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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro.
6 \2 \) I G, ?) BHe has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money - A& [1 ~# b+ _9 ?# A( N3 Y; V3 {
for youth at risk programs. 8 y1 n% R& b s- k* q
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you . Z: i: A4 ?' W y/ O. ]
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young
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to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
% a1 W1 r0 w9 T, dhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
+ ]" J% `% e7 q0 h! X. ^When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
/ t9 d& L: u+ U) @) t: `to be and do when he grew up.
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday E: R7 a6 U: U+ ?3 Z& c( T( ]
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
6 I, Y- V9 Q7 Hdrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
+ S3 k3 P# r6 e0 U+ ]! C; ]% pthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
3 c9 P/ B# x ]4 C5 [ zhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch.
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* Z- v/ F/ H( r& p9 @4 U5 S: |'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
$ T B3 r8 W, f) f& Jhanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
0 f8 C1 X+ j. mOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after ( @0 R1 Q# o. m! f
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'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 9 q3 i$ B& H) \- j8 m& l
`Why did I receive an F?'
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* I7 C0 k$ `1 E' ]! t'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. ) `$ U' s' t5 q. i$ Z
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
* k2 O* q4 L6 C; [! nOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. , z2 j8 ^5 k- Y7 N& |: f' p! F. ]/ \
You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to / ?; H- s4 d2 ~7 G; H
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher % Z+ m- C# t, W4 v+ p
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will + x" X- i7 l' s- z6 T: f
reconsider your grade.’
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; Y! a7 y5 f" i: L* X8 r'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
+ [6 R- X! @: y. R# Awhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your / ~5 n3 [8 `6 q* i
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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0 `& ^" H# Z, E+ b' N'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same / u- P6 o2 Y9 ]8 o4 Y7 a
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll 8 n- j0 M2 k. @7 H$ d* F
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story
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my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the
3 C1 J! n: E8 z2 \, K8 Nfireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
9 c( w0 h8 x( X" othat same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' 6 j2 { z3 L- E1 M5 [; N& F' c. \
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
, q/ z( c$ }, b/ {now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
1 U: b) S& q4 q5 Ythose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption
- G& B1 X& @2 m; A$ F- h# I. Wnot to give up on yours.’' : l% _) l( w" N1 P% d: y1 s! B
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Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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