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
( @# c; z5 u6 U4 h) t- E/ F* O! i> He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between 4 n3 o. E7 @8 |
> the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They / j9 `7 Q n9 U% x
> agreed it was.7 u6 f$ V' D! c+ p
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5 e& c' _+ E/ j: `> The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of 8 X8 u! X% g$ H( m3 T
> course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar * G) O! W4 A8 R' [( j) m( k# D
> was full. The students responded with an unanimous "yes."
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5 t" ?, U: v/ ?/ C& h8 `) |% L> The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and
0 V# v5 d; A J9 k> poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty : F. R3 N- w' z* O/ G6 T' S, X6 C
> space between the sand. The students laughed.
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. d& r7 R& |1 g/ ?, F$ ?6 c- C( z* O> "Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to
9 K4 N2 C; d7 B/ [" n- K> recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
% W0 x: |6 @- d> important things---your family, your children, your health, your friends
+ @0 T& E0 i+ a> and your favorite passions---and if everything else was lost and only they / h/ i: s4 N7 v$ _
> remained, your life would still be full.$ H: z- D2 V }2 [
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5 j7 {1 F: J* \) A7 a> The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and
! d2 J# p2 z- j2 w> your car.) V ]- V( q7 e: P* o( a- K
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> The sand is everything else---the small stuff. "If you put the sand into 8 C* @) y: V \! s, Z5 t
> the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the - f. K% `* P! X4 N/ L6 ?
> golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy
* i, U+ o5 M$ J2 L& B' j> on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are / w9 v- o1 R( e5 h! L* X
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> "Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Spend
9 J2 p/ }( ~/ a4 z# _: l> time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with $ r J$ g& u/ M
> grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to % g8 u& m4 }0 |4 ?3 d
> dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and 8 H) ^0 Y3 ~3 V3 @. }6 m4 U
> fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first---the things that
9 Q- f0 @8 o7 D1 u9 g [' E0 @> really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."
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4 y5 g4 r- @* t" G1 m0 N3 M> One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee
" y4 U2 N: R# V% k x2 e> represented.. The professor smiled and said, "I'm glad you asked."
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> The coffee just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem,
+ V1 b- L+ {7 j r6 J! @> there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."/ G/ z; [" t: G' a7 F9 G
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) o0 O7 d: p" F. J9 z; H, F" M> Please share this with someone you care about.. I JUST DID |
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