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& E- o) B7 b$ y7 S5 Y$ KHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters
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& l% T( [4 Z5 mThere are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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' ?! r S x' e1 RYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"' d! G8 s, b, d5 n! e) Q8 e1 h
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation.6 y+ I; {5 T4 H" g
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Not bad.& a& Z [2 h7 u" I: a( `4 f" e
9 [# m/ r) ?% i, b1 A6 L9 UThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".# H) `8 a; k" W
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Fine, thanks.
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+ ]0 [( R: s. `. p4 }This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.
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Very well, thanks.
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.: r; N. f! y8 C# P# C
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Pretty good.
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8 t. X0 i7 V1 E) j! o0 WIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?% L7 ^3 Q6 [+ P- L+ M1 N. l
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This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.: C* n2 Z5 n/ w- {
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# W. P: R; s4 r/ ]2 E2 i8 Y9 aThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.$ o, U' X% G9 ~* a6 w, Q0 m
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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. [/ g, d) f1 z; sA: How are you? i$ | I2 i6 Y" b6 L5 u$ k
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B: I've been better.% ~8 r5 {5 i# ]2 O6 j
* E( v$ }( q! X, gA: What's wrong?5 P" S/ j5 v1 W3 V; r
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off., N9 |4 F j$ N: o' ]' U
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How's it going?
2 Q+ K( U0 _/ G+ B0 w" t' G6 wThis question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.
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Here's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well. + ^1 W5 e# D9 x3 u J6 I) S
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This is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while. : v7 d, V. g' ?2 h
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This question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much.
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This is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation."
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Not a lot.
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This is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.# ]' W/ M: x. g& I1 D4 X- r
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& Z, C' X% ^' u: B6 @+ v1 GThis is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual., G6 }4 p2 g( E+ V& K
) w' U9 t5 }/ H2 G# h% `Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.+ _2 O' Q* J& v
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! O [8 \5 |9 l) w* u; N0 hThis phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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Oh gosh, all kinds of stuff!4 b+ `6 J% {. w6 }0 v- t8 B
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.9 Q9 J' m- {. `# r$ _
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What's happening?
$ U; v. e3 i# u, F+ S# W0 KThis question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.
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