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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
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for youth at risk programs.
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. S) M9 A- {$ S6 T/ _The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
; k& j5 o* s, h9 q Q: Cwhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
% P8 O& Z {5 M7 s- cman who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable % ?* P: j) a' J
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
' @5 e7 l: X: V' a# P. H& Yhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
/ o- Z4 `$ I8 q% P7 SWhen he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
7 ^8 R$ C! p' A) |owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
. W5 |4 _3 o' K) k. Z. G6 l* V' ^drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, , N+ g7 n7 u; L, \% O. k+ N
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot ; a5 \# \- l( v M' A7 m
house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. * j9 |5 ^) m5 `! k, @
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he 0 ?( f3 Y9 a. y
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
4 p8 ~2 O- o& D% Y5 t+ z0 ]: UOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after : F+ W6 ], O5 _& C
class.'
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6 T3 U, B; x; V; {: _'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked,
( x4 S' B( G6 z) I4 e/ w# q`Why did I receive an F?'
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. " o' m: F! X' A9 o+ F, d8 T
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 4 |0 L. `' l# g; h2 z" F+ ?
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. 1 [# [, D9 p8 Q, }# d& X
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
/ U+ \9 y1 s: kpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher 7 }* V+ h! Y4 a4 {# E" t& V
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will $ F) z% e6 W& o- S
reconsider your grade.’ - S* z2 ^ W" J/ w
$ g' \2 m) t! I: b% P'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father . e( G- L6 j" A) ?
what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your ! @$ i3 } z. @% H4 |8 Z5 Y" ~7 _
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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' u# c, {$ D* O M' x'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same 0 C* M. z0 F V
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
& K: C9 m' ?/ \keep my dream.'' # w; [# u2 i, R' }' \1 J/ n
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
0 f- j( o0 w5 l( K2 Y; }9 H* x1 b) jbecause you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
D# }+ D- W" C* w0 O) ]my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the $ z7 A9 u w( v6 u, k
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago 5 e' d! g3 q% M8 f/ G) e
that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
( j9 p- e) V- ~1 R6 `/ bWhen the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this . x6 ]- a- J' a" n( }: t
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During 0 \/ B$ R3 C# `# D% b+ L
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
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( e+ u+ t& J* w, y6 v' u }Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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