i am reading another good book by Gary Chapman " The Five Love Languages of Children". Act of service is just a part of parenting (very important during 0-6 years old), but in China for this case, it's almost everything of parenting...lol
本帖最后由 marie 于 2014-10-13 17:55 编辑 8 ^% b& T7 U5 q: K/ X# y5 Q2 ^
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中国人家庭很多孩子不做家務,懒人,很多中国人学习好, why 搞不定 工作?( a* @: z8 I- M; T
我让孩子自己去面对一切,我们separate 生活, 让孩子自己去锻炼. follow up 孩子,: k D' T. H. U0 B) H
孩子不喜歡,自己活着真累.最重要的是使孩子成为对社会有用的人" {3 S& a! y/ g1 V/ I
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我见some chinese phd, master, 2-3 degrees, almost 40, never working.