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本帖最后由 ali 于 2013-9-6 20:39 编辑 0 c4 Z$ D3 m" J
兰芷 发表于 2013-9-6 20:15 
8 z1 H- s) V5 M2 i6 J l老外可能是这么想的,中国人大多不会这么想哦
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% l9 w2 M0 `, x k0 lThere is something to do with the society where the kid grows up. In China, since the kid has a chance to go back to the other parent and grandparents on the other parent side and is 'educated' by relatives, other neighbours and so on, the kid might think a biological parent is more important and beloved than a step parent. But here in Canada, not many people surrounding the kid would like to say so and neither does the kid have much chance to stay with relatives. ; S8 I0 z4 E, p# t) S" ?, L
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In your friend's case, if she is the only legal guardian, this is the best! Plus, the little kid is just 2 years old, the kid will forget everything that happen during her first four or five years.* n- f. a" t" s
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A reminder: If your friend's ex-husband is also a legal guardian, the court order may not allow your friend together with her daughter to move to another city far away from Vancouver without the approval from her ex-husband because it may stop the kid's father from seeing the kid regularly. |
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