抑或,太有礼貌了啊? 5 Q3 Z% r- W( |; T, r我剪了个短发,说实话,我觉得不好看(倒也不是理发师的问题,好像我这脸型和脑袋就不适合短发),老公说,倒也不算很丑。。。。。。一般般丑而已! , W2 B, b9 w7 T4 H
结果,办公室的女性,所有的,熟的不熟的,看到我后都说:i like your short haircut " l# k. ~$ I c* Q7 J
要我说,如果咱不熟,见面您点个头打个招呼就行啦!
Agree! I think they just try to be nice too. 1 Y, X$ `& T! v7 z! S9 u, q( h我觉得这只是文化习惯不同而已,不至于升级到虚伪的程度,难道你被别人当面恶评一番就觉得人家真诚了吗,还是心理会觉得更不舒服了呢。就算是有人违心的夸奖你不也只是为了维持表面的礼貌吗,比无视你要好吧。 9 {! h9 [; h3 l9 n4 E至于那些眼睛没看着你就夸奖你的人,只能说明他们根本没有掌握夸奖别人的艺术,亟待提高水平。$ A) Z" Z4 N' f6 Z9 r, e- p
善于观察发现他人的优点并及时夸奖真的是一门大家都该掌握的艺术,不仅让和你打交道的人愉快,自己也是最大的受益者。我也正在有意识地努力提高这方面的技巧。
i think they just want to be nice' `* e+ g0 J0 q) B6 D, i
sorry12022000 发表于 2010-3-17 22:25
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Good explanation. 8 x$ R+ ~& M d5 @! d
maybe i shouldn't have used "虚伪". but now i know they probably didn't mean it.
Good explanation. 7 y3 c1 w3 T+ \8 P
maybe i shouldn't have used "虚伪". but now i know they probably didn't mean it.6 W ?( \4 C9 a# b4 }! X
熊猫阿宝 发表于 2010-3-18 11:52