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Follow Your Dream
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I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. 7 B- V/ t, O1 U) C
He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money % \( ?& V# J8 c8 S5 C2 H9 u
for youth at risk programs. 3 G& J, y/ N" ]
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The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, 'I want to tell you , ~) U$ K. N* ~& J% m$ Y+ S' b0 a
why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young / Q6 X3 m# [2 q- K5 ]+ J, R5 t; H
man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable ) R- G" e& G3 h, v1 t3 X8 V* x
to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training
, F* O# b1 Y& [' F) Xhorses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. ) Z. z8 N: Q2 N4 e6 e: }% [2 O+ y
When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted
' E3 I+ `2 b3 q# X" W$ [to be and do when he grew up.
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'That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday
0 b1 d I! I5 \# J5 j Towning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even
' z8 }# T4 O8 h; d& f, Tdrew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, " @! M& @6 v9 @% [
the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot
3 g% L" n: K! R/ Z; e1 S9 {" @house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. ( l1 O( p8 _ O8 }* w
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'He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he
- B+ k* [: \: M. A2 fhanded it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. : R8 |$ u+ n p2 A5 W {
On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after 5 H, O8 D/ L5 P' c/ o5 l0 [
class.' / B# {; w6 b5 z& y
, H8 u* Y, m# B1 g* ~; C4 X'The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, 9 m. b) S8 L% u; c
`Why did I receive an F?' # p& n3 K1 a! C: R/ _+ `
7 l6 Z$ v/ X, h5 y& J6 q- ~6 n. H'The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. 8 s7 |' S' ~" ?/ w9 z
You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. 6 P- U+ L9 h7 K
Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land.
: }: T% t; D/ X( {You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to
+ x: @' }3 D2 u4 W/ Q# P1 K" dpay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.’ Then the teacher , k& S) I$ {" ?' P4 w0 |; h3 f
added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will 8 W; _3 E( D. w+ F2 v. I& U) o
reconsider your grade.’ # R6 i2 r' \2 e
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'The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father
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own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for 4 R% |) x0 k6 E, t3 s
you.’
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" C' J+ n; |* e. _'Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same 3 r. W6 Q( y# ]
paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll
: \- ~0 L. j8 _' n# K9 {keep my dream.'' 6 B0 w+ @. D7 C* D, @
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Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, 'I tell you this story , r6 Q; [: R' R$ d1 ?, [% P
because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of
* |5 f8 d' b4 N- x1 `my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the 6 Y/ z9 f9 S N( r- K
fireplace.' He added, 'The best part of the story is that two summers ago
6 Y2 @0 W L0 T" {; i0 Dthat same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.' 5 H. z8 e, t& \+ |% d- I% ]5 W7 Q$ j
When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this ' T4 _( C+ c: V/ @- v9 t6 ?
now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During ( v. I( {8 ^, `
those years I stole a lot of kids’ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption " m! `/ j4 ~- S9 X
not to give up on yours.’' 1 B p& q5 d5 {0 A9 K5 E
9 `+ @3 a% T7 a7 G0 l3 QDon't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what. |
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