Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

2 g, u$ V6 _' DWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

9 z1 A3 \0 z) T6 p0 r7 |1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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6 w4 `! q1 V  g& b' ~. t2.        Speak up when she’s good
+ ?+ K; J) O" h/ v1 x# }5 V6 L$ d" L9 jIf you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.

+ |4 c, `% h3 e# r1 Q& P( s6 t3.        Stay one step ahead
. b# B+ X( N: p1 [$ xLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

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原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
From no to yes
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/ S& j. l7 T) j+ Y8 ~9 BWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:

) Y8 F3 ?9 e  G- G( u1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
3 c) Y7 z! Y: @/ V# \& j( U/ rTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

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