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A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed
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shaved perfectly applied, even though he is legally blind, moved to a ; J7 W, ? x _
nursing home today.
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His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
# G0 V, D7 s& c9 i8 ^0 _; E9 J2 NAfter many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home,
& u8 @2 Q1 p. t" }' rhe smiled sweetly when told his room was ready.
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! l5 F. _7 @# D$ I! j- ]$ EAs he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual
/ ~; b ]& [0 P1 W3 C' L) c6 }* Wdescription of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been # \ F1 ]# B1 M5 W: Y% K; n
hung on his window. 9 _& `+ m! F; k( ^$ Q1 {
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"I love it," he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having ; x& m q) t- t; z- M
just been presented with a new puppy. " F( R% E, v. a
) A* z) r% L+ r: }* p"Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait."
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"That doesn't have anything to do with it," he replied.
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"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my + s9 P3 E) [: `1 a7 d4 [8 P( k1 M& D
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged ... it's how / }5 f( ^ ~& U
I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it."
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, z; \& k {* [$ U8 J0 ?3 k+ N' }It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. + X3 J6 q6 u3 k; I) `! B
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I have a choice; I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I
: e9 J/ H& A! q2 E& K0 phave with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed ; ]+ I2 F; n: ^1 \7 M4 q
and be thankful for the ones that do. ! _% J% o1 r8 ?' L( J& F
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Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open I'll focus on the new
/ b% p4 S. X; D0 mday and all the happy memories I've stored away. ( o7 u$ e2 _9 \8 l6 a6 f
) D# ^4 `5 r" a% YJust for this time in my life.
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Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. - x. H. Q! _6 `- a4 f1 n
: j& K, P9 Z& e7 C( V2 U$ j; ^So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank
. b1 s. b+ B' o9 Kaccount of memories! Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank.
. S1 m% J8 L& B# R* oI am still depositing." Remember the five simple rules to be happy: % I: f8 ] E# f u5 { g/ S8 Y
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1. Free your heart from hatred. ( U3 v7 |9 V+ A; U& ~
2. Free your mind from worries. % A& y* l& T, m- W% K
3. Live simply.
& e3 ?6 G# d3 X 4. Give more. 3 j- \. {/ H) d* ?' {$ F
5. Expect less. |
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