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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. ' j8 W: E( h' |0 G: x8 y6 ?. u
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money ! J k- W/ k/ D. n
for youth at risk programs.
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2 Z2 C; N! h) @9 [, g) X! vThe last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you
" l$ ~2 @* i9 i- K$ {9 Y: Ywhy I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young / D6 s% \7 z1 K0 s ]4 O) {# M# @
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable $ ~! W- P/ G9 o# d0 s2 S4 r
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training $ v" g' K& _7 C
horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted.
, t! \! z. Y4 J r& ^When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
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2 l, K- o- T+ \( A- J; i'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday 5 J% X d( {$ g+ n9 S
owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
2 p6 f5 P4 P0 X1 R$ mdrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings,
! r# v8 x$ s# b0 l8 t. Jthe stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
8 {1 a& H) M7 {4 L, Bhouse that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. ; J" g+ Z. m1 X, U- M& U I3 n
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he - a0 n2 i5 H' Y9 y5 z* y
handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back.
3 H) B% r( k6 L2 ^. \5 x# ZOn the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after
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* T. l4 \. V$ D+ {5 E- m: a'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, % J* o) t$ N& w) x) |4 ?0 J. B3 F* K
`Why did I receive an F?'
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'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you.
7 h: U, b) `' S P2 @0 m& uYou have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources.
- s3 H8 u+ P# m1 J+ Z rOwning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
# `. l/ F6 A" V6 G7 \You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to - }6 E3 C4 `! i4 O& P) \
pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher % F/ Q/ x) i' T4 e* J) l' t
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will
% Z! d8 ?( R: A' v6 g$ S4 |reconsider your grade.’
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|" j, c+ T" w'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
& b5 L2 J7 ?- R, x( mwhat he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your 9 {& s1 L, N$ V
own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for
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'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same - E. S/ m' J2 k: h# Q
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story 8 x- D/ A. X) s2 s( Q) X! S
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of 4 F# a) I1 Z4 H$ b. U
my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the
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* h& r* z& Q: {8 ^% g* T$ g* ^that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.'
# L3 J& i# }& m+ a7 }When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this
# |2 N% ^! t; e m) snow. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During
0 ]- J# L0 i0 r% gthose years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption }' Z' M- H- Q7 z
not to give up on yours.’' 3 M0 h7 `9 v# I) A8 l
% P1 t6 s0 g# \3 ZDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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