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Touching words from the mouths of babes.4 p+ z2 r# B3 |
What does 'Love' mean?/ a# u; r8 k2 s" D" w
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does 'love' mean?'& H$ H$ q& @* x' d2 l6 x } G
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:4 b B$ a- W9 V
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9 m, y8 X& s `8 f'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.. K2 ]) F4 x5 m3 r% T* }/ m0 J
+ z) P% m/ i* wSo my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'( g* p% `: u% Q: e+ s' s: M
Rebecca- age 8! C8 o- L) N$ p" g; l3 D
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4 ~0 ]. w) T& j'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.9 _$ M$ D' ]" i0 E7 d, r
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
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) ~" C/ Q7 J' @9 M'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'2 Z+ u( f7 b1 H
Karl - age 5
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5 G b% n$ W( Z; z2 n* q* O'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'+ W% B6 [7 @- j e9 Y8 x3 m
C hrissy - age 60 k* q4 N; a1 C. [
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0 I: B2 R9 z' E" G'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.') k# K, b: c; T
Terri - age 42 B' ?6 [0 I. a1 [6 N
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5 Y5 k5 n# u9 b9 L4 f1 \) l5 V'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'# x/ j6 K# u; J9 b
Danny - age 7
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% q3 b* ]) ^5 Z1 S7 V'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.7 @3 R$ p$ U# c" s* q
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'
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0 v5 f2 V6 ^9 v3 F- h1 ['Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'
4 R2 i# T, K3 K+ ]Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)% f3 d8 o6 p6 @' O) e
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" p' |/ U! @, C( V$ d'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'0 v X$ b1 ], L5 g
2 K$ E( c' K/ Z0 d$ M4 y: eNikka - age 6
; h- S1 ~$ R( e5 w(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
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1 m: j P$ R9 w" w* e* m'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'
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'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'6 X- c! W3 G) r' T# C3 J# Q
Tommy - age 60 C$ l) U( c, D. E+ N L* e! V
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& |0 `9 a0 o$ A+ J. p'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.' t! P, h: n5 D
4 w! D/ P) S0 s! @He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
/ Y( e* j+ t6 yCindy - age 8
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'My mommy loves me more than anybody+ l' B! X$ K8 y, b# I" B( F! ^- d
: e" p; }' |3 u' z/ [You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'9 P+ j( ~) A/ `
C lare - age 6
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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'7 B- k! i; ^( {/ P
Elaine-age 5! X/ M: [* K D5 o
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'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'& Y. i6 b6 \3 z4 A# S! D
C hris - age 7
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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day'
! T4 ?3 j: f7 _- ]Mary Ann - age 4
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9 H+ E& W6 L1 O' T$ [$ z' r'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
( j6 \: f/ Y5 PLauren - age 4
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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)
/ C) j6 @# \3 @( J" H$ CKaren - age 7
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# d( N( O3 x2 ]4 W'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'. S( O1 M& V$ Z; Y2 W" V' L
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) V. `: A) r3 l4 u' ?And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
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The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
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) W% U1 J9 q6 j L) m. fThe winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
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7 ~# \6 j8 }4 j9 MUpon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
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' i0 I& _+ M$ HWhen his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,% ?3 N: {8 u8 x( L
'Nothing, I just helped him cry' |
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