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if there is no evidence you lend the money, there is no chance to get it back even you goes to court.
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+ K5 o- M& P. m+ v7 q, M; {" iThink this way, when a friend ask money from you, it means immediate needs like grocery and rent. without the $4000, he might have to sleep on the street. For you, with out the $4000, you only need to cancel a vacation trip. Money is like water, always tries to flow from high position to low position.
0 M2 t) J+ G r" HIf a thief or a friend took your money even though you have some guard, it only means he wants that money more intensively than you do. 6 C [& K. q! \* N; o G( f5 s7 x
As the money already lost, if you still worry about that, you loss your peace of mind, that is double-lost. Let go will be better for your health. Think it as a wedding gift, a funeral gift, new born baby gifts, kid's graduation gifts for that friend in next 20 years.0 z1 H+ h2 A8 Z" r- B7 N0 z
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