Stop saying no to your toddlers

柏林

From no to yes

/ [& Y% U7 t2 e  T6 p6 M6 e; HWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
3 ]1 |( x* F7 A9 D  J/ _! F
5 Y' i3 r  W6 t  P# @" ?$ J1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
Try “We sit on the couch” instead of “No standing on furniture!”  Or “Yes, you can have a cookie right after you eat your green beans.”  This helps toddlers understand the rules and may prevent a power struggle.

. N3 _# w: K4 N$ E0 l1 ^. s6 w2.        Speak up when she’s good
8 R" A' @+ k& }* C' B  ?If you can give your child three compliments for every time you say no over the course of a day, she’ll be more likely to hear–and heed–you when you reprimand.
- R- m2 J! r2 [0 f7 t' I/ {: M; }
3.        Stay one step ahead
Limit temptation: If your child likes to toot around in your jewelry box, put it out of reach or give her her own special piece of bling.

善行无辙

学习再学习....

期待秋季

原帖由 柏林 于 2007-4-12 12:41 发表
2 a8 Y1 T4 z- {6 H/ N+ {5 bFrom no to yes
+ v! x$ ]4 `  n' k. j
9 w$ \' D7 o2 j3 _/ S9 k5 TWhile saying no to your toddler is often necessary, it isn’t fun for either of you.  To cut down:
- g% ~5 Z1 W1 Q- B
, c8 g; x- i  J1 ]" `# ^" E1.        Replace “no” with “yes”
) G/ _( }. J9 D0 k* fTry “We sit on the couch” instead of “No ...

柏林

在一本杂志上看到的。我一直不明白怎么不对孩子说“不”，怎么样换种方式跟孩子说。我从这篇文章中找到了一些答案，希望有和我一样需要的父母也能找到一些答案。

abcd