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发表于 2004-10-29 04:51 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
THE STENCH OF HATRED $ U( {. s8 ?1 w- P; w% q4 s) ]. y3 ?

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9 Y, B- O7 @5 y8 [; \A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.
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0 ^* s$ c: l! f% e9 ZThe teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic ; j* u; I$ e% _" {/ X8 q. ]

. ]4 D& c9 Q2 @$ s1 c8 kbag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name ! D2 P; J5 i# f3 g" e
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of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that
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a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number
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! \  _; H4 ~3 y/ X- G8 i) l8 h) r) ~1 JSo when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with " ^  f; x- V  Q) x7 J
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the name of the people he/she hated. Some had 2 potatoes; some
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3 while some up to 5 potatoes. , l1 A% m; C' S, m5 Y' `& B4 z

, Z7 c; R6 Y+ f4 T- c3 w- G$ hThe teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes
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8 V  m$ _- U& D+ c1 Pin the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week. 5 f& A- K. i0 Q/ W1 a

1 X, H; [, S$ H1 f+ Z  m# @Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain , m# b8 X9 Q, ~( A$ ~0 D$ e

% @5 U/ v4 @7 |  T2 u6 A9 i/ @8 G( Jdue to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides,
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2 u: [3 W0 E# sthose having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1
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0 x/ l# M' ]9 Mweek, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.
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The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes
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/ C/ e$ G7 n; Q, X% q) ^) Awith you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and / W8 K7 s- W6 l6 V( m

  ^1 M0 {* g# p* O0 |6 \started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through - h( X/ m& j, l

" S0 f, G  c7 g4 whaving to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.
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: ^' x& [% B- f2 u( VThen the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. 1 ?' \& E; d0 M, o( @3 l
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The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry
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4 _4 h. K! T) cyour hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred
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* C0 E. L( d( f2 Mwill contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever 2 F8 D! ]6 A5 ^2 s+ \) u8 B

& s7 s. J) G& D8 W, x9 W' Jyou go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just   w% B7 c* m9 s# @* [: d
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1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred 9 x2 k0 p0 i4 r/ U# X

. }, }) X1 h5 Z  o5 Kin your heart for your lifetime???"
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"Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; 8 C3 X6 r6 _$ F8 F7 q7 z( n

" y$ I4 Y0 j3 R) s; j1 t. K" Bit is something you do for yourself. 1 Q/ N) Y3 u. w; P  d$ ]4 V

4 r. e7 K& _6 G: r; wGive yourself the gift of forgiveness"
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发表于 2004-11-1 05:10 | 显示全部楼层
The implied meaning is simple but profound.
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