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Stop saying no to your toddlers

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发表于 2007-4-12 11:41 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:  H9 `& w4 ]1 M# `2 A+ b

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* A( k8 R: t6 G6 i* s1 ^" gTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.
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If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
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+ P2 m# G: z9 v4 n% I1 P3.        Stay one step ahead
7 Y2 s- J4 h5 h) g2 n2 E6 WLimit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.
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发表于 2007-4-12 16:15 | 显示全部楼层
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发表于 2007-4-12 17:52 | 显示全部楼层
原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
  n% X; z! w9 \! G0 A: a* V, RFrom no to yes
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While saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
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4 K$ X1 E4 ]; y* W# T; |1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
# [( d$ N8 @2 |( X: UTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

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 楼主| 发表于 2007-4-13 07:30 | 显示全部楼层
老杨团队 追求完美
在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”,怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案,希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。
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发表于 2007-4-15 10:44 | 显示全部楼层
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