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& e) A# K: C) Y C7 o1 W0 DHow to respond to "How are you?", "What's up?", and other conversation starters, R8 d' ]7 w% |' L* [
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There are a few questions that English speakers ask at the beginning of a conversation. These questions are simple tools to find out if there are any interesting topics to discuss.
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* i; L8 K+ w2 |# |. A7 L% Q! l$ OYou've certainly heard these questions, but you might be confused about how to answer. Here's a list of common answers to the questions "How are you?", "How's it going?", "What's up?", and "What's happening?"0 c& m" F' Y/ G$ ]
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How are you?
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This is a simple, straight answer. If you don't say anything else, though, it might be a signal that you don't want to continue the conversation." m8 X) @0 S* r2 c$ Q4 a7 f! [
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Not bad.
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$ [0 r; j- z# M+ \7 xThis is a more friendly-sounding answer than "fine".2 ?% g6 ?8 W0 K+ B
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Fine, thanks.3 i% [6 E B+ {9 F5 Z5 Z$ ?
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This answer is formal. You might answer this way if someone you don't know, like a waiter at a restaurant, asks how you are.( }5 H5 j. q+ ?+ }1 v: H2 i
" n) L- J" |7 ^5 S0 L+ GVery well, thanks.7 i. D- ^2 c5 e+ c& L. U& }2 J! o
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A person who likes to be grammatically proper might answer this way. Technically, the question "How...?" should be answered with an adverb. However, a lot of English speakers don't know or care about this. The people who do are "by the books" types who insist on using grammatically correct language.
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Pretty good.
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9 f+ b1 D0 [# y/ ~& R" MIf you don't care as much about grammar, you can answer "Good" or "Pretty good". It's more common and much, much more casual.
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Great! How are you doing?
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: C& M5 c$ U" [7 T/ h$ b/ `This is an enthusiastic, excited response. It's always good to ask a question back to the other person if you want to continue the conversation.
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! V7 f& q8 h7 k- T2 ^+ E( B/ mI'm hanging in there.
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/ A$ A3 J9 z$ U0 U1 PThis answer makes it sound like you're having a tough day.
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I've been better.+ k9 N' v2 a* `* x/ d+ Y. ?3 H. z
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People usually give positive answers to the question "How are you?" If you give a negative answer like this one, it usually means that you want to tell the listener your sad story. So they'll usually ask what's wrong:
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7 F& {+ V4 }9 J! [, EA: How are you?/ F. I* p5 E8 o b: m! l7 v
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A: What's wrong?
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B: I just found out that I'm being laid off. u6 L1 K2 d& u7 j6 z
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How's it going? [; q& C, D q8 M
This question is similar to "How are you". The answers discussed above all work for "How's it going?" as well.9 [) Z G, I4 P4 z
3 G7 ^2 J) |. I2 S9 `' \( cHere's another answer that will also work for "How's it going", but not for "How are you?"
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It's going well.
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0 T% `# q0 R6 H: a$ W. z$ E8 gThis is a friendly, polite answer that's suitable for coworkers, clients, and acquaintances that you haven't seen in a while.
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What's up?
% m. _% w1 j, M) N. o% lThis question means "What's happening in your life?" But you don't have to answer honestly. If you don't want to start a long conversation, you can use one of these standard replies:
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Nothing much./ \# B: i6 q8 s! S9 ]" x" A
$ o6 e5 d+ l& t% B7 r# oThis is the most common answer. You can follow it by sharing something interesting that's happening: "Nothing much. Just getting ready for Vanessa's graduation.": ` G, W( g3 C) V
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Not a lot.
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( z+ N3 z6 ?$ h ~" @( cThis is another really common answer. It's just a bit fresher than "Nothing much" because it's a little less common.: w; L& e! Y* r7 H$ a
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Nothing.
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This is more to-the-point. It might make you seem a little angry or rude.
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Oh, just the usual.
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Answer this way if you do mostly the same things each day.
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. v& _0 `! e* u TJust the same old same old.
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This phrase means that you're doing the same things every day, and you're a little bored of it.
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$ N4 S$ I6 _9 }$ R- c2 m, ~2 V1 FOh gosh, all kinds of stuff!4 ?5 h- s) F6 v" \# K
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You can answer this way if your life has been really busy and exciting lately.
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What's happening?& S4 g P" A+ ]- O& h5 c
This question means the same thing as "What's up" and can be answered in the same way.3 D& @8 p* O: b& H0 ^
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